Tag: Relaxation

Relentless

Another weekend alone, another chance at unrestrained and and excessive "fun time". Progasm being the tool of choice for the weekend. I had a great 50 minute session on Friday, another two periods of great intensity spanning roughly 5+ minutes each and very pleasurable sensations throughout. I had to cut it short though because I had to wake up early the next day.

So yesterday )Saturday(, after taking a nice shower and cleaning out I set myself in for a nice long session. I was very relaxed and the Progasm slipped in with little difficulty as I put Kelly Howells "Ecstasy" on the ipod. It only took 10 minutes before the session got REALLY good. It escalated all the way through the second part of the audio file, into pure…ecstasy! The involuntaries were so strong and pronounced. Knowing I was completely alone, I was sooo loud and my breathing came fast and heavy. Once the "Ecstasy" audio finished )one hour( I started Hypnaerosession Part 2 and continued to ride this bliss for another 20'ish minutes. Then I got up briefly to empty my bladder and went right back to it. Though I felt more relieved and comfortable, the session seemed to have quieted down for the last hour – a very calm pleasure as opposed to the relentless intensity I had experienced the first hour or so. Read more »

Hole New Horizon: Dancing with Big Momma EVI!!!

I recently acquired an EVI. One had also been acquired for mrs. a!! We have yet to be able to have the joint session planned to explore her use of hers.

BUTT!!! I could not resist an opportunity this morning to try mine, and after the deep relaxation of my anal sphincters needed for a peaceful transit of this girthy girl up into my canal…!…:WELL~~!!~~!!!~~!!!~~!!!~~~!!!!!! it just opened into the most wonderful unique new dance around my prostate region I have ever experienced!!!

BUTT THEN!!! I was spinning the "clit end" handle in no time, not just alternating positions of the big bulb, butt doing 360s round and round!!! The sensations are wonderful, and surprisingly easy and relaxed all around the big bulb.

Anal sphincters relaxed and were tickled with the long narrow neck~~~ The spaciousness and mobility up above in my rectum were more like a EUPHO!!! than any other model including Syn, which is still fantastic in its very different way. Syn was a great "Opening Act"

My trained rectal wall/prostate "reach-out" response indeed did, and tried to "polish the knob", yet then was very happy with the new broad hug feeling/contact!! Several great dry-Os, and the feeling that I could have this in for hours and walk about and….

And then the gentle compression of the prostate started suggesting a BPH therapy Super-T finale and WOW!!! again!!! EVI is a fabulous ride sitting up with it in! Read more »

The virtues of temporary ejaculatory abstinence versus quenching the fires of horniness

I have carried on with my temporary ejaculatory abstinence, as propounded by Chia in "The Multi-Orgasmic Man". I am even more aroused than I would otherwise have been, and I have learnt to love that feeling of horniness, instead of being frustrated by it, and then NEEDING to have a short wet orgasm to quench the fires.

I still love my wet orgasms – occasionally – but in between times, I get aneros-less random p-waves, mini-Os and even the odd dry-O, and if I focus on my prostate and think erotic thoughts, these occur almost at will, and are even more intense. The slightest PC muscle contractions bring on these p-waves and Os, and NOW, these have also been joined by anal quivering, that does the same. I also enjoy masturbating to wave after wave of dry Os, and much the same happens in sex. It is like I am discovering my sexuality and my body for the first time – again.

I had a series of intense anal quiverings and PC muscle contractions yesterday, and decided that since I had some time available at last, I would be very self-indulgent, and have an aneros session. My model of choice was the eupho.

I didn't do a lot of prep – the immediacy of my horniness was enough. I lubed up, slowly inserted the eupho, and had an instant very intense dry orgasm, that made me scream out louder than I think I can remember. I liked the initial coldness of the eupho – like an ice cube on a nipple, I suppose? Read more »

Aneros spin offs to date, November 2012

Hi guys,

The Aneros prostate massager was invented initially as a medical device to enable men to massage their prostate without having to go to their doctors to do it for them. The Aneros was developed to control and shrink BPH )Benign Prostatic Hypoplasia(, an enlarged prostate condition in men which may be a precursor to prostate cancer.

