Tag: Prostate

Directing Energies

Alright, so there's been some significant progress these past two weeks, and just want to document what's happened so far.

Getting positive feedback loops on a regular basis now. None have been quite runaway like the first week, but they are still pleasant. My 'less sessions have been taking off and are becoming more eventful than regular sessions. The reason is because I'm able to put more focus onto all of the sensations being generated as opposed to just the prostate and anal area. This should change with time as I learn to relax more and am able to have regular sessions that focus on the full body experience. Thankfully, my 'less sessions are a good practice to getting to that state.

Anyway, this week I've been focusing on deep breathing and the effects on my mental state. My feelings towards deep breathing were somewhat downplayed, as it's always just been about air and nothing else (you don't breathe, you die). Obviously, there's more to it, but I never quite made that connection outside of the physical need. By focusing on deep belly breathing, I instead imagined what the air was doing for my body. Inhaling provides more than just oxygen, it provides the body with energy. Exhaling, also provides the means for expelling the negative energies collected in the body (for whatever mental/physical reasons). Read more »

That Aneros sweet spot: Sessions for October 20 & 22, 2012

Hi guys,

I think I have found my "sweet spot" which I believe my Aneros big buddies have begun to locate in recent weeks. But before I go into detail about my "sweet spot," I shall proceed at once to a description of my Aneros sessions which I had last Saturday afternoon and my session yesterday morning on Monday.

I find that some foreplay is a wonderful prelude for an Aneros session. Normally I like to do the Kegel Exercises some and stimulate my nipples. Those activities most often arouse me sexually for the Aneros. But Saturday morning, I wore my Nutty Buddy Cup combo underneath my camo cargo shorts as I went to the barbershop for a buzz cut and a beard trim. Then I went had breakfast at my favorite coffeehouse and did some grocery shopping before returning home around 11 a.m. I just loved how my Nutty Buddy Cup caressed my testicles and penis, and even stimulated my awakened prostate during my long walk and I had breakfast at the coffeehouse and leisurely Kegeled away. 😀

I was so turned on that I had my session at 3 p.m. I began with the Progasm Classic, but peristalsis set in very quickly. Then I switched to the Maximus which gave me a much better massage for a half an hour. Then I proceeded to the Progasm Ice which worked well for another thirty minutes. Read more »

Maybe not so old? Dry orgasms and non-orgasmic ejaculation

A brief introduction. I am a 50 year old gay man, who has been at this for 2 years. No super-Os that I can identify thus far, but plenty of action. Started with the helix, and have added the eupho. I have more recently also added Taoist inspired ejaculatory abstinence, which has moved my experiences on dramatically. As a result I now have regular dry orgasms in sex and whilst masturbating, even without using an aneros, but in return I have to restrict the frequency of ejaculatory orgasms.

This morning, I awoke very horny after just 3 days abstinence. My partner gently stroked my upper back a couple of times, and gave me some nice mini-orgasms there and then. I decided I would get up and work, but I was just so damn horny. I went to the toilet (is there such a thing as too much information?) and had a few more mini-orgasms as I had a pee and more. I cleaned up afterwards, and went back to bed, still half asleep.

Started to get VERY hard, and touched my nipples and seemed to get even harder. I spontaneously began thinking about my aneros and how good it might feel slipping across my prostate, but work beckoned, and I decided to wank instead. It was then that I discovered just how horny I really was. I was like a thing possessed. I wanked myself to the edge several times, and had some really strong dry orgasms as I relaxed back into them from just before the point of no return. The precum was flowing, and I fingered my foreskin, and gave myself some more dry orgasms. [I just had a dry orgasm while typing, thinking about how intense they had been]. Read more »

Introduction

A little introduction about myself before I begin with the blogs. At age 23 I am a young heterosexual man who began his "journey" approximately three years ago. One summer vacation I was feeling particularly bored so I decided to look for better ways to masturbate – a good way to pass the time as it is. Browsing the various toys out there, the first thing I decided to try out was Tenga and I own a flip hole to this day; beats a hand any day. Upon further research I happened upon the concept of anal and prostate stimulation. I thought to myself "Well people do find real pleasure in it, it is worth inspecting" and became interested in learning more. A couple of weeks after discovering the aneros website I decided to buy a helix.
Over the years I have discovered SO much about my body and the male sexual response, the pleasure that is easily within my grasp is simply amazing. As far as the toys: I bought a maximus a month after the helix because I was excited at beginning to feel a little pleasure and sort of wanted a larger model anyway, I bought the tempo around the new years when it was released just a few more months later, then the progasm ice I bought one year ago. So far the modified helix has been my go-to with most experience and many good sessions, the tempo took me a good year or so to actually start appreciating but I love it very much, the progasm I feel really jump started my progress about a year ago and I absolutely loveee the size and feel of it. Unfortunately I have never really had a good session with my maximus, not then, not now despite repeated attempts. The main issue being the p-tab which I find too pointy and CANNOT rest on my perineum – it is always offset to the left or right disrupting perineum and prostate contact. Other toys I own include the njoy fun wand as of about a year ago which has given me fantastic results and I really want to get myself a lelo billy soon. I impulsively bought a jelly 2 inch wide dildo and had two fun sessions with it but threw it out because of what I was reading about such material deciding to hold off for a quality instrument such as lelo.
The reason behind my name is that psychology has been my primary focus of study for the past few years and for many more to come. I am very interested in the body+mind interaction as the brain governs everything about our world as we experience it from feelings to perceptions and so on. Experiencing the neural "rewiring" first hand made me appreciate the power of the mind to change and shape our world even more.

