Author: redbeard2000

An update

It has been awhile since my last update. It has also been awhile since what I would call my last 'dry-gasms' (all the sensations of cumming, but without ejaculation) or what I would classify as a 'super-O'. I've had some enjoyable sessions all the same, plus I have found an interesting position that brings good results.

Last night I had my first dream about using the Progasm. What set me off into throes of ecstasy in my dream was hard and fast Kegels (clenching my groin muscles). I then woke up…doing hard and fast Kegels! It didn't develop into anything profoundly pleasurable, but all day I've been looking forward to some alone time. One of my thoughts during my dream was 'so this is the key' so I want to find out if these clenches will have the desired effect.

After reading a bit about the 'slingshot' technique I attempted it but ended up doing something a bit different which was quite fun. Basically I lie on my back, bring up legs and bend my knees with my fee flat on the mattress, then grab my ankles. When the 'leg-gasms' kick in (strong shakes of my leg, which I have quite often if you've seen my clips on xtube) my entire body shudders and in my mind's eye I'm levitating off the mattress. Very pleasurable, but not the Super-O. Read more »

A new way of cumming

After the success I had with an electrifying orgasm just from rubbing the pelvic ridge between my cock and belly button while the Progasm was in, I reflected on the fact that I most enjoy using the Progasm when lying face down. This must have something to do with that same spot being rubbed.

Since then I have on several occasions been able to cum, just by rubbing that spot, without using the Prograsm at all. Some people have mentioned this is a way women sometimes masturbate. I wouldn't know, but it works for me!

I've seen it described as the pelvic massage portion of 'the male deer' technique, as described in-depth on this page:-

http://www.umaatantra.com/tantra_articles/male_deer_exercise.html

But instead of sitting, I lie flat on my back. Instead of using my palm to make circular movements, I hold my hands flat and stroke quickly with my fingers. Most times I keep my pants on (jock, briefs, whatever) as otherwise my cock might slap around just a bit too much.

Usually within less than 5 minutes I feel a hot pleasure wave build up, crest and wash over me just like a traditional orgasm. Except oftentimes my cock is not always hard and I never ejaculate spunk. Instead, it's more like pre-cum, but LOTS of it which leaves my pants soaked. Read more »

Another videoclip

As promised, I have edited the rest of my session as described previously during which I had my first dry-gasms (all the sensations of cumming without the mess). This was followed by what could only be a Super-Orgasm (but only after the camera batteries died). All without cock stimulation or ejaculation. What a fantastic ride!

http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=5mm5K_G621_

Each time the screen 'shatters' I am getting ready for another dry-gasm. You'll notice my first two were about 30 seconds within each other, incredible!

Some people have remarked my 2nd videoclip could not be viewed for awhile on Xtube. Someone had complained that it was advertising! I pointed out to the admin folks there are hundreds of Fleshlight clips (not mention clips featuring Saran Wrap, Nutella and other brand names), so why was I picked on? It's back up again for now, but got me thinking that maybe I should upload them to my own blog or something so I have control over them.

I wonder if someone out there has a vendetta against Aneros, a rival manufacturer perhaps? There are complaints against the entry in Wikipedia for Aneros as well, saying it's 'not a notable product'! You're joking, right??!

The fact that men can enjoy multiple orgasms through some slight anal stimulation should be taught in sex ed!! Read more »

So THAT is what the Super-O feels like!

Several times when I've been using the gizmo (maybe once or twice a week for the past 6 weeks or so), I've been tried to match the sensations I was feeling with what's been described on this site: 'Is that a mini-O? A dry orgasm? An involuntary??'

My most recent session answered some of these questions definitively, after I had four dry-gasms (cumming, but not ejaculating) followed by what could only be the Super Orgasm. If it WAS 'only' a mini-O, my poor heart might not be able to take much more of this! And all without an erection, cock stimulation or ejaculation – absolutely incredible!

I'd spent most of the day at work doing overtime and X was visiting his mum. I decided to have my first long session and to film clips of it. My second clip on Xtube is part of this particular session and my next clip will highlight the wonderous feelings I was having towards the end.

To be honest, after an hour or so of rolling around I was getting bored, thirsty and hungry. So I took the Progasm out, had a bite to eat, drank some ice water and relaxed. I ended up on my PC looking at some profiles and vids which got me feeling frisky again, so I edged a bit (working my cock close to orgasm, then letting ago). I also copied over my own videoclip to make room for more filming. Read more »

My second videoclip

You might find my second videoclip a bit dull because I've kept the editing to a minimum. I wanted to give a better impression of what a session for me involves, or at least at its beginning.

http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=Bn3rC-G821-

The big news is that after making this clip, I continued using the Progasm that same evening and experienced my first 'dry-gasms'. All the sensations of cumming, but no ejaculation! Even better, no remission period either – I had my first two within about 30 seconds of each other. Incredible! So look for that in my next clip, on its way soon.

On top of that, I carried on and had what can only be described as my first SUPER-O…an intense, wonderous, mind-altering, full-body sensation and again without ejaculation or cock stimulation.

