Tag: Relaxation

First Time [Probable] Prostate Sensation: Holy Cow, What Just Happened?

I… I am simply trying to grasp what happened. Sorry this is long but I need to type this out.

Introduction. Bought an Aneros years ago. Couldn’t figure out how to enjoy it properly. Put it away for a few years, brought it back out every once in awhile to try again but still, no luck. About 2 months ago I decided to really put some effort into it, really practice, so I started placing it in during the later evening and just relaxing. Vaping some weed, sitting on the couch and just letting myself be.

Then for the first time ever, after about an hour or so, I felt something. Something different. It didn’t feel good per se, but it was a sensation in a region of my body I never had felt before. The first few times I did this, I thought, “I’m just high, this is all in my head. I’m pretending this sensation is there.” But with more times just sitting there with it in and high, it started pinpointing it more. One night, I had dozed off with it in, and suddenly woke up to something pulsing underneath. It was pleasurable, and I suddenly realized that this was not in my head. Went and sat on my bed and just let it happen. It felt good, but I didn’t feel rushed. You know how when you’re stimulating your penis, and it feels so damn good, but if you stop, it just feels… wrong somehow? Like it’s almost upsetting, you HAVE to keep going or you’re the experience will not be worth it? You just NEED to keep going? This sensation is different. It’s like, and I’m synesthetic so bare with me here, penile sensation is sharp, pointed and linear: it demands more and more. But this new sensation? It felt more circular, spherical, like a soft bubble floating up from the depths and pushing my insides. I didn’t care if it increased, it just felt really nice. For years I had never understood how my wife (and other women) could say that sex felt great *even if they didn’t orgasm*. It just didn’t make sense! How could you not want to finish? Doesn’t it make you feel antsy, almost angry if you don’t? Read more »

Can the Helix Syn be too small?

I’ve recently been trying mine out again but I’m not having much luck achieving any lasting sensations. The first time I put it in the other day, I had a mild sensation that resulted in a boner, but that slowly disappeared. It felt more like I could feel my heartbeat. The past couple of times I’ve tried, I’ve had nothing though.

My muscles seemed fairly relaxed (I think). The only other thing I can think of is that I haven’t felt properly horny in a long time, but I’d have thought the sensation alone would help with that. Could the toy itself be too small? I know the helix syn is an beginners one.

Knowing when the right spot is hit?

Is that tingling sensation I’m feeling when I’m doing a “kegel squeeze” the prostate being stimulated? My last session I tried having my feet off my bed and propped up on a box (imagine the happy baby yoga pose) and was feeling a lot more sensation. Anyone else have that? Also that urination/ejaculation feeling, should I back off and relax more as I start to feel that? I feel like I’m getting closer towards this next level but I’m falling a little short each time.

First time

I finally had my first supper O last Saturday morning. I started out relaxing for two hour then bam my butt was wanting to lock up. It sucked the helix in so deep I wanted to clinch but kept telling myself to relax. Next thing I know I’m getting that feeling I’m cumming, but nothing is coming out. Lasted a long time felt like minutes, all this time my butt is sucking on the helix like mad with my spinster buzzing like ants walking around it. Then my butt let’s off and I’m trying to catch my breath. It starts again to clinching. I go though this for an hour got to the point I had to stop. Two days later my butt is still buzzing. Can’t wait to try again.

In what point (milestones in the text) you are on your journey with Aneros?

And what model(s) you have? And how much time you’ve been on this journey?

I have the Helix Trident and the Progasm and I’ve been on this journey for around a year. I would say I’m at the point of Definite pleasure produced by contracting, but not always.

