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A-less Dry orgasm?

Well last night was a lot of fun. Smoked some weed with my wife and went to bed. Feel like I woke up a few hours later with the strong buzzing so I decided to ride it out and really get to know those sensations. This whole thing probably went for three hours with a lot of peaks and valleys, could feel the shortening of breathing and how a breath in/out affects the sensations. Also realized how those kegel exercises help out with this, I thought of it similar to a wind up toy (when the buzzing was subsiding, I’d do some quick squeezes to start it all up again). Also the various fantasies/memories of all the sexy kinky encounters had such an amazing impact on the session. Then at the peak, I felt like I came but was for sure dry, I didn’t feel any dampness but it felt like a normal release. This is a huge milestone for me! Made more progress without the aneros than the past few sessions I’ve had.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

Not Hitting the Spot

Not entirely new to prostate play (wife has been helping with manual stimulation for the past few months). I wanted to see what Aneros was all about, so I ordered a Progasm Jr. I thought the shaped looked like what I wanted. It arrived yesterday and I was excited to give it a go.

Inserted and waited for the magic to begin. I was sitting on the couch relaxed and trying to just experience the sensations. Played with varying muscle contractions.

After an hour or two, I can honestly say it is not really hitting my P-spot. I did find that I can push/pull the P Tab down a half inch or so and get it in the right place, so I think it is just a bit too deep for my anatomy.

I haven’t tried other positions, but I was really hoping for the hands-free pleasure that I have been reading about.

Am I missing something?

Total n00b to all this ass play, but I think im a natural. Did I set some kind of rewiring record?

I had intense euphoria my first use of the Helix syn starting from the first inch being inserted. kept up for an hour plus some minor O’s that took my breath away and made me a clear believer.

Next session a couple days later used a program Jr instead of the helix syn. Dry orgasms started coming repeatedly within 10 minutes of trying different positions. These happened over and over again for over an hour till I couldn’t take anymore. Found some positions paid off more than others.

3rd night the prograsm Jr again. within short order i went from nonstop O’s to full on Super Os that came in waves and made me hope my wife didn’t come downstairs because I looked like I was having seizures while moaning dirty talk to my self like a freak in heat lol. always found porn dirty talk kind of corny but I was talking to myself and the aneros like I was a bitch in heat I was so overwhelmingly turned on. at 45yo, never been this turned on in my life. thinking about nothing but my own body sensations. This goes on for 2 hours, some Super Os leaving me breathless and contorted… it’s exhausting lol.

4th night felt good but didn’t really
stimulate the same for some reason.. no orgasms. wondering if I overdid and numbed things so I took a one day break. Read more »

Seeking other senior (65+) married men new to prostate play

My wife and I engaged in a few strapon sessions over the years and I played with butt plugs and dildos alone. I didn’t know special prostate play toys existed or that it was pretty mainstream now until recently. I thought I was strange.

To other seniors, how does your wife accept your prostate play? Do you do it alone or just together?

I would love to chat with another mature married man.

Amazing session

The farther I travel on this journey, the better it gets! Last nights session was beyond amazing. As my prostate awakens I find that I can tell when a session is going to be good. I start feeling a wam dull ache in my pelvis that tells me the prostate is wanting attention. I definitely felt that signal last night.
I think that my pre-session preparation rituals are also important in having a successful session. I start off an hour before with taking my supplement stack, which includes Horny Goat Weed, L-Arginine, Maca root, Saw Palmetto, and others. After a warm shower, I consume about 50 mg of edible, high-THC cannabis. I pre-lube with a homemade coconut oil suppository. I start building arousal with some edging to a bit of porn. When I feel the THC kick in, I insert my first Aneros device. Last night that was my Eupho Trident.
Sometimes the Eupho gives me terrific Pgasms, but last night it it didn’t kick the session into high gear, so after 15 minutes of the do-nothing approach I switched it out with my Helix Trident. I started getting some Pwaves almost instantly. Once I start getting good feelings in my prostate I start doing hits on my popper bottle. After that first hit last night I tried to drop into my deepest relaxation and erase any expectation and welcome whatever my prostate decides to give me and the first big orgasm hits like a runaway freight train and lasted a good 2 minutes. I know, I watched the tape…
A second hit of popper triggers another 2+ minutes of orgasm. I remember thinking, “This is the best it’s ever been!” just before the next peak in intensity felt twice as good!
At a break in the action I swapped in my Progasm, always one of my favorites. As before, another couple of popper hits led to two breathtakingly massive orgasms over another 5 minutes time. Needing a break, I removed old faithful and just relaxed, enjoying the involuntaries that were making my anus twitch, and the warm glow coming off my prostate, asking for more.
Finally, I inserted my nJoy pFun to end the session with a bang, as it were. Damn, that plug is amazing! The three big Os that followed were, here I go again, “the best ever!” I am pretty vocal during these orgasms, and these had me sobbing, laughing hysterically, and moaning in pleasure all at once. All this time, my cock had been pretty hard, unusual for my typical session, but not this time. I was able to end on a high note with a great super-T. This morning I came again as my wife gave oral while I stroked with the small end of my PureWand. I don’t know how something a can just keep getting better over time like this and never top out!

