Tag: Wife

Lets get started

I’m a little late in starting my blog, but guess it’s better than not starting at all. Anyway, a little background on me. I’m 66 years-old and have been retired for about three years. I’m happily married (35 years) and straight, and reside in southern California. I gotta’ tell ya, being retired is the cats meow, it’s kind of like being kid again, except now I’m a lot smarter (at least I think I’m a lot smarter!) and have more $$.

I ran across the Aneros product about a month back while searching the web for sex toys to spice up the wife’s and my sex life. I was really intrigued by the Aneros and decided to order a helix. (Thinking more about me than the wife at that point, but it has turned out to be good for both of us).

The first couple of times I used the helix were total busts, nothing at all really happened other than a pleasant feeling of having the Aneros up my bum. (I’m not exactly an anal play virgin).
The third go-around with the helix involved a love making session with the wife. Oooh-boy, was that sweet! I don’t think I’ve come that hard for a couple of decades! The wet spot was huge! In fact, the wife commented afterwards that it was just like being young again. Read more »

8 Month Anniversary

It is my 8 month anniversary. Since I’m always making progress but not reaching the Super-O I guess I’ll just have to keep writing entries to my blog until I graduate and get my diplOma from Aneros U.

Eight months – and I’m a guy with a lot of time, 4 different Aneros models, healthy, a good attitude and a supportive wife.

So I thought it was about time I chose my forum avatar. I picked a picture from the Large Hadron Collider. Lines of force converging on an ‘O’. Circling super charged waves of particles – and then BANG.

Started up the Full Moon Club last week. That was fun. I personally had a wonderful session, chock full of involutaries.

No physical breakthrough though. Mentally, I had a great time listening to the sky and feeling gravity wash over me. It was an exceptionally warm evening for this time of year and the rain held off. I was able to sit outside for about an hour and a half with my Peridise. Lots of cars, dogs and geese. Due to haze there was a full halo surrounding the full moon.

I appreciate all the positive encouragement and my resulting refocus of mental energy. Co-ordination of the Global O! I don’t think we’ll get on CNN anytime soon, but I’m already looking forward to next month’s event (Thursday, March 11th). Til then I’ll keep working on more techniques to get my mind in synch. I’m certainly all charged up this morning. Read more »

Sex and Death

The following is quoted from a post of mine in The Tao Bums Forum. I believe that it reflects another dimension of the life force energies we are working with in their orgasmic and ecstatic forms here and connects us all to the poet's long held assertion of the union of sex and death:

My mother in her mid-80s had two surgeries for a life threatening condition; the first emergency to stop the condition and the second to repair temporary elements from the first. She had thought out her choices and intention long before and had prepared a living will.

After recovering from the violent hallucinations induced by the morphine given her after the second surgery, she talked quietly with me and said that she could not continue this medical path, and invoked her living will with absolute, crystal clear intent.

Soon she was transferred to a palliative care ward. It was cramped and noisy; restless and uncomfortable for her initially. That evening she manifested many symptoms and several nurses and her doctor attended. My brother and his partner and my wife and I were there. At some point she escalated into severe coughing, mucus, and cramping; sitting up rapidly and falling back repeatedly. Read more »

Flomax for BPH

A good friend of mine recently told me he just started using Flomax. I sat there and just stared at him and I thought about my similar situation which brought me here. I asked him if he had ever had a doctor perform a prostate massage to releave BPH symptoms. I told him that there are natural remedies. At that point his wife walked in and the discussion stopped. WOW, this is a great guy and I hate to see him taking this stuff. The side effects are worse than the cure. I would like to introduce him to this but being a guy in our society as it is I'm not real comfortable doing so. Maybe I'll just send him a link to this web site. How do you tell someone…..here, stick this up your ass and throw your flomax away!!

One to cultivate!

I have been using the MGX for about a month so far, 2 sessions per week and I can't say that I am experiencing any sexual pleasures from it.

However, I did insert it before sex with my wife (she does not know about the Aneros). Once in place it is quite discreet and I was confident she would not notice it. I have to say that the penile sensations were incredible but after about a minute I had to hold back as I was afraid that I would "hair trigger" and spoil the session. Being a gentleman I always make sure the lady cums first but when I eventually turned the attention to myself was disappointed that I could not recreate the earlier sensations and had to make do with the standard type of build up to orgasm.

