aneros getting pushed out?

Been at this for a couple years with some success but no super O. Had a sort of breakthrough where I really tried to embrace the urge to pee feeling and actively did “reverse kegels” and “pushing out”, basically as if I was actually trying to pee. Result was really intense sensations/contractions and WAY more precum than typical sessions. But the toy itself also wanted to come out, and did a couple times. I also realized why people feel the need to do an enema before a session vs just taking a shower.

Is this maybe a pelvic floor muscle isolation thing, and I can learn to let precum flow more freely while also not pushing the aneros out? Maybe I just need to dial back the pushing, or maybe I should try a different toy or lube (using coconut oil)?

I Created a Handy Logbook for Tracking Prostate Orgasms & Super O’s

When things get really intense, I sometimes forget certain things that happened while I was twisting and turning in heaven… maybe you do the same? Well, I made a handy place where you can note your thoughts and what happens when, where, and how. I use it and find it extremely helpful to remember my sessions. Let me know if it helps you! You can find it here: [Click Me](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08YNKTVH4)

Prostate porn videos make it look easy..

My head is a mess with all of this.

I’m told I need to relax and do nothing…which can result in amazing feelings but no orgasm, it feels amazing.

I’m told I need to clench down via my kegels and anal contractions… Which feels amazing but no orgasm.

I see videos of guys fucking themselves and they cum in minutes, sometimes seconds!

The guys that are fucking hard is that a simple prostate orgasm?

Is the Aneros designed for a super O?

Asking for a friend……

How do you go into a session without expectations?

People have posted that going into a session with no expectations is the greatest way to induce super o’s.

But what does that mean exactly? When you go into any session, in the BACK of your mind, you ARE expecting/hoping for an orgasm. Right? How do you expect nothing when you secretly are?

Please explain.

NJOY Pure wand, A tale from the land of O.

Apologies for posting a non Aneros subject in advance – Mod’s remove if it’s misplaced as no offense is intended.

Introduction
The pure wand is big solid heavy and beautiful to look at and touch with it’s highly polished medical grade steel reflecting back the first time users (me in this case) slightly apprehensive face.

Comparison to Progasm Ice
Totally different size wise. Until recently I found the progasm too big for me, but of late have come to love the full feeling it gives and the orgasms that come with it. Looking at both I note that other than the rounded tips of the NJOY the overall girth of the NJOY is smaller than the Progasm, so other than initial insertion and removal the NJOYS Size shouldn’t give anyone used to Progasm sized toys any great difficulty.
Being surgical steel it actually uses less lube than the progasm in my so far limited experience anyway.

The no chemicals/weed 5+min orgasm.

After finally getting to what I assume is super O land on a little bit of weed (as a prestart booster) and low amounts of poppers, I wanted to see if the wiring had adjusted enough to super O on nothing but meditation and a few stretches.
Chose the helix syn over progasm (because I need to be hyper relaxed to get to good places on the progasm).
Meditated for 15 min.
Stretched. Inserted well lubed Syn.
Gentle wave contractions. Couple of big squeeze and holds and… off we go… series of pwaves first then a slow pgasm then some more pwaves, then a single HUGE PGASM that rolled through me for I have no idea how long but minutes passed as I drifted into space cadet land the orgasm ebbed and peaked and ebbed and just when I thought I was coming off it, it climbed higher.
My throat is sore from gasping and trying not to scream.
So yes – amazing things can happen off chemicals and perhaps being 2 days off Cigarettes is helping also (low nicotine vaping instead).
Wasn’t a long session but in the name of scientific research I am so glad I went on it.

Experienced users, what would you say the difference is between a P-gasm, P-wave and a super-O?

Wondering because I think I may have had my first full P-wave tonight. Was just relaxing thinking about something random with the toy in and all of a sudden felt this warm jolt go through my body for a good couple seconds, then disappear. After that nothing else really happened but I’m happy with the result, I had this same feeling a month or more back but it only lasted for like a second or maybe less, so I’m glad I’m making *some* progress. I just wish more could have happened after it, and am wondering if this is what maybe hitting a plateau means?

Female question

Can a women use this sex toy? Will it also work? Or is this super orgasm stuff specifically for men? I’ve heard a lot of talk from various subreddits about the wonders of anal orgasms and this toy. But I’ve seen nothing on whether it’s just a man thing?

First Progasm PGasm in over 3 weeks.

Hey guys.

So, managed to PGasm with the progasm for the first time in over 3 weeks.

The last time was during the 4 days of my initial PGasm success about 4 weeks ago.

Since then i have managed one session of full PGasm whilst A-Less (OMG, on many levels) and another A-Less session with PGasms that were awesome but definitely of lower intensity.

This mornings session with the Progasm though was great. it was about an hour with about 4 distinct periods where pleasure rose up to trigger Pgasm 4 times.

Over this past month i have definitely learned a lot.

When i had my first A-Less PGasm about 2.5 weeks ago it really allowed me to chill the fuck out about managing to repeat my initial PGasm successes. ever since then i have been happy with whatever pleasure cums my way during a session. Much more chilled.

I have also been able to really just experience what is happening. When i am thinking about this out of session i think a lot about that multiple orgasm graph that i am sure we are probably familiar with. The graph shows peaks and valleys of pleasure over time that eventually reach the peak of orgasm, dip down and then reach orgasm again (and again).

I can really see the accuracy of this graph now.

What device should I try next?

I started with the progasm ice and have had fun with that absolutely love it. Tons of hfwo but no super O. Orgasm feels better than a regular orgasm but I don’t quite think I’ve had a super O.

Looking on suggestions on what to try next.