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Don’t feel anything. Any advice?

So got my Helix Syn Trident last week and just had my second session. But I am not really feeling anything yet.. I know you got this list of milestones to reach for and I think I am at the point where the Aneros feels comfortably all around. I actually sometimes Don’t even feel it’s inside.. is this normal?

Anyway I tried it for about an hour. Just trying to relax, doing some kegel exercises etc. But it doesn’t feel like it’s going anywhere. I am dripping some precum but that’s it. After an hour I got bored and just finished it the normal way. 😛

so howw long does it take to actually feel some form of pleasure from it? Am I doing something wrong?

Weekend sessions = Progress!

Tried various different positions to maximize movement and it’s seemed to have helped. Keeping my feet up against a wall seems to be the best, or having my feet resting on a box off the bed works as well (someone had also posted about having their feet over the couch as well, haven’t tried that). A few things to note:

– I think I’ve actually “located” my prostate, it’s taken some time to figure out the spot to hit. Now it feels like I can ride that for much longer
– Breathing is key as it provides that “come here” motion
– Mini-O happened I think? It definitely felt like I climaxed but without ejaculating. No involuntary shakes but felt damn good
– Porn with more audio and “more vanilla” is much more stimulating
– Still trying to find the best spot for the p-tab, suggestions?
– THC does wonders but I wish that I could smoke it mid session vs before (since the recent reports of vape pens, I’ve gone back to regular bud)

My session on Saturday was probably the peak, and today I feel like I can still feel that buzzing.

What stimulation

What stimulation does everyone use during a session? Photos? Videos? Or nothing?

Bonus points for categories

Lessons learned, never use soap

I bought my first aneros, though I have used cheap anal vibrators in the past with no pleasure despite extracting pre-cum (and a flaccid dick). However, when I inserted this aneros for the first time, I did not even feel it slide in and I actually felt full body pleasure that people talk about and got a rock hard penis without touching myself…for about 10 seconds

I made a stupid mistake I had previously read about and touched my penis for a couple strokes and shakes. Big mistake, because the pleasures left me. Since I was in the shower, I took it out, washed it off, rubbed it with soap for lube…and put it back in………yeeeaaa no. Worst thing I could have done! My ass stung like I ate a bowl of chili peppers the previous day.

The worst part is, ever since then, maybe three weeks ago, each time I put it in, I haven’t felt pleasure and if anything, a lingering burning sensation.

What can I do to earn back the trust of my body? I know it takes a lot of relaxation, but I am wondering what I might be able to do in addition to that?

My Body notices — But I dont!

Ok so I’ve been getting into prostate stimulation for about a year and a half now.
Only recently have I gotten to the point where i get “the shakes”. I’ve gotten it with an Aneros, as well as with other toys.
I actually shake pretty violently, and I’m pretty sure I had a full body orgasm at one point.
I say “pretty sure”, because i started shaking more and more, until I shook really violently and then it kind of subsided.
The problem is, I didn’t feel any pleasure!
It was like my body was moving ahead of me and having a grand old time, but my brain didn’t send out any pleasure stimulants.
Does anyone recognize this, and what do you suggest I do? I’m worried my prostate is “broken” in the way where I don’t feel the pleasure everyone else is feeling. Or maybe I’m just impatient/not relaxed enough/not focusing on the right thing?I’d appreciate any advice!

First Time [Probable] Prostate Sensation: Holy Cow, What Just Happened?

I… I am simply trying to grasp what happened. Sorry this is long but I need to type this out.

Introduction. Bought an Aneros years ago. Couldn’t figure out how to enjoy it properly. Put it away for a few years, brought it back out every once in awhile to try again but still, no luck. About 2 months ago I decided to really put some effort into it, really practice, so I started placing it in during the later evening and just relaxing. Vaping some weed, sitting on the couch and just letting myself be.

Then for the first time ever, after about an hour or so, I felt something. Something different. It didn’t feel good per se, but it was a sensation in a region of my body I never had felt before. The first few times I did this, I thought, “I’m just high, this is all in my head. I’m pretending this sensation is there.” But with more times just sitting there with it in and high, it started pinpointing it more. One night, I had dozed off with it in, and suddenly woke up to something pulsing underneath. It was pleasurable, and I suddenly realized that this was not in my head. Went and sat on my bed and just let it happen. It felt good, but I didn’t feel rushed. You know how when you’re stimulating your penis, and it feels so damn good, but if you stop, it just feels… wrong somehow? Like it’s almost upsetting, you HAVE to keep going or you’re the experience will not be worth it? You just NEED to keep going? This sensation is different. It’s like, and I’m synesthetic so bare with me here, penile sensation is sharp, pointed and linear: it demands more and more. But this new sensation? It felt more circular, spherical, like a soft bubble floating up from the depths and pushing my insides. I didn’t care if it increased, it just felt really nice. For years I had never understood how my wife (and other women) could say that sex felt great *even if they didn’t orgasm*. It just didn’t make sense! How could you not want to finish? Doesn’t it make you feel antsy, almost angry if you don’t? Read more »

Can the Helix Syn be too small?

I’ve recently been trying mine out again but I’m not having much luck achieving any lasting sensations. The first time I put it in the other day, I had a mild sensation that resulted in a boner, but that slowly disappeared. It felt more like I could feel my heartbeat. The past couple of times I’ve tried, I’ve had nothing though.

My muscles seemed fairly relaxed (I think). The only other thing I can think of is that I haven’t felt properly horny in a long time, but I’d have thought the sensation alone would help with that. Could the toy itself be too small? I know the helix syn is an beginners one.

something different for me…

After walking around for about 10 min I am now sitting at my desk with a helix inserted…surfing reddit and reading about funstuff while squirming in my seat. It feels greatand making tons of pre – just flowing… Bottom line I just thought I should share that with everone that cares…

I recomend it as an experiment to see what kind of sinsations can be created….wow

Knowing when the right spot is hit?

Is that tingling sensation I’m feeling when I’m doing a “kegel squeeze” the prostate being stimulated? My last session I tried having my feet off my bed and propped up on a box (imagine the happy baby yoga pose) and was feeling a lot more sensation. Anyone else have that? Also that urination/ejaculation feeling, should I back off and relax more as I start to feel that? I feel like I’m getting closer towards this next level but I’m falling a little short each time.

First time

I finally had my first supper O last Saturday morning. I started out relaxing for two hour then bam my butt was wanting to lock up. It sucked the helix in so deep I wanted to clinch but kept telling myself to relax. Next thing I know I’m getting that feeling I’m cumming, but nothing is coming out. Lasted a long time felt like minutes, all this time my butt is sucking on the helix like mad with my spinster buzzing like ants walking around it. Then my butt let’s off and I’m trying to catch my breath. It starts again to clinching. I go though this for an hour got to the point I had to stop. Two days later my butt is still buzzing. Can’t wait to try again.