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And after 7 years I think I’m getting somewhere 😁

So I had some free time and wass like “ah what the heck” lets just chill and see what happens. No high hopes as it never works. Just relax and enjoy it for what It is.

So I did…..

I set a timer for 45 mins and id stop there.

I lubed up and popped my Helix Syn in to place and layed on my bed. Completely naked and placed my feet up on the wall with my knees at around 90 degrees. Just relaxed for a while taking slow deep breaths.

After I got fully comfortable I slowly started squeeze my PC muscles and holding them for as long as I could as I relaxed I exhaled. I repeated this cycle having a good couple of breaths between squeezing. Eventually I started to feel a subtle warming right behind the pubic bone.

The best way I can describe it and I’m sure you’ll all know. That initial feeling where you’re like “oh, if carry on like this im going to cum” feeling.

It slowly grew and slowly went away. So I squeezeed again. It it came back.

I had a brief moment where It away went completely. But I stayed with it and It came back again this time every time I felt like it was as much of a warming feeling I was going to get I would squeeze again. And then relax. Read more »

My recent discoveries leading to HFDO, and the surprising results of am “upgrade” to a Progasm

Tldr, recently finally figured out some Aneros secrets and upgraded to a larger model that rocked me, but I still wouldn’t necessarily replace the smaller one, it wasn’t necessarily better, but a good difference.

The following was a lot voice to text trying to explain what I was feeling so I could use it as a guide later on, but when editing to make sense of it, I realized it was journalistic and informative, so I thought I would share.

A quick about me, I bought the Aneros Trident (MGX) many years ago after seeing a post on Reddit about the male gspot, and it seemed legit, so I ordered one. I enjoyed using it, bought a slew of different toys, found one kind of U shaped silicone toy that worked one time for a cum spurting, black out and wake up after, crazy prostate orgasm many years ago and my journey since then has been some good jerking off or sex sessions with some anal attention, and have not been able to find that magic again. It was a lot of intense rubbing, and after that all my attempts left me feeling like I had been pushing too hard, or not getting there and feeling like I was no longer interested and stopping.

My wife and I occasionally indulge in some pegging, and that’s kind of where my revitalized Aneros journey began anew. Read more »

3rd session – was I on the right track?

Just had my third aneros session, with a progasm. Yeah I know it’s not the best for a beginner but I liked the size of it. Anyway, my first two sessions nothing happened at all and I didn’t even know if it was hitting my prostate or not, so I was a bit disappointed and maybe thought it wasn’t the right one for me, I was also aware that there’s a common experience of not feeling anything. So this time I did a bit more reading and tried to take it as slow as possible. I was on my side originally as it says in the user guide and just started flexing as slowly as possible. I was just relaxing and taking my time with it, then suddenly I was getting a rush of adrenaline, my dick was getting hard and my breathing was getting faster, and I started getting some horny thoughts. It was exciting but it subsided. It happened again and subsided. Next I laid on my front, and managed to get that feeling again, but my body was starting to convulse almost on its own and I started thrusting as well. I wanted to chase that feeling again, it felt like a buildup to an orgasm but nothing happened in the end. Interestingly enough I didn’t get any fluid or precum from my dick throughout the entire session, or the “pee” feeling, I got up and had a piss halfway through but didn’t know if that had anything to do with the session. Would like to know your thoughts and if this is what it’s supposed to feel like.

Psychedelic breakthrough on edibles

A couple of months ago I purchased a Helix Trident to learn how to have a hands free orgasm. I received the Helix on a Tuesday and practiced every morning with the help of Mindgasm.net . The practice sessions felt amazing but no where near HFO or Super O’s.

On the weekends I will start my day by eating 20mgs of cannabis gummies with my morning coffee. When they kicked in I slipped in the Helix and put on the noise cancelling headphones and got comfortable on the couch.
If you are not familiar with Mindgasm.net some brilliant individual created a site that teaches you how to control each individual muscle group in your pelvic region using musical ques and a pleasent AI voice.
One of those lessons is called the Big Squeeze where you flex your base and middle muscle at the same time then relax the base slowly then the middle which causes involuntary muscle contractions.
When I was in the middle of the lesson my mind and body took over. I have been blessed to have had psychedelic breakthroughs on numerous substances but never cannabis. There is something about the prostate and cannabis that caused me to have an out of body experience. I understand why the website creator called it Mindgasm. After I came down and relaxed I laughed out loud at what just happened. I breathed deeply, closed my eyes and flexed again. I was instantly right back in. Fractals and colors that were identical to DMT or mushrooms but I could control it. I could not believe it. After my third go I told myself enough is enough.
Since that day I have tried my damnedest to get to that place while sober but just can not get there. I have since purchased the Progasm and Eupho Trident both of which are amazing.
After finishing all five lessons on the website I have become proficient and now listen to music while having a session which adds a whole nother level. Read more »

This is insane

Hi everyone!

I posted some questions yesterday after a few unsuccessful attempts to use the aneros syn helix. Two folks replied (thanks to you two!) and gave some really complete answers with a few tips, like getting high on weed (something I already do daily in Canada, where it’s legal), listening to binaural beat and relax. Well, I didn’t though this was going to be so effective!

