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[Advice] Anal Training – What is working best for you?

I'[m] moving more and more into anal play,

I honestly think i’m still a novice in this journey (prostate play) but i’m at the stage where fingers are not enough anymore and I might went a bit big on the last toys I got… [Rock Off Bad boy](https://www.amazon.com/Rocks-Off-Bad-Boy-Black/dp/B00CM893HO) and [Aneros Progasm](https://www.amazon.com/Glass-Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B00AH6TPGW) but not by much. Love how they are filling me but still uncomfortable a bit and not fully enjoying my sessions.

What worked best so far for you in terms of stretching exercises?

Ie: Buttplug sessions, relaxation, natural lube (coconut oil VS industrial lube)? etc etc…

not a super o but pretty good ones

after a month or so from my last go, i had a bit of time to try again. I had abut 45 min or so. Once inserted, it only took a few minutes to start… – i have been in chastity on and off since last Friday. I was nn my bed, just doing nothing, breathing and feeling the sensations on my P spot. Slow movements started and flexing trying to find the right area.. and i a had an O. Not a major one, but pretty good. And for some reason i got out of bed and laid on the floor. Knees up and feet against the wall. that felt good.. i could feel it building again , and i laid on my side.. yep… here we go.. it happened again.. i bit stronger, and lasted longer. i was dripping precum pretty good. But i did not ejac. I do know i was out of breath. and it happened. I was a bit tired after.

Is My Erection Distracting Me?

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for about two months or so now, though somewhat infrequently due to lowered libido from meds. Despite that though, I’ve been making noticeable progress with each subsequent session.

Last night, for instance, I had some pretty strong twitches all over my body, though it lacks any pleasure to go along with it. From what I can tell, this is normal, and sooner or later I’ll begin feeling something from it.

The last two sessions, however, I noticed a slight problem: As soon as things begin getting good, I’ll become erect. This wouldn’t be an issue (actually I think it adds a lot to the experience) except that whenever that happens, all pleasurable feelings cease. My best guess as for why this is happening is that when I become erect, my attention turns to my penis instead of my prostate, thus causing me to lose all feeling.

I’m curious to know if this has happened to anybody else, and if there’s any advice for me, or if it is similar to the spasms in that it will get better in time.

Any and all help is appreciated.

Thank you.

Are there other strategies besides “do nothing approach”?

All I’ve really tried before is the “relax and do nothing approach” and it’s gotten me off to a good start on my journey to the super-O. My question is are there other techniques to try? If so what are some that I should try?

Which Trident to get?

I’m not new to butt play but have never used Aneros before. Would love to know your thoughts on the first one to get? Have heard great things about the Trident series, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. I tend too like a bit more heft and weight but not overly huge. I currently use the nJoy, but it’s just not long enough. I like to feel full. Thanks!

Any regular users ever insert and more or less instantly ‘know’ it’s just not going to work?

I get this sometimes. I feel ready for it and then soon after it’s inserted either my prostrate feels agitated or I start needing to pass wind suddenly. So frustrating when that happens, just me?

Tantric music recommendations

Does anyone have any good recommendations for music to listen to while using their aneros? I’ve tried binaural beats and like the idea of giving myself a rhythm to get into but to be honest most binaural beats just sort of give me a headache. I’ve also tried recordings of people masturbating/having orgasms but they can be a little too distracting and usually don’t last longer than a few minutes. Can anyone recommend any longer audio files (1 hour+) that has a binaural type of best but sounds a bit more like music than just noise? I found one audio file on SoundCloud called “binaural beats: tantric sex and intense orgasm” that I find really hot but I’ve listened to it so many times and it’s only 30 minutes long. Something similar to this would be amazing.

Thanks!

Newbie Tips

So I just bought the helix syn and the progasm. I heard those were the best two out there. Any recommendations for either of those specific models like maybe extra lube or not so much lube. Or like if I should loosen up first with another toy?

There’s still people who think that orgasm and ejaculation is the same. Can you explain the difference?

It worries me that there are people who don’t know the difference because that way they will not be able to have a “super-o”.

New to Aneros, not sure what type of orgasm

I am new to Aneros, but as a gay (mostly) bottom (also into spanking), I’ve been fucked hundreds and hundreds of times so the progasm is nothing to put in/take out. But wow, it’s definitely the best prostate stimulator toy I’ve ever encountered. I’m not too sure of the “Aneros Cult” terminology you see on here, but what I’ve already experienced is like this. If I just put it in and do nothing, nothing happens; even a little nudging the contractions doesn’t do much. But external movement of the aneros back and forth eventually produces a strong response, with “wavelike” qualities I see people talking about. Although my dick doesn’t get that hard, the orgasm is penile; there is come, although not that much. Not sure what type of prostate-orgasm to call that.