Tag: SGX

Sleep paralysis, not enough orgasms

Last night was a downer. I was good and did as I was told. No orgasm.
At 1 am I had a very scary sleep paralysis. I felt like my arm had become a snake. Bit weird.

Still looking after a sick child whilst wife goes out for the day again. I manage 20 minutes maximum to myself and have taken to pretending to read on the bed to get some time alone.
I must have been desperate I had one orgasm today and got into it within 30 seconds of trying, but got disturbed by children again so it was disappointing. I couldn't get back into it after. This is supposed to be my week off work I have done nothing but be stuck in the house looking after children, the wife has been out most of the time, and she's out again tonight. Back to work soon and 14 hour days. Fun.

Back on track

I had promised myself that I was taking a rest for a day yesterday, but I'm not very strong willed and thought that I would just have a quick try last night, A-less as usual. I'm very glad that I did. it wasn't the fastest onset ever but considering how tired I was and how upset I had got over this whole thing yesterday, I was amazed tat anything happened at all.
The super-O built up nicely and I had a few nice orgasmic waves, each one getting stronger and more intense. It was going well, but I was expecting my wife to come to bed at any second and was slightly distracted for that reason. Then I made a beginners mistake. I squeezed my PC muscle really hard, trying to wring a bit more out of one wave of contractions, but I held it far too long and when I released it had all gone and it was over – I like the child's swing analogy someone has made – you need to keep giving the orgasm a little push every now and then to keep the swing going, I just gave a long push and stopped it swinging.
Had a reasonable night's sleep last night for the first time in a while.
Next thing is to tell my wife. I have decided I need to.

Thinking about getting one…

I'm relatively new to prostate massage and think I've found my prostate. I am 5'3 so I'm on the shorter side and my prostate can be reached with my thumb. Since I don't have much experience with this stuff I was torn between the SGX and the Helix. Will the helix be too big?

If anyone had both and could post a comparison pic that would be great. Thanks!

First time use – is it working properly? Caused dry orgasms during sex?

Picked up a knockoff Aneros SGX at a sex shop yesterday (Put them side by side – identical but much cheaper). I am a smaller statured white guy (5'7" 140lbs) so I thought the SGX would be good as it is supposed to be popular with asian males.

So of course I had to give it a try last night. On insertion it created a massive erection and a pretty high burst of arousal – but the arousal faded in seconds, and the erection faded fairly quickly too. I left in in for maybe half an hour, chilling on the bed, but nothing happened. I clenched and unclenched and felt a little something, but the only significant feelings came with pulling it out a little and letting it slip back in.

So far the story is unexciting but then my wife came in to ask how the "butt plug" was working. I told her it was lame so she suggested we try it while we fuck. Of course I was up for this. Once we got started the Aneros seemed to come into play, I could feel some extra feeling perhaps once the prostate started to get aroused. I was ultra hard and had so much lust and drive like I used to have in our pre-baby days, I totally got lost in the sex but after a bit I didn't really notice any sensation coming particularly from the Aneros itself – just a general boost in intensity. Read more »

My Second Session-Thank God for the Forums

So, I see a pattern emerging. Everytime I read the Forums I pick up something new to think about and try. A new position. A new way to contract my muscles. Stop chasing the Super-O and just relax. I just spent an incredibly relaxing 4 hours letting the SGX and then the Classic teach me about my anus.
No more brute force approach. This isn't a sprint. It's even longer than a marathon. It might as well be a side career/job since I didn't invest this much time on any recent activity.
I start slowly. It is morning. The wife is at work. I have a couple timers set in case I fall asleep. I am just relaxed and breathing. I practice stomach breathing for an hour with gentle contractions. I notice that on my right side, bottom leg gently bent and left leg on top of it with a more severe bend per the instructions it is very relaxing. I do gentle contractions with the breathing. In this position, as I curl my head gently downward toward my feet and as I breath into my stomach I begin automatically have a gentle, intentional contraction. It feels like I am breathing through my anus. I pull air in and the SGX gently pulls into my rectum. I blow air out and it releases.
I begin to notice subtle differences in the muscle groups. The ribbed base has a specific feel when I grip it. I forget about the pressure of the P-Tab and just focus on the slow pull of the SGX into my ass. It feels like four different muscles as I isolate them. I feel a gentle spasming of my rectum. A pleasant buzz almost. So quiet and gentle. I am not watching porn or listening to anything except my anus. I am focused completely on my breathing and during the pause between breaths I notice the subtle differences in feelings that develop.
I move to my back and place a pillow under my butt and switch to the Classic with the finger ring cut off. It feels different and almost like I am starting over. Then I get little tingles. No P-Waves. Nothing ground breaking. But I feel in comparison to my first session, this is a fantastic improvement. Sometimes my cock is hard. Most times it is not.
Back to the Forums for more research.

