How do I know if the p-tip is in its right place?

I feel like the p-tip of my aneros helix sync isn't in its right place. I think it needs to be closer to the penis and I can't really adjust it that way. Its supposed to put pressure on the prostate from the outside, right? I dont think it hits that spot at all. Sadly I am one of those guys who can't even achieve p-waves, yet. But I'm not giving up, just trying to make sure that all the boxes are checked for it to even work physically.

New Toy

I got a new toy off of Amazon. Its not an Aneros product, so it may technically be off topic here.

The price was cheap, and being silicone, I though I would give it a shot. I'm glad I did.

The flexible nature of this makes it much more comfortable than the hard plastic of the Aneros models that I have tried. Yet it is still firm enough to make its presence known, and it does that very well. One thing I noticed right away. It isn't drawn into the body the way the Aneros does. It needs to be pushed firmly into place, but it can be pushed too far. Don't use vaseline as a lube. It is too slick, and this toy will fall back out. A little bit of olive oil injected with a lube shooter seems to do the job quite nicely.

This doesn't have the P-Tab of the Aneros. It has these ticklers that apply little if any pressure. I don't really notice them, and don't think they do anything, but at least they don't hurt like the P-Tab does at times.

This is sold as both a prostate and anal massager. The anal part is incredible. The compressible nature of the rubber is causing a little tug of war, as it is squeezed and bounces back, causing these unbelievable spasms. It is being squeezed so hard at times that I've actually found it somewhat difficult to remove.

Please help explain contractions to me.

I've read numerous tutorials and FAQ's here and on the aneros forum and for some reason I'm just not really grasping how exactly to do contractions or if I am doing them right.

I've watched a ton of videos of other guys using the aneros and I can clearly see the toy moving freely inside of them….I never feel the toy move inside at all.

Any tips or links to helpful videos/articles would be very much appreciated.

Thanks.

If you haven’t suceeded keep trying. It is SO worth it.

I'm at least 10 minutes into a nonstop orgasm. I'm barely able to function, but I am getting better at it..

I'm using the Peridise, which isn't even technically a massager, but it is doing everything right.

I used to never vocalize and moan like this but now I have no choice. My toes are clinched.

Is this what an orgasm feels like to a woman?

Ps add another five minutes or so.

Both of my hands are trying to crush my skull. Yes this is a good one.

It stopped for about two seconds, and is now starting up again.

I wish I was hooked up to a bunch of medical monitors right now.

I would love to see brain scans of this and other normal orgasms.

I'm sure my blood pressure is sky high right now., and I really don't care if this kills me.

I may be dead now already. I think I'm in Heaven.

I think I've earned my new username. 🙂

Aneros Peridise

I though I would try something new. I'm glad I did. First of all there is absolutely no discomfort at all with this inserted. I believe I will try to sleep with it in.

I don't know IF I will be Able to sleep, as I am already experinencing Super-O's. This is only my third session since it arrived today. I did cheat, using my Helix in a mini-session to jump start my prostate.

I will have to experiment without the jump start later. I also did a better lube job. Heh.

This could be my new favorite. I am using the smaller size.

I wonder if I will be able to have my walks with this in. I've been trying to get more exercise. This could make things much more interesting if I can keep things under control.

It will be raining for a few days, so I won't be able to for a while.

“Sleep Orgasms are Real”

So I found what I thought was a very informative article about how women can "think" themselves to orgasm and often do in their sleep. This is currently the mindset I've been using, by focusing on inner pleasure, rather than outer pleasure, to distinguish orgasm from ejaculation, which I had always had wired together. I thought it might help some people with their rewiring process 🙂 http://fusion.net/story/152129/sleep-orgasms-are-real/

A whole lot of shaking, but nothing else

A couple of questions.

I've been using my Helix Classic for about six weeks now. Recently I maybe had a breakthrough? I'm really not entirely sure.

I start with breathing exercises, then add contractions in conjunction with breathing. After a few minutes, I get into this weird headspace that seems closer to intense meditation than anything else. After that, my eylids flutter and I start having very strong muscle contractions in my abs, thighs and butt, but only a few rectal contractions. This feeling is nice, but there's really nothing at all about it that seems pleasurable and definitely not sexual. I've also not had an erection this way at all, and no prostate fluid or any sense of hitting or stimulating the prostate.

The first time I did this, it was even without the aneros in, and having it in doesn't seem to make any difference at all.

I'm really confused. What's happening is definitely intense, but not at all sexual, and seems to be possible with or without the aneros inserted.

What the fuck is happening?

Coconut oil! Yes!

I tried using coconut oil instead of lube last night, and I am a convert! This was the first time that I could really feel the Aneros freely moving inside me.

With regular lube, it would go in but there was always a little friction when it was in, so I ended up having to squeeze very hard to get anything going, and I got pretty frustrated, even though I had some great hand-assisted orgasms with it.

But, last night with coconut oil, I could just barely contract my muscles and the Aneros would wiggle around and do wonderful things. So, I could really relax and play around with doing little things and feeling the results. There were two times in 30 min that I got into a groove and my cock got so hard. It felt great! (But, I didn't super-o…)

I finally feel like I'm going in the right direction with my Aneros!

Yay!

[advice] I’m lined up to have a massive session tonight but could use some pointers/tips

I was out of town since Friday, sharing a hotel room with family, so I haven't gotten off in about 72+ hrs. I typically ejaculate at least once a day before I get out of bed in the morning, so this is rare for me and my sexual energy has been building and building. This evening I will get the place to myself for a bit, so it's basically the perfect storm to have a monster session. So I'm asking for advice:

During your best session(s) what are some things you did before/during/after the experience that really made a difference in separating it from a normal experience to an amazing one. Things that brought on really hard super os, or rolling orgasms, or multiples with short lag periods, etc.

I'm thinking about things as simple as a hot bath before hand, to more complex things like a very specific body positioning or listening to music or porn. Just about anything that really made a difference for you that I could easily replicate.

I'll be using the helix syn but I also have the progasm, eupho syn, peridise, MGX, and Maximus. I also have some Lelo products and dildos that are fun to use after I've been riding the aneros for a bit.

Thanks