Category: Aneros blogs

My Nipples

I was recently chatting with a friend here about my own MMO experience and the much sought after achievement of rewiring. My experience has been that it took three interrelated practices or skills for me to achieve the pleasure of MMO or Super O.

First was relaxation, or letting go of my daily worries, distractions and tension. Second was the development of mind / body awareness and mind / body control. The third and most fun aspect was learning to make love to myself. I am not talking about locking myself in the bathroom and sitting on the toilet seat and tugging feverishly on my cock untill it stiffens and regurgitates milky cum into a wadded up tissue or my palm. When I say making love to myself I mean setting the stage for an erotic experience just as I would with my wife, girlfriend, boyfriend or guy partner; as weird as it might seem this means lighting candles or having dim lights, soft music and maybe favorite scents. Read more »

Aneros And Penile Semen Ejaculation

Aneros And Penile Semen Ejaculation

As others have mentioned that when you have a penile semen ejaculation through either sex with a partner or through masturbation, you ejaculate then go through a refractory period of time where your sexual interest declines and you cannot raise an erection and you feel less than interested in sexual activity. This certainly so with myself. This period can last from a couple of days to a month or more. But give me a break fellas, I am nearly 67 years old and I know I am not the same randy rabbit that I was when I was 30.
In the last month I became interested again in prostate massage, started massaging my prostate again and purchased my first Aneros, the Helx Syn. I have only had the opportunity to use the Aneros 3-4 times but I really like the peaceful relaxing and stimulating place it gets me to. In this month, I have not felt the need to masturbate to orgasm. In saying that I think I have masturbated and touched myself more than I have in the last few years. I wake up many times during the night with a great erection that I would be proud to bury in a moist vagina or anus. I would lie awake for a while gently stroking it before drifting off to sleep. This happens several times a night. When I am anally stimulating myself with either my fingers or the Aneros I sometimes get hard for a few minutes then I subside to the flaccid or semi-flaccid state I normally am in during this anal stimulation. I feel happy and content with this flaccid state. I am content to feel the subtle vibes happening inside me and happy to feel the pool of pre-cum building up on my stomach.
What does this all mean? I am not sure, I feel that I am just at peace with my sexuality and enjoying my learning path. Hopefully it is a path towards multiple male orgasms. I know it will probably be a long path of learning but I hope I will be able to make that goal. It will be an enjoyable and pleasurable Tim I am sure.

2 nights ago/yesterday morning

so two nights ago I decided to sleep with my helix syn. before i took a shower and prepped for my session I actually chatted with a few people on the Chat feature of this site. I was grateful to encounter a man who helped me with some of my questions. I owe him a big "thank you". if you ever read this sir, "Thank you very much".

on to my session. I cleaned myself up and and prepped as usual. I went to bed afterwards and began my session with a some deep and short breaths, changing the rhythm of how my helix syn was nudging my prostate. it felt amazing. as i learned earlier from that day i needed to become more patient with my body and learn how to control my breaths and urges of touching myself to climax. that continued for possibly thirty minutes before i grew tired and slept the night.

i woke up early in the morning and felt the urge to start another session as it was already in my bum. reading some erotica helped spur the excitement i was feeling as i spent close to forty minutes begging for more. with a variation of breaths, clenching, and positions I was feeling even better when i decided to touch around myself. possibly overwhelmed by the feeling or tired from my early rise i ended up falling asleep. Read more »

first two weeks

hi everyone. i'm new to using a prostate massager and i'm in my early twenties. i've used it a couple of times but i'm not sure if i'm using it right or if its just me. the longest session i've had was maybe an hour long, but i couldn't refrain from touching myself. in the end i always climax after masturbating to a good fantasy. should i be already aroused when i insert my helix? i usually prep before insertion and then i start making myself aroused. it helps when i pull the helix back using the tail, so that the helix pushes against my prostate. is that normal? also i've tried some of the various positions that people have offered and so far the best one for me is to just lay back and squeeze my legs and butt together so that my helix feels fuller. then i start thrusting my hips upward while clenching on the helix and sometimes i alternate by circling my hips against the bed. any thoughts? i'm just curious about the whole thing. what i do know though is that my orgasms have been amazing after ejaculation. it just feels great to have that pressure against my prostate.

btw, i was wondering if there are any (new) users in my age range that can share their tips and experiences with me. i'll welcome all comments but since i guess i'm kind of a younger user i can relate better with someone around my age.

Trying to Lose Control

I had already started trying to use less nipple stimulation in my session and wanted to discover a new aspect to Aneros pleasure. I don't know to what extent different men use their nipples in conjunction with the Aneros. I may be on one end of the spectrum in how I have tended to rely on my nipples to build up and sustain a Super O. I sometimes sneak a quick nipple rub in at work or while driving to feel a little pleasure on the side. It doesn't take very long and it has grown in intensity from where I started.

