If I relax I will usually start to feel these small waves of pleasure but I guess I get too in-my-head and tense up and lose it all. Do. Just need to push through and figure out how to stay relaxed? Any tips on how to accomplish such a feat??
Tag: Relaxation
Minor progress after 1 week even if I was cheating
Last night I had a partial brake through. Went to bed with the mgx. I started on my left side. After 30 minutes of do nothing and nothing happening, not even a twitch I decided to roll over on my back. I reached down and started to massage my perineum just above the p-tab. An orgasm started almost immediately than rolled into another more intense than the first. I lost count after 5 as they started to come closer together with out a break between. They just kept coming each getting slightly more intense.
The entire time I was riding these orgasms I was holding different levels of contractions allowing my muscles to involuntarily contract but this was not happening as a feed back loop. I think it was just happening from trying to maintain a set level of contraction.
The last orgasm I remember my body was so fully engulfed that I lost track of time. The one thing that stood out about it was the sudden feeling of a strange sharp pain that exploded from my prostate that caused my belly to clench than start to flutter maybe a dozen times before stopping. This feeling was scary but exhilarating at the same time lasting mere seconds before passing to allow the orgasm feeling to swell even higher before fading off. I believe that this was caused by the mgx sliding along the prostate as it was designed to do to create these feel good feelings. Could this have been the aforementioned p-waves? I looked at the clock to find I had been surfing this session for an hour plus but didn’t want it to stop.
The Starting Point
The last few days- which happen to be my first few days with the helix syn, have been interesting.
Since the first day, I’ve started to pick up on a slow, very gradual rise of just little things. Most important: cleanliness. Purging often, showering more, shaving the hair down there… it shows to me I care, and am setting the stage for further adjustments.
More kegels, more of the time. Decided to do 100 on the train today. I’m finding that the kegel exercise is a good way to open and relax the anal muscles, which I assume will lead to good things. The main thing I’ve learned from kegels so far is that if I hold a contraction for almost as long as I can- I get spasms. They target my sphincter and perineum the most. It feels good, at least to me, it’s something new so I’ll get more used to how it feels.
What I’m finding works for me regarding the helix, is slow gyration and thrusting of the hips. Something happens where it feels like the tip of the helix is tickling- and waking up, this hidden blossoming flower. Now it appears to me I have a choice. Wake up that flower, or go on my way, and maybe stay away from this kind of stimulation? Well I’m undecided. I guess I’ll have to explore a little further and figure out if this is the kind of energy I really want to have.
I’ve been studying for my first ever round with an Aneros massager and I think I have an idea.
So throughout this suh a common idea is to stay calm, relaxed, and don’t try to hard. So if this think is supposed to work when I am relaxed why don’t I just try to fall asleep. I’ll be breathing correctly, relaxed as can be, and calm. Is this a good idea?
The Beat Goes On
On the trip home from that first successful session my prostate was buzzing; that buzz lasted several hours. The gentle hum deep in my anal canal was juicing my libido big time. I was leaking heavy all the time. The hum in my anus also triggered intermittent erections that caused my cock to drool precum. I felt higher than a kite. I had arrived at MMO. After I arrived home I texted an on line friend in the UK that I had been sharing the details of my efforts with telling her of my success. She was fascinated. I also told my wife about my experience. She was OK with it but was still really worried about my heart and whether it was safe; we still had not had sex yet.
It was another two weeks until I had the chance to travel again, so another succession was not possible until then. It was during that two weeks of sharing the details with my friend in the UK in writing that I discovered my love of erotic writing and sharing descriptions of my anal orgasmic experience and the journey of sexual discovery I was on. So I registered for a Blog on WordPress using the name I was using on Sex Forums and began to give my sexual narrative. I used the forum thread in Sex Forums to drive readers to my WordPress Blog. Sex Forums was also where my On Line UK friend was from; her name there was Princess O. The blog was becoming very successful. At the end of that first month I had 1000 subscribers. I loved the writing. It aroused me more than watching porn. At the end of a year I had 10,000 subscribers.
11/25/18
Woke up at 5:30 again, felt empty. I went and got the helix to start the day. I know I should give a day between sessions but woke up several times with a screaming hard boner. God I need to get laid but know it most likely won’t ever happen again. Hell I’ve forgot what it feels like to have a hot wet pussy wrapped around my cock, it’s been so long
Slipped back into bed on my left side. I decided to start w/ do nothing and breating. I can feel the helix sliding in/out ever so slightly w/ each breath but not actually sliding or putting any pressure on my prostate. No different than the first time or second time, I know it’s there just not responding to tactile input yet on that side. I don’t know how long it was but I felt a jolt go from my prostate up thru my cock. With in seconds I was hard as a rock. Having my cock grow is not uncommon when doing an external massage, sometimes if the feeling is just right, but it is generally a slow gradual increase in size taking maybe 10 seconds to full size. This was fully soft and small at about 1.5″ long to full engorge of around 8″ in literally 2 seconds. It felt wonderfully full and just south of the painfull kind of hard on one gets with a cock ring that is on the edge of being to small. I almost wanted it to get to that point. I didn’t jerk when this happened to cause a contraction, I just breathed feeling a sliding motion waiting for the next jolt or tingle to come my way.
