Unpredictable Sessions

Im a 71 year-old about 2 years on the journey. I posted here a couple of weeks past about an amazing session I had just had; one of near continuous super-Os. Since then I’ve had some enjoyable sessions, with some OK prostate Os but no super-Os. And the best of those intervening sessions were when riding a dildo, not from Aneros toys. Yesterday I had some time for a quick session spur-of-the-moment, and was not expecting much from the session considering the rushed set/setting. I didn’t feel especially horny, but I love a session as much for the relaxation and meditation as from the orgasms, so I went ahead.

And this brings me to the crux of this post; the unpredictable nature of prostate play, at least for me. I can experience several sessions in a row with mind-blowing strings of super-Os, and then plateau for several sessions where not much happens at all. Then, out of the blue, the next session leaves me a quivering mess after an hour of near-continuous orgasms. That was the case yesterday from the moment I inserted the Eupho Trident. I was a little buzzed from a few puffs from a THC vape, and had a fresh bottle of poppers close to hand. I had just read a great long post from another Aneros user stressing relaxation over contractions and focus on being the observer, not the manipulator. I wanted to try some of his techniques and so was doing the Do Nothing approach and trying to resist any clenching contractions. I said out loud that I was committed to being the observer in the session.

The mental component is just as important as the physical

I’ve been giving this a good bit of thought lately, and just this morning, in the middle of a wonderful multi orgasmic session I was interrupted. Even though I was still lying in bed with my Aneros toy inserted, the interruption broke my concentration and focus, and I immediately stopped orgasming. No sooner did the distraction end, I was able to get back in the proper head space immediately and start orgasming again. The presence of the toy was immaterial to my response while I wasn’t focused on the pleasure. Has anyone else experienced this?

Looking for feedback

Not sure how to ask what I want to ask, so I thought I’d share my experience and see if anyone had any thoughts/advice.

I bought Helix Syn Trident and Progasm together about 4 months ago. Did some reading and started playing and experimenting on my own. I’m used to ass play, so I don’t think I have any fears or inhibitions in that respect. Didn’t really start making any progress towards a prostate orgasm for a few months (found it difficult not to approach sessions like ass play or edging my cock, i.e. I kept ‘trying’ too hard, trying to pound my prostate fast and hard which I thought would get me there, which it didn’t). I’d play with these maybe every couple of weeks.

About a month ago I started to make some progress. I started using coconut oil, lay on my back with a pillow under each buttcheek (space in the centre) so the aneros wasn’t being pushed or affected outside of the control of my own muscles. Legs kinda spread, soles of my feet together. Made sure my flat was hot, no underwear or duvet touching my cock. I only did seassions when I naturally was horny, watched some light porn at first without contracting then moved to dirtier, louder porn and contracted slowly. I found I got involuntary muscle twitches and the start of ‘waves’ when I felt the aneros pressing into the sweet spot and I just held it there as long as possible rather than contract and release.

Advice about using Aneros Helix while sitting at desk

I bought my Aneros Helix a couple of weeks ago and boy am I happy with it.

I have not had too many chances to play – just 4 sessions so far. The last one was around 40 mins and I had a couple of satisfying mini orgasms. Then at the end of the session, while massaging my scrotum gently, but trying to hold-of from touching my cock, I had a multiple orgasms, with precum and then cum pouring out of my semi hard cock. I must say that it did make me both shudder and moan.

It does feel like you get into a highly erotic meditational state with prostate massage toy.

As I sit for long periods at my desk at home every day, I wonder if anyone has used the Aneros while seated like this.

I would not be able to get naked but could loosen things. I have a pad with a gap in the middle, that would lower the pressure from the tabs. I could also lean back in the seat.

Should I look at a second massager?

I currently have an older Progasm (maybe 10 years) and I am wondering if there have been any improvements on newer models that I should consider. Admittedly I haven’t spent enough time with my Progasm over the years but I want to start getting back into it.

I like the girth of the Progasm but I want to achieve the Super-O so is that still the best one to use?

Thanks for your input!

Describe the pleasure

Hey everyone, hope to get some advice here. I’ve been making progress, but seem to have plateaued.

Most of my sessions end with a WHFO, but they haven’t hit that next level. Call it a b+, good but I’ve had better. So I know there is more.

Can someone describe how to keep from going over the edge into ejaculation, without killing the good feelings? I’ve always had a somewhat short fuse, but this feels different. I can stop the train easily enough, but when I try to let it build to something more I just WHFO.

What am I missing? Am I focusing on the wrong feelings?

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Get a massage while using Aneros?

Has anyone had experience with getting a massage while using their Aneros? If so, what was it like? I get a professional massage about 4 times a year and was wondering what it would be like to use my Aneros during the session.

I usually request the 90 minute massage but when I use my Aneros, it’s only been for about 30 minutes at a time. Also I’m a newbie still learning the ropes. Didn’t know if it’s been done before or if I should avoid it? Especially since the masseuse has no clue what would be going on if things… escalated…

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What next?

I had my first progress today. After only about 10 minutes my whole face went flush and I started to have involuntary contractions. It lasted about a minute and felt really good but after that I couldn’t seem to regain that feeling. What do I need to do next to maintain that feeling and hopefully achieve a super o?

Knockoffs

I’ve practiced with knockoff aneros devices for years but have yet to ever get a mind blowing or even orgasmic result. Is there something special about the expensive ones that makes them work better? Should I keep trying the one I have and enjoy using or take the plunge?

What should I get if I buy name brand?

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Does anyone else wear clothing during sessions?

I’m at a point now where I can be fully clothed with an Aneros insterted and able to have Super Os and even HFWO if that’s what Im going for. I typically hear about folks always being naked. I haven’t done it naked in over a year.