Too deep?

I have a helix, progasm, hugo, njoy wand.
And a few dildos.

Helix does feel good but only very mildly.
Progasm feels good in a girthy way.
Hugo buzzes too hard, numbs everything.

I’ve only gotten intense feelings from what I think is my prostate by using the njoy wand and longer dildos. It seems to be a spot that the progasm also stimulates but not directly on the head, slightly further in.

Rocking the toys on the spot doesnt get much pleasure.

What works is pulling it out and thrusting it into the spot. But I can’t ever keep it up long enough to climax due to the awkward angle and its quite easy to lose the right angle to hit it.

Coming back after almost 4 years

For a whole multitude of reasons I hadn’t used my aneros toys for almost 4 years. However, a little while ago I finally delved in to the depths of my wardrobe and freed them from their boxes. I prepped myself, had a shower and turned up the heating so I was nice and cosy. In front of me were my helix, eupho and progasm. I opted for the helix since it’s been a while, and got myself nice and relaxed before inserting. And after an hour… nothing. The feeling of having it inserted was nice, but there were no pleasurable feelings anywhere else, no buzz, no excitement.

I tried it again the next day. More of the same (nothing!) I remembered having trouble with it before, so did a bit of research and wondered if it was too small for me, or if it didn’t quite ‘fit’ right. The best feelings used to come from my progasm but it was looking a little intimidating after such a long time away. So I hopped online and bought a Progasm Jr. Best. Decision. Ever.

As soon as I got it I was incredibly excited. I’d already prepped myself and my room before it arrived in the post, I tore open the package, gave it a good clean and jumped in to bed. This toy is beautiful, black, shiny and elegant, in my opinion it’s much more attractive than any other Aneros toys I’ve had. Any of the prostate toys in fact.

“Changing Up The Session!”

Introduction
I was ready for this morning’s session. Here’s how it happened….

Pre-Session
I retired for the night only wearing my PJs. Yes, I know I am in Day 8 of SR but I really do feel like I could go farther. I awoke about 2 AM with a rather stiff erection. Rather than just grab and put-on a cup, I decided to “wait-it-out”. I just remained still in bed, probably for at least 30 minutes. After that, I rolled-over on my stomach and started to wonder: “Is this how a wet dream would occur?” I began to think about the possibility of having another erection while I was asleep and that may precipitate a wet dream? Intriguing possibility! But In the end, I decided to put-on my XO cup and just try to get back to sleep.

Session
I awoke again, this time about 5 AM and just knew that I needed a session with the MGX Classic. I had not ridden it in a while and was anticipating the pleasure it could provide. So I lubed-up with SSG and got the stem in quite deeply; The MGX has the possibility of stimulating a HFWO and so, being in Day 8, I would not mind too much if I ended this session with an ejaculation. Since there is more ‘room’ in back of the Mueller cup (between the leg straps), I switched cups before the start of the session.

I don’t know where to turn, can someone please tell me what is going on with me?

I have never used the aneros, in fact, I only found out about this community while searching the web for explanations of what I’m dealing with.

I think I am dealing with what you call the butt buzz, and possibly awakened or rewired prostate. I did not seek this feeling out and I want it to go away.

This began after I was diagnosed with chronic prostatitis/CPPS. I had a cystoscopy done, which is where a camera scope is inserted into the urethra and bladder in order to look for structural abnormalities. This was the first and only time anything has been in my dick.

A week later I masturbated. I came extremely quickly, and the orgasm was actually too intense. There was no refractory period, I could keep doing it over and over. I was left with a buzzing sensation in and around my genitals, almost like I was gonna cum, the feeling radiated up and down my legs. I thought it was PGAD or RLS, and I was freaked out. I took gabapentin 2 days later and it went away.

The feeling re emerged months later when i went on an ssri. Had to discontinue it after 3 days because of it, and it subsided.

Looked into prostate massage, became curious about the prostate orgasm. Last week masturbated with my finger in my ass and had an explosive orgasm, which felt like the ones I had after my cystoscopy. It was too intense and i dont like it.

