Hello everyone, relatively new user here (couple months) with some success, but I always seem to end up ending a session with a HFWO. I have the MGX Trident. There has been one instance where I feel like I made great progress, I was listening to the kinkyshibby audio for aneros (I can link below if needed, unsure how to link in post on mobile) after reading some other comments recommending it. Got about 50 minutes in and my entire body started to shake and I got pins and needles all over. Started to orgasm hard, definitely felt more than a normal orgasm, and it started out with me not cumming, but eventually after most of the pumps some cum did come out and I had to deal with the refractory period. It seems that every session I have I end up with a HFWO, and a normal refractory period. Does anyone else experience this and does anyone know of any tips to lead towards a HFO and Super-O? Thanks for your time!
Using a back massager to relax lead me to the Super O – IF YOU SIT IN A CHAIR ALL DAY READ THIS
If you sit all day and don’t have an active stretching or exercise routine (pretty much most of us in COVID) chances are you have some soreness or tightness around the pelvic region. Whether its’s your hips, glutes, or even lower back, tension in these areas can make it very difficult to relax.
After 5 years of trying (from 2014 onward) with only a few minor successes, a few weeks after regularly using a pressure point massager (the one I used is linked below but they all pretty much do the same thing) to loosen and work those areas I starting having consistent P-waves, leading up to my first SuperO a few days later. This was autumn of 2019. Now I am able to reach SuperO with some consistency, and recently had my first A-less SuperO.
Once I put two and two together I was absolutely astounded. It seems so obvious now that I think about it in hind sight.
Currently, my routine consists of inserting Aneros and spending at least 10-15min loosening up my hips while I get use to the toy. Personally, I find it most effective to stretch and actively move the point I am massaging. If you are especially sore this might hurt, so please be gentle.
I hope you are able to find this useful, please feel free to comment / reach out with questions and I will be happy to respond.
Massager I Use: [https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW](https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW)
Muscle Tension or “Buildup”?
Howdy!
I can get to a point where I feel a sort of swelling, or even numbness, with the Aneros, primarily when I focus on holding the contraction of my PC muscles (I kinda just let the anus do its own thing–maybe an adjustment here or there if I’m not feeling much). Is this a feeling I should be chasing? The reason I ask is because it isn’t very pleasurable, and I worry that what I’m feeling is simply muscle strain. Perhaps this “burning sensation” will become pleasurable as the rewiring process continues, or I should focus less on the sensation itself and more on arousal amplification? Has anyone else had a similar experience?
Thanks for your thoughts!
First time using an Aneros product
I’m using the progasm someone recommended it too me sounded good said it would take a bit of getting use too and I’m looking for advice like a good pose to use it in and stuff like that.
Is it really that good?
So I’ve been pretty frustrated with my prostate sessions. I’ve never used a Aneros product before but after reading a bunch on here and on the wiki I’m thinking of going for the Helix syn trident, is this the right toy for a Aneros first timer?
From what I understand this is a more passive kind of toy where you don’t have to do anything?
I’ve used regular dildo’s and the njoy pure wand before without any results so I’m pretty desperate in finding something that works.
So is the helix syn trident going to help me on my journey? Does it really feel as good as everyone is saying?
I’m very sceptical of ever achieving a p orgasm so I hope this will help me.
About to have house to myself – what would you do?
Having a family makes it difficult to have regular aneros sessions. Luckily I’m about to have the house to myself for a couple days this weekend. What would your routine be leading up to and during the aneros session in this scenario in order to maximize results? Here is what I have planned for now:
*abstain from orgasm starting today.
*edge as much as possible between now and whatever day I decide to try a session
*exercise, drink water, basically try to do a mini cleanse to clear out my bowels
*wear butt plugs to acclimate my rectum/sphincter
*meditate
day of:
*edge like crazy, psych myself up and really get my libido going
*eat light meals/snacks and hydrate
*maybe smoke a little weed or do some shrooms
*get going with some porn, maybe break out my bad dragon sleeve and some dildos
*insert aneros followed by some meditation, maybe with some binaural beats playing
*keep expectations low and see where things go
What would your routine look like in a similar situation?
Clamping
Nearly five months ,no orgasm’s as yet but nice feelings ,and sitting at times with pressure on my perineum feels erotic. I get a lot of clamping going on during a session and sometimes that is a little uncomfortable,is that normal ? I do maybe 3 sessions a week normally 1 and half hours each time sometimes 2 hours ,is this too much ?
How Long Before you Felt Pleasure?
I have had my Aneros Helix Trident for a couple of months. I use it a couple of times a week and have little to no success in getting any pleasure. It doesn’t feel bad or uncomfortable, but I just can’t seem to get any pleasure.
How long did it take you before you started to feel any pleasure and how long into your session did it take? My sessions last for about an hour but I get discouraged any longer than that because I don’t feel anything.
I plan to play today!
Like the title says, I plan to get some play time in today.
I don’t get to do it nearly as much as I want to, so I’m really excited! My previous sessions have all felt good and like I’m making progress. I’m really hoping for a long run today to see where we go. The hardest part for me is keeping my hands off myself. 😆
Any tips, suggestions or pointers on anything I should incorporate today?
TIA and happy playing!
Am I doing something wrong?
Hi, so I made some real progress for the first time last night. I managed to get the involuntary spasms going, although that’s all that it was. My entire body was shaking but there was no real pleasure. This shaking went on for 20-30 minutes before I called it quits as nothing else was happening. Don’t get me wrong the spasms felt alright but nothing life changing like so many other people write about. There was also no ejaculation or erection, though I know a lot of people don’t get those. Did I do something wrong or do I just need to progress further than where I was and stick it out longer. Or did I actually have a Super-O and it just isn’t as good as other people claim?