Tag: Rewiring

A Night of Bliss

After dinner a few nights ago none of my friends were on line and J was upstairs in the studio working, it was very quiet. I sat at this keyboard motivated for erotic interaction. As is usually the case when that happens I decided to spend some time on erotic writing. So at 8 PM I began editing a strategic part of my novel. It is done but I find great joy in going back into it and tweaking the story. For me, the primary purpose of the novel is to stimulate my arousal and the rewrite effort does that big time. The chapter was describing an intimate interchange between a man and a 19 year old daughter of a good friend. The narrative really got me worked up.

Anyone who has read my blogs or knows me knows that I am attuned to giving pleasure. In my limited experience with guys I really love to do oral and frot, but with my lovely lady it is oral sex on her that is the epitome of my intimate interaction with her. Read more »

Fantasy and Super O

Anyone who reads whatever I have written over the years or who knows me here knows the profound impact that rewiring has had on me. I am a changed man. I think of myself as hypersexual and serenely sensual. Erotic thoughts are part of my daily life; eroticism is always with me bubbling inches below the surface of my routine existance. Fantasy is one of those erotic things that amuses me, piques my imagings and keeps my cock hard and wet.

When an erotic fantasy finds me it is like it has found a comfortable chair; it settles in and stays, relaxing and pondering the facets of its own lush eroticism while secretly reveling in the arousal that it stirs in me. It has certainly been that way over the last few weeks with my fantasy of sexual intimacy with A. She is someone that I have occassion to see quite frequently in meetings and events. Last night I had a particularly pleasurable fantasy involving the two of us. It happened because I saw her at a meeting of the organization she works for and that I volunteer for yesterday. As a leading volunteer in the organization I have a lot of interaction with her before, during and after the meetings. She is Secretary to the board. Read more »

Aless & Foreplay in the Nutty Buddy Cup

Hi guys,

The most wonderful thing about the Aneros is that it has put me in touch sexually with my body like never before. This is one of my great consolations as a retiree at age 66. This is one of the basic benefits of Aneros rewiring which recaptures somewhat the thrill of discovering my body's sexual response through masturbation starting at age 11 when I entered puberty.

I am sure that my dad is smiling down from heaven as I exult in my body and its sexual consciousness both within Aneros sessions and outside sessions in Aless.

It is nearly the middle of May. Here in DC we are emerging from spring into summer. Late last week I turned on my A/C and began wearing my camo shorts since last September. Also last night, I wore my Nutty Buddy athletic cup to bed for the first time in my mouths.

I have recounted to you guys how jockstraps and athletic cups were catalysts that fueled my adolescent sexual consciousness and propelled me toward the thrills of masturbation as centered in my male sexual apparatus.

Athletic cups in the 1960's were the traditional flat variety. They were uncomfortable to wear for long periods of time. Baseball players had to readjust their cups on the field for all to say. Read more »

The next day… A-less butterflies…

Many users have reported how they can experience A-less P-waves… I had my doubts but after so much enjoyment last night and the excitement of this pending evening, the butterflies remain in my 'core' … a little contraction here and there slightly intensifies it )mainly while standing(. And my nipples are fully erect and incredibly 'sensitive' not in any painful way but very lightly flickering them increases the butterflies…

I am beginning to believe in this re-wiring, A-less ability.

Older guys, what worked for you?

