Tag: Relaxation

1st Session

Received my Helix in the mail today and had my first session.

I will say that I was a bit nervous about this whole thing at the beginning.

After a long relaxing shower I retreated to the bedroom to begin. I was pleasantly surprised at how the Aneros fit into my body. After prepping it with ID I laid on my side, hips cocked, and began to insert the Aneros. I reached a point where it was automatically drawn in. This was a bit of a shock, yet surprisingly comfortable. I laid there and relaxed for a few minutes and just took in the new feelings. After a while I began to make a series of small anal contraction. I would work them in series of 5 to 10 contractions, never really keeping count, then relax for a few seconds. After a few sets I had this strange feeling. I would have this urge to contract while I would be resting, like a sort of tension. And then I had what I would call echo contractions. After I would release a contraction I would have 3 to 5 small twitches in quick succession follow. After working with this for a few minutes I completely lost control of the contractions, I just let them do their thing. This lasted for maybe 2 minutes. Then as quickly as thing got ramped up it all just kind of tapered out. I attempted to regain the previous involuntary contractions but to no avail. Then after a while I just decided to end the session. From what I have read on the forums there is no point in trying to force something to happen, it will only hold you back. Read more »

Anerosless Ecstasy and Auto-Thrusting

Had a horny morning yesterday, and thought I should add it to the blog.

Woke up very horny, and began nipple stimulation whilst still half asleep. My nipples had been stimulated already by the duvet cover, and as soon as I touched them, mini-orgasms started. I continued – my penis swelled really hard and jumped as my PC muscles contracted, and in so doing, also massaged my prostate. I could feel my prostate swelling, and remembering to relax and breathe, an intense dry orgasm started and lasted for about 6 seconds. In this time, my abdomen and arse muscles vibrated, and the lower half of my body jumped around – sometimes it is like auto-thrusting (for want of a better description), only much faster than would normally occur in sex for example.

More relaxing, and more deep breathing, and then another dry orgasm, and then another emanating from the decline of the former. On it goes, getting more and more intense – the dry orgasms lasting longer and the gaps between getting shorter. At this point my penis becomes less hard with each dry orgasm, and my foreskin is filled with precum. I begin masturbating to near the point of no return, and sink back each time, into a chain of dry orgasms. I am gasping aloud at each one, my breathe becomes shorter and MUCH faster, and my body begins to feel hot and sweaty. After 40 minutes of almost reaching the point of no return many times, and sinking back into orgasm afterwards, the dry orgasms are very frequent, and each one probably lasts for 10 to 15 seconds. Even in the lulls between, my abdominal and leg muscles vibrate deliciously. Read more »

Dan Tien and the Perverted Gremlin

So this week I've been focusing on deep belly breathing (as I'm sure you all know from my last post), and that hasn't changed since yesterday. The one thing that's different is that I discovered that uncontrollable smiling and euphoric feeling are also caused by amygdala clicking (concept brought to my attention by chat here last night), and I'm convinced that this is the explanation. Just thought I'd preface my progress with some additional discoveries.

So the title of this pretty much explains the last 24 hours of my journey. My drive home was another deep breathing exercise, but this time I focused more on the energies exchanging. Visualizing the energy flow into my stomach and travel to all corners of my body, pushing the negative energies into my lungs to be exhaled. As I expel these negative energies, relaxation washes over me, and I'm left with a feeling of serenity and a stillness throughout my body and mind. As I got closer to home, I became aware of these energies collecting in my stomach and as I got home, began to focus on them. This kicked off a quick 'less session for about 5 minutes, and as I pulled up to the house started bouncing between my prostate and stomach. As my focus on these energies grew, my mind slipped into nothingness and I became these energies. I could feel (and see) the pulsing and shifting of these energies flow throughout my body, even though my conscious mind was only aware of the energy in my stomach. Since I was home, I couldn't stay out there long, so I opened my eyes and found myself completely rejuvinated, like my day was just beginning. Read more »

Directing Energies

Alright, so there's been some significant progress these past two weeks, and just want to document what's happened so far.

Getting positive feedback loops on a regular basis now. None have been quite runaway like the first week, but they are still pleasant. My 'less sessions have been taking off and are becoming more eventful than regular sessions. The reason is because I'm able to put more focus onto all of the sensations being generated as opposed to just the prostate and anal area. This should change with time as I learn to relax more and am able to have regular sessions that focus on the full body experience. Thankfully, my 'less sessions are a good practice to getting to that state.

