Getting and staying turned on without porn or masturbating

I just got my first aneros. So far I haven’t been able to get anywhere, I mostly just lay and clench the muscles am with very little sensation. From the sound of it it seems like I need to be turned on before starting but shouldn’t masturbate or use porn. For the time I was turned on when I started, I ended up just being in meditative state and relaxed (and not turned on any more) as I focused on my breathing, muscles and body sensations.

Any advice would be great

Reached a Plateau again..

Month 7 . I’ve continued my sessions and got some progress, but I’m still not there. I don’t think I’ve had p-waves; I haven’t had strong ones anyway

Progress: I feel that I have awakened my butt (Pc already awake). I sometimes get radiating sensations around anus when I have a session or when I try kegels . At times the pleasure starts extending up the area underneath my pubic area. But I haven’t had any overwhelming pleasure. Haven’t visited cloud 9. I have involuntaries of varying pleasure (could be as low as no pleasure). I also have what I’ll call second nature contractions . I kind of just think of a contraction pattern and my body does it in pretty much the same way that involuntaries happen. I don’t really have any conscious effort being put into the contraction. Both of these at least start off on the gentler and short side and change intensity on their own;

Not exactly progress, but my legs sometimes shake more frequently when I am on my back with my legs spread, feet flat on the bed.

What I have done differently: I practice what I believe are kegels and reverse kegels. I am not sure I am doing them correctly, but…I got a new toy:the eupho trident. For now, it is my favorite toy since its use coincided with my butt awakening. I like the way it’s p-tab naturally rests on my perineum/taint. I feel I have to manipulate my helix trident to do the same.

Another day, another HFWO

So today took two sessions (helix syn trident) to finally make any sort of progress. The second time, I did some light nipple play, which immediately cause a warm tingly sensation down in my pelvis. Despite trying to control the excitement with my breathing, I ended up getting hard and having a HFWO (which felt pretty spectacular, I must say).

The question, though, for me remains… I have no idea how/when/if it will cross over from those sensations leading to a HFWO to those that lead to something dry and more intense…

Just sayin hi (/I’m not dead…lol)

Hey guys.

I’ve not been on the sub for a while. Covid blahs have really hit my libido.

I was initially going to take a couple of weeks away from prostate play to see if it was some kind of post cum hangover from awesome pgasms that was affecting my mood. 6 weeks later and it’s fairly safe to say that my mood was tanking from, most likely, the months of lockdown and loss of my normal routine.

So, on a positive note, that means that pgasms are back on the menu once I’ve figured out where the fuck my libido has fucked off to…lol.

U/Pantsyr made a post recently about state of mind being key to PGasm success. I totally agree with that and am living proof. You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole. If you ain’t in the right mental space then it’s really not worth the frustration of trying.

Ontario is hopefully coming out of lockdown in a couple of weeks so I could be in a gym in about a month 🤞🤞🤞🤞. Here’s hoping that the boost in endorphins, testosterone and self image will kick start my libido again.

I’ve not even been interested in porn…wtf????

Anyway, just wanted to say I’m still around. It was good to learn that it’s okay to take a break. It’s also a relief to know that pgasms weren’t responsible for fucking up my mood.

Eupho Trident

My first toy from Aneros was the Helix Syn Trident. I then purchased both the Progasm Ice along with the Tempo. Note, I had been able to achieve the Super O roughly a year after I had purchased they Syn Trident…. it was my first one. I had not considered the Eupho as it looked pretty close to the same as the Helix Syn… and I just didn’t think it would make that much of a difference.

I welcomed the Eupho Trident to my home about 2 months ago now, and just hadn’t had the time to write any sort of review on it. Went for the white plastic version as have the Syn for the Helix already thus figured with it being close to the same, why not try the white plastic.

All I can say is that this toy is a TREASURE. While yes it is different in size, I can definitely give it two thumbs up! The intensity of my Super O’s with this thing have been the most intense out of all of my toys and definitely is my favourite!

While with the Helix Syn as well as the Tempo, with both of these ones, I have been able to sit in my recliner and grind on them… but not so well with the Eupho or the Progasm… the tabs are hard and it just digs in too much. It’s fine for a bit, but then just gets a bit annoying/painful where it digs in.