First insertion
No P-tab discomfort when relaxed
No internal discomfort when relaxed
No P-tab discomfort when contracted
No internal discomfort when contracted
Generally comfortable when inserted and relaxed
Observation of slight good feelings
Slight sense of leaking
Slight sense of needing to urinate (contact with prostate)
Identifiable contact with prostate
Doing a set of contractions comfortably
Holding light sphincter contractions
Integrating deep breathing
Definite leaking produced by contracting
Definite pleasure produced by contracting
Definite feeling of contact on prostate
Identification of “sweet spot”
Pleasure at “sweet spot”
No longer believing that “…this model doesn’t fit me…”
Arousal amplification by vocalization, breathing, manual stim of secondary erogenous zones or held contractions.
Observation of slight involuntary contractions
General pleasure throughout session
P-wave
Successive P-waves
Rock hard erection
Twitching
Pleasure at voluntary pelvic thrusting
Integrating pelvic thrusting and contracting
Large muscle quaking (no pleasure)
Continuous internal pleasure
Definite sense of ongoing subtle involuntary contraction
Sense of pleasure caused by blood pulse internally
Significant large muscle quaking with pleasure
Real excitement at thought of next session
Sustained pleasure during sessions
Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions
Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions
Ability to leak outside of sessions
Sense that the Aneros is satisfying a special prostate “itch”
Very significant pleasure during sessions
Moaning during sessions
Sense of arousal moving toward something
Surprise attack of very serious pleasure
Involuntary clamping, without sense of climax
Involuntary clamping with hint of climax
Involuntary clamping with definite feeling of light orgasm (Mini-O)
Ability to maneuver the Aneros to control placement of pleasure internally
Intensely pleasurable involuntary clamping that is clearly a Dry-O
Chain reaction Dry-Os (O-zone)
Disbelief that this can actually be for real
Very deep orgasm distinctly centered in rectum: anal orgasm
Extremely intense prostate orgasm
Dry orgasm without Aneros (chair orgasm)
Aneros moving distinctly on its own, creating unexpected pleasure
Aneros moving in long strokes (auto-f***), creating intense pleasure
Unexpected extremely strong orgasm that knocks the reality out of you: Super-O
Continuous Super-Os directed at different parts of the body
Full body Super-O
Multiple, sequential full body Super-Os
Ability to have Super-Os on demand Read more »

Difficulty relaxing, not feeling much

So I have had about 6 sessions so far. I have been trying deep breathing and kegels with the Helix syn. I can feel it touching my prostate if i play with my muscles but nothing comes from that. If i focus more on relaxing, the only passive feelings I get are my heartbeat felt through the toy. Every time something starts up, I get distracted thinking of something completely unrelated or I hear a noise that gets me off track. I just can’t get my mind to STOP doing that. I have tried sleeping with it in as well which was fully comfortable, but didn’t lead to anything pleasurable.

Does anyone have tips to relax for someone who is wayyyy too active and can’t focus. I can’t use weed as others have suggested due to my job either.

relaxation techniques

I’m still exploring the aneros itself, but I think the key to it is as everyone says relaxation and not thinking about it which I think is true.

I think I’m at a point where I can get the ball rolling with stimulation without touching. However I believe that it gets to a point where my anus muscles clench and hinder movement. maybe for some it feels like the feeling has gone or its gone numb, but I think its more the muscles are clenching too hard and not relaxing.

has anyone experienced this? Like it feels good and all but I think I’m like at the tipping point. anyone got any techniques or things to help them over this. I think I’ve had a couple of times when I tipped over, but I started to try to control it/realise what is happening and it goes away (once off).

Quick question for some one who’s been at it for 3 years

Read alot of posts about relaxation which in its self is a challenge for me. But when I do and the pleasure is building I feel the toy being pulled inwards by its self. Then the involuntarys start and my lower half tends to get tence woosh pleasure gone. So should I try to stay relaxed when my ass is trying to eat my toys?

Also on a side note about positions I’ve taken some steps forward by laying on my side in the fetal position with my penis and balls tucked behind my legs any one else they this? I’m wondering if its stopping any thing else from happining

Avoiding the dick or edging before a session?

I’ve been playing with my Aneros (Helix Trident) for7-8 months now, every now and then, and I never achieve a hands free orgasm. I will try new postures and maybe I’ll buy an Eupho, but I’d like to know if I should try a different strategy.

So far, what I do is refraining for masturbating for 3-4 days, sometimes even more than a week, and without never touching my dick, get very aroused with porn and go with it, playing with my Helix Trident. I never get to the point, never. Sometimes I’m more relaxed, sometimes I’m less, sometimes I get more pleasure, sometimes less… And lately, sometimes I barely feel pleasure. It depends on the day, but I never get to any kind of resolution or great pleasure. I can notice when I get more aroused, rarely my prostate swells, and I feel more pleasure. But no orgasms of any kind.

So now I was thinking… What if I watch good porn and jerk off for a while until reaching the edge… and then rest for a bit and get into the prostate play with my Aneros? Would that be more effective than avoiding my dick? Or it could be cheating in order to get a penile-induced orgasm more easily?

I’d like to hear your thoughts or if anyone has tried this approach instead of the total deprivation of penile stimulation.

Thank you.

Something happened.. not sure what?

So this will be my second session. After about twenty minutes on my back I didn’t notice any changes other than a slight pulse in my hole. I decided to turn on my stomach as that’s how I usually fall asleep so in turn I became more relaxed. After 15 minutes I noted the pulse in my anus got stronger and an increased building sensation began.I let it build up and immediately knew something was different because my heart started racing immediately. It only lasted around a minute and felt nice. I had some mild shaking. It was definitely something but I’m not sure what it was? Is this a P wave? How do I continue these and how far away from a Super O is it? Any feedback? Thanks!