Anyway, this week I've been focusing on deep breathing and the effects on my mental state. My feelings towards deep breathing were somewhat downplayed, as it's always just been about air and nothing else (you don't breathe, you die). Obviously, there's more to it, but I never quite made that connection outside of the physical need. By focusing on deep belly breathing, I instead imagined what the air was doing for my body. Inhaling provides more than just oxygen, it provides the body with energy. Exhaling, also provides the means for expelling the negative energies collected in the body (for whatever mental/physical reasons). Read more »

Waves

This morning around 3:30 AM after coming home from a 12 hour day at work, I had one of the most intense aneros sessions ever. After cleaning myself and my Helix, I ventured downstairs to the basement for a little "relaxation" time in our office. I disrobed and prepped myself and Helix with copious amount of KY jelly and grabbed a towel. There is a high back, leather office chair and a corner desk in there. I turned the chair around so I could kneel and support my chest and arms on the seat. After inserting the Helix, I got myself into a comfortable position and just "did nothing" but try to relax, clear my mind, breathe and let the Helix do its thing to me. After about ten minutes I started light contractions and I developed a massive erection that I had to fight the urge to touch and stroke. Soon my contractions really intensified and my body, particularly my right side, started to shake uncontrollably. I didn't know if it was kneeling on a cold basement floor that caused it but it was intense. Then after awhile it felt like I could feel it moving across my body to the left side and settle right in my ass. I could feel dribbles of fluid leaking my my cock as the Helix 'took' over. At one point I could hear it slapping against me and that familiar sucking sound. My shakes seemed to go on in various intensity for about an hour. i just tried to breathe, keep my mind clear (which was pretty hard at times with the intensity!) and let the Helix do its thing. It sure did. It owned me. After awhile, the wave feeling subsided and I called it a night. I had to fight the urge to JO, but I was spent and it was almost 5:30 in the morning. Sleep well, I did. try again same method when I get home early tomorrow morning??? Yeah, maybe…
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Maybe not so old? Dry orgasms and non-orgasmic ejaculation

A brief introduction. I am a 50 year old gay man, who has been at this for 2 years. No super-Os that I can identify thus far, but plenty of action. Started with the helix, and have added the eupho. I have more recently also added Taoist inspired ejaculatory abstinence, which has moved my experiences on dramatically. As a result I now have regular dry orgasms in sex and whilst masturbating, even without using an aneros, but in return I have to restrict the frequency of ejaculatory orgasms.

This morning, I awoke very horny after just 3 days abstinence. My partner gently stroked my upper back a couple of times, and gave me some nice mini-orgasms there and then. I decided I would get up and work, but I was just so damn horny. I went to the toilet (is there such a thing as too much information?) and had a few more mini-orgasms as I had a pee and more. I cleaned up afterwards, and went back to bed, still half asleep.

Started to get VERY hard, and touched my nipples and seemed to get even harder. I spontaneously began thinking about my aneros and how good it might feel slipping across my prostate, but work beckoned, and I decided to wank instead. It was then that I discovered just how horny I really was. I was like a thing possessed. I wanked myself to the edge several times, and had some really strong dry orgasms as I relaxed back into them from just before the point of no return. The precum was flowing, and I fingered my foreskin, and gave myself some more dry orgasms. [I just had a dry orgasm while typing, thinking about how intense they had been]. Read more »

Weekend Alone – BIG fun!

So every couple of weeks my parents leave to spend a weekend at the log home we recently had built upstate, and my sister tends to find something to do without such "restrictions" being present. I have quickly learned to appreciate this time I get to myself which is generally sparse after returning home from being on my own at school after the past five years. So Friday I fully cleaned out and spent a solid hour with my njoy fun wand. I started out with the beaded end slowly teasing myself, reveling in the sensations of each bulb stretching and moving through my sphincter, stimulating my prostate as well. This might have been the best sessions yet I have had with this toy, now I know how to properly use the toy for best results. After about 15-20 minutes of that, I switched to the other end favoring a more direct prostate massage. Fantastic – with the right amount of pressure I carefully but firmly massaged the entirety of my prostate for the rest of the time. I finished the session feeling very happy with the experience.
Now Saturday I decided to have a session with the progasm in the late afternoon. The past few weeks I have been using the helix exclusively so I figured it was time for a bit of a switch up. Emptied out, got myself revved up with some porn and erotic touching and slowly inserted my warmed up progasm (in water) with silicone lube. By the way, my favored position with the progasm is on my back with a pillow underneath and my arms underneath the pillow – I feel it gives me great prostate contact as well as contact with the k-tab, plus I like the feeling of my arms being "restrained". The whole session lasted for about an hour and was very pleasurable, just as good as any other i'd say. As always I love the fuller feeling, the rounded p-tab, and the wonderful k-tab. Things settled down so feeling content I ended it, toying with the idea of doing another later simply because I have the whole place to myself still and why not.
Well approximately five or six hours passed as I spent my time with other activities to occupy my time by which point it was around two in the morning. I considered going to bed but ultimately decided I was really in the mood for another session – not like I had to wake up early or do anything the next day. So in goes the progasm and I spent the first 10-15 minutes relaxing with the do-nothing approach to let my body adjust. As I breathe and focus on relaxing, I notice the pleasure in my prostate grow – now this is not an uncommon occurrence but the magnitude was surely a new experience! From no contractions and just the contact alone I was getting so excited and the pleasure was mounting up to such a high level that it was VERY orgasmic. After enjoying that for a few minutes I began light anal contractions which very effectively teased and stimulated my prostate – in fact the entire region including the prostate, anal canal, and sphincter (the thick stem is soo nice on the progasm) were incredibly sensitive. I slowly began to increase the strength and duration of the contractions and my pc muscle became integrated as well. Soon I became very loose and the involuntaries took control. OMG it was so intense as I tried to limit the movements of my body to the pelvic area and quiet the rest of my body, with great results. This period of great intensity lasted maybe 10-15 minutes before it settled down a little. As i caught my breath and continued to slowly stimulate my prostate, I became increasingly sensitive and was appreciating the calm unending orgasmic sensations. And then it happens again except many times more intense this time – it was absolutely wild. My breathing was heavy all the while my pc and sphincter muscles were contracting hard and sporadically! I became very vocal, more than I have ever been and it seemed to increase the pleasure and keep things going. While it is hard to tell (or care) when things get to this point I would say that the ecstasy lasted for approximately another 15 minutes. I then entered a very relaxed state, just reveling in the intensity I had just experienced. My pc/sphincter muscles still lightly twitching and throbbing, still pleasing me. I lay there marveling at what had just come over me for a while longer before I decided to call it for the night before daylight crept in.