I did try once putting the syn helix when high before. I remember really well having a weird feeling down there while listening to some music and back then, I decided to remove it, thinking the toy was rubbing too hard on some part of my rectum. I now know how wrong I was and what I missed back then. Read more »

Few questions from a beginner

Hi everyone! I’ve had an helix for a few months and never had any pleasure from it the few times I’ve tried it. I just found this subreddit and now I’m motivated to learn to use it correctly. I’ve a few questions:

– Smoking weed seems to be quite popular in combination with the helix here. Is it something you recommend using to facilitate the process or is it something I should try when I’ll be more experienced with the helix? I already vaporize almost everyday; should I play with the helix before or after vaporizing or should i take a break from weed for now? (I’m in Canada so I’m not doing anything illegal 😉)
– this may sound silly but are you supposed to already be horny when you insert the helix? I tend to get impatient when I’m hard so relaxing could be an issue.
– can anal stretching help or interfere with the helix? I’ve been stretching my anus and rectum for a month now and I’m used to wear plugs everyday going from 7,5 to 9,3 inches in circumference. I must say that up to now I’ve had much more prostate sensations with these plugs or when having anal sex with my bf then the helix, so I think I know what kind of feelings to expect.
– I read music can help with the relaxation part. What type of music do you listen when you relax, if you do listen to music when playing with the helix? I’m a bit fan of drone music but I’m curious if you have recommendations 🙂 Read more »

Some thoughts on Helix vs MGX (ymmv)

I’ve heard bigger is not always better in this camp enough times that I thought I knew better and went ahead and upgraded from my old mgx (had the springy tail, removed it,got better but never finished with it) and got a helix trident (hate the k-tab, also removed it, decidedly feel like it was an improvement)

My experience with the difference between the two follows:

– The MGX is definitely capable of more mobility in the in-out direction

– The angle of the Helix is definitely hitting something, and when it’s mobile, (along the spine-bladder axis) feels like it’s stronger.

But at the end of the day, my Helix keeps feeling like it’s gotten “stuck” either because the size creates more pressure that displaces the lubricant film or because the size is getting caught up in some pelvic floor muscle’s I’ve yet to figure out how to relax.

So for now, I’m alternating sessions between the two and trying to work out how to best use each.

Any advice (aside from drugs…I would try but I legally/occupationally can’t) is always welcome.

“Disappointing” HFWO during second session

Hello,

So I (M25) bought an Aneros (Helix Trident) and received it yesterday. While I was waiting for its arrival, I checked a lot of the posts here on reddit to understand what it could do and how to “correctly” use it.

My first time was yesterday, and I think it was a decent first time. Got some satisfying “tingles” within my ass, feeling like pleasing sparkles, don’t really know how to describe it. Also got a lot of erections, as the new sensations of that unexplored territory were turning me on (+ i didn’t jerk off for like 10 days). Not much but I wasn’t expecting some major breakthroughs for session 1.
I tried again tonight. At first I was annoyed by the sporadic erections because they were distracting me. At some point I just decided to “accept” them and i could enter a better relaxation. At this time, tingles/sparkles appeared again. Then, I could feel a pleasing spot (in the ass) that I definitely know gave me sexual pleasure in the past and that i already tried to trigger before I knew all the prostate massagers’ benefits. As my penis was a bit “pumping” on its own, i let the feeling of the pleasing spot getting stronger and stronger and then … I came. Like a regular orgasm but with my feelings focused on the spot (i’m pretty sure it’s the prostate) and not the penis. Since I was not expecting that, I was like “wtf, this is it ?” and checked the towel underneath that was definitely wet. Read more »

1 Year In: More Questions than Answers.

Hi everyone,

I’ve been lurking for a while and just wanted to share my experience so far with Aneros. I purchased my Helix a year ago and my journey started soon after. I’ll be honest, the first month was…. disappointing. After reading so much I just got caught up in the idea of the Super-O and never got so much as a flutter of pleasure (I had involuntaries and some other feelings of warmth etc). After that I turned to relaxing and clearing my mind and things have gotten substantially better. Here are a few mile stones.

1. My first “breathless moment” (December 2019)
2. A 10 mins of out of body experience (Jan 2019)
3. My first involuntary moan (March 2019)

Kinda fell off the wagon after that, trying to work towards using more often when I feel the call.

Most of my sessions start with slipping in my helix, letting it find its spot and then using the do nothing approach. I always find the familiar pattern of: arousal and aneros movement, erection, pulsing erection, loss of erection, pressure in prostate, and that’s as far as I’ve gotten. It’s very nice and lets me have big regular Os after the session but I’m looking for tips. I think my biggest thing is finding the state of arousal and not being to nervous about the Super-O (normally my heart is pounding). Read more »

Was this my first P-wave?

So I’ve been using the aneros for maybe a little under a year now, and the past month or more I have been seemingly stuck with little progress being made. Today I used it, was just laying back listening to some relaxing music, had the involuntary contractions going. All of a sudden I felt some sort of building in my pelvis, felt a bit good and then it began to spread throughout my body slowly and then as soon as it came on it was gone. I tried relaxing more to see if I could get it to happen again but had no luck, and the session after then died down and I couldn’t get anywhere. Is this what people call a p-wave? I don’t remember feeling this before, and honestly I hope it is because I was getting frustrated with no progress being made.

If it was any advice on what to do for my next session? I’m still not even sure what I’m doing and I’m kind of just contracting all sorts of muscles because of what I’ve heard on here.