Whoa.

So I have been messing around with anal play for a little while. My ex got me into it and my current SO is luke warm to the idea so a lot of times I play with myself. I heard a lot about Aneros, especially the success stories so I invested a few dollars and said what the hell.

My first few experiences were okay, I had a plug that I played with while jerking off that felt great so initially I thought the Helix Syn was a dud. More recently I’ve been getting into hypnosis through Shibbysays and I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.

I was following through her 14 night regiment and jumped a level and went to “Intensity 5.” I put my Aneros in and 24 minutes later I was have a full body, mind clearing almost 45-60 second HFO. I did some light touching over my shorts but I fucking arched my back and could not contain myself. Today I have been experiencing the most amazing feeling of perpetual horniness.

If you’ve been struggling to get to the next level I would recommend it. There is a lot of femdom stuff which is what I’m in to but there is some other straight forward stuff.

Wow though.

2:18 and I wanted more

I had woken up with some pleasurable feelings in my prostate and started to encourage them, but decided that I needed sleep. I lubed up an popped in the Maximum and then lay back down to sleep. What followed for the next 5 hours until the alarm went off at 7:30 was blissful state of sleep and wakefulness, with waves of pleasure and orgasms, one big one where my prostate seems to roll itself 360 degrees inside me.

Finally at 7:30 I snoozed the alarm and let another 20 minutes of orgasms continue before I had to get up, so finished off with an ejaculation.

Wow! As has been said in the forums, every session is different. I’ve not yet learnt how to say no to more orgasms without finishing myself off with a wet one. Master it I will 🙂

Just had my first p-wave in a long time.

I have been trying prostate play for a long time, maybe 3 years. Over all this time I have only experienced one p wave and that was towards the end of the first year, until this morning. I woke up super early and couldn’t get back to sleep so I decided to do some relaxed prostate play for a bit. I pop in my helix syn and browse reddit out of boredom. Then it hit, out of no where, I wasn’t doing contractions I was just reading stuff. I got that tingly feeling in my lower stomach and thighs, my back arched, and I shook. I nearly pulled a muscle in my back because of it. I want it again so bad but don’t think I’ll get much more good feeling out of it today.

“Sleeping Without Chastity Isn’t Working!”

Introduction
I am trying to sleep without a “chastity cup” most nights now. For the most part, I am getting a good night’s sleep. However, there is a problem. Let me explain
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Nightly NPTs
I am sometimes awakened following a vivid dream sequence and discover that I awaken with a hard erection. I find it extremely difficult to keep my hands to myself. In fact, a couple of nights ago, I was only in Day 3 of SR but I “blew” it——I fell into a so-real fantasy (not wearing a cup) where I was back in my urologist’s office and this time one of his “aids” was performing a routine “ejaculation response test” on me to determine whether I had PE, DE or “normal” EJ response. The penile and scrotal stim felt entirely out of “my” control and although it was extremely arousing and pleasurable, I could not stop the ejaculation nor remain in chastity. I am now, sadly, back at Day 2.

This morning, I started to fall-into the same trap. But I decided to put-on my Mueller Flex Shield cup. And as soon as I did, I felt much better: I was unable to touch-and-feel my erection and so I was able to stay on my current ‘run’ of SR. What a relief!

Lesson Learned
The desire to remain in chastity always gets tested every night. If I want to remain on-track with chastity, I need to ‘protect’ my package from my mischievous, probing hands! If I were younger and desiring to start a family, however, these erections (and ejaculations) would be most welcome!

“Chastity, Celibacy and Aneros”

Introduction
I was browsing online this morning for ideas and definitions of chastity and celibacy (and abstinence too). And one of the take-aways was that it was important to practice regular prostate massage when undertaking these activities, particularly when combined with semen retention and resultant fewer ejaculations. It is important to prevent prostate issues such as cancer. A prostate massage (initially a few times a week then perhaps twice a month minimum) was recommended. That seemed to resound in my head, and the next thing I knew, I was headed up to my bedroom to perform a quick “therapeutic” prostate-massage session. I haven’t had one in a while.

Session
I selected rather quickly my Helix-Trident, lubed it up and began the session. And just as quickly, I fell-into a ‘matter-of-fact’ medical fantasy: I am preparing for a checkup in my urologist’s office and he wants all his patients now to ‘prep’ with a prostate massage. So I obliged.

