2020.01.16 / PART 1:
I’d like to pay a tribute to Aneros and Helix Syn Trident and all here who write so much interesting testimonials and reviews. This smartly designed and soft thing added something tremendous to my already fulfilled sexual life, having a loving wife and 3 kids. It happened in just a few days and I still hardly can’t believe it is possible!
When I have read for the first time about P-spot and big “O” a few days ago, I knew it was something for me.
I have tried prostate massage by hand first. Prostate massage alone and by hand turned to be a total failure. I guess this is because of two much anal stimulation and because I didn’t feel comfortable at all, doing it alone.
Then I tried Kegel exercices in bed at night while everybody was sleeping. I did feel pleasure coming the first time with perineum contraction, doing this first in my bed.
Then I found the Helix Syn Trident on internet and ordered it immediately, after reading Aneros web site and blogs, I went on trying Kegels exercises, feeling pleasure, but not more. But the will to go further was growing incredibly fast, I was really waiting for it!
When it was delivered to my office, packed as a present, my boss was out for some reason, and I had nothing special to do… I could’nt resist to try at this moment! I went to a safe place, put a large amount of lubricant and inserted it softly. I put my clothes back over it and went back to my desk.
There, sitting towards my computer, I focused on my sensations and felt nothing, looking for a position that wouldn’t hurt on the chair. Then I started de Kegel exercises: Contraction of perineum, holding, releasing, waiting spasms, contracting slightly, and so on… Slightly I felt the Helix Syn Trident working, I felt growing pleasure, and I felt waves of pleasure, each time bigger in time and intensity. As I was alone, I started some other positions but each position change would stop the waves immediately. I also realized touching the Helix Syn, was doing the same. I didn’t touch my penis at all, according all I had read about it. I finally lied on the back, knees up and feet on the floor, and it was the best position. I let it go and started to shake, feeling strong muscle contractions everywhere. I didn’t see the time flowing but it was good! Jesus! It was already time to go home. I brought the thing home in a safe place because I had no time to play.
The following night I was once again awake in my bed, and for some reason I tried de Kegel exercises. Without the Helix Syn. I was surprised to feel the waves coming back again without it, but I stopped it before shaking not to awake my wife.
The next day I was working. At one moment I began to think about my experience of the day before and it started again without the Helix Syn, becoming stronger, this time I felt an orgasm happen. When it happened I had the feeling of an energy flow going through me upwards, was it just my imagination working?
The following day, I tried the Helix Syn early in the morning but I had not enough time to have an orgasm this time because I had to go. I was kind of frustrated. But the waves came back in the car on my way to my job without the Helix! I suppose this is not quite a good idea for security. I have had orgasms the all day long with hours of pause in between: in the evening I was so exhausted and feeling hurt at the perineum and others muscles, so I decided to make a break to rest.
But from time to time I can’t resist to let it happen again. While cooking, in my bed, and it keeps coming back better.
This weekend I will give it another try at home with the Helix Syn because I think I can get more if my body has rested. I can’t really explain how it happened, I guess this is all a question of confidence, relaxing and muscular training too. Sometimes orgasm is not coming at once but if I just let waves happen again and again it finally comes. Now I have to explain and explore this with my wife. I have to normalize the practice, keeping it for intimate places! I have still a lot to learn about it. I see now this prostate stimulator as a surf and as a key to pleasure… Many many thanks to all from my ocean of pleasure, surfing on this wonderful wave! feeling happy! Cheers!
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First blog post
Hi
This is my first blog post, although I’ve posted several times to the forums after especially great sessions. I’m a 70 year old on the journey for a year or so now. I’m having pretty great success, although not every session leads to the super O. My best sessions have been mind-blowing, with multiple SOs that leave me limp (in more ways than one)! My wife is on board, and we share our PureWand in partnered sex, while I also slip off for solo play in the guest room.
I have a pretty good collection of Aneros and nJoy toys; Progasm Ice, MGX Trident, Helix Trident, Eupho Trident, PureWand, and PurePlug large. I have a Lelo Hugo, but don’t really care for vibratory toys. I will typically cycle through several toys each session.
I use THC; 25 mg dose of edibles and 20 mg of THC oil mixed with my injected lube. I also use poppers to trigger the super Os. In a good session I will typically have a series of powerful SOs lasting for 30 – 60 seconds each. My best sessions are usually after a period of abstinence, when my arousal level is at its highest.
I have ED, which I use Cialis for, and typically am flaccid during sessions. Most sessions I am unable to finish with a TO. Thank god for prostate orgasms!