Weekend Alone – BIG fun!

So every couple of weeks my parents leave to spend a weekend at the log home we recently had built upstate, and my sister tends to find something to do without such "restrictions" being present. I have quickly learned to appreciate this time I get to myself which is generally sparse after returning home from being on my own at school after the past five years. So Friday I fully cleaned out and spent a solid hour with my njoy fun wand. I started out with the beaded end slowly teasing myself, reveling in the sensations of each bulb stretching and moving through my sphincter, stimulating my prostate as well. This might have been the best sessions yet I have had with this toy, now I know how to properly use the toy for best results. After about 15-20 minutes of that, I switched to the other end favoring a more direct prostate massage. Fantastic – with the right amount of pressure I carefully but firmly massaged the entirety of my prostate for the rest of the time. I finished the session feeling very happy with the experience.
Now Saturday I decided to have a session with the progasm in the late afternoon. The past few weeks I have been using the helix exclusively so I figured it was time for a bit of a switch up. Emptied out, got myself revved up with some porn and erotic touching and slowly inserted my warmed up progasm (in water) with silicone lube. By the way, my favored position with the progasm is on my back with a pillow underneath and my arms underneath the pillow – I feel it gives me great prostate contact as well as contact with the k-tab, plus I like the feeling of my arms being "restrained". The whole session lasted for about an hour and was very pleasurable, just as good as any other i'd say. As always I love the fuller feeling, the rounded p-tab, and the wonderful k-tab. Things settled down so feeling content I ended it, toying with the idea of doing another later simply because I have the whole place to myself still and why not.
Well approximately five or six hours passed as I spent my time with other activities to occupy my time by which point it was around two in the morning. I considered going to bed but ultimately decided I was really in the mood for another session – not like I had to wake up early or do anything the next day. So in goes the progasm and I spent the first 10-15 minutes relaxing with the do-nothing approach to let my body adjust. As I breathe and focus on relaxing, I notice the pleasure in my prostate grow – now this is not an uncommon occurrence but the magnitude was surely a new experience! From no contractions and just the contact alone I was getting so excited and the pleasure was mounting up to such a high level that it was VERY orgasmic. After enjoying that for a few minutes I began light anal contractions which very effectively teased and stimulated my prostate – in fact the entire region including the prostate, anal canal, and sphincter (the thick stem is soo nice on the progasm) were incredibly sensitive. I slowly began to increase the strength and duration of the contractions and my pc muscle became integrated as well. Soon I became very loose and the involuntaries took control. OMG it was so intense as I tried to limit the movements of my body to the pelvic area and quiet the rest of my body, with great results. This period of great intensity lasted maybe 10-15 minutes before it settled down a little. As i caught my breath and continued to slowly stimulate my prostate, I became increasingly sensitive and was appreciating the calm unending orgasmic sensations. And then it happens again except many times more intense this time – it was absolutely wild. My breathing was heavy all the while my pc and sphincter muscles were contracting hard and sporadically! I became very vocal, more than I have ever been and it seemed to increase the pleasure and keep things going. While it is hard to tell (or care) when things get to this point I would say that the ecstasy lasted for approximately another 15 minutes. I then entered a very relaxed state, just reveling in the intensity I had just experienced. My pc/sphincter muscles still lightly twitching and throbbing, still pleasing me. I lay there marveling at what had just come over me for a while longer before I decided to call it for the night before daylight crept in.

Chat to the max!

Over the top Mutual Aneros session through chat.

After having just discovered return of Aneros Chat center, I was hanging by myself when one other member popped in. After some back and forth discovery of the cool new chat features, we got down to swapping stories and techniques.

As always for me, I was riding while chatting. Soon the conversation veered towards how I was doing (great as always) and the sensations of my session. As I described in detail how my PRO was driving me crazy, could tell chat buddy was starting to feel it.

Popped into PM and buddy came right out and said my commentary got him so aroused he started impromptu Eupho session.

Initially, we went back and forth describing our sessions to each other. However, when first Super-O hit it went into overdrive! Chat filled with expletives and many misspellings!

We started ordering each other around. Squeeze… Release… Tweak your nipples. Stand-up. Sit-down. Pull you cock. Spread you ass. Drive it deeper. As Orgasms approached chat filled with superlatives driving to drive each other's pleasure higher and higher. No sooner had one wave of Super-O's passed and we were off on another roller-coaster!

The chat and session kept getting better and more animalistic. The sharing of our pleasures had us so hyped up on orgasmic energy it was overwhelming at times. We even got to a point where we had to stop for a little bit to relax and take a water break. Read more »

Who I Am, As I Am, And What I`ve Discovered

This is a holding place for the forum posts that I wrote. Figured it'll be easier to put these in a blog post, so here we go.