But men who use the Aneros, it has definite positive spin offs who promote general good health, even sexually to men. This blog entry is devoted to what I have experienced from the Aneros both within and outside my sessions.

I began my Aneros sessions early Sunday evening last June 3 with the newest Aneros model, the Helix Syn. The Helix Syn is ideal to Aneros beginners because it has an overlay of soft silicone. I was amazed at how easily the Helix Syn slipped into my anus that evening. Previously, I had an aversion to anal play. The Helix Syn was a pleasant surprise.

I experienced my first episode of P-waves with the Aneros three weeks later early Sunday morning June 24. Later that morning during my walking from breakfast out, I experienced my first walkinggasm. It happened spontaneously out of the blue. I had to take great care in walking during those few minutes to maintain my balance! Read more »

Abstinence and Diminishing Arousal

It's been a while since I've posted up a blog, figure I should keep my progress as current as possible. I've felt that since I've been abstaining from Aneros use )and sex with the wife( for a few weeks, the desire has been lacking and there hasn't really been any reason to post )though I do get urges and 'less sessions in the interim(. Looking back on it though, I probably should have done this a few times last week to help re-center my "self". Between numerous headaches, excessive driving )traffic( and the gas crisis in NY, stress has taken a strong hold on my life, meaning sessions have taken a back seat. I still try for 'less sessions as much as possible, but these have been few and far inbetween. The closest to a session I'll have at night )in bed, before going to sleep( is an energy meditation session to combat the headaches and stress, but have had no mindgasms like in the prior weeks.

Due to the hurricane, been spending a lot of time with the wife and family. These have helped with the stress, and improved my rather sullen moods recently )as well as remind me why I fell in love with my wife(. Still, I've been snappy, quick to anger and irritation, and generally had very little desire to do anything other than stay home and try to stay warm. Thankfully, my wife would not let me sulk, and forced me out of my shell to open up to the love of those around me. That helped significantly in combatting the stress, but it just wasn't enough. Read more »

Something New

After a handful of sessions with essentially the same results I decided to try something a bit different. Instead of lying on my side I decided to lay on my back for starters. Also, I tried out a more passive approach. After approximately 15 minutes into my session focusing on my breathing and relaxing I tried to create as small a contraction as I possibly could. Holding this contraction created some very interesting sensations, almost like a warm and tingly feeling. And suddenly I was completely aware of a whole new spectrum of sensations. Until now I was really only aware of sensations directly at my anus and the pressure on my perineum.

I could now feel the contours of the Aneros inside my rectum and the slightest pressure being exerted on my prostate. While maintaining the slightest contraction I began to notice some small involuntary contractions. I've made the mistake in the past to get too excited when this would happen, and try to force the next involuntary set to begin by increasing the intensity of my contractions. I decided to just focus on a very slight contraction. While doing this each set of involuntary contractions became increasingly intense along with more sensitivity of my prostate. After a while of climbing this hill the sensations became truly pleasurable. Every small movement of the Aneros was creating these amazing sensations from the inside. Warm, tingling, buzzing is the best way I could describe this. Read more »

Where I am at roughly on the Milestone list

I have completed or experianced these milestones:

First insertion
No P-tab discomfort when relaxed
No internal discomfort when relaxed
No P-tab discomfort when contracted
No internal discomfort when contracted
Generally comfortable when inserted and relaxed
Observation of slight good feelings
Slight sense of leaking
Slight sense of needing to urinate )contact with prostate(
Identifiable contact with prostate
Doing a set of contractions comfortably
Holding light sphincter contractions
Integrating deep breathing
Definite leaking produced by contracting
Definite pleasure produced by contracting
Definite feeling of contact on prostate
Identification of "sweet spot"
Pleasure at "sweet spot"
No longer believing that "…this model doesn't fit me…"
Arousal amplification by vocalization, breathing, manual stim of secondary erogenous zones or held contractions.
Observation of slight involuntary contractions
General pleasure throughout session
P-wave
Successive P-waves
Rock hard erection
Twitching
Continuous internal pleasure
Sense of pleasure caused by blood pulse internally
Real excitement at thought of next session
Sustained pleasure during sessions
Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions
Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions
Ability to leak outside of sessions
Sense that the Aneros is satisfying a special prostate "itch"
Very significant pleasure during sessions
Moaning during sessions
Sense of arousal moving toward something
Involuntary clamping, without sense of climax
Involuntary clamping with hint of climax
Aneros moving distinctly on its own, creating unexpected pleasure
Definite sense of ongoing subtle involuntary contraction Read more »