Discovery and Background

Hi Everyone,
I wanted to share a little background in case it helps others. I think the blog is a fantastic way to share the journey and hopefully get feedback and support during the process.
A little about me. I am married and in my late 30s. Up until a six months ago I probably masterbated 3-5 times a day. I was in between jobs and my wife was working so it was a way to pass the time. I am average height and build.
I have been sexually active since the age of 5 when I discovered my mom's back massager. I was sexually abused but I blocked that out from long ago and have no desire to open that door anymore. I am who I am and live for today forward. I think I would classify myself as bisexual but it in very specific circumstances. I don't see a guy and say, "Wow, I'd love to get a piece of that". It is pretty much limited to transsexuals and domination/cuckold fantasies. I read tons of erotica, much of it dark and delicious. I could give guided tours of xhamster.com and several other free, safe sites for porn tubes. After a few viruses, I am pretty careful about where I surf for my porn. I am going through the initial stages of a divorce so the Aneros experience is something that I save for myself. It is my wonderful journey of discovery.
Five years ago, I started my Aneros experience. I was young, dumb, and full of cum and loved to stick anything up my ass. I may have read the instructions but most likely I just lubed it up, shoved it in my ass, and proceeded to jerk off. It is a fine prostate stimulator but I now feel that I had unknowlingly bought the finest engineered car in the world and kept it in my garage except for an occasional run to the grocery store with it. I originally bought a SGX and a Classic, I believe. They both have ribbed stems.
On Wednesday, I Googled hands-free orgasm and discovered the Aneros forums. I was shocked. What had I been missing these past years?
Anyhow, one other note is that I had pelvic hernia surgery on the left side in May and they cut a major nerve intentionally in the process )the doc said I wouldn't miss it(. I hope I don't.
Thanks for reading,
Beegee6

My road to discovery

This is my 1st blog on my path to discover new things about my body and my prostate. For years (I am 54) I have been curious and experimental with the feelings I would get when inserting something in my anal cavity. I would always do this on my own and alone (fingers, dildos, etc) as I was embarrassed. I thought I would be seen as gay or "freakishly kinky". About a year ago my wife and I had a "breakthrough" in our marriage and now we communicate more openly about sex.

I also saw a doctor for hemorrhoid treatments and received laser ablation therapy the effectively eliminated them. During the exam and treatment, the doctor educated me about my prostate and "milked" me… it was a defining moment in my life. I told my wife about it and, after our breakthrough last year, we researched about prostate massage together. We were buying some sex toys to spice up our bedroom time and I suggested an Aneros. Since we weren't sure of the success of the product, we decided to purchase a lower priced knock-off model of a MGX/SGX. I will say now that I am sorry that we didn't go ahead and spend the money for the real thing as the knock-off has some design flaws. I am currently awaiting the arrival of a Progasm. After some experiences with the smaller MGX/SGX stye model, I desire a more full feeling so I and stepping up to a Progasm. Read more »

Sitting Multiple Orgasms

Hi

A very strange session. I started it as usual and I decide to use Rice Oil as internal prelube (instead of Olive Oil), and I found it amazing: it gives a great mobility to the device. On the SGX i used the Shea Butter. I used it also on the external ring of the anus.

I was lying on the bed on my back and I completely relaxed. I breathed as usual, trying to never hold my breath during inhale and exhale phases. I could feel so clearly this time the action of the aneros on the prostate and this has caused a lot of leaking precum: that has raised a lot my excitement levels.

During the higher peaks my breathing and heartbeat quickened. After more than an hour of interesting feelings I decided to stop and go wash: and this is where the journey begins.

With the aneros inserted yet I sat on the bidet, I opened the water and began to wash the penis in a very sweet and without the intention of being a wank.

My anus has started to throb and a series of convulsions began to prevail over what I did. I stopped and put right hand on the abdomen and the left on the right nipple, starting to caress me. Felt more and more strongly the prostate, throbbing and a sensation of hot and cold that spread along the thighs and over my back. Read more »

Is it Squirting?

<From: https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14586/is-it-squirting#Item_1 >

Hi to all

I would like to share my experience with you regarding my last series of aneros-session.

I started 2 days ago in the evening: was 10 days that I didn't use it and so I decided to awaken my prostate. I did an hour session with sgx and was pleasurable, my cock became semi erect a couple of times, a bit of precum came out: I felt and then slept really well!!!

So yesterday I decided to try something new, splitting one two hours session in two one hour: The first before lunch, the second after lunch.

Let me talk about the first: i prepared myself as usual: waterlube inside, thin coat of vaseline on the SGX. I inserted it very, very, very slowly and this time I'm lying on my back, with legs bent and slightly open and feet firmly flat on the bed.

After a couple of minutes while I breathed deeply, I felt a tingling sensation in my whole lower body, spreading from my pelvic area down to the ankles: This sensation covered me for the whole session while others overlap it.
The most enjoyable was the uncontrollable shivering of the both legs, started very slowly. I try to relax, to stop them, but was impossible.
During the session tingling and legs shaking involves my anus to a neverending pumping… and so a neverending p stimulation: so i feel very hot in my belly and a leak of precum and an Orgasm arrived at the end. Read more »

Something new, incredible and unexpected

<from: https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14446/something-new-incredible-and-unexpected-#Item_1 >

Hello to all of you.

During my past post on my thread, started 2 years ago, I told you that during all of those years nothing important happend during the use of my SGX till last week when I reach some interesting goals.

But something more happend during this weekend: something incredible and unexpected of course.

Last Monday I decided to wait for a while to use my device and I scheduled the session during Friday night. I went to sleep and I inserted the SGX. I feel pretty good and I focused on every sensation it gave to me and came from my body: a lot of wave pleasure from my pelvic area, involuntary smooth anal contraction.

I slept a while and when I woke up I felt distinctly my prostate throb and at the same time a heat wave was spreading on my belly. I checked my dick because I thought I had come in the meantime: he was relaxed and just a little wet.

After a couple of hours I started to feel my anus a while tired and keep aneros was not comfortable, so I decided to finish that so nice session.

The next day, after having breakfast with my wife who is not aware of this thing, we went back to bed and we started kissing, touching and after we stripped naked we started to make love. Read more »