Chat to the max!

Over the top Mutual Aneros session through chat.

After having just discovered return of Aneros Chat center, I was hanging by myself when one other member popped in. After some back and forth discovery of the cool new chat features, we got down to swapping stories and techniques.

As always for me, I was riding while chatting. Soon the conversation veered towards how I was doing (great as always) and the sensations of my session. As I described in detail how my PRO was driving me crazy, could tell chat buddy was starting to feel it.

Popped into PM and buddy came right out and said my commentary got him so aroused he started impromptu Eupho session.

Initially, we went back and forth describing our sessions to each other. However, when first Super-O hit it went into overdrive! Chat filled with expletives and many misspellings!

We started ordering each other around. Squeeze… Release… Tweak your nipples. Stand-up. Sit-down. Pull you cock. Spread you ass. Drive it deeper. As Orgasms approached chat filled with superlatives driving to drive each other's pleasure higher and higher. No sooner had one wave of Super-O's passed and we were off on another roller-coaster!

The chat and session kept getting better and more animalistic. The sharing of our pleasures had us so hyped up on orgasmic energy it was overwhelming at times. We even got to a point where we had to stop for a little bit to relax and take a water break. Read more »

Who I Am, As I Am, And What I`ve Discovered

This is a holding place for the forum posts that I wrote. Figured it'll be easier to put these in a blog post, so here we go.

So this was originally supposed to be an introduction for someone else, but as I wrote more and more, I just felt I had to share with the amazing folks here who have helped me on this journey.

I started the journey about a year ago, and it started for a few reasons. One, love making with my wife was a laborious process to forgo ejaculation, and I was reading up on various practices to prolong the climax. Other than masturbation (repeated edging, couldn't find the time), kegels and prostate massage were the most agreeable of options to me. So I started a regimen of car-Kegels (as I was driving) and noticed some minor benefits after a few months. Not quite pleased with the progress I was making, I started looking for prostate massagers. As I started to read up on various other devices, I stumbled upon the Aneros line (I refuse to refer to them as "toys") and the forum. The descriptions (and occasional videos, if I could find them) really intrigued me, and were very exciting (both sexually arousing and mentally curious) and I couldn't wait to try. Read more »

My Three Big Really Good Buddies: Aneros Session for October 10 & 12, 2012

Hi guys,

I think for now on I will not be as detailed in my blog postings except when something noteworthy with the Aneros takes place.

Early Wednesday morning, I had a scheduled Aneros session. First I began with the Progasm Classic. He slipped in fairly easily. We had a fairly good session that lasted perhaps a good twenty minutes. Then I slipped over to the Maximus which delivered me a really good prostate and anal canal massage which lasted a good 45 minutes. That prepared me for a wonderful time with the Progasm Ice. This really good buddy slipped in the hilt with the P-tab positioned against my perineum and the K-tab right against my tail bone (coccyx). The Progasm Ice delivered me a good, vigorous massage both to my prostate and anal canal which lasted a good half-hour. Finally I concluded the session with more action from the Maximus, a good fifteen minutes worth. Total time: around 1 hour, 45 minutes.

I couldn't linger long for savoring my afterglow, but had to depart soon afterward to my Wednesday volunteer work and a lecture in the evening. Nevertheless, my Anerosing left me rejuvenated and reinvigorated, not to mention what my reawakened prostate and well-massaged butt was doing to me pretty much the whole day! 🙂 Read more »