Tag: Relaxation

Very first experiences (3 sessions)

I've experimented with anal play a bit in the past, but have never been completely satisfied with it. In the short span of a few days, the Aneros has changed my entire outlook on sexuality and linked together a number of unlikely experiences in my life that until now simply seemed odd or unexpected. I'll elaborate after first describing the past couple of days.

Based on recommendations I gleaned from the Aneros forum, I placed an order for the Helix. However, anticipation got the better of me while waiting the few days for it to arrive, so I looked up a local retailer and picked up the MGX to get some instant gratification, so to speak.

My first session was a learning experience to say the least. The MGX was comfortable, and acceptable to me given my limited past experiences. Following instructions and the advice I've been reading, I relaxed and began becoming familiar with the sensations of my new friend. I eventually began experimenting with some contractions, and it was not long before I noticed a strong yet intangible reaction when fully contracted. I could not identify anything particularly pleasurable inside, but the P-tab was definitely doing something for me. Finding the "sweet spot" for the P-tab definitely goes a long way in getting pleasure. (As an aside, I found the pressure from the MGX P-tab to be a bit severe, and ended up adding some cushion in the form of a soft cloth.) Read more »

Getting back into the swing of things

I should preface this, with a little bit of history. I got the helix about 8 months and while I had some strong intial success I felt as though I was forcing things a little and not reaching the true potential of the helix.

I had enjoyed some great mini-O's but I didn't enjoy the way I got to them. So I began experimenting and trying unsuccessfully to find a more enjoyable method. I tried a few sessions that didn't really go anywhere and I essentially gave up on it, although I continued to use it as a masturbatory aid. Hence, my lack of posting for awhile.

Well recently I decided to try again and tried putting more effort into it. Recently I have been practicing my kegels and carefully finding the optimal position (hands and knees) when using the helix. Needless to say I think I found a winning method, hence my posting, hehe.

Well, last night was the proof and the funny thing is I wasn't even sure I should try. I had a midterm the next day and wanted to get up early to study longer for it and it was already 10:30pm. My libido won out and I rationalized that I deserved it because I had studied a lot for this one and I hadn't j/o in 2 days (a rather long time for a 21 y/o). Read more »

Sex and Death

The following is quoted from a post of mine in The Tao Bums Forum. I believe that it reflects another dimension of the life force energies we are working with in their orgasmic and ecstatic forms here and connects us all to the poet's long held assertion of the union of sex and death:

My mother in her mid-80s had two surgeries for a life threatening condition; the first emergency to stop the condition and the second to repair temporary elements from the first. She had thought out her choices and intention long before and had prepared a living will.

After recovering from the violent hallucinations induced by the morphine given her after the second surgery, she talked quietly with me and said that she could not continue this medical path, and invoked her living will with absolute, crystal clear intent.

Soon she was transferred to a palliative care ward. It was cramped and noisy; restless and uncomfortable for her initially. That evening she manifested many symptoms and several nurses and her doctor attended. My brother and his partner and my wife and I were there. At some point she escalated into severe coughing, mucus, and cramping; sitting up rapidly and falling back repeatedly. Read more »

Super-O?

I think I reached a Super-O, eight months after first getting into the Aneros. This was in a session Thursday night that capped off a very horny week for me.

I started off with the MGX and only a few squirts of ID Glide lube. With this session, I just wanted to guide the Aneros to a "sweet spot" and let it sit there. Boy did I ever do that! About 15-20 minutes into the session, following some wonderful p-waves, I jiggered the MGX so it was nudging the prostate. This produced a fantastic "wave" sensation emanating through my midsection. I was in a semi-sleepy state, totally relaxed. Instead of doing contractions, I just let my body lie there like a wet noodle. The only movement was very gently stroking the base of my hard penis to stimulate the "holding off a pee" muscle. Then something fantastic happened – the pleasure got deeper and deeper. I went from fantasizing to vaguely thinking "oh my god" as my heartbeat and breathing got more pronounced. The feelings got to a consistent intensity, very much unlike anything I've ever had before. Although there was a little bit of fear in the back of my mind, I was able to hold this super-o (at least I hope it was the super-o!!) for about five minutes. Read more »

New milestones reached.

It's been a few weeks since my last entry but I have been regularly using my MGX twice a week.

The reason for the absence is because there has been nothing new to report, until today that is.

