My doctor decided to take me off the meds as my BP and Cholesterol did not test out any lower. Funny thing is, now off the meds my BP is averaging a little lower and my cholesterol is testing lower too 🙂 But then I’ve been getting quite a bit more exercise. Wife and I have decided to continue with the sexless marriage, at least until she is totally done with her perimenopause phase – which has been going on for years. Once she goes into true menopause, then there will be no need for birth control eg condoms and we may both feel like re-starting things – especially Karezza as it would be easier on her – given dryness. Truth be told, I am actually turned on by the sexless marriage thing – it fans my homoerotic side somehow 🙂 Right now I would like to explore my bi side online with other like minded men of a similar age and in a similar situation.
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Year Nine Milestones, Plateaus and Pinacles
The MMO journey I have been on started in 2005. Along the way there have been so many milestones and experiences, they would be impossible to remember if it were not for the fact that I recorded them in an on line journal I began in 2011. Each milestone or event has been a building block that created a foundation for the sexual rapture I routinely experience now. The building and learning process was precipitous those first few years. Because I was learning and experiencing so much there were literally hundreds of sensations, techniques and changes in my sexual response in the first 9 years. Some of these I have shared here in this forum, but I am sure that if I were to try to relate them all it would be impossible.
However, year nine was special. I reached a plateau or a pinnacle in my 9th year in 2013. It was a watershed year that solidified MMO and anal pleasure in my sex life. There were several skills – achievements that I will relate here in this entry; there were also some major event – milestones that deserve detailed descriptions. I will focus this entry on the skills and achievements and the next several entries on the numerous remarkable sexual events of 2013.
What a weekend. Probably fifty SO’s
Started a new job. It really keeps my mind occupied so I don’t get very wound up prostate wise during the week. Prostate
came to life with a vengeance this weekend.
Yesterday, Saturday, on my way in I started playing with my nipples in the car. Had at least four A-less in the twenty five miles
to work. When I got home I sat down and started playing with my nipples again. At this point I was wound up pretty well so getting
off another eight or so was no problem. Later, my wife went out so I got about forty-five minutes with my PS-New. This worked
like it never has before. Wasn’t long before the fun started and I had at least another fifteen if not twenty.
Today I started with the Progasm Black-Ice. Wasn’t a minute until I had my first SO. After twenty minutes or so and probably fifteen
SO’s. I switched to the PS-New. WHAM! Things started going again. after five or so SO’s with it I switched back to the Progasm.
After a little while it was back to the PS-New. Had a good SO probably every minute through this session. Some incredible, some
not so incredible but still good.
I found the PS-New moves a lot more than the Progasm which I think helps in its performance. Used to be I felt it was too long and
was uncomfortable but that has passed.
current findings & updates
Latest updates. Some findings, things I’m going to do different, kind of long.
Got helix all polished up, ultra shiny and as smooth as progasm jr. Going to do a little more to see if I can get that deep glass look, almost there. Joining is so much easier, glides in so smoothly and takes hardly any lube unlike before. I have also changed over to using just straight silicone lube, ‘wet anal’. Only takes .3cc prelube and a drop on the tool spread out to go all night, plus because of the molecular make up it is not absorbed into the skin, molecules are much larger than water based lubes so no drying out or having to reapply on those long sessions. A side benefit is it makes the skin feel smooth and supple even after cleanup.
I think I am starting to get a feel for my rhythm. Whether pre ejac release or full on refractory ejac I have an every other day cycle, ie day 1 nothing, day 2 things start to get moving, day 3 slightly more than nothing but not much, day 4 really picking up, day 5 caries on from day before. day 6 ok but not great, day 7 getting better but seems to plateau but duds seem fewer but not great. So based on these findings and my previous experiment I was going to start doing light pressure releasing, just enough to keep things flowing.
My Eighth Year and the Trinity
Once I crossed the “sexual line” with a guy midyear in year seven, the rest of that year just disappeared into the abyss of forgotten events and experiences. That event overshadowed everything else that might have happened. I can’t recall much. I know I did sessions every time I traveled, which was two times per month. I was gone three – four days for each trip. That translates to somewhere between 40 – 60 sessions per year but honestly I don’t remember any of them. By that time Aneros orgasms were a sweet and savored part of my life, but they had become as routine as sex. Some were great I am sure and some probably weren’t . None the less I continued to learn and savor the euphoric rewards my body was giving me.
In January, the start of my eighth year I reached a significant milestone, that was launching my A Less sessions in my wife’s derriere; this is something that I still do to this day. It happened one night when she was wearing a tee shirt and no panties to bed leaving her bare rear exposed. We happened to be spooning at 4 AM, my “witching hour” for MMO. My morning erection happened to slip into the warm caress of her bottom. Spontaneously unbidden the MMO just started. She was sleeping and I was lodged in her crack as tortuous pleasure made my cock root pulse and impaled my anus. These A Less sensations were subtle but strong, stronger than any other A Less orgasms I had had at that point. Key was laying still and not jumping around or twitching and waking her.
It’s Complicated
My first Aneros arrived fourteen years ago this week. I remember it well. I was like a kid on Christmas Eve, waiting anxiously. I had been lurking in the forums (which was all we had here at the time, there was no chat yet). I asked questions occasionally but mainly I read in wonderment until I got brave enough to mail for my MGX.
The seven year mark was a very easy milestone to remember as well as it was the year that I exercised my post rewiring curiosity about M- M sex. As this post says , it was complicated. I have posted this narrative once before on my last blog and I was not sure if I was going to post it again, but it was such a milestone in my Aneros Journey, the story is incomplete without including it. I post it also for all the “curious” guys in the forum who wonder themselves.