I am a 45 year old straight guy who suffers from occasional hemorrhoids. I have up until this point never really done much anal play. I have experimented here and there with fingers but never got anything out of it and thought it just was not for me. I am fairly open about sex but just never got much from anal play. Recently though I ran across the Aneros site after reading about it while browsing /sex, which, by the way, not sure you younger guys realize just what a treasure having all this info at your fingertips is. Wish I had that resource when I hit puberty! At any rate. After reading about the therapeutic effects of prostate massage and it's benefits, that it helps with prostate health, hemorrhoids, and the awesome pleasure, I decided to give it a try. I bought a few cheap massagers but none of them did much of anything. After browsing Aneros for awhile, I decided to try one out. I bought a Helix Syn and have had 10 or so sessions with it in the last month or so. I am in a relationship and have not shared this with my wife yet, though if it goes well, I will. Just not ready to share this yet. That does limit the times I have to play around with it. The first session I immediately got mild P-waves, which, while not close to intense, was a result I had never gotten before. Second session more P-waves at about the same intensity. Both times it started off well and then tapered away as I tried to control things or focused on form too much. Some sessions not much of anything happened, then the last few sessions things seemed to progress a bit. One session I had my first involuntaries, which were interesting but not necessarily pleasurable. Then the last session I seemed to zero in more on which muscles to use and which ones to relax and felt the first stirrings of good sensation, including Pwaves, involuntaries and the tingling. All were fleeting and only happened a few times, but I see progress. reading this sub, the forums on Aneros and the Wiki really helped. The Tug of War method from the Wiki was what helped with the correct muscles to use and I noticed that the less is more approach really helped. I am just fighting a lifetime of muscle memory from traditional orgasms and sex but I can see where the rewiring comes in. Quite awhile back I discovered nipple play and that has been fantastic and the wife takes full advantage of it as do I. That definitely seems to help. My usual method is to wait until after a BM, then get out the Helix and lube up with Vaseline, Coconut oil and water based lube. I do plan on ordering unrefined Shea Butter to see how that works. I have tried lots of positions. The best results seem to come from being on my back with a pillow under my butt, knees straight up with feet on the bed. Standing, walking, sideways or on all fours did not seem to do much of anything. I can tell that I need to strengthen muscles that have seem little use ever to get further down the road. I am excited about the journey. I would love to hear from other older men on their experiences getting started with prostate massage and what worked for them. I wish I had come across this when I was younger and orgasms were still mind blowing experiences. As I have gotten older they have lessened in intensity and I find myself trying to find more and more ways to turn things on, though things are still quite enjoyable. Looking forward to the path ahead!

New guy here, any tips?

I've never done any anal or prostate play, other than an occasional finger when I was discovering my body years ago. I got the helix on the suggestion of a friend who said it worked wonders for him. I've got good tone in the muscles down there, I wa into yoga for years and kegels have an esoteric use and I learned how to use those muscles well.

I've read some explanations of how to use it, and that I'm supposed to relax and let the muscles do their thing. Any tips for a beginner?

I'm not on a quest for the super o right off the bat, I'm more just interested to feel new sensations. Should I try it with an erection? Should I stick to being flaccid when I use it? How much time realistically should I set aside for a session? I usually read erotic stories when I masturbate, which isn't very often. Would that help me relax and make things go smoother?

Edit: more questions. Is there a different methology to getting dry orgasms? Is it okay to have a regular one while working with the prostate massager, or does that kind of mess up the rewiring process? How exactly does the milking thing work?

Empty Balls Church Bells and Erect Cocks

So after my ball draining ejaculation Saturday Morning, Saturday night my desire was steaming and hissing like an old radiator on a cold winter morning. When J and I got in bed that night after the lights went out, J cuddled up against me and put her hand on my chest. I reached up and put my own hand on top of hers in a reassuring pat. After a few minutes I slid her hand down my torso, placing it on my cock as I kissed her forehead.

This has been my wordless request for a hand job for many years. I can’t even begin to count the number of times I have led her hand that way. There is something elegantly spiritual to me about its simplicity, her immediate wordless response and her desire to be the one giving me orgasmic pleasure.

