I Get Help With a Personal Problem

One of the benefits of spending so much time on the road for work was that it required between 8-10 room nights in hotels every month, this allowed me to have frequent sessions in private. As a result in 2013, in a given week on the road I would do at least two Aneros sessions, a fair amount of sexting and some camming. To say my libido was on overdrive at the end of a week like that was an understatement. As you all know, an Aneros session leaves you hornier than a he goat.

It was in May of 2013 that I was in Washington DC for a week. Needless to say the warm weather, girl watching on the hill and a night at a gentlemen’s club as well as my normal activities on the road mentioned above left me with an erection on friday that was really hard to subdue. One of the challenges of my expanded libido at the 9 year mark was the reality that I found self masturbation to be minimally pleasurable and very unsatisfying; so although I had a wooden erection that friday morning I woke I didn’t even bother to tug one off.

Setting out on the road north, I saw a number of massage parlor billboards along the road. The first one I saw piqued my interest and got me to thinking. By the time lunch time hit I was near one of the establishments advertised. Exiting the highway I figured I would grab lunch and cruise by the place to scope it out. I grabbed some fast food and followed the directions the billboard gave me. Read more »

Bringing my Progasm Black Ice out of retirement, sessions for January 27 & 29

Hi guys,

Our latest Arctic Vortex blast of winter cold arrived yesterday afternoon with the latest blast of blustery, cold air arriving this afternoon as I write this. Tomorrow early Thursday morning we shall have a low of 9 F.

However, I had sessions early Sunday morning just before sunrise and the same time yesterday morning Tuesday. I was horned for those sessions. Sunday I used MGX, Progasm Junior, and Maximus. Yesterday morning I added Progasm Black ICE which I brought out of a two/three year retirement.

Whenever I have a session, my psyche and body are longing for my Aneros models. This longing which verges on the sexual is what I mean by my being horned!

Now I just lie on my towel on my bed with two very slim chair cushions for my butt. Whenever I insert any of my Aneros models, a surge of anal pleasure that is irresistible. Also I wear a jock and cup like @goldenboy for most of my sessions, not so much to keep my hands off my cock, but rather the jock and cup (as intensely erotic items) enhance many fold my pleasure as I let each of my models work their magic on my anal musculature and prostate.

Nowadays my sessions leave me with exquisitely pleasant Aless. My Aless has a beat about it as though my Aneros models are still working away. Take care.

Update

My doctor decided to take me off the meds as my BP and Cholesterol did not test out any lower. Funny thing is, now off the meds my BP is averaging a little lower and my cholesterol is testing lower too 🙂 But then I’ve been getting quite a bit more exercise. Wife and I have decided to continue with the sexless marriage, at least until she is totally done with her perimenopause phase – which has been going on for years. Once she goes into true menopause, then there will be no need for birth control eg condoms and we may both feel like re-starting things – especially Karezza as it would be easier on her – given dryness. Truth be told, I am actually turned on by the sexless marriage thing – it fans my homoerotic side somehow 🙂 Right now I would like to explore my bi side online with other like minded men of a similar age and in a similar situation.

Year Nine Milestones, Plateaus and Pinacles

The MMO journey I have been on started in 2005. Along the way there have been so many milestones and experiences, they would be impossible to remember if it were not for the fact that I recorded them in an on line journal I began in 2011. Each milestone or event has been a building block that created a foundation for the sexual rapture I routinely experience now. The building and learning process was precipitous those first few years. Because I was learning and experiencing so much there were literally hundreds of sensations, techniques and changes in my sexual response in the first 9 years. Some of these I have shared here in this forum, but I am sure that if I were to try to relate them all it would be impossible.

However, year nine was special. I reached a plateau or a pinnacle in my 9th year in 2013. It was a watershed year that solidified MMO and anal pleasure in my sex life. There were several skills – achievements that I will relate here in this entry; there were also some major event – milestones that deserve detailed descriptions. I will focus this entry on the skills and achievements and the next several entries on the numerous remarkable sexual events of 2013. Read more »

Gentle Sensations Progressing

Hey r/aneros!

Tl;dr: relaxing into the sensations and letting go has resulted in my first gentle orgasmic sensations; thanks in no small part to the guidance I’ve received from all your fine posts.

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I’m a long-time reader, first-time poster; here because I’m starting to experience orgasmic sensations (I but not fully sure what they were). I’ve decided to try and create a habit of writing (both here and offline) about my experiences as I think it will help me build more awareness and tune in to what’s happening in my body. I’m excited to share my progress with you and also say thanks for everything you guys have posted that’s helped me along so far.

I bought my first aneros (Helix Syn) in late 2017, and I’ve been using it on and off since; but more regularly for the last 6 months. I’ve had my fair share (more than my fair share imho) of frustration along the way, but I’ve been experiencing more and more consistent sensations and progress recently.