In my post rewiring world the sexual man that I was was bent in an arc that surprised me beyond my wildest dreams. In my adolescence I would purchase nudist magazines in Times Square in the “dirty magazine” shops to see both men and women nude. I always had a fascination with nudity of both sexes. Post rewiring this inclination amplified tenfold. Beyond my voyeuristic tendencies rewiring expanded my own exhibitionistic tendencies. My sexual bravado had evolved exponentially. When I joined here that January, Artform told me about Dicknet; he was a member. Dicknet was a forum for guys to share intimate pictures and chat about their sexual proclivities in a chat room and in personal messages. Art and I spent many hours chatting there about many personal things beyond our cocks and sex.
Anticipation (and other tidbits)
Things have been mostly wonderful since my last posting. I have come somewhat out of my euphoric fog and am more engaged with other parts of life; still more adjustments to be made in this new life.
Yesterday morning I danced with Helix in the shower, orgasmically but also knowing that this is a predictable part of my new routine. Throughout the day I began thinking about having Aless in bed that night, and the anticipation got me more and more excited throughout the day. Because I am a snorer and my wife is a light sleeper, we sleep in separate rooms. So bedtime is private time, but I can’t rattle the bed without the family knowing I’m up to something fun. By the time I was getting ready for bed, I was getting a mini-o with the slightest provocation. In fact, I itched a particularly itchy spot on my foot and got a mini-o from that. Crazy but why not? I had also been planning throughout the day that the next morning would be the first time Helix and me would be alone for a protracted period of time since she had arrived. I had planned a soaking bath with washcloth massaging of my breasts and groin along with the cleaning that would go on. Then I was going to allow myself as much time as I wanted to lay with Helix in bed and see what she and my body wanted to do.
When I got in bed I wasn’t sure that I wasn’t going to just go to sleep, but I decided to rub my chest and see what my body told me to do. Well…… I had an incredible time of MMOs and dry Os. Everything was turning me on. I hadn’t really thoroughly cleaned my hole, and I didn’t have any lube nearby, so I didn’t wander near my anus with my hands (butt cheeks were included). However, my whole body was one big erogenous zone. I’ve heard men talk about feeling like their whole body was a penis, and that’s how I felt. Any touch would elicit a spasm. I also really love tenting myself under the sheets so I can smell my body and the musk my body produces during these sessions. Last night I could have a mini just by smelling that scent. Did I say that everything was turning me on?
Wake Up Call
Well…its been 5 days since my last ejaculation. Also 5 days since my last bit of prostate play. Between work and just being tired…just havent had a chance to explore with myself. Well this morning I had an opportunity. The wife left for work early and it was just me and the dog. Started to look at some pics on Reddit and that got me warmed up pretty quickly. Today showed a lot of growth in my prostate stimulation journey. Once I got to the state of pure arousal…I pretty much stayed there for 30 mins and the only reason why it didn’t last any longer was because I needed to walk the dog.
30 mins of pure tingling sprinkled with very intense super-Os that made my head spasm. Thats actually the tell tale sign I am having a super-O. My head shakes involuntarily like I am having a seizure, my toes curl and relax without me really doing anything, my body is rigid but doing like the most minute spasming. It all feels like an exquisite rumble emanating from the center of my body. Most of the time my cock is rock hard but sometimes it starts out super soft and then the longer I am in the state my cock just rises. It’s such a good and relaxing feeling.
The Beat Goes On
So looking back to my 7th year of Aneros practice, I can say Aneros made me into a new man. In January 2012, I was 59 years old with the sex drive I had at 30, but I was wiser, more self aware and more patient. When I say I was a new man, my outlook on sex and sexual pleasure had become very open and enlightened. I can objectively say I was made to be a more sensual man. My outlook on life and sexual pleasure became more Zen like. Although my home life was very conventional my career was always just a little outside the box; Aneros made my sex life a little outside the box just as my career was. I really had a more laid back attitude towards success and traditional achievement than my peers and I had a deeper more convoluted attitude towards sex than my friends and acquaintances. I came to enjoy life and my sex life as a result of my shifted mental state.
As for sex, in my seventh year I took the leap to explore male – male sexual exploration with a very safe guy I met on line in a very safe forum. We met once. Like me he was a married – curious guy, but he was 20 years younger than I. It was both our first times. We spent a weekend together in a hotel. That will be another entry.
Sixth Year Milestone
In the summer of my sixth year, mid way to my seventh year of Aneros the nature of my need for sexual pleasure and my response to arousal had shifted totally as a result of rewiring. Arousing images and fantasies still coaxed my penis to erection but at the same time a sexy woman or male penis porn or an erotic dream or writing my erotica would make my anus tingle and twinge and make my nipples erect.
However as much as rewiring bent my sexuality in an arc that I never would have predicted it also enhanced my sex practices and expanded my existing desires and proclivities.
My sex life began in reality when I was 19; from that date on it was focused solely on penis in vagina sex and masturbation. When I met my wife and we became intimate my prurient focus added oral sex on her. For both of us the most intense and pleasurable orgasms we both have occur during oral sex, whether it is me on her or her on me or in 69. Aside from rewiring and my orgasms I absolutely love my wife’s pussy. Licking her slot, suckling her clit or massaging her G spot with a finger it’s all good for me. Likewise I love to be sucked; the visual turn on is a huge influence on my orgasm and ejaculation. Fucking has been and still is a way for me to feel close to my wife. Like many women she loves it because she loves the fullness that penetration with my large penis provides. She loves the lurching tug of my shaft inside her and the swelling contracting action of my cock head that accompanies pumping of my ejaculate inside her. Having her juice my penis as I embrace her provides a visceral bond that is not available through any other means.