Tag: Relaxation

First time experience and some problems.

Whats up guys.

Short backstory:
Im a 26yo straigt male and already experimented with buttplay in my puberty, had some experience with plugs and always found it nice during masturbation.
My last gf tried fingering me but… It wasnt that nice (Situation was kinda whacky).

So last month i stumbled over this sub and got really curious.
Like damn i wanted such a toy that brings me to an incredible high. Maybe even involve it in the bed with my gf.

Some talk later she was also curious, cause we read it can lead to even harder boners, longer intercourse and shorter refractory periods. In the past she didnt like the idea of a man with something in his butt, but suprisingly she was open to it.

So i ordered a Helix syn trident, my gf was at work and i have holidays so i got into it. Got clean, lubed and relaxed, did evrything right imo.
I first tried the doing nothing method, Browsing thru gone wild and stuff to get me horny.

I was horny but my butt was like: meh, thats not doin anything.
So intried to force involuntaries by clencing as long as possible.
And after some time of my muscels spasming it hit me!

A warm intense pleasuring wave goin from my prostate through my stomac. After it got a lot more intense it felt like i was close to go over the edge. Read more »

Thank you

Just wanted to say thank you for all the helpful tips. Bought a helix syn last month and love it. First experience was body shaking for an hour and a half thanks to putting all the tips to use. Haven’t had as intense of an experience again until last night.
Got in bed, slipped it in and got ripped on some indica. Just chilled out and dozed focusing on relaxing and the pressure of it against my prostate. Eventually it stirred more and I held kegels lightly for a bit and involuntaries took over. No idea how long I was awake for but the whole experience was about 2 hours. Massive pleasure and shaking for so long. Pretty awesome. Love this new world 🙂
Thanks for all the helpful suggestions, everyone.

Tipping over the edge

So after an hour or so I can get the involuntaries going – and I think I can feel the quivers around my that I know if I can just let them take over me, they will lead to something – be it a P-gasm or super o, I don’t know.

Trouble is, as soon as I start to feel those, I lose focus and they’re gone. So HOW do I keep focus, relax and let those involuntaries take over to the point that I go over the edge?

Just got the progasm ice

Ok after a lot of reading on this forum and elsewhere online, i decided that the progasm ice looked like it was going to be the one for me so last week i ordered one online. The day it arrived i wasnt that horny so i didnt know if i should give it a go but i got too excited, so later that night i decided to try it. First impressions were good, it looks good, the hard plastic is good and the shape and size looked perfect (ive got a few toys already so decided that the larger one would be appropriate). After preparing myself properly, i put some silicone lube on it and put it in, and it felt awesome straight away. It slid straight in and both the tabs rested perfectly where they are meant to. I ended up doing a heap of relaxation kinda stuff and figured on my back with my knees up, feet flat on the floor was the way to go. I mostly tried the do nothing method to not much avail, and kegals seemed ok, i ended up getting some shooting pangs of pleasure rarely but i ended up jerking off and going to bed, pretty happy with how my first time had gone. Read more »

Questions regarding ?maybe? my closest attempt to orgasm

Hey all – first time using any toys. I got an Aneros Syn.
First time I had no idea how this was supposed to be use, I just wanted to play with anal stimulation while masturbating. Then I realized this is something totally different which I was excited to learn!

Yesterday I tried again. I was laying on my side and following the guide of “sucking the toy in” with my anal muscles and then relaxing. After about 5-10 minutes my legs started shaking. Then like my whole body was convulsing, I was breathing super heavy and it was crazy. But I didn’t achieve an orgasm. I felt I was close, but there were “waves” where I would start shaking and feeling this “chain reaction” starting, but then it faded away.

Is this normal? If I kept going would I have had eventually the orgasm from your experiences? I was shocked how fast my legs started shaking and I really hope that this was a good sign I was doing it right!

Thanks and have agreat day:)

Finally had multiple P orgasms. Here’s how

I’ve wasted a lot of time with dildos and other large objects. Last night was my third time using the “aneros syn helix” and I had multiple hands free orgasms the likes of which I haven’t had since I was a child.

I started the session with weed and lube. Unlike my normal routine of constantly pounding my prostate with the largest dildo that will fit inside me, I decided to take things slow with the aneros. I put it inside me and laid on my back on my bed. I did keggels until I got tired which wasn’t long. It felt good but i wanted more. I laid on my stomach and flexed my butt and eventually started to twerk. Felt good but still wasn’t enough.

Finally here’s what sent me over the edge. I positioned my self at the corner of my bed so that my stomach was flat on the bed and my legs where hanging off at a 100 degree angle. I started to thrust against the bed and was immediately greeted by a wave of pleasure.
I wasn’t prepared for what happened next.

The more I began to thrust the more I felt a glow begging to form inside of me. Instead of chasing the feeling and trying to force the toy against my prostate I just relaxed. I let go of every muscle in my body except for my legs. I decided that whatever happens, happens. Read more »

2nd Helix Trident Session – close!

So I had my second session earlier and it lasted about 3 hours…

Pretty sure I’ve got the involuntaries nailed (ie – I can reliably get them started), but I just need to try and relax into them more as I know I get excited when I feel them start.

However, I did get close to SOMETHING happening…I started stroking my nipples and when I got more aroused I could keep the involuntaries going…I then started to feel a build up to what felt like it would be an orgasm but, again, I think I got too excited by it and lost it before it tipped me over…my legs then started shaking and I couldn’t really get the level of focus back. What was this likely to have been? For about 30 mins of the session it really felt like something was happening, but outside of that, the involuntaries weren’t really leading to anything really pleasurable. Is this normal?

Any tips on how I can get myself to tip over into whatever was about to happen?!

What do dry orgasms/super Os feel like?

I’m trying to figure out whether I experienced dry orgasms/super Os or just p waves. The past few days I’ve been having multihour sessions with and without the Aneros. The most intense sensations I’ve gotten have felt like a mix of pleasure, a sort of pins and needles/itch feeling, and an “I’m about to ejaculate” feeling, but without the typical release of ejaculation. These sensations slowly pulse on and off with greater strength, and as they peak, my whole body gets a wash of warmth. The intense pleasure is mainly confined to my pelvic area, but the “pins and needles” feelings sometimes run up and down my body like electricity is running through me. After the sensations peak, they die down into a small “buzzing” sensation in my prostate that eventually vanishes. At the end, I still feel super aroused and the pleasurable sensations start again after a random interval where I’m just relaxed.

Is this a typical super O, or are there other sensations people usually have?

Am I going right?

Im having trouble with my aneros session. I dont know if Im doing right so I want some advices. Sorry for my english since Im not from english speaking country.

Anyways perhaps like other guys in this forum I stuck my mgx in my ass with plenty of lubes first. Then stay relaxed until I get comfortable with my toy. After that I squeeze my pc muscle at up to 70% of my limit with concentration. The concentration on the toy and the prostate. I maintain the squeeze until I shiver. I feel some.. some kind of wave like Im burning and thats all. Thats it. Nothing happens after that.

I also tried the do nothing method. Sometimes I feel the same feeling like I mentioned before. But most of the time I feel nothing. Well umm the forums in my country they say dont have any expectation for reaching any orgasms so I struggle really hard not to expect good feelings.

The question is I dont know if Im following the right path. And want to know whether guys who reached dry orgasm state had same trouble like Im struggling now or not. Thx for reading.

p.s Weed sounds interesting but its illegal at here.