Tag: Relaxation

4th session – small progress but not there yet

Last night I decided to go for my 4th session and listen to Mindgasm tutorial as many of you guys suggested.
– I smoke some weed
– Took a nice shower to clean up and relax
– went to bed
– put on my headset and relaxed while putting Aneros in. This time it felt so good that I thought I would finally have THAT session everybody is looking forward to.
– Session lasted approx 2 hours – 2 hours of multiple failed attempts. Ended up touching my penis and cuming with a regular penile orgasm
– On a positive note, I got a better understanding of the 2 muscles and the type of contractions that can help reach our goal

1) Mindgasm tutorial is really helpful and made realized that I was doing it all wrong. I got to learn about the lower an middle muscles

*** I dont know what is 75% of contraction – even my 100% is not clear. Should 100% be really strong to the point it hurt ? How do I measure 25%, 50%, 75% ?
*** it was really hard for me to keep my PC muscle contracted for 30 sec. I felt like at some point it was just my sphincter which was contracted and had to put more strenght to contract PC muscle. Am I doing it wrong ? At every “big squeeze+hold”, my PC muscle would shake while I’m holding it. Read more »

Prostate porn videos make it look easy..

My head is a mess with all of this.

I’m told I need to relax and do nothing…which can result in amazing feelings but no orgasm, it feels amazing.

I’m told I need to clench down via my kegels and anal contractions… Which feels amazing but no orgasm.

I see videos of guys fucking themselves and they cum in minutes, sometimes seconds!

The guys that are fucking hard is that a simple prostate orgasm?

Is the Aneros designed for a super O?

Asking for a friend……

First time having multiple prostate orgasms over an hour

If you look at my previous post, you will see that I am a pretty experienced user, but the past several months I had hit a wall and wasn’t getting results. Today I decided to switch up to the previous lube I was using and instantly got results. I set a 15 minute timer on my phone which I reset 4 more times. Within the first few minutes I was having really nice p waves. At about 10 minutes in I have a massive short p wave that makes me moan out followed 5 minutes of pwaves. Minutes 15-30 were just nice buzzing and p waves but right at the 30 minute mark I just had this rush of bliss around my prostate. Jolts of electricity sporadically firing through my legs. My cock hard was as a rock and was pumping up and down. It felt the point of no return but it just stayed there for probably 5 minutes straight. Things tapered down and right around the 45 minute mark, I have another smaller prostate orgasm.

It is hard to put an exact time line on it as its difficult to gauge time when you are in bliss. I would say the first orgasm was damn good, the second one was amazing, and then third was about the same as the first. The sensations started to die down after an hour and I called it quits. My muscles were getting tired and my prostate was less sensitive. The pleasure is very cyclical, it goes up and down but the baseline increases after every peak. Every time you start to get tense, you remind yourself to relax as it make the pwaves more pronounced and last longer. Read more »

NJOY Pure wand, A tale from the land of O.

Apologies for posting a non Aneros subject in advance – Mod’s remove if it’s misplaced as no offense is intended.

Introduction
The pure wand is big solid heavy and beautiful to look at and touch with it’s highly polished medical grade steel reflecting back the first time users (me in this case) slightly apprehensive face.

Comparison to Progasm Ice
Totally different size wise. Until recently I found the progasm too big for me, but of late have come to love the full feeling it gives and the orgasms that come with it. Looking at both I note that other than the rounded tips of the NJOY the overall girth of the NJOY is smaller than the Progasm, so other than initial insertion and removal the NJOYS Size shouldn’t give anyone used to Progasm sized toys any great difficulty.
Being surgical steel it actually uses less lube than the progasm in my so far limited experience anyway. Read more »

Having trouble isolating muscles / feeling pleasure

I feel as if I’m doing something wrong. A lot of people here talk about enjoying the experience, and learning the contractions, and just enjoying the p-waves. But I feel no contractions; I keep thinking I do, but it’s not my rectal muscles fluttering, it’s just my pelvic muscles. And I enjoy the experience of being aroused, but it’s really hard to keep that up when I feel disappointed at not getting any kind of warm, fluttery feeling. The big issue I think is that I’m having trouble actually isolating the muscles I should be using. Like:

* should I feel muscles in my plevis, or up my back squeezing my base muscle when I try really hard?
* how hard do the actual muscles clench? is it a really sublte feeling, or does it feel like clenching a bicep muscle?
* what does the pre p-wave pleasure feel like?

