Tag: Super-O

Frustration. I fail at the contraction technique AND the relaxation technique after almost 1 year.

Here`s the deal:

The relaxing technique where you just lie there and relax your anus brings me SO close to the super O. The eletrical, warm and tingle-feeling, spasms and shaking, AND involuntaries. Last night my stomach contracted so hard that it felt like a workout : ) BUT, then it stops : (

When i use the contraction technique, i get to the eletrical, warm and tingle-fase. Then it stops. But i know why: At this fase my prostate has swelled up so that i loose touch with the muscles in my anus. The muscles gets tense and there is less room for movement.

After 1 year of practice i feel like a failure : (

Any tips? : )

Crossing the finish line

Well, it finally happened. Session before last I had my first Super-O. I know I've speculated that I might have reached that before, but there has always been some doubt in my mind. This time, there is no doubt at all. It felt exactly like I've read on the forums and wiki. And it is as wonderful as I could have imagined. I actually ended up having three Super-Os that session, and two more the following session. Now that I know how to achieve one, I am hopeful that this will be a regular occurance. I am also excited to see what else lies in store for me and the Aneros.

-Since I've been using regular )non-rechargeable( batteries, I have been making more use of the 'light-steady' setting on the vibrator, as it's now plenty strong enough to achieve orgasms )including one of the Super-Os mentioned above(. I suspect part of that has to do with my prostate being more sensitive as well. But now that all three vibrations strengths are effective, it's making my sessions more enjoyable….and a bit longer.

-In addition to my Super-O breakthrough above, I also have my first a-less orgasm. I was driving in my car on the way to a night out during the week when it happened. It was small, so not terribly distracting, but still enjoyable. But I had to adjust the way I was sitting, because I really didn't want it to become too much of a distraction while driving. I've been feeling my prostate quite a bit while sitting in both my office and home computer chairs, though nothing beyond that. Read more »

Edging both with Aneros and also in Aless

Hi guys,

Most young males when they discover masturbation or are shown it by a buddy encounter one of the most thrilling experiences of their lives. The very first orgasm with ejaculation of semen is a profound experience which happens to most guys in their adolescence, although quite few young males experience dry orgasms even earlier! Masturbation is autoeroticism at its best because masturbation gets a male in touch with his genitals and his body in a most profound way.

However, most adolescent males live at home with their parents and siblings where there is little privacy. So they have "quickies," masturbation episodes in as short a time as possible. That sets them up for premature ejaculation later in life which may impair conjugational relations with the woman they may marry.

However, more experienced masturbators will prolong their sessions as long as possible in order to maximize the pleasure derived from stimulation of their genitals. They learn in many cases a technique called "edging." A guy will ride the edge or threshold of ejaculatory inevitability in order to achieve a bigger "bang" in his orgasmic and ejaculatory pleasure. He will cum big. At the same time, he develops a powerful technique to pleasure his wife first, before actually cumming himself.

With summer approaching here, dawn arrives earlier. This morning, I rose early and got some groceries from my neighborhood 7-Eleven arriving back at 6:15 a.m. Then I prepared my favorite Aneros models for my session which I began around 6:45 a.m. Read more »

A few questions about the prostate and prostate play.

I am 55, straight, and have been enjoying my Aneros Helix and the Naughty Boy for about a year now. I always enjoyed ass play from when I was very young, and occasionally pegged with my wife, but now mostly use my toys when masturbating on my own. (I still enjoy great sex with my wife.)

Over the last year or so I have developed an enlarged prostate and have BPH, with moderate-to-severe bladder/urinary symptoms. (I think in the long run I will probably need TURP surgery to resolve my bladder symptoms.)

I have noticed recently, and most strongly just today, that after a session with my Naughty Boy my prostate was really sensitive and I had some pain for the first time. I should emphasize that I am very gentle with myself and use plenty of lube; I would consider myself pretty experienced with ass play and my own body, so I am not injuring myself out of ignorance. I have skirted the edge of the super-O path with the Aneros but mostly really enjoy the Naughty Boy and find it intensely pleasurable.

I have also recently had some feelings of very slight fever and feeling flushed after prostate play, and am wondering if prostatitis or just the stimulation of the prostate could cause this. I just saw my urologist last week and he ruled out any sort of infection, though he just tested my urine and did not extract prostate fluid or test that. He did a DRE which was normal (though the prostate is moderately enlarged). Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this – I am not expecting medical advice from reddit. Read more »

Coming up on three years with Aneros!

Hi guys,

Next month on June 3, I celebrate three years working with Aneros!

While I have yet to experience a Super-O, I am proud to say that now I seldom have a session that is an outright dud. Most every session is different and has something new to teach me. Every session is "fresh each morning," in most cases laden with pleasure, and after each session [with a few very exceptions] Aless kicks in, an afterglow which lasts for hours, even days if I do not have a session.

Aneros benefits after three years usage:

1. Aneros has gotten me in touch with my body in ways unimaginable because I seldom over the course of my life have had sexual encounters with other guys [I am gay]. I have never been in an intimate, committed relationship with anyone, male or female. Now at age 66, I am truly a confirmed bachelor. Yet, Aneros allows me to celebrate my sexuality all my own.

2. Aneros continues to teach me the subtleties of my body, psyche, and manhood that give me great happiness n my "retirement".

