Reliable Quick A-Less Dry-O's & more

Recent A–Less sessions with Dry–Os.

So far it looks like the best way for me to warm up and get my prostate hard for lots of Dry–O’s is to lay on my left side and do a bunch of PC contractions and lower ab pushes before I even start stimulating my nipples. I do this until my prostate starts to feel electric shocks like a chiropractors muscle machine. This can take 1 to 20 minutes depending on my body and mental state I guess… Then I can seek to find a PC/Ab muscle state with nipple stimulation that keeps the buzzing on constantly, then work with slow movement contractions to discover good orgasm positions.

I’ve also been able to go into orgasm mode without a constant prostate buzzing, but it takes a lot more work…

Sometimes, it really magnifies the contractions to take my hand and pull on my top butt–cheek to spread the cheeks apart. Don't know why this works, but it makes it really easy to feel every muscle movement inside my groin. Maybe it's just a mental thing or maybe it tightens up the muscles around the prostate….??

Had the most intense dry–O's so far last night.

Had tried yesterday morning to get my prostate to the electric buzz, but no matter what I did, it just wouldn't go there. It was definitely being aroused, but something was blocking it. Read more »

Progress- mini-Os

have been traveling the Journey for a while now and this week am alone, so I treated myself to a new Progasm Jr.

Had some good p-waves immediately with it but then was interrupted. Returned after soaking in a hot bath and some porn. I continue to break my no-porn rule… Seems the only way I can help distract the mind.

After the bath, back to PJr and went for a seriously long ride.
On left side, knees together, bent as in a chair generated some great p-waves again but flipped to right side after a couple hours, same position.

The PJr seems to fit me well- can control it for various movements. Found a really good porn clip as my p-waves were hovering, and then concentrated on making a 'come hither'/g-spot movement on the prostate. Slowed my thrusting even further to just below a subtle rocking… Let it build and enjoyed 5 or 6 mini-Os over probably 3/4 hour.

Wanted to see what the eupho would do for me, so swapped and flipped back to left side and almost had another mini. Swapped back, flipped back but could not regain and was very tired. Finished with a whopper of a super-T.

The minis were dry and great. It was nice to ride without the recovery from a normal O.

All in, pleased with the session and satiated for a while – until tomorrow probably!

New to prostate play, and I had a quick question about lube.

Hi, I've recently started experimenting with the prostate, and while I haven't experienced the super-O, I definitely enjoy it, so I've decided to buy a toy. I think I've decided on the Aneros Helix Syn and for lube, I am thinking about this one. I wanted to run it past you to be absolutely positive that they are compatible, and maybe see if anyone had recommendations for a different water based lube.

Another mini-O after months and months.

I finally have had another mini-O with my Progasm! And it was glorious feeling! Only about 7.5 months since my last one. And it hasn't been for a lack of trying. What I find odd is that this was only a few hours later after I had a super-T today. Totally unexpected as my ass and prostate was feeling rather aroused and ready for another Aneros session. I had forgotten how the orgasmic feeling spreads outwards while the involuntary anal contractions happen and there is this feeling of giving in to it. So wonderful feeling, and certainly kind of dream like too. I wanted it to go on and on, but it only lasted probably as long as a regular ejaculatory orgasm. And I wasn't able to make any others happen within the same session.

What I find interesting was that I was focusing on and paying attention to this imaginary convergence of where the stimulation of the perineum from the P tab occurs and the Aneros body stimulating my prostate. That's what seemed to make it happen while relaxing, letting it happen, and stimulating my nipples. Damn it was good! I so want to be able to do this rather regularly! I'm confounded as to what the answer is for that to happen. It's been over eight years since I started this journey. I've certainly been a slow grinder making progress. Ah well… I'll take what I can get. It was amazing feeling to have this tonight and I'm thankful for it.

Mental baggage blocking super-o?

Recently I've been having issues achieving super-o's, which used to come to me like second nature. I'm thinking either, the form of my "swing" is off (baseball analogy) or my mental state/personal problems are mentally blocking me from achieving the 4th state of arosal.

I'm very VERY bad at controlling my emotions and ignoring my stressors. IRL I suppress my emotions rather than confront them and use them as a strength, and I'm thinking this is stopping me from getting horny enough for a super-o.

From my experiences, my revo 2 or aneros will start stimulating the anal walls by my prostate, and contractions that "stroke" and "massage" the toy feels awesome, and this will awaken my prostate. I can feel when it's happening, and I usually have to "motivate" myself to get a super o. By motivate I mean maintaining heavy breathing, small hip movements, and dirty talk to myself. When these things happen I know I'm at the 4th level of arosal.