Unfortunately, this was after the camera's memory was full and battery nearly dead. More details in my next post!

My first videoclip

As promised, I have made a videoclip with highlights of a recent 45-minute session (20 minutes preps, 25 minutes on camera):-

http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=QFOzT-C221-

There were two constraints on my time – needing to go work afterwards and having only 30 minutes of high quality video available on my camera.

For my next video I will film the tail-end (pardon the pun) of a longer session.

To be honest, I felt a bit self-conscious making this. I was not embarrassed at all as I've made plenty of other clips before and enjoy doing so, but I was conscious of the fact that aspects of the session might look forced or fake.

And in editing it I was aware that there's not much excitement to be found in watching someone from behind grind his crotch into a pillow LOL.

A proper wank

The other morning before work I tried an experiment. What if I was truly aroused and having a wank when using the Progasm? Bear in mind all my other solo sessions involved me lying in bed with no stimulation other than my imagination.

So I popped the Progasm in first thing, had breakfast and then selected a DVD. Out of solidarity for the evacuees of Hurricane Gustav I chose Gale Force, about the sexploits of a gang taking shelter in a warehouse during a storm.

Not only was I able to get wrapped up in a good porno, I was in a different position, on my side on the settee. After awhile I stretched across the floor on the carpet, with a cushion under my chest. It wasn't long before some leg trembling started. I also propped myself on my elbows and rocked my torso from side to side, which set off some shivering. The only trouble I found with lying flat on the flat is that the twitching caused me to hit the floor hard. If I'd been on the bed it would've been more comfortable, plus hanging my feet or arms off the bed allows for more leverage in my limbs.

It started me thinking about the way horses are able to shiver a particular part of their body when a fly lands on it. The fly causes an itch and the horse shakes their hide underneath it so the fly takes off again. I wonder if it's all about learning how to use involuntary muscle movements to our favour, like it's the only way to satisfy that itch. Read more »

Couldn't resist another go

X was out with some mates of ours (remember, I had been hungover most of the afternoon) and I spent the evening by myself starting the blog. Typing up my blog entries last night, reading through the comments and looking at some Xtube clips left me feeling frisky.

It's clear that I'm turned on by hearing about other people's experiences with this thing, but putting the gizmo in does not give me an erection, even when I'm feeling aroused.

It's also obvious that some people put a lot of thought into choosing a lube. We've got three:

1 – Palmers coconut butter lotion. Smells lovely, stays slick, does the business whether it's a wank or some bareback bumming (we don't use condoms with each other).

2 – Boots aqueous cream. Thicker and stickier. Good for lubing up toys.

3 – Some nasty water-based lube for use with condoms when we have company around.

Most times I've been using the Palmers, but this last night I used the aqueous cream. I noticed no difference.

All I wanted out of the session was to have a good wank to take the edge off. I had moved the tabs further apart again because I'm still not sure the perineum tab is working the right spot. I experimented with putting it in the wrong way round and although that provided a subtle difference in sensation, I had the same problem with the tab jabbing me and didn't keep with it. Read more »

Now THAT'S more like it

Last night we were down the pub with some mates. It wasn't too hard a session, but after 2 pints of bitter I had to switch to Hoegaarden. My body does not cope with switching, even if it's between different types of beer. I felt all right first thing this morning but then had a relapse and retired to bed around noon.

By mid-afternoon I was perking up (though still not 100%) and is often the case when I'm lying in bed with nothing better to do except hold my head, I began feeling a bit frisky. On one of X's trips out to the shops I popped in the gizmo. I'm definitely getting the hang of it, but again most of the pleasure stayed around the back with my cock not getting hard unless I wanked on it.

Then the headache rebounded and I decided to doze off. The fan was on and it was giving me gooseflesh up and down my bare back. X called in briefly, then went for a late lunch. I perked up a bit, but not much, and wasn't doing much with the gizmo except lying on my front, with one leg cocked and the other straight.

I felt a quiver go down my cocked leg and thought 'interesting' so I purposefully jigged that leg a bit. This set off a strong vibration down the entire leg that lasted a few seconds. It was hard to tell when the spasms were involuntary and when they were just me jiggling it along to see what would happen. Read more »

Round 2 – the pair of us

X came home that evening and was taken aback by what was waiting on the kitchen table. 'What's that?' he asked. 'A sex toy…you'll see' I told him.

We had a first go that night. We had been feeling romantic and were getting up to some frisky fun in the bedroom. In the middle of a blowjob session I reached over and introduced X to the Aneros.

One of the things I notice when reading entries on this site is how often guys treat this as a private thing they do on their own. Fair enough not all guys out there have a partner, but many guys who do have a partner don't seem keen on having a session with that person. Plenty of times it even sounds like they are trying to hide what they are doing.

However, I knew from experience X liked prostate massage (but only before with a finger) and I was keen to see his reaction. X had no concept of the Super-O. I had not showed him any of the videos from Xtube or entries on this site. He seemed a bit nonplussed and wanted to know 'how it worked'. I told him to try to suck it in to himself, but I think like me he wasn't comfortable with the K-tab jabbing him. Read more »