I've held off longer or not even used my nipples at all a few times in the last few sessions. I can't say my dry O's are as strong or that I've reached an all out Super O, but it's definitely a different experience. The first time I reached a hands and nipples free dry O a few days ago I was left alternating between moaning and laughing. I was having sustained muscle movements from the Aneros for the first time and it was driving the orgasm. I actually had the Peridise in for this session and it turns out that I was laying on my side which is not common for me. I'm usually on my back. Read more »

First test drive

I received my eagerly awaited first Aneros, a Helix Syn yesterday. Picked it up from the Post Office so that "she who disapproves, the fun police" would not find out about my purchase. When I arrived home, I unpacked in the garage, away from prying eyes. Then I took it into the house to give it a wash before going back to the garage. I thought I would get to know my new Aneros and have a little fun before getting down to the serious business of learning how to reach nirvana and dry organs etc. Shutting the door, I dropped my shorts and underpants. Reaching for my hidden stash of Lube, I snapped back the cap and squirted some onto my fingertip. Separating one cheek from I gently touched my puckered anus with the lubed up finger before pushing it home up to the palm of my hand. Withdrawing my finger, I picked up the Helix Syn and carefully lubed it up. While it glistened and shone blackly in the light of the window I lifted my right leg and placed my foot on the workbench. By this time my previously flaccid penis was becoming interested in the event unfolding and was better than half erect. I said to myself, this is not about you cock, this is about something much bigger and better than that. ConcentrateOrientating the Helix correctly I placed my hand behind myself and gently placed it agains my anus. On recognition it was correctly placed in pushed it firmly inside of me. It slipped in easily, just as I expected. What a nice comfortable feeling. A feeling that I had been missing for so long after I had thrown out my previously owned dildos and butt plugs. Lowering my leg down I clenched my muscles and felt to Aneros move inside of me, drawing itself upwards inside and rubbing over my prostate. A few more muscle movements and my penis subsided. After about 5 minutes I decided to check for pre-cum. I found a pleasant surprise, a dewdrop had formed on my urethral opening of my once again flaccid penis. It was then I heard a call from inside the house so I had to quickly withdraw my Aneros, tidy up and go to see what I was needed for inside by my wife. Read more »

Breakthrough

I was excited to write this entry! After my early success, I've been disappointed lately because I haven't been able to reach MMO's and Super O's. My sessions are always nice and enjoyable, but I just couldn't get that over the top experience for about the last month.

Last night though, I made a huge step in my journey to rewiring! I had my first Aneros-less experience. I had played with my Helix Syn the night before and wore it while having sex with my wife for a huge explosion. I also knew I'd be playing with it on Friday night, so I didn't do anything last night. I was lying in bed on my left side with my right leg bent talking to my wife while she read a book. All of a sudden I could feel something inside. I half consciously started thinking about the feeling and making contractions. It felt so good and I could "feel" my prostate like my aneros was touching it. I got rock hard and I was on the verge of a dry orgasm, but I made the mistake of moving my body pillow! I can't wait to insert my Helix tonight!

Private Penetration

I have mentioned many time in this blog that the advances I have made in my sexual journey have brought me closer to understanding the emotional, sensual and physiological sexual needs of a woman.

I have gained this understanding because the experience of a deep prostate centered anal orgasm is very similar to the g spot orgasmic experience of a woman. J has most definitely become aware of the change that occurred in me as I am a different lover. I am more mindful, less impetuous in the pursuit of pleasure and I am more patient with her experience of vaginal pleasure. I can almost read her mind and understand what she wants and needs to fulfill the craving that takes control of her body when we are being intimate.

One of the things that has come with this new sexual pathway I am on is the need I feel to be penetrated. While 90% of my MMO sessions are induced without penetration there are times that I crave the exquisite torture of deep stimulation to trigger the release of chains of pleasure waves in my core. To some people it is the need to feel the fullness of a large object; that is not the case for me. For me it is the sensation of the subtle touch of an delicate object to unlock the excruciatingly pleasurable peristaltic waves of anal orgasm. Read more »

It Was About Her

I wasn’t sure how long I would stay with my erotic writing; I thought that I would just make several entries and go on. But I have enjoyed doing this so much I decided to continue. After the first few posts I was hooked. Why have I stuck with this for so long and why am I willing to commit to all these entries?

Part of it is I am smitten with chronicling my erotic thoughts. My rewiring has opened a creative window in me, my powers of observance have been sharpened and my love for expressing those observations has grown exponentially. When I read through all the entries I am struck by the consistency and the emotional power of the sexual things that I have thought about and the things that have happened to me.

Part of it is the pure eroticism of it Like most people I don’t dwell on things in my life but my writing has created the opportunity for me to savor some very special steamy times. It has given me the chance to ruminate on sexual events in my life and revisit them in my mind. In the process of recalling events, thinking about them, describing them and thinking about how they felt at the time I am reliving them. In this ponderous process the richness, sensuality and eroticism and the depth of the events intensifies in my mind and hardens my cock. Read more »

Aneros Foreplay

Hi guys,

All guys who use the Aneros realize from the outset that sexual arousal is necessary for the Aneros model to work. However, even sexual arousal or horniness has minimal effect on the Aneros in the beginning of a guy's Aneros journey. His prostate has to awaken first before sexual arousal can fuel his sessions. This is true for most guys of which I am one. Some guys however who are experienced in anal play and/or have an understanding and loving sexual partner take to Aneros like a duck to water.

After nineteen months of Aneros sessions with my prostate fully awakened, Aneros foreplay for me is an exciting and delicious foreplay to the main course of Anerosing with my Aneros buddies. Plus there is this persistent Aneros autof**k going on 24/7 going on within me. Most mornings now, I wake up and think of my Aneros models. I get horny for me. I call this state of mind and body Anerosy = Aneros horniness.

When I have plenty of time on my hands, I like to sit meditatively and focus my attention up my prostate, penis, gonads, and auxiliary sexual organs. This meditative focus is rooted with breathing deeply and subtle as I feel the buzz or sexual electricity centered in this area of my body, but which pervades my entire body and consciousness. Read more »