The Helix went-in very easily and before I knew it, I had started the session. It wasn’t too long before I began to experience an ‘auto-f**k’ feeling within; very slight PC contractions which felt amazingly good. Every now and then, there was a more (involuntary) anal contraction. The doctor told me that this ‘prep’ was to be 15 to 20 minutes minimum; I stopped after 20 minutes. This was probably one of the best sessions I have had with the H-T in a while. And I am only in Day 2 of SR! I was wearing my XO ProCup during this session and several times during this ‘therapy’ I felt a ‘pump or two’ of something (turned out to be precum). An amazing feeling and an ever better prostate ‘prep’!

Does anyone know how to have dry orgasms ?

When I use my helix syn, it’s easy for me to have normal wet orgasm. But I keep reading stories of people having multiple dry orgasms. I just want to know if there is a technique or something. Like, can someone explain to me in detail how they end up achieving a dry orgasm. Just so people know, I flex my pc muscles while moving my hips and I keep going faster and harder until I cum. Is there something wrong with my technique ?

Full speed ahead

Since I have written a long blog post and got logged out before it could be posted (my fault), I’ll keep this post brief.

Currently my sessions involve erotic audio (I find that soft sensual moans helps me to relax and drift into the right space), circling around but not directly on the nipples and lying on the back with knees pointing up position. It’s been working well and my past 10 sessions or so have gotten increasingly and distinctly better each and everytime (hope I dont jinx this with the too much expectations haha).

The pelvic muscles have gotten stronger, the prostate orgasms last much longer. I find that I can get into that orgasmic state much quicker too. At this point I can safely say the prostate orgasms are just as intense as regular TOs without the penis stimulation and ejaculation.

With some mild clenching and letting the audio moans kick arousal into the prostate, I feel the unmistakable orgasm coming on and it does. At some points the orgasm gets so intense and the Aneros strokes the prostate so intensely I think it could hurt me but it never did! Sometimes there are large strokes and sometimes really small spasms when things get intense. The orgasms come in different lengths and intensities. There was once I came off an orgasm and I felt the Aneros stroke me, it felt exceptional and I started cumming again within 5 secs.

“The Bigger Picture”

{Note: Adult sexual content expressed in this blog. Readers be advised.}

Background
Lying in bed early this morning. I had slept part of the night in my Mueller cup; it was sooooo relaxing I hardly felt that I had it on! At one point, I decided to take it off and just sleep in my PJs. I had some vivid (non-sexual) dreams which I remember. During the night, I began to dwell on this concept and will relate it as I remember. (PS I am currently in Day 7 of SR; I have not had an Aneros session in a few days).

Meditation
I began to think not about the obvious differences between us males and females, but rather our respective sexual functions . And the distinction was rather clear in my mind. We males are the “actors” (the aggressors, the dominant ones) in sex. It is up to us to deposit our sperm into the female. The females do not have this function, other than to regulate their “fertile” days if they want to conceive. It is entirely up to us to accomplish our “mission”.

Then, as I dwelt on this some more, it became clear that us males need to “ensure” that we are “ready and able” to deposit our semen (that is, to ejaculate) at any time. Further, it became clear that anything we can do to “stimulate” our functioning sexual apparatus is beneficial. That would include massaging our prostates (through Aneros), edging, and even masturbation. Watching porn would certainly not be out of the question. This is especially true for guys that don’t have sex or have it very infrequently (such as myself).

A Cockring Out Of Energy

Last afternoon I lay on my couch and replaced my envision of touching my sweet spot right above my penis‘ root and my perineum by forming a half of a cockring using my forefinger and my middlefinger. Inspired by the actual movies about action heroes and all their magic skills and energies I instead imagined a ring of energy emitting a mixture of green and blue light at the position of and formed like a typical cockring. At my sweet spots I attached some transmitters for contact and energy transport. Then I let the energy flow and the vibes take over. It immediately became one of my most intense Aless sessions including some achingly forceful thrustings of my throbbing rock-hard member, some extreme squirming and writhing by letting go every of a lot of surprisingly crazy involuntaries accompanied by vocalizations that could have been used for the next Jurassic Parc episode.

What a joy!

So many thanks to @darkOrb for his initiating post.

Mart

Unable to get Involuntary contractions with toy?

I got my Aneros Classic back in August, and have tried the Peridise as well as Trident Maximus since then, and with any of the three toys, I have tried Relaxing and doing nothing, Light constant contractions, medium constant contractions, and heavy constant contractions, as well as contracting for a few minutes then relaxing, but using any of these, I get no involuntary contractions.

Recently I have been getting something that I think might be similar to them however, but they never occur when a toy is in, they occur when I am trying to go to sleep, and are like a twitching/vibrating of the anus.

Is there anything I can try to get these contractions to happen with a toy?