When I first started my sessions consistently (save for the odd dud session) progressed in intensity BUT; all that intensity was in my body’s reaction; not in sensation or arousal. It was as if my body was progressing in its journey faster than my mind was. I had sessions that involved loud moaning; spasms, tingling, muscle-clenching and even strong full-body shaking, with little or no localized pleasure. It felt erotic, but not pleasurable. Read more »

Am I almost there?

I have had 4 sessions. 60-120 mins each. Yesterday I constantly felt that “tapping”. This was achieved after some relaxing slow contraction exercises. I sat back and enjoyed the feeling. However the tap would be hard, and intense, but no p waves and after a minute it went away. I would contract more. And maybe get another 20 seconds of tapping.

Relax for 10-15mins of do nothing and I literally felt nothing. No discomfort but no pleasure either.

I’d do 1/4 strength contractions and hold for 10sec. Tapping again. But then it goes away.

Should I keep doing this the same way? I feel like I’m relaxed and I can even feel the whole shape of the Aneros. I’m definitely aware and I’m absolutely feeling pleasure. Just can’t get over the hump.

past week +

Things just went side ways.

Friday 1/18 I some how buggered my neck at work, cant tilt to the left at all. Tried heat, cold, even tried a muscle relaxer from back when I pulled my back. nothing worked. I couldn’t get out of bed Saturday, ended up rolling off the bead as any movement made my head scream in pain. I went to the walk in clinic, they gave me a few shots & some pills to help.

Saturday 1/19 night tried the Jr just for s&g. I got nothing, almost couldn’t tell I was joined w/ him.

Sunday 1/20 I went ahead and did a full double release to restart my cycle,

Monday 1/21 tried some edging, it was like my cock was numb. I could feel myself stroking but got no sensations and only got half hard. Once I did get something it was to late and I just blew if you will, was an ultra lame orgasm/ejaculation. It was a waste of time. May as well give up till I stop the pills. You would think taking a muscle relaxer would work the same way as weed but seems not so much. Read more »

Trident maximus feels great but no O yet

Just got my trident maximus after a year of using a Helix syn. tried the maximus the last 2 nights and the size is easy to handle. The moment it is in the pleasure waves start hard and fast, this must be from the larger size. however after 2+ hours each night no Dry or super O’s, it keeps me on the edge and feels amazing the entire time, i can feel the dry o building but i just can’t get there. this may be from the limited mobilty the larger size is causing? i am now temped to order a eupho for comparision. the helix syn on most attempts devlivers some amazing dry orgasms, so i know i’m wired for it. The hard plastic and agresive angle of the P tab of the maximus does cause discomfort after a while but the full feeling is great. i’ll keep trying to see if it can deliver.

“No Set Schedule On The Horizon”

Introduction
My Aneros sessions are rather sporadic lately. But that is not necessarily a bad thing. Since I regularly practice semen retention (SR), I have found that my sessions can be more intense and positive if I delay them. They are not on a set schedule. Of course, I never know which model I will choose. Generally, I get a sense of that when I get close to the session.

Kudos to @BigGlansDC
A special shout-out to my buddy @BigGlansDC. His recent blog post was spot-on! I think one thing that is overlooked with wearing jockstraps and cups is the stimulation the hard cup provides for the male perineum. Of course, the P-tabs on the Aneros models do this as well. It is that pressure that provides the external stimulation of the prostate which feels so good!

Afterthought
I continue to wear jockstraps either with or without groin cups to bed most nights. Not wearing one just doesn’t feel “right” anymore. Just this morning while wearing my XO ProCup, the stimulation on my frenulum was so intense that I felt literally only a stroke or two away from an ejaculation! I have not ejaculated this way (yet) but that feeling is just too powerful for words. It makes me realize what my “malehood’s” purpose really is! Touche’.

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Nipple diddling, Kegeling, and jocks and cups!

Hi guys,

We are in the midst of winter here in DC, but it is going to get even brutally cold here for the next few days because of blast of Arctic air due to arrive late Tuesday night. Actually these blasts of Arctic air are the Arctic Vortex which breaks out of the north polar region. They are more severe some years than others. Actually we have some mild winters than others. What are Aneros guys supposed to do when such brutal winter arrive. In my case, I suspend my Aneros sessions for a while when milder winter weather returns.

I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s posts. He is so insightful when it comes to his sexuality/sexual experiences, his Aneros experiences, and his seasoned approach to jocks and cups! 🙂 His latest blog post, “Cup or No Cup?” piqued my interest.

Like @goldenboy, I wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. A jock and cup supports and protects my manhood for sure even in bed. Plus a jock and cup enter into my male sexual intimacy in the nighttime. Yes, like @goldenboy, there are some nights when I wear just briefs. They are OK, but nothing can compare to the raw, yet very sweet feel of a jock and cup at night! Read more »