But they aren't happening. Instead my mind wanders off.

Any advice on how to let go of my baggage? My real life problems aren't going away any time soon, but I was able to achieve super o's before. Maybe I'm not doing enough "forplay" before the main event?

Thoughts?

Thanks guys

My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN

I purchased my first prostate massage toy, an Aneros Helix SYN, one and a half month ago and would like to share my personal journey with you. I haven't yet experienced an orgasm with it, but reading the Aneros wiki as well as personal experiences of other users helped me understanding my body better. Questions, comments and suggestions are welcome.

My pre-Aneros experience

One of my favorite things to do (if time permits) is watching porn without touching my penis. I like the warm, pulsating feeling, the feeling of my erect penis rubbing against the fabric of my underwear and I also enjoy the flow of pre-cum. I guess this started when I was a teenager and couldn't whip out my dick in front of the computer. I still do this sometimes until I got quite a bit of pre-cum in my pants. I have never experienced a hands-free orgasm in all these years. At some point I get so horny that I need to jerk off using my hands.

Sometime around 2008 I discovered a video of someone using an Aneros. Interest in Hand-free orgasms and prostate milking led me to exploring my own anal canal and prostate. I had (and have to this day) severe problems finding my prostate with my finger. I did manage to get a flow of pre-cum running, but I didn't find the whole experience very enjoyable. Although I didn't find a magical button that is giving me instant pleasure, I enjoyed getting to know my body a bit better. Read more »

Several months later and the Helix Syn still feels like nothing. Could it be too short to touch my prostate?

I've been using this thing about twice a week and still have yet to really feel anything amazing.

I've gotten to the point where my pelvic floor muscles are stronger and can hold tension longer – they used to be so weak I couldn't hold a contraction.

The only time I ever feel anything is when I'm on all fours. I can sort of do this twerking thing (man I hate that word) where my butt and thighs contract, but I can't say it feels great. If anything, it's just tiring.

I bought a glass Onyx the other day to toy around with. Although I could sometimes get it to feel really good, I largely couldn't feel much at all unless it went in really deep. Since this thing is longer than the Helix Syn, I'm wondering if the Syn could just be too short. I'm not tall or anything, just 5'11.

Any help is cool

My Fantasy During A Less

I was on my own last night, as J and my daughter went out to see a movie. They have become movie partners going to see chick flicks that I have no patience for. It is good for them both to have a close person to indulge their female entertainment predilections. I was left home to walk the dog and get on line to indulge my prurient male erotic tendencies.

I couldn’t find any on line friends to chat with so I indulged myself and got on Porn Hub, which I haven’t done in weeks. After two hours of searching favorite fantasies such as female bondage orgasm, sensual hand jobs, male milking, sybian orgasm, cunnilingus and cum shots I was significantly aroused. The rigid lump in my pants had made my underpants so wet it was soaking through. By ten o’clock I gave up and decided to go take a shower before J got home. While I was in the shower she returned with my daughter. As I shaved she stuck her head in the bathroom and told me that she was back and they were just getting something to eat. Read more »

Hygenic preparation: Is it better to use a full on enema or use the bulb enema?

As the title says, I'm debating whether I should use the full kit-and-kaboodle of an enema (bag, hose, plenty of warm water) or the small bulbous enemas for a quick squirt or two to clean the immediate area prior to playing with the Aneros.

Any suggestions, or personal anecdotes as to which method is better? I've used a full enema kit before where I'd drain the whole bag full of warm water and then immediately release for a more thorough cleaning, though the removal process can take a while. I've never used the bulb enemas before, though I presume they're a lot quicker but probably not as thorough.

Then again, would a full enema be needed considering you're only dealing with the first 4-5 inches of your rectum to reach the prostate?

Am I doing it right? What feelings should I be getting? Xpost /r/ProstatePlay

I've been trying prostate stimulation for a while with little success. A couple of months ago I got a good sensation by putting a condom on the handle of a hair brush and using it in my ass. After about 10 minutes I could start to feel a small, not painful but pressing sensation. Was this me hitting my prostate? I soon started to feel the need to pee and started to drip pre cum. I stopped because I wasn't sure I was doing it right. So I decided to buy a prostate massager online. I can't remember the name of it right now but I'll edit the post when I do. So I used this vibrating massager and had a few sensations but nothing amazing. I am waiting a few days before trying again from now. What things should I do to experience a proper and full prostate orgasm? How deep should I have this massager and what feeling should I be getting to focus in during, both for the hairbrush and vibrating massager? Thanks.