Anyway, thanks for all the great knowledge shared here in the blogs and in the forum. It has really helped my progress.
Sleeping with my Mistress Aneros
08-07-2019
(I copied this from a forum post I made August 7th)
Fantasy and reality, the line is getting blurry…….
I could not sleep last night after spending an hour or so on the forums starting about 10:30 pm. (Note to self, reading this forum gets me worked up, maybe don’t read @ bedtime). After tossing and turning a bit I finally gave up on sleep and wrote my first post last night. I then turned on some binaural beats (props to this forum), then rolled over to go to sleep. I lay wide awake for a little bit, all the while my prostrate mistress was whispering in my ear. I finally gave in to my growing addiction and got up at 1:45 am and inserted my Helix, that is the last time I looked at the clock until I awoke with a raging hard on @ 7:17 am. But what happened in between, in the twilight hours was hard to describe.
After my final peak at the clock @ 1:45 – I finally fell asleep and woke up some unknown time later in a dream state of fantasy and reality. Foggy, groggy, lovely. I felt like I was having a religious experience, bliss? I was on my side and I was semi hard, but that only annoyed me as it was distracting me from my religious/bliss feelings. Getting annoyed with a semi hard on is not something I have ever done. I usually run down that road to wherever it will lead me. I have been controlled by my cock my entire life. To have a blissful experience without it, or even more so, to be annoyed by it is really not reality to me. (Where in the world is this prostrate mistress leading me?)
Just a little heart broken
So after realising weed and poppers were a short cut to the Super O I’ve been working on calming techniques and recently managed several super O’s with just meditation breathing and the do nothing technique… I was thrilled and amazed. Ok it takes longer than vaping a little weed, but it’s awesome to do this stone cold sober.
And now my wife say’s she finds the whole thing ‘ick’ and thinks I don’t want her. Which is odd given we still have an active sex life and she’s previously been supportive of my quest or at worst neutral. Kind of sucks to find someone you hoped to share this with finds something so wonderful (to me) ‘ick’.
So we’ve talked. At length. She isn’t asking me to stop. But she doesn’t want me doing it when she’s home (which is a major block on play time as she’s almost always home). She doesn’t want me to talk about it either.
I view this as controlling behaviour and while I am not angry at her I am deeply saddened by her U turn. And quite hurt. I really don’t want to wind up resenting someone I’ve given 20 years of my life to – and I also don’t want to give up Prostate orgasms.
Finally got some alone time and …
This is more of a vent post but also curious if anyone else runs into this issue. Since the pandemic hit I have not been able to have very much “alone” time where I have the entire house to myself. With two teenagers (older teens) and wife there seems to rarely be a time when everyone is gone at the same time long enough to prep and have a real sessions. Mentally, I need the house empty and know I have time to really get into a session. I think I have had 4 total sessions. I do have aneroless sessions later at night at least one a week. It never fails, when the the last person leaves, another one is due home any moment. Its actually quite frustrating.
So today, I get a chance to have a session as my wife was taking both kids out to run some errands. I prep and start my session and get into it for about 15 minutes, getting into some really great pleasure, getting into a zone. Then the phone rings. It’s my wife needing me to go to the safe and get some info that she needs. Ugh. all pleasure gone now and after sorting out the info with the wife I start up again but just could not get back into the groove at all. Just lay there with some minor pleasure for the next 30 minutes or so. Just could not get my mind back into it. The morning is ruined.
24 year old Discovers his ticklish prostate and finds Super O/SYN V Review
so the other day i was home alone, wife had dr.s appointment and took our daughter, so i decided too have an aneros session before taking a nap. i already had the Syn V in but it had died an hour before so i took it out and put the edge 2 in.
Now, i’ve cut back ALOT on porn, it’s way too distracting during these sessions so i just play with my nipples. I’ve been teasing my self with the Syn V all week and once in a while in the shower i use the edge 2. Now a little review of the Syn V: as of now i believe this is my favorite plug, it definitely imo trumps the helix trident just because of the vibrations. For me, it tickles my rectum and a little of my prostate!!!! if you never had these places tickled or are not ticklish here, MAN what an experience too miss out on (not belittling anyone, of course!) and it’s very comfortable too wear and the vibes don’t leave me desensitized.
During the session, my prostate was already been teased due to the prior days of wearing the syn v, so the edge already had my knees shaking(On my back). I was getting Pwaves FAST. diddled with my Nipples and the Pwaves were getting more intense as they rolled in. I don’t know how long i was doing this, I mean i was really into it just relaxing and letting whatever feelings come have their way with me. At a point, the edge 2 was revving hard at the “sweet spot” motor. Now like i said, for days the syn v was “tickling” my sweet spot and i gotten quite fond and familiar with it. The edge 2 thought definitely of that kind of sensation . It sought too turn all that tickling into raw sexual energy.
