Going on my second week w/o cumming…super turned up, pretty much all the time at this point. My wife and I usually have great sex about once a week with teasing and play inbetween (she knows about my pgasms and how to bring me to them with external petting and stimulation), but we had family in town and I knew this past weekend was a no go. Nipple play and aless sessions are CRAZY intense right now. I’m usually good for about 5-7 days and then I’m just out of my mind and end up cumming. This is usually a pretty good formula and timeframe for a great sex life. I occasionally have the chance to make it last longer, that time of the month, family visits, travel, etc…
My question for the pros is…does this intensity keep ratcheting up the longer you go w/o ejaculating or does you body adjust and it sort of plateaus or goes in the opposite direction? I’ve heard of abstaining leading to wet dreams and hfwo, just wondering where to go from here.
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Cock Head Massage
Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.
If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.
When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O.
My Second Tryst Part 4
My anal orgasms were fluttering and melting away in pleasant gentle pulsing spasms as I trembled in quiet arousal. As they faded, I remained on my back on the rumpled bed savoring the sweet anguish of orgasmic after glow. The Tempo was still inside me pressing gently on my prostate; it was passively provoking my prostate sending lingering sexy chills up my spine. He had lain down next to me, his skin was warm on mine. I put my arm around him and drew him to me; as I did I looked down at his penis which was fully erect.
Mine was laying on my belly semi erect pointing due north as was his. The experience of looking at two erect cocks laying side by side was unusual for me to say the least. He had one of the most beautiful cocks I had ever been given the chance to gaze at; it was mesmerizing. I love cocks. I love cock heads, I love how an erect penis looks and feels and I love to watch them ejaculate. Most of all though I love to suck and taunt cock heads with my tongue as the tip of my tongue parts the delicate slit at the tip, toying with it. I love to trace the rigid crown that defines a well sculpted corona with my tongue until it swells and erupts his ejaculate.
My Second Tryst Part 3
Part 3
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.
The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me.
Progasm tab broke – which aneros replacement do you recommend?
I glued the tab back on and had has held for a couple of PIV sessions with the wife, but i don’t expect that to last long term.
I had been looking for an additional aneros toy, something thinner, as the progasm messes with my hard-on quite a bit.
If you were to recommend an aneros toy, which one and why? Maybe stock with another progasm?
As an FYI, aneros is offering 20% off right now…
Rolling p-waves and blurting out my secrets
In the last couple of weeks I’ve had several break throughs and come further than I thought possible.
In my last post, I shared how I started with my Aneros Eupho before my wife joined me with her dildo and proceeded to fuck the cum out out of me.
Yesterday, was in some ways even more amazing.
I headed to bed early again with my Eupho, and was soon rolling with p-waves. I took some advice from r/aneros about how a p-wave itself *is* the prostate orgasm, just that it’s a mild form, and to just lt them keep building.
So after about an hour, my wife came up to bed. By this point I was a hot mess – moaning gently, shaking, and giving her needy looks.
She lay next to me and just started kissing me – gently exploring my mouth with her tongue. I know kissing is big turn on for her, and for the first time I could actually feel why.
Some more waves came and went, and she sat next to me in bed just watching – such a turn on!
She asked what she could do, so I just said to play with herself and passed her the dildo that she fucked me with last time.
All good so far – but this is when a dam seemed to break in me, as I gently moaned. I felt so much love radiating from being gently kneeded inside. I just decided to go for it and share some kinks and secrets that I’ve held back from telling her.
My Journey and Questions
I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have three questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position on my knees with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them because my wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Question: Is this unusual and do you get addicted? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to have uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my next question. I have tried the do-nothing method, but I always end up with involuntary shaking. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it as it makes the Aneros massage my prostate which feels really good. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Sometimes I enjoy grabbing the Aneros and using it to manually massage my prostate harder than just letting it float. It feels good, but occasionally my prostate feels a little sore for a day thereafter. So, my last question is, can I harm my prostate by using more force to massage it? I don’t want to damage it. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
My Journey
I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have two questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them. My wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Is this unusual? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to get to uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my other question. I have tried the do nothing method, but I always end up shaking, and I cannot control it. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
Aless Extraordinaire
My last full Aneros session was on Feb 25 in anticipation of a sigmoidoscopy procedure scheduled for March 4th. I’ve been riding on the Aless wagon ever since. This hiatus gave me a chance to try new ways of achieving prostate pleasures including the use of reverse Kegels and other methods.
Last night, my Aless session involved rubbing my perineum vigorously while diddling my nipples coupled with deep diaphragm breathing. Towards the end, I fully engaged my penis for an extended period of edging and then reverted back to my perineum/nipple play. I was very surprised as to how pleasurable the entire experience was.
After doing this for a few hours, I retired to bed (at midnight). As I lay in bed beside me very sound asleep wife, I was enjoying the tingling of my prostate area. Not asleep yet but drifting, suddenly, a massive wave of pleasure engulfed my entire body. This was undoubtedly an orgasm but not an earth-shattering one. It was more like calm seas but it lasted several minutes. The feeling then subsided only to return several minutes later but with even less intensity.
This had happened several times before but I was never sure if they were in my dreams or reality. Last night, however, confirmed that they are real and very pleasurable. So parts of my body could be asleep while others are busy at work!
Life is truly wonderful.
Aneros Sessions on BPH Medication
I am 57 years old, married and a long time user of Aneros devices and other prostate devices. My marriage is sexless, has been that way for many years, and I’m quite happy that way.
My Aneros journey began in 2001 when I ordered a device through High Island Health, a sister company of Aneros. As I understand it, HIH caters to the health side, Aneros to the sensual side.
I ordered the device from HIH after having issues due to lack of sexual outlet (my wife and I had decided to go sexless a few months before), leading to prostate congestion and a medical visit for the later. My new doctor put me on Flomax for 2 weeks and also suggested I take a look at the HIH website as there was beginning to be some anecdotal evidence in the medical community that the devices could be helpful.
The classic device was helpful, and I added several other Aneros products including a Helix and an original type Progasm.
Back in 2019 my doctor decided to put me on Avodart – initially a trial, but with the intent it would be permanent if things went well. She had done a routine DRE and felt I was now old enough, and my prostate large enough, to warrant some significant medical intervention. She also put me on Flomax for 3 months. Later I tried Rapaflo, and back to Flomax.