Author: goldenboy

“Don’t Like Chastity? Do You Wear Underwear?”

Background
I slept-through the night wearing only PJs. Got up about 4 AM with the usual erection. I decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” and go back to bed. When I did, my brain engaged in a most-interesting “life fantasy”. This is what I remember…..

Life Fantasy
This fantasy was directed at all the guys, young and old, who may be apprehensive about trying out a “chastity cup”. Is that you? If so, there are a number of alternative scenarios you may consider. Here are a few that came to mind….

You put them on just like a pair of regular underwear. When you do, imagine the possibilities:

• You can wear this underwear to a movie; that may help prevent unintentional and /or unwanted advances towards your date.
• You are given a special pair of “underwear” at the hospital while you are checked-into your room. The nurses and orderlies don’t need to see your aroused package while you are there lying in bed.
• You are young and going-out on a date: your mom gives you a pair of underwear so she doesn’t have to worry about your overcharged libido.
• You are going to the urologist for a check-up and your doctor doesn’t want you to possibly stroke yourself to an ejaculation at home before your appointment, so you comply.
• You are flying on an airplane and you don’t want to demonstrate an unintentional erection to your beautiful companion in the next seat.
• Going swimming? Going to the beach? Have a nice package and want to show it off? Just put-on a bulge-enhancing jockstrap underneath your suit! You’ll get attention. Read more »

“Male Chastity: Why Do I Do It?”

[This blog was inspired by @SOwithoutAneros]

@SOwithoutAneros has taken the chastity “plunge” with a CB-6000! And that fact brought back memories of my foray in the world of male chastity cages. I eventually bought a genuine CB-6000S which I wore for months. I generally did not wear it at night when NPTs are prevalent; rather, during the day including out in public. I did wear it through some very arousing erections, just as an experiment. While wearing it, you have to be prepared. It will be difficult to remove the cage until you are soft again. So there is a kind of “point of no return” while wearing it.

I had eventually switched from a chastity cage to a “chastity cup” and although the basic concept remains the same, the way they feel is entirely different. The cups are designed to prevent masturbation and although the cage does the same thing, a cage is designed to prevent erection. Thus, the feeling that an erection gives is different while wearing a cage than a cup. As I remember, I could “feel” the erection deep in my groin to the base of the penis. Not so much so while wearing a cup. Which one do I prefer? In all honesty, wearing a close-fitting “cage” is the real-deal in male chastity! Wearing a “cup” is, just, different. While the intent is the same (masturbation and ejaculation control), the physical restraint is different. Read more »

“Sexual Regularity”

Introduction
Having slept in my Mueller Flex Shield cup overnight and now in a new Day 3 of SR, I awoke at about 1 AM. I wanted to retreat down to the comfort of my sofa and I selected a nice, soothing track for Solfeggio 639 Hz meditation: “It enables creation of harmonious community and harmonious interpersonal relationships”.

Almost as soon as I starting listening and meditating, I began to make an important connection. Let me explain…..

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{Note: this connection may seem somewhat bizarre and absurd at first, but please hear me out!..}

I have bouts of constipation from time to time and thus was the case a couple days ago. Having been irregular for a couple of days, I knew that I needed some help. I needed to take a laxative. I waited up until bedtime without success, then made the decision to take it. I did and then retired for the night. After about 4 hours, I felt it starting to work and was relieved that 10 hours later, when I awoke, I was “regular” again!

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Now, what does this have to do with the meditation, you may ask? Well, it occurred to me that our sexual selves operate, in fact, with regularity. Let me give some examples….

Our NPTs which almost all of us men experience at night, occur with great regularity. If they did not, something would be wrong with our sexual “plumbing”. I anticipate these and sometimes am prepared by wearing a “chastity cup” to negate the stimulating effects of the ensuing erections. Read more »

“All-Aboard The SR Express!”

Background
Ultimately, the choice whether or not to remain in chastity remains with me. Yesterday, in Day 8 of semen retention, I thought it would be “fitting” to end this current SR “run” on Valentine’s Day. I even “nudged” my wife to help finish-me-off. But apparently, she had another idea. She started out caressing my enlarged package and I thought I would finally reach my goal. But she had another plan and so, after about 10 minutes, I was left still in chastity and possibly with a case of the blue-balls pending. How frustrating but yet arousing at the same time!

I decided to sleep in my XO ProCup overnight to avoid any temptation; I was still feeling like I needed to ejaculate and so I could not tempt an unintentional release.

Later-on in the evening, I was awakened by a rather arousing erection within the cup and I felt kind of close to the PONR. I went to the bathroom and then decided to switch gears—I put-on my Duke swimmer’s jockstrap and a pair of my Perry Ellis silky briefs—a nice combination! I went to lie-down on my comfortable sofa, but without music this time around.

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Fantasy or Reality?
I began to relax and possibly wait for another erection. But then, something quite unexpected happened. I began to dwell on a “fantasy” with imagery so real that perhaps the line between reality and fantasy was blurred for a while. Here is what developed….. Read more »

“Helix Trident – My New-Found Friend!”

Background
My! What a session this morning with the Helix Trident! But I need to back-up first to the beginning….

I have been sleeping without wearing a “chastity cup” for the past week. Is it helping me to sleep better? Perhaps, but I am still awakened by some extremely-strong night-time erections (NPTs). One this morning was extremely arousing. I decided to retreat to my comfortable sofa and just chill with some relaxing music for a while. I was not wearing anything but PJs. After a while, I began to meditate and fantasize. And my erection switched “on” as if by magic! What caused the “switch” to be thrown? I believe it was when I began to fantasize about having a prostate procedure this morning in the hospital. When I contemplated this upcoming activity, my cock sprung into action! I could not stop another extremely hard erection from developing! And before long, I “knew” the rest of the fantasy was in store for me! Here it is…..

