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Helix Syn: help with sweet spot, contractions, and lube

I’ve had the Helix Syn for 5 months and have about 15 sessions. I’ve had some success with milestones such as pleasure through contracting, feeling the prostate, sometimes on the sweet spot, occasional involuntary muscle contraction, overall enjoyment, jerking, pleasure by blood pulses internally, and moaning during the sessions.

I’m feeling blocked, although i’ve spent a dozen hours reading wiki and forum posts for ideas. I seem to be the most successful while standing or sitting / over slouched on the couch with my butt hanging from the edge. Challenges:

1. I’m unsure where my Sweet Spot is. I’ve tried the tests in the Wiki, but I can’t seem to nail down. Sometimes during a session I reposition the p-Tab and know it’s the right place, because I immediately begin involuntary muscle contraction, but soon quit if the p-TAB moves. I try to secure it with my fingers, but it moves and I lose track of the right position and have trouble to find it again.

2. I often get the most pleasure from the combination of moderate to severe rectal contractions with anal and clower pelvic/kegel contractions. But pleasure seems mostly to come from when the Aneros comes out and the p-tab is an inch or two from my perinium. As if my body wants to push it in and out, but if I’m not careful it ejects and I have to keep a hand there to keep from coming out. Does this mean that my prostate is more shallow than the Helix Syn and I should try another model? Read more »

need some help/tips.

ok so i bought a loki wave. i started off with smaller toys before that have slipped in rather easy. i can get it about halfway in and its just feels like its stuck there after. what should i do? should i push a little harder? im scared i might hurt something down there. i used plenty of lube. not sure sure if this happens to other but i was bleeding a bit after trying to get it up there. not a lot of blood just tiny spot on toilet paper. is that normal?

separate question how exactly do i know where my prostate is. it all feels the same in there to me. this toy is pretty big how do i know if ive reached the spot? im 5’11 will i be able to get the whole thing in to take advantage of the 2nd vibrator.

as you can tell im still pretty new to this all. havent really been able to find my zone yet. any advice helps really. sorry for the long post.

prostate stimulation without toy

hope i dont get hate for this but thought this woudl be a good place to ask a good way to stimulate my prostate without a toy.

technics or common household objects?

Prostate only feels good if I contract pelvic floor. Contractions eventually lead to standard penile ejaculation

I can feel prostate really well, but hitting a certain threshold always results in the onset of typical contractions that push the semen out in a few quick bursts. If I’m very lucky it starts as prostate orgasm and semen starts flowing out, but after few seconds my pelvic floor contracts on its own and it’s ruined.

Also, generally prostate only feels good if I contract pelvic floor during the session. Teasing prostate without contraction feels like nothing. Has anybody been where I am?

Because nerves of prostate are connected to penis, my penis is always hard during the stimulation, and ejaculates normally.

I go 1-2 months between the sessions.

Loki Wave vs Nexus Sparta vs Nexus Revo

I’m moving on from the Helix and see a lot of talk about the Wave, I’m wondering if people have experience with the Sparta http://www.nexusrange.com/product/sparta or even the Revo, which got a raving review here: https://thebiggayreview.com/nexus-revo-stealth-prostate-massager/

Also Loki has the Hugo? Looking for your input to make a good decision, thank you 🙂

Aneros wiki Learning Center – older version – INSTRUCTIONS

Lelo Loki wave followup, as requested.

So I got the wave after the previous post, mostly because of the coupon in the thread, and some of the stuff I read about it.

I’ll start by saying I’m a tall (6’5″) person who owns a Helix and Progasm, and has no comfort issues with the latter. Owned them since November of last year.
I have never had a super O, and only gotten the serious full body P waves once with the helix, but get a lot of pleasure, tingles,and leakage out of both models, so your mileage may vary here.

The thing is pretty fuckin awesome, to get to the point. Made as much time as possible to be able to get familiar with it in the short time I’ve had it. I’m still feeling out differences, and while I like the wave motion, it hasn’t triggered some new cascade effect or anything. The vibes on the other hand are a whole new thing for me. The first couple of times I started low and then probably got ahead of myself and went to blast mode, which felt super good, but was definitely not anything that was going to move me towards a super O (as far as I can tell, anyway). Side note, the regular O and aftershocks from finishing yourself off while the “Boom” pattern as I call it is going is pretty crazy. The pattern is a REALLY deep vibe hit that tapers off to nothing fairly quickly, and then a second or 2 later another boom. Read more »

OMG so Flat surfaces help so much, breakthrough!!!

OMG so the other day I was playing in another room in the floor and the session was amazingly better.

Today I did the same in my floor rather than the bed. While the bed is so comfortable and movements I make are quieted by the beds movement. On the floor my body just shakes in pleasure and everything feels so much more intense.

Still no super o but several waves of pleasure. Hoping this helps everyone else as well. Lay a blanket or towel down and let me know if it helps you the same. I’m so exited now. I can’t wait till my next session.

First thoughts…

Alternative liquid lubricants

Hi guys,

I’m hoping you can help. I recently bought the Helix Syn and have been using unrefined Shea butter with it. However, I’m looking for a liquid alternative that I can use with it, preferably something discreet (as in not necessarily intended for this purpose, much like the Shea butter) that is available at a local grocery store / Amazon.

If anyone can share alternatives that have worked for them, I’d be very grateful!