Start of new chapter
This is going to be the documentation of a new chapter in my sexuality. How I got here can be found in this thread on the forum.
https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/156753-i-got-to-get-me-one-of-these
I got time today to try out my new pleasure tools. I have purchased both the helix & mgx just to have variety. I woke up early (5:30) before she did, was excited for my first attempt. prepped the mgx first as it looked smaller in size even though I have read it really isn’t. I went back to bed and relaxed. After about 10 minutes I no longer felt the “full feeling” in fact I didn’t feel it at but I could feel it moving up/down with each contraction/release. I tried both sides and my back, nothing. I reached down and rubbed my perineum to see if it was the same place as the p-tab location and it was (this solidifies my earlier thoughts that’s what I was stimulating before, the fabled sweet spot) as I started to get the tingle. I decided to just lay there and try the do nothing approach, let my body get used to this foreign object pressing on my prostate. I must have dozed off because I woke about an hour later to this feeling of waves or better description pulses enveloping my body. At first I thought it was my heart pounding causing the pulses but when I focused on my heart beat. I found it wasn’t beating that hard or that fast. These pulses were coming twice as fast as my heart beat and before I knew it they were gone. No tingling or electric feeling, just pulses. I tried light contractions to see if I could bring them back but no luck. It was 8:30 and I had things to do so I cleaned up.
“Arousal Village: Where Do You Live?”
Introduction
While chilling and listening to relaxing sounds wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” , I “meditated” about this “place” and it became quite vivid and realistic. Here is what I remember…….
“Arousal Village”
It dawned on me that all of us guys actually “live” in the same village: I will call it “Arousal Village”. And within this village, there are a number of streets for residences and other activities. You can add your own, but here are a few that came to mind.
Examples:
“Chastity Lane” is where I am currently living. I practice semen retention and male chastity almost all the time now, so this street is most appropriate for me.
“Precum Place” is where a lot of guys live who practice male edging on a regular basis. They have a lot in common.
“Ejaculation Alley” is not actually a residence but a gathering place (like a saloon). It is only a “rest-stop” for the guys. Nearly everyone in town stops in here from time-to-time. Interesting tidbit: To get to this alley, you have to first pass-through “Erection Avenue”.
“Sex Street” is aptly named. This is where guys live who indulge in lovemaking on a regular basis.
And finally, “Aneros Way” is home to a joint where a lot of us prostate aficionados stop-by from time to time.
So where do YOU live? Touche’.
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Are those the right feelings?
Hi folks!
35, anal beginner. Wanted to share some doubts also in case somebody passes on this post later 🙂
Got a helix trident. Went to toilet, waited a bit, lubed abundantly with pjur’s silicon lube. The little guy slid in quite nicely after a few trials. No pain, feeling full. Started breathing and relaxing started feeling a light pleasure every now and then like it were at the base of the penis. So far so good.
I notice keeping the set of muscles by which you can also bring slightly up your testicles made things more pleasant. Great. But the more I did it, the more the little plastic guy went to position itself in a more “vertical” way (I was lying on my back, curled legs). In the end, it really felt it was trying to push through my colon a bit (I felt a bit of pressure) and at the same time, the center feeling of pleasure moved more down. I could feel the frontal part of the aneros (the zig zag) touching also some internal stuff.
Anyway, went over for ~ 1hr, didn’t get too far, but was interesting anyway. Question is: am I doing it right? I know the prostate is not exactly attached to the colon so I understand it may have to push a bit, but is the right thing? Or was it going “too vertical” and there was actually some danger for my rectum? Also at some point it really felt like it was pressing on a nerve a little bit, like a buzzing sensation.. damn, they should put more instructions with this thing 🙂
SGX: My “Little Companion!”
Introduction
I made it to Day 6 of SR and slept in my Mueller FlexShield Cup all night. Wonderful, erotic frenulum-sensations during the night! Around 4 AM, I had the opportunity for an Aneros session. But which one? I selected the SGX Classic because I wanted some “mild” stimulation of my prostate. I am not ready yet for an ejaculation but I wanted some relief.
Session
The SGX was designed for the Asian market, meaning generally smaller individuals with a comparatively smaller male anatomy. Nevertheless, the SGX is suited for my taste: not too large and nicely-designed with a large P-tab and flared, ribbed base that also stimulates the anal cavity. All-in-all, a nice “package” from Aneros!
I lubed-up with SSG and went to lie-down. I have quickly fallen-into a fantasy: I am being prepared for some kind of prostate procedure and I must lay absolutely still for about 15 minutes. Could I comply? Well, the answer, for the most part, was “Yes!” Although it wasn’t too easy, the stimulation is not as great as with my MGX which can induce all kinds of anal pleasure spasms which generally are uncontrollable and leads to more generalized prostate orgasms. This SGX session was quite “tame” in comparison, but every once in a while, I could feel my prostate being “nudged” especially when my penis started to get aroused.