I must admit my enthusiasm was waning somewhat and today I went through my usual prep and inserted my MGX. I laid on my side for a time doing anal contractions periodically, but I realsied that all of my thoughts were negative, so I relaxed and let my sub conscious focus on my prostate. Immediately my full body went into spasm. I got over eager and it passed, so I dropped back down to the sub conscious level and the spasms started again with involuntary contractions. They were not orgasms but the feeling was great. I was able to keep this going for about 5 minutes but could not maintain that state of mind any longer, so I turned on my back with legs splayed, which made the handle cause the Aneros to put more pressure on my prostate and again the spasms and contarctions returned. But this time I got a throbbing erection which stood up every time I contracted. This again lasted for about 5 minutes.

After this I was hot so decided to masturbate which culminated in a superb penile orgasm and ejaculation.

I ended this session very elated as it had unlocked a method by which I can take the experience into new territory. I'm looking forward to the next sesion.

My rushed session

I have had some unbelievable sessions in the last 2 months. I have had no problems reaching the elusive super-O. Today I had a stressful day and I was looking forward to some satisfaction using my Aneros massagers. My problem today was I had a small window of time. Well I should have known better. If I have learned anything it is relax and let things happen. Well after 45 minutes I just couldn't MAKE things happen. The jokes on me!!! Nothing happened!!!

My first time with the progasm

I searched high and low for some specific information (see “virgin anus vs. progasm: the duel”) on this but was unable to find exactly what I was looking for so here it is: My first encounter with the Progasm.

As an almost 6 month user and the owner of a Peridise beginners set and a Helix I was looking for a new toy. Being a rectal novice prior to my Aneros experience I was a little intimidated by the size of the Progasm – but I needed to expand my horizons so I took the chance. However, I was really looking for a detailed description of a first time successful Progasm insertion.

Mentally, I had to overcome my fear of tearing the soft tissues. After six months, am I qualified as an “Advanced User”? Or will it victimize me?

Don’t worry, everything’s OK. Here’s what I did – maybe it can help someone else down the road.

I had everything I needed and a three hour window so I began the session with the Helix. The Helix is easy stuff for me, lube the hole with Shea Butter, insert two small balls of Shea Butter and it slides right in. Great, 45 minutes of relaxed breathing. Read more »

Unexpected pleasure

So last night I decided to do another session, even though I had only 45 minutes of guaranteed privacy. I figured, why not — just to keep the journey moving along, even if nothing much happens.

The feeling right off was good, and I was more relaxed than other sessions, maybe because it was more familiar. I was laying on my side with my legs in a "scissors" position. After about five minutes or so, I decided to take a more active role, so I started to thrust my hips forward and backward, just a little. Very quickly, I started getting great pleasurable feelings in my loins, which started to build. Then they would ebb, and then build some more, going past the last one. I started to breathe heavier, and the waves started radiating into my chest and down through my legs. Wave after wave, and I wasn't even expecting anything to happen when I started! I was definitely in orgasm, and the waves continued one on top of another. It was like they were controlling me, but yet I was controlling them, too, and I felt like I could have gone on for a long time. But time was running out, and I let myself go – wow! Underneath on the towel, I had some sticky cum — but no erection. It was definitely worth the effort, even though I had only a few minutes. I was probably done within 20 minutes, and spent several minutes cleaning up and putting things back the way they were.

Relax…

So my current approach during sessions is to relax and do mostly nothing. Sort of meditative and focus on deep breathing. But I do a twist on it. I get bored quickly doing nothing. So what I do is concentrate on relaxing all of the muscles in my anus. This gives my mind something to do. And really helps to bring on the pleasure with little to no exertion.

This method really makes it clear to me how consciously taking control of the action generally reduces pleasure. Plus I like the idea and practice of not working, or exerting so hard to feel pleasure. It feels nice to just relax and allow the pleasure to come to you.

I haven't reproduced the super-O yet. But hope this approach will bring me closer.

Love is Peace

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part II

This Blog is in two Sections : Part II (this one) is my periodic blog of experiences (most recent at the top), Part I is just copies of some of my earliest Forum entries (oldest at the bottom)

3/21/10 – There have been a couple of inquiries/comments in the past about my personal avatar, so I thought I'd put into writing what it is.
While the Aneros WIKI states "Super-O's come in all shapes and sizes. Some are small, some are large, some are single, some are multiple, some are centered in one area while others are in another. Some are particularly intense, while others are more subdued." I liked a post by 'BF Mayfield' wherein he said "Super-O's come in many colors and flavors."

When I first joined the Forum, avatars were not an available option for members. It was many months after I had experienced my first Super-O that avatars became available. I believe it was 'hlaser99' who posted the first animated avatar shortly after they were possible here. I then started thinking about what mine should be. For a short time I was using an animated graphic of the Super O Society logo which I created as my avatar but I decided against that as I wanted that particular graphic to represent much more than my identity. Read more »