I’ve been following Mindgasm, trying to deeply relax (almost like entering a trance), but I don’t even know if I’m flexing the correct muscles. At *best* I’ve felt a light pleasantness in the prostate, but it barely feels like enough to keep coming back. Any tips? Diagrams? Better descriptions of what pre-p-wave pleasure is supposed to feel like?

First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world

Hi there,

Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.

Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.

First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help. Read more »

Had a great session

I went into the session the usual way, with no expectations. I started by relaxing with a mindgasm lesson (good way to relax) and was getting some nice pleasant feelings. After I was done, I turned on lesbian porn which I used for audio since hearing other women getting pleasured helps me stay horny. I progress by doing the contractions that I like, and pleasurable sensations came up. They built up, and it’s a bit hard to describe what they were like. At one point I was thinking how I could feel pleasure through my entire body, and later on I felt like I was buzzing(?). The best way to describe the buzzing is it is like when you’re arm arms falls asleep, but not nearly as extreme. I was also able to end it without jacking off which I personally have a bit of trouble with. I don’t know if that is supposed to be a p-wave because I never quite understood what those are.

Can’t wait for my next session (which again I have no expectations for). Been using since October 2020.

Questions from a first time user

Gotta say this group sold me on the Aneros just from reading and decided to try it for myself. I ordered the helix and the progasm red ( couldnt pass up the sale 🤷‍♂️)

I was so excited when they arrived in the mail. Couldn’t wait to use it. I’m sticking with the Helix for now as I’m not used to anal insertion.

So here are my questions.

During my first time using it my body experienced involuntary shakes, is this a P-wave?

What are some of your favorite positions to hit the prostate just right?

How long should you leave it in as you are just getting started? And how often? Daily? Weekly? Etc.

When it was in I found myself tensing my sphincter to kind of help move it in and out? Should I be doing this or is the key to keep it relaxed?

Afterwards I farted a lot…. like a lot and I kinda liked it. I didn’t really see anyone else talking about it and wondering if anyone else out there experiences this and enjoys it as much as I did?

Looking forward to this journey and will update as I continue.

Thanks!

The no chemicals/weed 5+min orgasm.

After finally getting to what I assume is super O land on a little bit of weed (as a prestart booster) and low amounts of poppers, I wanted to see if the wiring had adjusted enough to super O on nothing but meditation and a few stretches.
Chose the helix syn over progasm (because I need to be hyper relaxed to get to good places on the progasm).
Meditated for 15 min.
Stretched. Inserted well lubed Syn.
Gentle wave contractions. Couple of big squeeze and holds and… off we go… series of pwaves first then a slow pgasm then some more pwaves, then a single HUGE PGASM that rolled through me for I have no idea how long but minutes passed as I drifted into space cadet land the orgasm ebbed and peaked and ebbed and just when I thought I was coming off it, it climbed higher.
My throat is sore from gasping and trying not to scream.
So yes – amazing things can happen off chemicals and perhaps being 2 days off Cigarettes is helping also (low nicotine vaping instead).
Wasn’t a long session but in the name of scientific research I am so glad I went on it.

looking for advise

I have used a variety of the aneros toys and stopped for about 2 years and recently got a helix trident. any and all tips on using it to get p-waves or that warm body feeling i have read about would be greatly appreciated. advise on how often to use, technique, and positions will be helpful. also i am not looking to use any uppers or other stimulus to help relax.