Best yet

I had the best session yet tonight. I have the house to myself. I prepared and ate my supper in the nude (turned up the thermostat first), and went upstairs, squirted some lube in myself, lubed up the helix, and in she went. Layed about five minutes and then started rocking my hips gently while laying on my side. Within three or four minutes, I started having O's, and they got stronger and stronger, one after the other. I found I could control this somewhat by fantasizing about my wife or another woman, alternating between them, and as I did, another wave would overtake me. Totally cool. The intensity varied — some were subtle, some were really strong, some were toe-curling. Then I flopped on my back and thought that I might break the streak, but pretty soon — same thing — lots of O's, and I found I didn't even have to fantasize sometimes. After about 45 minutes, I lubed up Mr. P, and finished off with a nice cum. Absolutely incredible!

Time passes by

Time passes quicker than the blink of an eye.
An up date is called for.

The wife got curious last month about my 2 friends.
I said that she did not have a prostate so it would do no good.
Anyway she wanted to try it.
I let her try the Helix. I got the MGX.
We had intercourse and she said it made her feel as if she wanted to go to the toilet but not an unplesant feeling.
A funny thing happened when I orgasamed.
The feeling was more intense but the MGX shot out of me and landed down the bed. Nothing followed it thankfully.
A reverse ejaculation lol.

We tried again a few days later swopping models.
The Helix stayed put during orgasm. Also more intense than without it.
The wife had much the same feelings about going to the toilet.

We had a third session.
It started with her inserting the MGX.
She was on top in her faviourite cowgirl position.
After a while I felt on the point of orgasm and attempted to stop her.
Too late, I gave a little spasam.
Oh no ! Thats it I thought.
As quick as I could I disengaged and inserted my Helix.
An Electric jolt from Prostate to penis tip.
Agood firm erection and I was off again.
We were both happy with the result a bit later. Read more »

Third session

Since my last session, I was wondering if it would be a good idea to insert some lube in "there". But how? I was wishing I had bought a syringe when I ordered the unit. I spent some time looking at Walgreens and Walmart for something that would gently deliver some lube where I wanted it. I found a baby doser syringe, kinda like a small turkey baster. It held 5 ml and had a fairly gentle tip. Perfect! I was ready.

So for my next session, I inserted the extra lube. I would say that it really didn't make much difference. Not that it was uncomfortable before, but I don't think it was worth it. Plus, after my session, I was farting out lube a couple hours later and got it on my PJ's, something I didn't want to try to explain to the wife.

The session was great, but no magic. I finished off again with a JO, this time, getting a nice hard-on.

First time

I didn't really know what to expect. This was a new and intriguing thing for me, and I was anxious to expand my horizons into something totally new and different. I have been a pretty avid Fleshlight user for at least three years, using it about once a week.

Oh, BTW, I'm married, in my 50's, and, no, wife doesn't know about my toys, any of them. I plan to keep it that way.

Anyway, for my first time, I was home alone and prepared my place on top of the warm water bed. I had the impression that the whole thing was going to be much messier than it was. In fact, using the Fleshlight is a lot messier than using the aneros. With great anticipation and moderate anxiety, I lubed up the toy and found it was pretty easy to insert. I was amazed how once it's half way in it just seems to pull itself the rest of the way in. My heart was pounding, and I tried to lay as still as possible for 15 minutes. Time seemed to stand still. I kept looking at the clock after what seemed like 5 minutes, and only 1 minute had gone by. I had read the forums and wiki, so I wasn't really expecting any great miracles the first time, and nothing miraculous happened. It felt good, though, and after 45 minutes, I decided to stop and wait until next time.

Some days

Tuesday,
Nothing much happened. Some mild leg shaking.

Wednesday.
Lying on my side listening to Hypnaerosession.
Some lovely sensations in the anus, mild tickle on the prostate.
Turned onto my back and all sensations dissapered.
I had to get up to bring the washing in as it started to rain.
Got some good contact with the prostate while walking around with the Helix still in.
Wrote Two Brothers on the spur of the moment.
Rather suprised at its reception.
My right nipple was very sensetive for 5 or 6 hours after, sometimes nearly painful.

Thursday.
Nothing much happened while lying down.
Decieded to walk around a bit.
Good contact.
Tried sitting in a soft chair.
The handel was no problem at all, it sat between my cheeks nicely,no contact with the chair.
I found the P tab dug in but did not cause too much discomfort.
Some very good sensations.
Wiggle my hips now and then.
Sat there with a grin on my face for an hour.
Didnt want to stop but it was getting dark.
I can now relate to the guy who sits in his garage with a 2 hour cigar pretending to read. I pretended to do Sudoku.

Friday morning.
The wife got up early due to dogs barking.
It sounded as if she started the housework.
Had a quick clean and lube.
Laid quietly for 90 minutes.
Some nice sensations again, slowly getting better.
Think I must be one of those slow starters.