3. The states of pleasure that I experience in my Aneros and in Aless are varied, manifold, and subtle that can prepare me to be a caring and capable lover to any man that may come into my life even in my old age. It is still possible. Read more »

It’s been a long journey but I finally see my destination in the horizon

TL;DR multiple_o wrote a great post about how to approach a super-o, this post is about how to get the toy into you and enjoy it, because that's step 1 in this crazy thrill ride.

First of all, I've always found that referring to aneros playtime as a journey was kind of corny. I assumed it was some jargon by the aneros marketing team or something, and discounted it…but damn! I couldn't have been more wrong and I couldn't be happier. After a long 10-year "getting to know you" with my ass and prostate, I can finally say that we are no longer in the intro phase and I'm onto some really great things.

From a young age, I've always known that there was more to this whole sex thing than just my cock. I remember getting hard-ons and never knowing what to do with them. Hard as steel accompanied by a faint "ache" from within my crotch. Sometimes it was a subtle ache but other times I could literally feel my pulse within my groin. I obviously didn't know it at the time, but I've been having A-less contractions since high school and it's taken me 10 years to fully understand It.

So why did it take so long for me to finally get a super-o if I started with a leg up? Maybe hearing my issues from the past will help those struggling in the present, and no one else will have to wade through 10 years of frustration. Read more »

Aneros and Weed

I've seen how weed is consistently mentioned as one of the best tools to help you get to the Super-O, but nobody mentions many details. So say you were in Colorado, where weed is legal. How much weed would you smoke to use the aneros, just a puff, a whole bowl? Would you smoke before or after insertion? Would you smoke indica or sativa?

Feel free to mention other little details about getting there. I've often wondered, for example whether it would be better to be well rested and energetic, or to do it post work-out.

Past Anal-Play History and Introduction

hello there!

I thought I’d also track my journey to the Super-O. Also, since this is an incredibly personal journey, there isn’t anyone I can share with – except for you and this community. Thank you for being there for me and thank you to all the previous posters in the forums and blogs- I have learned huge amounts about my body, the potential experience and your intimate teachings.

So… Every journey must have a beginning… And as I eagerly await my 3 new arrivals tomorrow, let me start from the beginning. …

I’m a 47 yr heterosexual married father… But my wife is not GGG )never very sexual( and so I have always sought release through multiple other avenues. I travel a lot internationally and have safely played but never the intimacy i seek. I have always been “in touch” with my anus and found my internal prostate a few years ago. Not frequently but always enjoyed the addition of a finger while masturbating. I have also tried penile estim which was very interesting but the contraption and setup never made it easy or spontaneous. I also tried an Aneros long ago but didn’t give it the proper time and understanding… So I binned it. Read more »

Runaway Freight Train

In the 8 years that I have been a practitioner, I continue to be amazed at the continual learning process involved in anal / prostate orgasm. There seems to be endless opportunity to experiment with stimulation, erotic imagery, and breathing to climb to new heights of pleasure. Each session as I learn more and more I get greater skill at coaxing serene ecstasy from my anus, cock, and perineum.

The key seems to be getting the pleasure to a level that is intense enough that it can fall back into latency, requiring only simple encouragement to get it to reemerge, blossom and express excruciatingly divine euphoria. For me performing A Less it can take me 20 minutes to get to that point; with my Tempo inserted or an N Joy Phun Plug …. It can take 10 minutes.

So after between 10 – 20 minutes of pleasure waves my anus will be primed. In that state I can stop urging the orgasms to rise and fall and leave the erotic sensation to just idle quietly. I can leave the orgasmic ecstasy laying just beneath the surface of my awareness, where it waits for me to release it. When the super o is loaded deep in my anal tract and ready to fire, I can experiment and manipulate it causing indescribable bliss. The hardest part about being poised in that mental – physical state on the verge of super o is maintaining mental clarity and focus and remembering to breathe. I will also sustain erotic images in my mind to keep the pleasure teetering on the edge of an ecstatic precipice. It is all too easy to become totally passive and let my body do what it wants as opposed to being relaxed and aware and consciously controlling what I am doing to keep the orgasmic fire stoked and make pleasure flares soar to yield agonizing orgasmic euphoria. Read more »

Sweet, vibrant Aneros energy!

Hi guys,

Even though today I need to continue working on my taxes, earlier this morning I had a session that nearly blew me away.

This morning I used only the following models in succession: Helix Classic, Maximus, Tempo, Progasm Classic.

First I began with Helix Classic. It seemed that it "fit" me perfectly and massaged all the sweet spots in my anal canal, and along and around my prostate. I purposely avoided anal contractions and focused on the "do-nothing-approach." Wow! Immediately there was sweet, vibrant energy surrounding my prostate and the Helix Classic it did its magic. In a way, what I experienced is similar to what physicists are trying to do in causing sustainable and "safe" nuclear fusion. They are trying to put the nuclear fuel of heavy or tritium Hydrogen in a "bottle" of plasma to ignite nuclear fusion. This is what happened to me this morning with my awakened prostate and Helix Classic in this bottle of sweet, yet vibrant energy. I think this was the experience of Getting in the Zone with Aneros or Zoneros! While in Zoneros, I focused on the sweet, vibrant sexual pleasure, and its dynamics and textures. I get horny thinking about all this.

Same thing happened Maximus. Maximus does reach along and around my prostate as it massages it. I thought I was going to die from pleasure! Read more »