Kegel vibrations

I have been practicing my kegels without any toys and getting good feeling vibrations (muscle spasms) as I contract – can make it last for 10-20mins or more . I am getting a bit of Precum leaking while doing this.

Is this a sign I am on the right path?

I presume when I next get time to insert my Aneros Helix Trident, I will be able to move things up a level.

Love to here from more experienced guys what they think.

My prostate seems to be dead after long break from Aneros… any help?

Long story short: after a long break (that was because of health problems) I don’t feel anything when using Aneros (helix syn)

So I’ve bought Aneros helix syn in the late 2019 and since beggining I was achieving amazing effects with dry orgasms, mind blowing waves etc… I took then a break ( I think something like 3 months till late 2020) and then I still was having great time using it. I’ve got to the point where I would feel that amazing ‘twitching’ feeling where your ass would literally ask to put aneros in and as soon as I put it in Ive felt amazing pleasure ..

During that year (2020) I was taking med drug called isotretinoin (skin problems) and had worse libido from time to time but it didn’t really affect my aneros sessions , I could had sex the same day and later in the day still achieve great results.

Then I’ve stopped taking isotretinoin (as my treatment was over) and after 2 weeks I’ve had some diarrhea problems that led to problems with my anus because my skin was dry (isotretinoin side effect). I’ve even visited a doctor to check if I’ve got hemorrhoids or something because the little pain and discomfort in that zone was still present and it lasted some time.

My adventures so far

Hi everyone,

28 year old virgin here. Thought I’d share my journey that I have had with prostate play over the past two to three-ish months. No guarantee that any of these steps will work for you. it is just my personal experience. Also I really hate labeling super-o’s or prostate orgasm. As I believe some people miss out or not realize they’ve had one. As they expect them to be exactly like other peoples experiences. My reminder to anyone struggling; just go with what feels pleasurable don’t try to label it.

I first got interested in prostate play because I was disappointed that supposedly only women can have multiple orgasms. I was raised in a very conservative religious home so it has taken me a while to discover things. I am still learning sex related things to this day. I came across the fact that the prostate is the male equivalent to the female g-spot. My Interest was piqued but of course it had the taboo of mostly being accessible through the exit only hole. After mulling it over in my head for multiple months and seeing a reddit post about how its natural to pleasure ones self via anal. I went for it.

I just had a wet orgasm from THOUGHT / Visualising only? No aneros or anything.

I just had a wet orgasm from THOUGHT / Visualising only? No aneros or anything.

The orgasm feeling started to come up and what happened was it started building ridiculously slow and I ended up on my front with my face in the pillow then I literally half screamed because it was building so slow.
This first orgasm stayed there for a good few seconds. So it felt like a normal orgasm length right? But after I had that… only after them few seconds I actually had a second although it felt like it was all one continued orgasm it didn’t stop to pause but it just carried on and this time ejaculation started coming out which means then it obviously lasted even longer

Somehow It must of built up so slow that I has an orgasm without which then it built up and then it continues with a normal orgasm so it lasted double the time. Not sure if the first was a dry orgasm?

I was scared though because I thought I was going to have some sort of never ending thing as that first orgasm wtf
it felt like it wasn’t going to stop and that it would keep growing more and more or just stay because not only was this at 3am, I also live with people
even the first moaning screams were load
It really felt like it wasn’t going to vanish but because it turnt into a normal orgasm it vanished. However maybe if I would of tried to hold a strong kegal or just had it in my head that I didn’t want to ejaculate
damn maybe it could of stayed longer because if it did
well actually I think it would of been way too much 😂

Eyes open or closed?

Hello, new user new poster here.

When you have your sessions, do you mainly have your eyes open or closed?

Sometimes I close my eyes and sometimes I stare at the ceiling.

When my eyes are open, I tend to feel pleasure more from my body, and when they are closed I feel tingles more in my mind. It’s not a huge difference but I’m wondering if it’s significant or if other people have noticed this too. This might be a silly question but can you even have an orgasm (of any kind?) with your eyes open? (like how sneezing forces your eyes closed)

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