Tag: Relaxation

First blog

I experimented today with something different. I started with a normal session, that lasted for about an hour. I started off with muscle contractions only while watching a video which gets me aroused. After 10-15 minutes, I started mild thrusts, which then built up to stronger ones. After 30-40 minutes I was thrusting hard until I would start to quiver non-stop without thrusting for a bit, then I would start thrusting again until the quivering/contractions started.

I did this for the first hour, but even though I have waited a whole 24 hours…I didn't get the whole body spasms like I had the previous days. I decided to try something new. I had heard someone in the chat room mention they put a vibrator on the outside of their aneros, and well, I decided to do something similar. I have a bullet vibrator )has a bullet on a cord that connects to the control. I actually have never tried to use it directly for prostate stimulation..which I need to do sometime, but in this case I took my Aneros out, and inserted the bullet first )not vibrating at that point(…gave it some extra slack…and then put the Aneros back in.

Then I went back to doing what I was before, thrusting )slower now as the process of taking things out/putting them in etc cooled me off a bit(. In no time I was back to where I was before though, and then I turned on the vibration for the bullet. Read more »

Sexual Yin and Yang

J loves the sensation of her vagina being filled by my cock; penetration is a huge turn on for her. It was not always so as my erect penis is amply proportioned. In later years however, she has developed the ability to accommodate my girth and length. Beyond penetration she loves to feel the weight of me on her pelvis as her pussy mouth stretches open to swallow my cock. The sensation of having her vagina packed with warm pulsing cock and embracing my weight between her legs as I grind on her vulva is both thrilling and gratifying for her. However erotic and wonderful it feels, she has a really hard time orgasming by being fucked in missionary or in almost any other position except for one. To compensate for the difficulty she discovered the advantages of riding me cowgirl to have an orgasm. As a result her favorite position has always been cowgirl.

I can identify with the mind focusing thrilling and gratifying sensation of having me penetrate her. Her need to hold my cock in her vagina during arousal and orgasm is akin to the feeling i have from anal penetration from an Aneros. I hope someday to experience the exact same sensation she feels when I am fucked by a guy. Read more »

ICE 2

Last night was my 2nd session with my Progasm Ice. After my last session 3days earlier, I couldn't wait 'til I could play with Ice again. I didn't have much time, so I lubed up and went straight to the Ice. It felt like I was being split in half, but once it was in, it felt so good. I could feel it stroking my prostate almost immediately. I started rubbing my nipples, and I was off to the races. Waves rolled over me and I had several Super O's. The feeling is so incredible. Even a short session left me in an altered state and as relaxed as a limp noodle. It took all of my will power not to ejaculate when I finished, but hopefully it is one step closer to being rewired.

I love that with the Ice, I don't have to do anything to reach Nirvana. With my helix syn, I really have to use different techniques to get to that place )do nothing, contractions, concentrated breathing, etc.(. The Ice is automatic for my body!

Pelvic relaxation

Years ago I remember reading a post from another user here, I think it was darwin, but I can't remember clearly if that's who it was. He mentioned how he has pelvic pain, uses a Therawand toy to help him with that and mentioned the book “A Headache in the Pelvis” as being really helpful and important for him.

The reason I mention this is for two reasons. One, I suspect I suffer from low grade pelvic tension. I notice I sometimes get minor pains in my anus and rectum for no reason that my Aneros sessions seem to exacerbate. And in the past would very occasionally get an approximately five second burst of really intense and debilitating pain in my anus and rectum that would stop me in my tracks while it happens. Like a really bad muscle spasm kind of pain. And that in my Aneros sessions, it is really easy for me to unconsciously tense muscles down there not only when the pleasure gets really good, but just out of force of habit. Read more »

A Sexy Weekend

This morning in chat there was some discussion of 3 AM being peak time for men to orgasm as a result of elevated testosterone level. It certain has been the case for me as it has become a programmed ritual with me over the years to wake up at 3 – 4 AM or so and launch immediately into a one or two hour session and then go back to sleep.

Last Saturday morning it was 3:30 when I woke. Unlike many early morning wake ups, my cock was not totally erect. It was firm and rubbery in semi arousal but not hard; but my prostate was already tingling in anticipation of a session. It was like little tiny fingernails were deep inside me teasing me and tantalizing my swelling gland.