My experience so far…

So, I jumped on the prostate bandwagon a few months ago and started with the Helix Syn. Had a few good sessions with it but wasn’t getting anywhere close to what I was reading about. Turns out…I was too impatient.

I ordered the Helix Trident Syn last week and I have had a few sessions with it. I like it SO much better than the Syn. That extra strength in the P-tab really helps.

The other night I was having a session and I had my first hands-free ejaculation. Not a Super-O or even a dry orgasm, but hands-free nonetheless. That was a pretty big step. I had the Trident in and I had used extra lube. I was lying on my back with my knees bent and my feet flat on the bed. I had my dick tucked between my legs and my legs were squeezed closed. This goes against the “relax and it will come to you” but it felt so good.

I also had quite a few large muscle shakes. The feelings grew and grew and then I came. It was pretty intense but not my ultimate goal. Still, I had managed to do something I’d never done before so that was a good session.

Today, I put on my chastity cage and sat around doing some work. I started feeling horny and just paid attention to my prostate. I have found that I can get some great feelings without the Aneros if I concentrate enough so I tried doing that.

“Lock Me Up!”

Credo
That’s the attitude I am taking this morning! Let me explain…..

Discussion
I am progressing towards an ejaculation (or perhaps a wet dream) and currently in Day 7 of semen retention (SR). I have worn my Mueller Flex Shield cup since early this morning and am so glad that I did. I experienced a quite powerful erection and if I were not wearing the cup, I probably would have ejaculated by now. As always, the cup prevents any and all attempts at masturbation and at Day 7, there is more of an extreme ‘urgency’ to accomplish the mission.

I know it will get progressively harder and harder to refrain from ejaculating the longer I go within SR. Two things will happen: either I will develop blue-balls (more likely) or I will experience a wet dream (less likely). Either way, I will ejaculate. How long can I last?

Attitude
PS There is a change in attitude as I progress longer in SR. There is a more ‘in-your-face’ attitude towards sex too. Guys that are locked-up in chastity (with a keyholder) experience this feeling regularly. They don’t really know IF or WHEN their next ejaculation will occur. I am starting to develop that same feeling now. It is very frustrating yet so sexually arousing at the same time.

New highs.

Things keep getting better. Tired of posting this repeatedly but, it’s the truth. This was my first session in almost a week.

Wife had to be out of the house this morning at 0800. Knowing morning sessions are better for me I took advantage of the opportunity and had some solo fun. Well, this was a session to beat all the others. Amazing where I’m at with SO intensity. I’ve learned to manipulate the Progasm to a small and highly sensitive area and work it back and forth. I had been tightening up and pulling it in further as the O built pulling it off this area but now I’m resisting that impulse and hitting that little spot. I was actually physically exhausted after this session today! I’m going to be sore tomorrow. I’d consider today’s intensity with my pulse elevated a good aerobic workout.

Had another twenty minute session this afternoon. Not near as good as this mornings.

Nipple O’s keep getting better too. I’ve learned to stop trying to force them and just let them happen.

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Question about technique

I have been seeing progress and frankly I enjoy the sensations and experience a lot, but I have a question to ask. After insertion, my aneros seats itself as deeply as the massager allows and stays there until I remove it. Are others able to relax enough to allow it to slide partway out and then reinsert itself by clenching or is it designed to stay fully seated?

Contraction Technique Improvement

1st hour relaxation only to thunderstorm sounds of nature. 2nd hour HypnAerosession CD1. Found during the last few minutes of the CD that my contractions seem to be providing a little more intensity of the same type sensations I had been feeling before. I also felt them more frequent. I Observed that when contracting, that it makes quite a bit of difference the rate of contraction. If I contract quickly, any sensations are minimal intensity and very short lived. If I contract very very slowly, I am noticing sensations along the way not felt when contracting faster. I hope this will ultimately lead to more sensations building upon each other during the contractions. Other than a light fluttering at my opening several sessions ago, nothing has been observed during relaxation. I do believe that sensations will begin recurring during relaxation. My biggest enemy at the moment is exercising patience. The time relaxing and trying to avoid expectations helps with this!