Good one

Even though I don't try or want to, sometimes I just have to JO to stop the edging and just get off, the orgasms that I have when I do are just so powerful and intense. It sometimes scares me! That's when you really feel it on the prostate. It's the hardest thing NOT to do is focus on your dick while using. I'm always wanting to see if I am leaking any precum or just how hard my erection is when I get it. I just try to relax, breathe, clear my mind and let the helix do it's thing. Sometimes sessions are real duds and sometimes really good. I had a couple of short ones the other day, one before i went to work and one after I got home. The morning one was much better than the later one. I had done some "manscaping" with my cordless beard trimmer the night before around my pelvic area and ass as best as I could. Kinda hard to do when you can't really see everything and I didn't want to hurt myself with the trimmer. I think my wife will be surprised to see and feel it when she does! Anyway, I had just took a shower, prepped myself and the Helix and laid down on my left side. I inserted the Helix and started to do some small contractions and just breathe. Just lay still and do nothing, breathe, and let my mind go free. Images of my ex-lovers swirled through my mind, their big juicy tits, smooth hands, wet pussies and sexy sounds of their cries and moans. Then I could feel my ass starting to self contract lightly. My mind went into overdrive. I felt like i had detached from my body and could only feel incredible pleasure in my anus and on my prostate. Soon, I start to breathe heavier and deeper and little sighs turn into groans. I can feel my PC muscles, my abs and my ass going into overdrive. Stay focused… relax…. breathe…. Boom! a small mini O… Bam! Another one shortly after that… Legs and arms are really started to twitch and move… breathing becomes moaning…. wow… Uh oh…. here comes another wave of small Os… I don't know if I can take this anymore… I feel like the eyes are rolling into the back of my head… One final wave of Os crash into me… I let out one loud yell of pleasure and curl into a ball… I'm spent…

Joygasm & total energy orgasm

There are two parts to this entry. The first occurred without any model used at all at night as I was heading to bed. The second part occurred as I woke the next morning and several hours before needing to go to work.

The first part is more of an observation, and also an invitation for more information.

The other night I was on chat and several members were hopping in and out, several topics of conversation came and went, and about three or four hours passed in total. I was so drained from my 12th day in a row of working that chat was a much needed stress release for me. I was beyond giddy and silly to say the least. I think it was borderline delusional from working so much. At any rate, I was having a genuine good time. Read more »

Was it the Big One?

Last night I had the most intense session that I've ever had. I only started using an Aneros this past August when I got my Helix. Last night the house was mine when I got home from work. I went upstairs and took a nice hot, relaxing bath and then prepped my helix and myself with some Astroglide. I crawled into bed gently teased my anus with the Helix until it was ready for insertion. After getting it in, I laid on my left side with my left knee up and my right leg straight, and just tried to relax and breathe to calm myself. I basically took the "do nothing" approach just let myself go. After awhile my ass started to respond with light contractions and then harder, firmer ones. All the while I just trying to stay focused and just let my breathing relax me and control my contraction pace. I could feel the Helix dancing all over the place. Then it started to make really good contact with my prostate and my legs and arms started to quiver. Those feelings were going pretty good for awhile then they started to go away. Hmm, maybe it's time to stop and relube…. Then WHAM my ass just took over! I could feel my anal muscles just start contracting and I had to curl up as my abs just clenched down. My arms and legs really started twitching and shaking. I am usually not a very vocal person when I have sex, but I was moaning, grunting and groaning like i never have before. The first wave hit me hard. "Is this it? Am I there?!" I wondered to myself. A rush went through me. I just tried to keep a clear mind and then another hard wave came crashing on me. I am breathing and moaning hard and deep when I the final crescendo hit me. OOOOHHH!! My body just convulses and flails away. OH MY GOD! I don't know if that was everybody is talking about but it felt incredibe…. Then I relube and tried to start again but fell asleep with it in me… Read more »