Should I go for Helix Syn Trident (the black one with two dots), Helix Trident (the white one), or a different model? Also I noticed the price difference on the official website, but in my local sex shop, the more expensive Syn Trident is cheaper. It would be my first “real” prostate toy, the previous one is a weakly vibrating plug, which does not do much for me, and I’m not sure I want to spend my time learning to use it, I’d rather use something good from the start. Also, I was thinking about njoy pure wand, or multiple vibrating massagers, but currently I would like something normal sized, and not over complicated, like the Aneros brand.
Thanks for you help!
Tag: Prostate
Aneros won’t stay in
I bought this: https://gyazo.com/857bb33b01396cf57c0a2989476302aa
and it simply won’t stay in. After a few seconds of hands-free use, it slides all the way out until only the tip of it remains. Then depending on what I do in terms of relaxing/contracting, it slides all the way out. If it doesn’t slide out, it just sits at the tip and kinda falls down to the right against my thigh.
any advice? I also can’t find my prostate for the life of me.
Best session ever! Found the “sweet spot”
Have had the helix for 2 months, probably 15-20 sessions in. Today I had an hour session that was amazing. At the peak of my session, I was able to have a 2 minute long p wave that had me moaning.
I was able to prolong this feeling by finding the sweet spot. Whenever you find the right balance of PC/sphincter contraction and start getting involuntaries, try to “hold it in place”. I found this sensitive spot and held it there and the buzzing/involutaries just got stronger and more intense. It felt like something was vibrating inside me and my whole body is shaking. Then while I held it in place with my sphincter, I started very lightly contracting my PC muscle in a waving motion. Every time I would release the sphincter muscle, the muscles would slow down the buzzing but a huge flash of warmth and electricity goes through my lower body. I then lightly squeeze the PC muscle again and the buzzing and involuntaries start up again. I probably went from flaccid to rock hard 5 times. I could feel an orgasm coming on, but not an ejaculation.
The feeling of contractions of an orgasm sensation, but all mainly centered in the prostate, PC, sphincter. Still felt in my penis, but not like a traditional orgasm.
Almost there!
Real headway: hold it steady
Hey all, first time commenting, but I’ve been lurking for a while. I hit a new level this evening.
My wife was talking with a relative on the phone so I figured I’d have a good hour or so I disturbed, so I put in my helix syn trident. I’ve been trying various things, but tonight I think I finally figured out the key. While in the past I focused a great deal on intentional contractions, tonight 90% of my focus was just upon maintaining the position of the device. Once I felt the tingles begin in my prostate and I could tell I was hitting the spot, I focused entirely on keeping it there. If it shifted, I immediately shifted to put it back (and I think it’s beginning to become muscle memory).
While holding in place, I tried to very lightly contract my outer sphincter—like the lightest I could. Again, keeping the device in position was my focus. But then everything involuntary started happening: many small contractions, legs shaking, harder contractions, tingling everywhere, eyes rolling back in my head and twitching, feeling my pulse throughout my body which also seemed to help the sensations, and, I just tried to hold it there and ride the waves.
Eventually I became aware that my dick was leaking, got the need to pee sensation, and it kept going. Eventually I had to let it go simply to get a moment of rest.
Is it possible my prostate is too far away to feel anything?
Hey. I’m 6′ tall and I have the Helix Classic. All white plastic one. I’ve had this thing for years, but I often go months without using it. I mostly use it when I need help going to the bathroom. Anyway, I bought it for sexual purposes and I just can’t get it going. I know the advice always says to relax, but when I sit with my knees bent, I can’t feel anything. I can manually “suck” it in and make it feel contact with my prostate, but then I’m just 100% flexing and that gets tiring very fast.
That being said, when I have tried things with manual effort I did think ONCE I got very close to orgasm but then I lost it because it was an active mental process. I think I woke myself out of the trance thinking about cumming. Anyway, I know I CAN feel SOMETHING, I just can’t feel much when it’s in. I do feel more when its in and I’m standing though, but then I’m standing.
It’s supposed to rub against me on it’s own isnt’ it? My butt doesn’t “automatically move it around and pull it in” as I’ve seen comments say. I have also had versions of somewhat sitting on it so it presses against me, but that just feels like extra pressure as well. I would like an anal orgasm first and foremost, whether it be from a prostate massager or other anal toy. The issue is my hole is very small. So I’m sure there are longer ones that are ALSO wider, but are there any toys that are small but longer? I’m open to buying another. I just have not managed to get it to work.
Not sure if I’m stimulating prostate
I’ve been using the aneros for a few years on and off. I’ve committed to being a bit more consistent with it now that I have more free time. I’ve done two hour long sessions and have been using the breathing techniques and I don’t really feel like I’m hitting my prostate. I kind of feel like I’m just hitting my rectum wall. What I’ve been imagining is that the helix is like a hammer, when I contract it is brought up and when i relax it comes down onto the prostate.
I’m guessing the solution is just to keep at it but I’m not really sure if I’m doing it right. One thing I noticed is that the p tab isn’t even touching the perineum and the back tab is actually pressed into my tail bone.
Any suggestions on positions/ techniques/ feeling I should be looking for to hit the prostate?
Sorry for stream of consciousness
HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true
Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.
Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.
I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.
As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away.
Aneros vice 2 questions
I have a few questions about the vice 2 and aneros in general.
1) how does the aneros work, cause unlike most p massagers this one seems to just sit their and that’s really it and with the vice 2 it just adds vibrations.
2) how does this P-massager compare to the Nexus Revo stealth or the Loki from LELO.
3) what are some tips and tricks with to try with the vice 2 if I were to get it.
And that’s it really I appreciate all responses to this post and any additional info I should know just let me know 🙂
Also I’m considering the Loki, Revo stealth and the vice 2 as my first prostate massager so if any of you have used any of these please sure your experiences with them.
Query regarding prostate milking section in Aneros Wiki
So I was reading Aneros wiki and found a text there. Are they referring to refractory period here or is this something else?
http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Understanding_Your_Body
“A man can learn to perform a self milking without orgasm by using his PC muscles to manipulate the Aneros massager, it should be noted part of the mechanism for orgasm for a male involves the accumulation of fluids within the prostate and associated ducts; accordingly once thoroughly milked, a male may be incapable of achieving an ejaculatory orgasm regardless of the degree of stimulation, for some time after. “
How to find deeper arousal?
So I’ve noticed the only sessions where I feel strong P-waves are those that I start feeling aroused even before I insert the Aneros. It feels like my prostate is craving the stimulation.
However I’ve found I don’t get to that highly aroused state very frequently. More often than not I insert the toy and feel relaxed but not very horny, and so not much happens. Porn doesn’t really arouse me as much as I’d like (maybe I’m desensitized?) and I’ve also tried abstaining from masturbation for several days and haven’t had much success with it.
On the other hand there’s been times when this prostate arousal comes up in a totally natural and effortless way (usually a day or two after my last session, even if the session itself was mild). Sadly it almost always happens during the day when I can’t take 30-60 minutes for an impromptu session. By the time I have some time to myself, the prostate arousal is long gone.
I guess my question is how I can access this deeper arousal within me when I *do* have time to play. (I think I got the relaxation down pat, I have some experience with meditation). Thanks for any advice!