She slid down in the bed and wrapped her lips around my right nipple, drawing it into her mouth firmly as she flicked it with her tongue. It stiffened in aching hardness under the taunting tenderness of her tongue, the more she flicked the rigid pebble of flesh with the tip of her tongue, the more my anus began to spasm. She then wrapped her hand around my cock shaft and embraced it below my cockhead; with incredible skill she held it firmly imitating the sensation of me being in her pussy that morning. The firm grip of her hand around the base of my long hard cock did feel somewhat like her pussy mouth gripping my cock that morning as the muscles in her cunt held my cock suspended in the warmth of her pussy. My cockhead was immobilized in the steamy heat of her cunt not touching anything. Read more »

Eating My Own Cum

The moments after an intense MMO session leave me with a slimy cock and aching with arousal. After several days of MMO and no ejaculation I can be almost insane with erotic desperation. The intimate sexual liaisons I have when I am in these intense states of arousal are perhaps the most torrid and the most sensually beguiling erotic experiences I have.

This morning after three days of hard MMO my body was exhausted from 3 nights of minimal sleep but my arousal was roaring like an inferno. It was 5 am when I finished my third session in three days; it is 9 am and I am here at my desk writing this.

In the moments after the spasms stopped, slowly my cock started to stiffen and lengthen as arousal replaced the exquisite agony of MMO. In a few minutes my cock was stone hard and my anus was tingling and quivering. An orgasmic knot had developed deep in my asshole from the extended MMO session I had just finished. My prostate was erect and buzzing; the MMO had packed it with my hot cum and raging desire in equal measure. The glow of arousal was making my prostate twitch in anticipation of a copious release of its steaming contents. I was so fatigued I could have fallen asleep if I had closed my eyes and suppressed my arousal. But I love the erotic tension of arousal, and the sensuality of the moment laying there with J next to me, snuggled to my side so I remained awake. I savored the warm eroticism of the moment as my cock and anus reminded me of the arousal that simmered within me. Read more »

Pleasure Continued

I hadn’t made love to J in 10 days, our schedules had been crazy and we had both been under the weather. Intensely aroused as I was after almost two weeks of MMO with no release, I was desperate for sexual connection. In the past my arousal would have translated to a need for fucking. In my rewired state my sexual response has become more complex and patient. Now I get equal pleasure of experiencing another person’s pleasure vicariously. Sometimes it is the orgasmic contortions of a man culminating in his shuddering ejaculation and other times it is J writhing and quivering in orgasmic rapture. That night I longed for sexually intimate connection with her.

Cunnilingus is by far my favorite way to coax her into cascading orgasmic ecstasy. I enjoy giving her head more than any other sexual activity we engage in. Giving J oral pleasure gets my cock stone hard and makes me drip a stream. So it wasn’t a surprise that that was the connection that we made that night.

After perfunctory after dinner activities, washing dishes we both happily abandoned the mundane routine activities of the day. I am not a big fan of winter snow but I put up with it in my daily routine, accepting its inconvenience and the extra time it adds to getting from place to place and getting out in the morning. But in the evening when the quiet softness of snow and the deep chill of February blanket the village and our house, they impart a sensual quietude to the air and my mood. Read more »

No Aneros: Better Developments

TL;DR:
* No Aneros for two months.
* No nipple stimulation.
* Slower building orgasms = better.
* Now partying in the o-zone.
* Orgasms that reach far inwards.
* Faster building orgasms = not as good.

I'm not using the Aneros for roughly two months. Since two days ago I'm half way there, in fact! Abstaining will hopefully rectify the itches and pains in and around the ass, as suggested by a member. I'm itching a lot less now, so there's some good signs.

But wouldn't I know it: I've had some amazing times up to this point! What gives?
Rewiring further — in ways I wasn't aware of. My previous entry appears to be the onset of all this. However, holding off from the devices and nipple stimulation has allowed the sensations to dig and expand further inwards.

To be more precise, I think nipple stimulation has the tendency to short circuit the arousal. It creates a 'release', in the same vein as ejaculating, preventing that crucial energy to build over time. It blows arousal in quick bursts, rather than allowing all of it to gradually build in larger waves. Nipple stimulation may have gotten me far before, but I've been using it as a crutch. )Though it borders on addiction, too( Read more »