Fantasy
I am being prepared for a “procedure” on my prostate this morning and the prep will consist of two “phases”. The first is that I need to refrain from any kind of masturbation for a full two-hour period by wearing a hard-cup athletic supporter. I was given a Mueller jockstrap with FlexShield cup to wear and I put it on. Read more »

“Achieving A Balance”

{This blog post was inspirerd by @GettingThere}

Background
A question recently raised by @GettingThere on the Forum piqued my curiosity:

“Should we treat prostate stimulation as a multiple day activity?”

This got me thinking….I have changed my use of “chastity cups” recently so that I do not necessarily sleep in one every night. It is helping me to get a “better” night’s sleep. But along with that change comes other changes. For one, when I am awakened by a night-time erection, I have a “new” feeling I now must endure—that of a powerful, stimulating erection (and I am not wearing a chastity cup—what to do?) It may last upwards of a half-hour or more. I would be tempted to alleviate this arousal with an ejaculation; but since I incorporate “semen retention” (SR) into my daily sexual routine, I really don’t want to do it.

Where Is The Balance?
Obviously, for me, I need to ejaculate periodically. I am subject (as a lot of other guys) to the “blue-balls” feeling if I am too aroused and do not ejaculate at regular intervals. That duration could be anywhere from 7 to 14 days (usually about 7-9 days now). What happens during that interval? Read more »

“No Guarantee”

[Some erotic language; readers be aware]

Introduction
Over the past 3 years, I have thoroughly enjoyed my Aneros sessions. Some have been mind-blowing while others have been duds. Why the sudden switch in sensations? I don’t know for sure but I thought about this after this morning’s session. Let me explain….

Session
Yesterday, I had a nice, thorough Aless stim of my “lower” region, especially when sitting-down. I felt that my prostate was “begging” me for a session. Well, I couldn’t have it then and so I put it out of my mind. Early this morning, while still wearing only my PJs (I did this all week), I awoke with a semi-stiff erection and yet my prostate was still nudging me onward! I listened and almost immediately I got the sense that it “wanted” the Helix-Trident. A good choice? I was a little doubtful, since my last few sessions with it were less than stellar. Anyway, I obliged, lubed-up and began. I also put-on my Mueller cup just for good measure.

My! Right from the start, the HT nestled-right-in where it belonged, with the P-tab and K-tab pressing where they should. I lied-down on my right side, left knee slightly raised and began to relax. A nice progression of feelings, and I knew I was generating some precum. Then, about mid-way through this 30-minute session, something unexpected happened! Read more »

“Skating Through Day 10!”

Introduction
I can’t believe I’m here at Day 10! It really has not been a problem. I thought I would have to stop yesterday due to impending blue-balls. But that feeling was fleeting. So I find myself here probably only a couple of days from a wet dream!

New Night-Time Routine
I decided for the better part of this week to nix wearing a “chastity cup” to bed every night. Instead, I just opted for my pajamas and nothing more. Of course, I sometimes get awakened by a night-time erection, but my take on this is somewhat different this week. Instead of just grabbing a cup and putting it on, I have been firmly “grasping” my erect member, and not stimulating any part of it, just firmly holding on to it. Eventually, the erection starts to subside and I can loosen my grip. It seems to be working. I think it is the over-stimulation (even while wearing a cup) that could be causing the blue-balls.

Morning Listening Session
Just this morning, I went to lie-down with headphones and listen to some relaxing, soothing tracks. But before I did, I wanted to remove any temptation. So I quickly reached for my XO chastity cup and put it on. And as I started listening, I hardly knew I had it on. The music stopped and I fell asleep for a few hours…. Read more »

“Advice To Newbies?”

Introduction
I have been in my Aneros journey for about 3 years now. What have I learned? I think the one thing that comes to mind now is that I can honestly say that there is no guarantee of success with Aneros! Even after these three years, I have not experienced a single Super-O since the “original” ones when I was being re-wired. That is okay with me although it is a bit perplexing.

I have had some really great sessions but they are not at the same “caliber” as the earlier ones. Why is that? I can’t honestly answer that, but does that mean that I will stop trying? Heck, no!

Advice
Now, where does that leave my “advice” to newbies? Aneros is indeed a very “personal” journey and there really is no guarantee of success. But there will be times (in sessions) that will be extremely pleasurable. It is just that (at least for me now) that pleasure is fleeting. Some sessions will be great, others will be ho-hum. Do I stop as a result of one (or two) lackluster sessions? Of course not! Read more »

“No Set Schedule On The Horizon”

Introduction
My Aneros sessions are rather sporadic lately. But that is not necessarily a bad thing. Since I regularly practice semen retention (SR), I have found that my sessions can be more intense and positive if I delay them. They are not on a set schedule. Of course, I never know which model I will choose. Generally, I get a sense of that when I get close to the session.

Kudos to @BigGlansDC
A special shout-out to my buddy @BigGlansDC. His recent blog post was spot-on! I think one thing that is overlooked with wearing jockstraps and cups is the stimulation the hard cup provides for the male perineum. Of course, the P-tabs on the Aneros models do this as well. It is that pressure that provides the external stimulation of the prostate which feels so good!

Afterthought
I continue to wear jockstraps either with or without groin cups to bed most nights. Not wearing one just doesn’t feel “right” anymore. Just this morning while wearing my XO ProCup, the stimulation on my frenulum was so intense that I felt literally only a stroke or two away from an ejaculation! I have not ejaculated this way (yet) but that feeling is just too powerful for words. It makes me realize what my “malehood’s” purpose really is! Touche’.

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