Success! Questions. Confusedish? Newbie Post.
TL;DR: Do I have superpowers now?
Prelude – Last Friday I decided to start experimenting with mindgasm, I’ve experimented before but I feel as though I’ve failed to truly identify my prostate as a, or rather the primary sexual organ. Reading the posts there and here led me to really desire focusing on and expanding these feelings. On Tuesday my Aneros (progasm ice) arrived, I certainly felt a massive difference in stimulation from that and any other toy I have used previously… everything until this point has felt good (like my other experiments) but nothing really clicked. Untill….
Yesterday morning… I had previously read about sleeping as a method to relax and experience. Around 130am when the wife left lubed up and laid back down to sleep for a few more hours. I fell asleep, and I specifically remember mid dream I was feel great, but it pulled me out of the dream save for a rogue voice that I clearly heard say “until you learn to relax you will never be able to use this perfectly designed too to its fullest extent. Snap back to reality, I do wake up to great sensations but my exploration quickly killed the connection which I could not then recreate…
Explaining Aless to Partner?
So, I recently let my wife in on my ability to have multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms by meditating, muscle flexing, etc. We here call them Aless or w/o toy.
She would most likely not be comfortable or open to talking about the toy just yet and honestly I have better success w/o. I think for me the toy just helped me become aware/re-wire. I CANNOT find any research or articles online to describe the Aless process of prostate O’s.
My wife is in the medical field and a “lifetime learner” so a coherent article that describes the process/science behind it would be great!
There seems to be 2 types of articles/literature…using a prostate toy OR kegel exercises/NEO’S (non-ejaculatory orgasms) through penis stimulation (edging).
My Aless process involves no toy, no fingers, and no penile stimulation and has led to insane pleasure that I would love to be able to explain to my significant other.
Any help or links that aren’t all about prostate milking/toys would be greatly appreciated.
Shaking, Humping, vivid images and colours in my vision, warming in my groin. Milestone moment. what next?
Used the helix triden syn for about a year now, I was really enthusiastic initially but after stalling my progress I just used it as a novelty during tradition masturbation for the last 6 months or so.
Fast forward to the last few weeks I decided to revisit a structured process and see if i could achieve any type of O from the Aneros alone.
I have a small window of opportunity bi weekly when i have 90 mins of quiet time every afternoon where i wont be disturbed , sitting in a chair with my feet up on my desk. ( yes at work 😉 )
Yesterday I decided that my choice of lube (kY) was probably holding me back and i wasn’t using enough, so armed with coconut oil and one of those syringes that you get with kids medicine I gave myself a 5ml dose and popped in the Syn.
Now normally I would relax and concentrate on my breathing and enjoy some involuntary flutters of my muscles, get sore or distracted at some point and relieve myself traditionally. This time however I really got into the grove and began having leg and stomach twitching while my interior muscles where really going crazy with out any input from me. After about 60mins i was really shaking and I had all sorts of vivid strange shapes and colors in my head as if i was seeing them through my shut eyes.
Seeking Guidance
I’m a newbie to Aneros and to anal pleasure in general, but have been frequently exploring for a few weeks now. I’m in a strange place and I was hoping the wonderful butt sherpas on this sub might be able to guide me forward.
My journey started when my wife and I decided to spice things up with a rimming plug for me last Valentine’s day. After a not very successful session, I gave up and it sat into the box until I decided to try again solo a few weeks back. Who would have thought that actually following all of the advice online (lots of lube, loosen things up first, relax, etc… ) would make such a difference. It felt great and I started using it fairly regularly, but every time it felt a little like something was missing from the experience.
Eventually I pinpointed it to a feeling I was getting when I would sit on the plug and rock/bounce. That would make me feel a bit like I needed to pee, but also *really* good. I started thinking of it as my “pre-cum” button because hitting it would make me leak like a sieve ( I know it was my prostate though). After doing this for a bit, I realized the plug was the wrong tool for the job and determined to explore the feeling further, I purchased a vibrating prostate massager with one of those “come hither” rocking arms (this one to be precise: [https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator](https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator)). This one felt good, but I found the best feeling was again if I were to turn off the “come hither” motion, and rock/bounce on it myself. Whenever it did that I would get that “needing to pee sensation”, but at this point I’d experienced it enough to differentiate it and it started to feel more like a buildup of pressure similar to a penile orgasm.