So this was originally supposed to be an introduction for someone else, but as I wrote more and more, I just felt I had to share with the amazing folks here who have helped me on this journey.

I started the journey about a year ago, and it started for a few reasons. One, love making with my wife was a laborious process to forgo ejaculation, and I was reading up on various practices to prolong the climax. Other than masturbation (repeated edging, couldn't find the time), kegels and prostate massage were the most agreeable of options to me. So I started a regimen of car-Kegels (as I was driving) and noticed some minor benefits after a few months. Not quite pleased with the progress I was making, I started looking for prostate massagers. As I started to read up on various other devices, I stumbled upon the Aneros line (I refuse to refer to them as "toys") and the forum. The descriptions (and occasional videos, if I could find them) really intrigued me, and were very exciting (both sexually arousing and mentally curious) and I couldn't wait to try. Read more »

Inspiration for title Gradus ad Aneros Parnassum: Session for Friday Oct. 17, 2012

Hi guys,

When I began this blog early last June, I wanted a catchy title which describes my recording in detail my sessions with the Aneros. I settled upon the title, "Gradus ad Aneros Parnassum." When I was a boy growing up in Litchfield, CT about fifty years ago, I had a good seven years of piano lessons under Cousin Bessie Dickenson, who had a long tenure as organist at the historic First Congregational Church in Litchfield, our family church, on the town green. She was a close relative to our family. Cousin Bessie taught me to play the scales on the piano and introduced me to piano works by Bach, Beethoven, and Mozart. I was not one of her best piano students, but under her tutelage, I certainly learned to read musical scores.

Cousin Bessie practiced long hours at the organ at First Church into her seventies. She even took organ lessons into her seventies from more accomplished organists in Litchfield County. Cousin Bessie also introduced me to a book of piano studies or etudes by the 19th century Austrian composer, Carl Czerny. This book was entitled, Gradus ad Parnassum, or "Steps to Parnassus." The word 'gradus' is actually the Latin plural for 'step.' Parnassus is a mountain in Central Greece with ancient Greek mythological associations near the ancient city of Delphi. Other composers used this same title for musical studies for their students. I enjoyed very much using Carl Czerny's entertaining piano studies even into college. One of my greatest regrets in life is that I didn't keep up with the piano. But when I moved to other parts of our country and tried to make a living, it was rare that I had daily access to a piano. Although when took my present apartment here in June 1986, I could have easily bought an inexpensive digital keyboard with earphones, so I could practice at any hour without disturbing my neighbors. Read more »

Kegeling and my Aneros BIG Buddies: Session for Wednesday October 17, 2012

Hi guys,

Early yesterday morning, I put into major effect my Kegels when I worked with my Aneros BIG buddies, the Progasm Classic, Maximus, and Progasm Ice. I began my session at 6:45 a.m. with the Progasm Classic. This big bruiser didn't slip in easily as I wanted. I worked with him for perhaps 15 minutes, but peristalsis set in which aborted my session with him.

I returned with the Maximus which slipped in easily to the hilt with the P-tab firmly press upon my perineum. The Maximus gave my prostate and anal canal a great massage which lasted a good thirty minutes. During this time, I slipped in a Kegel perhaps every four breaths. The Kegeling reinforced the massage action which produced intense series of P-waves. I think for now on I will begin my sessions with the Maximus before switching over to the Progasm.

The remainder of my two hour Anerosing consisted with the progression of Progasm Ice, then again with the Maximus, then the Progasm Ice, and concluding with the Progasm Classic in half hour or so segments. I focused upon my rhythmic breathing with a periodic Kegel thrown in, again to enhance the massage action of my various Aneros models. Also yesterday morning, I instituted sets of strong Kegel clutches or anal contactions of five or ten sets with both the Progasm Classic and Progasm Ice. What amazed me most yesterday was that both Progasm Classic and Ice were made for Kegeling. A strong Kegel clutch or anal contraction lasting perhaps ten or fifteen seconds in these sets is analogous to sets found in weight training. The Progasm is propelled real deep, massaging the whole length of prostate and even in the ancillary male genital organs of the vasa differens and ampullae where spermatozoa are stored. The P-tab and K-tab are pressed upon the perineum and coccyx respectively which fuels the Anerosing profoundly. All this is described in the Aneros Learning Center Instructions Contractions section. This document is worthy of close study. Read more »

Submission

I have been doing research into tantric BDSM. This pursuit has given me much insight into several sexual aspects that I embrace, but never had an exact name for. I have been learning breathing techniques, mental exercises, chakra balancing, and overall conscious awareness. One of the great things I've been learning is how to make a space sacred. This can include ritual and alters etc…but can be as simple as mentally removing all distractions of daily life and simply being fully present and conscious in the moment. Some may use salt or sage to create a physical circle around a space to signify the area sacred, others may just perform certain routine. For example, in a BDSM scene, preparing the toys, cleaning them, setting them out, getting the ambiance just right with music and lighting can create a sacred space. It's building up the scene and removing daily life and distraction. Read more »