“Further Reflections On NoFap”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Intro
I thought it would be beneficial if I put-down some additional thoughts on my NoFap experience thus far. First off, NoFap seems to be a lot more difficult than SR. With SR, there was always the probability of an ejaculation at some point down-the-road. But not with Hard Mode NoFap like I am doing now. I have made it to Day 12 of SR (and NoFap) with only a hint of blue-balls. I fully expect a wet dream any night now and that should help. I think I can achieve it. This morning, I was awakened by a raging, throbbing erection and needed to reach for and put-on my XO cup to minimize the temptation; it worked!

Temptations
It is interesting how many “little” things creep into the brain while on NoFap. With the start of baseball season here, I would like to look at some images of the players (either on the field on in pictures) with their prominent cup “bulges”. But it dawned on me that those images, arousing as they are, would be sexually stimulating me and so I must not view them! Bummer!

I swim a lot in the morning and invariably see naked men and their packages in the locker room. This will be another temptation that I must not dwell on. But I can’t stop swimming. So I guess I just keep my towel on and look away! And so on…… Read more »

Right before work!

The last few weeks I have been having a fairly consistent schedule of sessions.

One day out of the weekend I have an Aless/Aneros session. Its typically 4-6 hours of pure orgasmic pleasure. Every 2 weeks I would couple that with a traditional ejaculation.

Typically every other day I go to Crossfit. I looked at this mornings workout and did not feel up to it. So I stayed home and decided lets have a mid week session.

I decided to go with the Helix Syn. I slid this bad boy in…it made contact with my prostate and away I went. About 10 mins in everything started to rub the right way and for the next 50 mins I was basically having a super-O. It went in peaks and valleys but the orgasm never really stopped. This is where I am at with my training. Its now all encompassing. My cock is typically rock hard and there is now a consistent bead of precum that forms. In fact today as I went to the reatroom at work I noticed my underwear was stuck to my cock head. I looked down only to find a massive spot where some precum after the fact came out.

Its such a pleasure to know of this pleasure.

“Some Reflections On NoFap”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Introduction
I kind of backed-into this “NoFap*” thing by wanting to extend my semen retention run (SR) and eliminate the dreaded “blue-balls”. I also wanted to experience another wet dream. It all seems to be working. Let me explain…..

Semen Retention
I am currently at Day 11 of SR and not feeling any blue balls. Yes, I should have had them by now and that usually meant that I would have a strong need to ejaculate. I am getting close to that time (Day 12) when I experienced my last wet dream and I am looking forward to another one any day now.

NoFap Technique (So-called Hard Mode or “Monkmode” (No PMO, no sex, no stimulating media at all. That generally means cutting out all social media, most tv, movies, video games, whatever else might convey sexualized or suggestive material)).

There are a couple of things which I am doing differently in NoFap that I haven’t done before. They include the PMO* rules:
• No porn. This is a critical component of NoFap PMO*. Absolutely no viewing, “teasing”, “sneaking” or even thinking about porn is allowed at any time.
• No masturbation (including edging) at any time. This one is harder than it looks. It includes NO TOUCHING (except for normal hygiene). For me, this also includes any form of touching my cock/balls/package through my jeans. While showering, it includes no playing-around with the slippery soap “down-there”. Anything that can cause me to precum may induce blue-balls and trigger masturbation and ejaculation and so it should be avoided.
• No orgasm (except for a wet dream). This is a TO (usually caused by masturbation). Read more »

Local store only carries 3 models, which one to choose for a beginner?

I’m planning to buy from a local store but according to their website ([https://www.goodvibes.com/s/](https://www.goodvibes.com/s/)) they only carry:

– Eupho Syn

– Eupho Trident

– Maximus Trident

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I originally wanted a Helix Syn and I’ll still see if they have one in store. If these three are my only options, which would you recommend? I’ve heard mixed things about the Eupho line being harder than the Helix for beginners (but the Helix might not be an option for me).

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Thanks for the input!

Helix did less than peridise for me now

i not sure whether the constant reliance on my wife manual prostate massage has conditioned my prostate to be more aware of her finger instead of my helix. My last 2 helix session were pretty much.. boring. no super-o like what i used to have. A few mini-o and i am done.
My revisit to peridise is another different story. While peridise started less interesting in the beginning, i could have a few superO from it in a single session. Not really sure why.. suspect additional anal pleasure from the peridise helped to bring me to the super O.

Need some advice on the “do nothing” method

So, hiya everyone. I’ve been chasing the aneros dream for a couple weeks now, and whilst I’ve definitely had some nice feelings, I’ve never truly had anything above a small p-wave.

After reading through here the “do nothing” method has been mentioned a lot and I figured I should try it. But even though I’ve read so much about it I just cant warp my head around it. Like, does do nothing mean not doing manual contractions at all? Literally just lying there and relaxing your anal muscles completely? During my sessions I’m manually contracting constantly and making the aneros “pound” into me, which I’m starting to realise maybe I shouldn’t do.

I’d love to hear your methods for achieving these dry and super-o’s, because am willing to try anything at this point!

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part V

Over the years I have visited and read many information resources which have helped me understand the complex variables associated with prostate orgasms and health, I thought here would be a good place to list some of those resources for the benefit of my fellow Anerosians. In no particular order you might find these worth reading and/or viewing.
On the topic of Prostate Massage in general :
Prostate Massage 101: Multiple, GIGANTIC, Shaking, Full-Body Orgasms!
Prostate Health with Dr. John Bergman

Is a $90 SGX worth it?

I’ve been looking into buying an Aneros but the most affordable one I could find is a $90 SGX when converted from my country’s currency.

Other Aneros products are in the $100+ range and I’m not sure if its worth buying it here.

“Is This A New Approach To Semen Retention and Wet Dreams?”

What Happened?
I am now in Day 8 of SR and thought that I would have to ejaculate soon. But something happened this morning that led me to believe that sooner rather than later, I will be experiencing another wet dream. Here’s the new approach…..

A New Fantasy
What I experienced this morning was quite simple. I got an ‘order’ from my urologist (like a prescription) that I should remain in chastity and thus strive to achieve a wet dream. No masturbation or porn or orgasm allowed (essentially NoFap PMO!) That means progressing a little further in semen retention and not to dwell unnecessarily on the potential for blue-balls. This approach might present my ‘ejaculatory system’ to me in a new light—-a new ‘chastity’ if you will. Since I am just following ‘doctor’s orders’, I must comply, right? Even a little bit of blue-ball discomfort should not stop me now. Of course, time will tell, but even now at Day 8, I still feel great!

What Next?
I will continue on the SR road and expect to achieve a wet dream sometime soon. Last time I remember, it happened at Day 12. When that happens again, I will have followed my doctor’s instructions perfectly!

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