Lubrication Problems

Hi guys,
So I went on the aneros forum and found a recipe for coconut oil/shea butter suppositories. I put about half an ice-cube worth of this 50/50 mixture beforehand and then used some water based lube (slippery stuff) on my helix before putting it in. After about an hour it started to feel uncomfortable so I took it out. It was absolutely bone dry…but a LOT of the oil/butter mixture came out…how do I fix this?

Exciting progress!

Hi!

I’ve been using my aneros infrequently for the better part of three years now, with nothing much to show.

Last night, I let go of my expectations and remembered ‘to smell the flowers along the way’. This got me places I have never been before!

I didn’t orgasm, but I felt really warm inside, as if my whole body was snuggled up tight to a warm body, and I could definitely feel sexual, pleasurable energy flowing through me at the time – however I lost focus.

Here’s what I did:

– Smoked
– Inserted Progasm with some olive oil lube (I don’t have anything else atm)
– I lay on my side with my penis tucked behind me so it wasn’t touching anything
– I started a breathing pattern I’ve never tried before. I made sure to avoid contracting if at all possible, and stayed as relaxed as possible. Went something like this: breathe in – deeply and slowly, while focusing on feeling my prostate and the sensations that came with breathing deep, hold while slowly tightening my abdominals, and release slowly while contracting abdominals.

This repeated pattern of breathing and feeling got me further in ten minutes than I had been in the past two years! I felt as though I were about to leak fluid, but I never did. As the pleasure built, so did my excitement, and I think this is where I messed up.

Just arrived

So my Aneros Helix Syn just arrived this morning. But I won’t be able to use it until afternoon or even tomorrow. So I’ve been thinking if you could give me some tips for the first session. Besides, is it necessary to douche before using it?

no matter what I do my ass always burns

I’ve tried fucking everything. Even just using my finger it still feels like there’s hotsauce on my asshole, especially pulling out. It’s not the lube or anything.

I’m so desperate to make this work but not once has this not been an issue. Every time I try any sort of penetration my ass burns and it’s completely impossible to relax or feel good. At best I can just try my hardest to ignore it and it’ll sometimes feel a little good still but that goddamn fucking burning sensation is ALWAYS THERE

FUCK

I’m out of ideas. I guess I’ll never be able to enjoy butt play.

Can only feel prostrate while stroking penis

Everyone says not to touch your dick so much and avoid masturbating the usual way. But when I have my Syn in there I can’t really feel much even contracting unless I also stroke my dick.

While I’m stroking I can suddenly feel my prostrate swell and touch the toy, which feels just a little nice (I’m not at a stage where it’s amazing or anything). Just a second or two after I let go of my dick I think my prostrate just sort of retracts back and I can’t feel anything down there any more. What do I do?

So close – when?

I’ve been using the helix syn & progasm for almost 7 weeks. The last several weeks, I’ve hit sort of a plateau. I feel like I am SO close, but it never happens. I’ve tried very hard to just let it be, don’t expect anything. When I reach that zen, I will get even closer after a bit. But nothing. Any ideas?

Is this my prostate?

I am a Beginner to all of this. So I’ve tried a few times and haven really ever achieved what I wanted out of it. Was feeling around in there to get a sense of where it is at and a came across this sort of fat bulge in there. It’s quite large and feels like it almost blocks off anything from going any further in.

Or am I completely off and it might be something different like a hemeroid?

Today I had my first SuperO – and goes on.

After a month of regular use, today I finally attained my first Super O. It was mindblowing! Hoping I can maintain this state of consciousness in order to quickly achieve SuperOs in the future.

After I had the SuperO, I took out the aneros, and I’ve been having constant prostate orgasms without it in, it’s fucking incredible, I can’t even walk without having a massive prostate orgasm. I am sitting right know, without the aneros in, feeling extreme pleasure at the prostate (pleasure at the level of penile orgasm pleasure). I hope it stops so I can sleep!

Tricking brain by imitating sensation of orgasm by contracting on the aneros?

After 2 months abstinence from anything sexual, each contraction collapsing on the aneros is mind-blowing. It’s good enough to make my eyes roll to brain involuntarily. There is **this itchy place that can be scratched over and over again**, and every time it’s like 2 sec orgasm.

It makes me think that perhaps I’m not stimulating prostate at all, but pelvic floor muscles responsible for orgasm. Orgasm is a series of involuntary contractions. What I do when contracting on the aneros is imitating exactly that, over and over.

I imagine a lot of you have had related thoughts on your journeys. So I wanted to ask you at least if this is a possibility? Because I’ve had a lot of sessions and I can never ever feel anything by tickling prostate. It’s all about contractions, preferably with legs stretched out as far as possible. I’ve never had prostate orgasm.

Hopefully someone has anything to say about it. Eliminating or confirming the possibility I’m not stimulating prostate at all would be of great help.