I rolled over on my side to face J who was lying on her side facing away from me. The skin on her exposed derriere was soft and velvety. Before I did anything I slid my hand over the heart shaped satin softness of her rear. Then I slowly eased up against her, grasping my firming cock in my hand guiding my mushroom shaped cockhead into the warm caress of her ass crease to kiss her asshole. Read more »

Homoerotica from my Memoir / Novel

This is an excerpt from my novel. It is partial truth and partial fantasy. I put it here in response to several guys asking me about the novel. This excerpt is homoerotic the novel is mixed m-m, m-f-m, and m-f. Enjoy and tell me what you think.

Ling

So the day finally arrived. It is a significant drive to Virginia for me. During the entire trip my cock was erect and drooling as I though that he would be there when I arrived.

I got there first, which was odd because he was a lot closer. I wondered if maybe I was more aroused and motivated by the prospect of being with him for the next two nights. I took the suite in the hotel under my name. Part of the reason I had arranged to get a suite was so that we would have kitchen facilities and avoid going out and be seen together as little as possible. We planned on spending the weekend in the room having sex that was it. Read more »

Energy Transfer Perhaps??? Or just my crazy mind…

A couple of nights ago I was in the chatroom and something new and interesting (at least to me) happened. So here it is.

The usual regulars were in chat, and the topics were quite random. I love that about the chat it can be anything from sessions to whats for dinner you just never know. I got a private chat request from one of the members in the room. We'd talked before in the main room but never privately. Hmmm… I thought. I'd read some of his posts in the forums before (as i've read many peoples posts), and had a general idea of what he felt about the things he posted on. I could tell from his posts that he's a pretty dynamic guy. A pretty funny guy as well, he's always one to crack a joke, but manages to remain a level headed gentleman.

So while we were chatting privately we talked about numerous things. Just general everyday conversation about mundane things. The conversation was very pleasant however. I'd already had Peridise in before I started talking to him so I guess my slightly aroused state made me a little more ballsy than usual. Read more »

Attention!!! Calling All Women…and Men

Ok so this post is kind of a documentation of where my stance is on women and prostate/anal for men. I am not excluding anybody from reading it, but I'll be honest, I hope some woman who is struggling or needs clarification, or even a man who wants his woman or partner to understand his desires reads this and it helps at the very least. So strap yourself in…here we go! Read more »

50th Anniversary of Gay/Bi Youth: memories celebration sessions

I first thought about this in the context of things at www.dick.net and posted this first quote over there:

"50th Anniversary and more

So grateful for now entering 8th year of glorious ecstatic orgasmic energies mutual prostates/Gspots loving adventures practice with my wife, the crown of our erotic life together,

and later this year celebrating our 45 years of happy hetero-marriage, and over 30 years parenting two wonderful accomplished sons,

and 50th Anniversary of my Youthful Gay Exploratory and all I learned and enjoyed and shared, while searching myself deeply and finding my erotic and sexual truths, and even as we stopped having sex 3+ years into our adventures, we have remained great platonic friends, with a grateful deep fraternal love.

I am so grateful for all these people and lifetime conversations, and the great knowing and fulfilment: floating bliss, profound peace and ecstatic spiritual energies enlightenments.

I believe all males need to experiment, explore, and with deep connection and mutual respect, search the self and the other with another male early in our sexual maturation stages to really know and feel and be able to share our whole male love with our partners at all appropriate levels mmmmmmmm

Happy Anniversaries All!!!"

New tool, new sessions mmm

I happened to be in Montreal for a conference and my birthday day was the second day of the event. Read more »

Fantasy, Reality and MMO

There are several perplexing, wonderful and amazing side effects of MMO beyond the incredible sensations that it stimulates. It is all a part of rewiring. For me rewiring has sharpened my sense of pleasure, enhanced my sensual observation skills and has elevated my mental state to one of being aroused 90% of the time. But perhaps the most perplexing and wonderful aspect of MMO is the fact that when I finish a robust 2 hour session of chains and chains of hard convulsive orgasmic spasms of pleasure, I am more aroused than when I started. In addition the link of erotic images, fantasies and thoughts with physical pleasure is amplified tenfold in an MMO session.

So it was that an intense MMO session earlier this last week was spawned by visions of my sexy lady being impaled by the rigid cock of a handsome young friend. The vision of her rigidly writhing in agonizing ecstasy at the penetration of her drooling pussy by another man’s rigid penis inspired crushing waves of my own excruciating orgasmic pleasure. That session coupled with some extremely arousing chat with friends on line honed my arousal two nights ago to a razors edge. Moreover she sensed my enhanced desire and the sensual confidence I exhibited in cuddling her and kissing her, which in turn amplifies her arousal. Read more »