Progasm slight modification, holy shit it works

I have started my journey a year ago, with some good achievements although not very consistent and repeatable. I bought an aneros progasm a couple of months ago, before I have always used vibrating prostate massagers. To be honest, the aneros felt like a chore to use, and even though I could see the potential, I haven’t really had the patient to use it further, so I got back to vibrating massagers.

Some thing that really annoys me is the p-tab that really carves my perineum, and may also be a source of distraction from the main event. I have also suspected that the pressure in the prostate wasn’t right. So yesterday, I decided to use a heat gun to lower the p-tab, like a cm lower.

I decide to give it a go and holy shit, being the p-tab lower allows an angle that hit the prostate with more pressure, and also the p-tab is now pressing just the right amount. I feels really good now, and after 30 minutes of pleasurable build up, I was about to cum. I have stopped because I am saving my energy for a session with my wife and I wasn’t sure about the kind of orgasm that would result, but definitely amazing.

If you have a progasm and is not working for you, this may be the solution. Should you need it I can post an image of the final result.

Recognizing a prostate orgasm?

I’ve had an Aneros — one of the basic models — for years now, but I’ve generally only used it when I’m doing things with my wife. I finally decided “What the hell” and tried giving the HFO a shot.

Until last night, I’ve not had much luck. I’ve been practicing my muscle control but it’s still very difficult for me to clench in a gradual and controlled fashion. It feels nice, but it doesn’t do much beyond that. Plus, for some reason it’s sometimes difficult for me to remain hard when I’m being penetrated: I have to be *very* turned on for that, and concentrating on the aneros makes it difficult to maintain that level of arousal.

But last night, I put it in early and left it in place for an hour or two ahead of time. We had some pot last night, and I was feeling nice and relaxed, and was in just the right mind space to keep myself good and hard. And then something happened. I was convulsing a little, making noises that I don’t normally make, but it didn’t feel…orgasmic. It felt really good, but not nearly at the level of a full-blown orgasm. Nor was it as satisfying as a regular orgasm, not by a long shot.

So, not sure. Am I on the right track, do you think? And what can I do to achieve something better?

Wife was out

Knew my wife was out. I got in lubed up aneros. Normally I lay on the bed, but this lifted one leg on to bed a slide it in. Straight away per cum shot out. (This never normally happens) it was very thick thicker than normal. I have to eat it felt Possessed the more I moved it the more came out, the urge to eat more cum, took over me. I put leg down and I could feel small orgasms and more cum it was thicker and sweeter than normal, then a large amount came out enough to fill my hand I had to eat it, taste it, it was like heaven. Not like an orgasm when I Masturbate. I stopped but wanted more. I am still so horny. I feel like I need a bigger one. My cum was ver thick. Does this happen to other people.

Thanks

Routine

How many guys follow a specific routine leading up to aneros sessions? Lately for me it’s been to insert an nJoy large plug at least an hour before I start and continue to go about business letting the plug warm me up. It also helps me evacuate any lingering bowels for some reason. I then take it out and typically will hit a THC pen, take a hot shower and edge for a bit in the shower, followed up with some casual porn viewing and maybe more edging. At this point I’ll insert the aneros and watch a little tv while I let it settle, then watch more porn but not touch myself at all. I’ll start to get involuntaries about 30 min in at most and at that point I’ll turn porn off and put in some wireless ear buds and listen to some binaural beats. I’ve been doing this for the past couple sessions with some moderate success. Oddly enough the best time has been when I was laying in bed next to my wife.

What have you found works and doesn’t work in terms of routine?

First Time [Probable] Prostate Sensation: Holy Cow, What Just Happened?

I… I am simply trying to grasp what happened. Sorry this is long but I need to type this out.

Introduction. Bought an Aneros years ago. Couldn’t figure out how to enjoy it properly. Put it away for a few years, brought it back out every once in awhile to try again but still, no luck. About 2 months ago I decided to really put some effort into it, really practice, so I started placing it in during the later evening and just relaxing. Vaping some weed, sitting on the couch and just letting myself be.

Then for the first time ever, after about an hour or so, I felt something. Something different. It didn’t feel good per se, but it was a sensation in a region of my body I never had felt before. The first few times I did this, I thought, “I’m just high, this is all in my head. I’m pretending this sensation is there.” But with more times just sitting there with it in and high, it started pinpointing it more. One night, I had dozed off with it in, and suddenly woke up to something pulsing underneath. It was pleasurable, and I suddenly realized that this was not in my head. Went and sat on my bed and just let it happen. It felt good, but I didn’t feel rushed. You know how when you’re stimulating your penis, and it feels so damn good, but if you stop, it just feels… wrong somehow? Like it’s almost upsetting, you HAVE to keep going or you’re the experience will not be worth it? You just NEED to keep going? This sensation is different. It’s like, and I’m synesthetic so bare with me here, penile sensation is sharp, pointed and linear: it demands more and more. But this new sensation? It felt more circular, spherical, like a soft bubble floating up from the depths and pushing my insides. I didn’t care if it increased, it just felt really nice. For years I had never understood how my wife (and other women) could say that sex felt great *even if they didn’t orgasm*. It just didn’t make sense! How could you not want to finish? Doesn’t it make you feel antsy, almost angry if you don’t? Read more »