I feel like I’m approaching a breakthrough with my prostate/aneros but I’m a little concerned about what that might mean. I want to have a healthy balance. How often do you use your aneros? Does “rewiring” your prostate make you overly sexual in unwanted situations? Does it make you disinterested in penile orgasms or sex with a partner?
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Intense sensation and build up, but not orgasm?
Today I decided to have a relaxing time. I had always tried to chase prostate orgasm, which never succeeded.
But today I think I got to a point I had never been before. I relaxed with some music, while the toy kept pressing the spot perfectly. The only thing I did was squeezing pc muscles tight. Then suddenly my heart ran fast and the anus area got warm. It felt like climbing up the sensation, but didn’t release with an orgasm. Eventually, I had to pee, and gave up. This whole process took about an hour.
I squeezed the pc muscles without releasing, and it was by this move that I think I got to that intense sensation. Is this a right approach?
Frustrated
I feel like I’ve got pretty close to having orgasms (maybe I’ve done it already?), but I’m just not sure I’ve gone as far as I can. I’ve got to the point before where my body is shaking and there’s hot waves/blurry vision/insanely horny/tingling in my arms and legs etc. But I feel like I get in my own way overthinking about what I should be doing at each stage. If I’m progressing through a session and I start to feel like I’m getting there I immediately am conscious of e.g. how often I should contract now, what to do with my hands now, whether my body is relaxed enough and if not where I should focus on relaxing. So much so that it kind of snaps be back out of the rhythm. Too much pressure on reaching the goal? I dunno what to do about it.
I’m getting kind of impatient too, I only play once a week but recently found that after so long I end up kind of thrusting, the slight movement this makes to the aneros on my prostate feels nice but ultimately I end up trying to will the orgasm to happen and end up thrusting my cock into my duvet until I squirt. It’s annoying because I know I’m drifting off the right path but I’m frustrated at not knowing how to get to multiple prostate cumming. Any advice? Does thrusting help or hinder?
Been playing for about 5 months now.
My first P-waves!
So for context: I’ve lurked a while but decided to make my first post after my first major breakthrough. I owned the helix trident until I lost it on a trip recently like a fool. I never had a great experience with it. Minor sensations, comfort, but nothing crazy. This is entirely due to user error and a poor fit regarding what I need.
Which brings us to Monday. I ordered a progasm and peridise to replace my lost model and was excited to try them out. I warmed up with the peridise by using it manually (just rubbing it on the prostate, not the right way to use it but sue me). This was the first thing that really helped me level up, I wanted a better warm up and I got one. It was easy and felt great.
Then came the progasm. I opted for a YouTube link that hotel guy used for binaural beats, slipped it in, and tried to clear my mind. My plan is usually to do nothing for a while, then start manually operating it with my pc muscles if I feel like it. The do nothing portion was not like my helix sessions at all! Usually, my butt clenches involuntarily and randomly at the beginning of the session. The progasm was so snug that I had more control over what happened, thus no involuntary squeezes. I also felt less sensation at the beginning, which was weird. I felt it helpful to have this new found control because I could also squeeze with more intention.
First toy questions / recommendations
So most of the recommendations seem to vary but I think I’m going to go for helix trident as it’s more of an all around/beginner type from what I can understand.
Is the only difference between the white vs syn the material used? I’m looking for something that requires less maintenance, especially drying before storage which makes me lean towards the white version rather than the syn.
Also open to other recommendations from past experience. I have an njoy wand and want something else to compliment that as sometimes I don’t want to focus on actually moving the device and want something a bit more passive.
Also while i have a thread open, does anyone have experience with prostate play on multiple consecutive days? Does going back to back days make the second day any less pleasurable or more uncomfortable if you’re sore? Are daily breaks recommended ?
Is a bit of dizziness normal?
I just finished a session, and something happened and I cannot quite described it. All I know it was pretty darn pleasurable, which is obviously good. It didn’t last too long, but when it was over, I felt a little dizzy. Is that normal?
How long should I wait to try again
So about three weeks ago I had my prostate orgasm, leading up to that I had a lot of moments that it felt really good. Lately I can try stimulating my prostate for hours and I don’t get any waves of sensation, I got to almost doing it daily. I feel like I might need to give my prostate a break. When you hit a wall what do you guys usually do
Had a breakthrough last session
About 2 years into my journey, not much progress since i started. Last session i decided instead of using kegels firmly to just barely squeeze them and relax my butt. I also was watching lesbian porn but mostly just for the audio. Rubbing my nipples gently as well.
Thats when i felt a build up. My heart started racing and all of a sudden my head felt like it was spinning around and that lasted about a minute then stopped.
I dont know if thats a normal sign but ill take it over nothing lol
Having trouble not cumming from aneros
I’ve been making great progress over the past few months. First it started with mildly pleasant sensations, then aneros-enhanced penile orgasms, and finally I felt like I had a breakthrough last week. I was literally screaming at the top of my lungs, orgasming for about 30 seconds straight while I thrusted uncontrollably as my eupho fucked me. But it seemed like I got there pretty quick and I came (an unusually large amount of cum fwiw), so I couldn’t really get back there again like everyone else describes their hours long sessions. Any tips to experience the orgasm but not cum?
Prostate stimulation and ejaculation
A little bit of background: I have been doing prostate play for about 3 years, mostly with toys and my wife’s fingering. However, I never experienced prostate orgasm that does not invove ejaculation. In other words, I always have had to stimulate penis to be able to cum.
So I was using my toy for solo play today. Instead of just relaxing and flexing, I actively put pressure on the prostate by grinding the head of the toy on it. I’m familiar with the location and feeling of my prostate, so it wasn’t hard to hit the right spot. After about 2 minutes have passed, I started to notice that there was a drop of cum on my penis. However, it was not typical pre-cum that would cone out; it felt as if the pressure on the prostate was “squeezing” sperm out of the prostate, and soon after a heavy drop of sperm actually fell on the ground (I was standing). Although it did not involve an orgasm, I was wondering if it would lead to a typical wet ejaculation orgasm.
My question is that is this how some men ejaculate through prostate play? I have seen men ejaculate only with prostate stimulation, both with and without “p-spot orgasm.” Can this possibly contribute to the conventional p-spot orgasm?