Tag: Aneros

How long was your journey to the super-O?

Been fooling around with an aneros for >5 years now. Picked up an Njoy pure wand along the way. I enjoy it get pleasure, felt like I was on the edge a few times. At this point though I feel like I’ll never get there. Don’t get me wrong I think I’ll always enjoy aneros or the wand in the future, just curious if anyone persevered for a long time and eventually figured it out?

aneros getting pushed out?

Been at this for a couple years with some success but no super O. Had a sort of breakthrough where I really tried to embrace the urge to pee feeling and actively did “reverse kegels” and “pushing out”, basically as if I was actually trying to pee. Result was really intense sensations/contractions and WAY more precum than typical sessions. But the toy itself also wanted to come out, and did a couple times. I also realized why people feel the need to do an enema before a session vs just taking a shower.

Is this maybe a pelvic floor muscle isolation thing, and I can learn to let precum flow more freely while also not pushing the aneros out? Maybe I just need to dial back the pushing, or maybe I should try a different toy or lube (using coconut oil)?

I don’t understand contractions

As title says, I have my questions. I’ve looked at the wiki, but I still am unsure about things.

I kinda think we contract our anal sphincters partly to keep the aneros in place, right? Similarly, you use one hand to keep a pickle jar from moving while you use your other hand to move the lid. To help communicate my thoughts on pc, Here is a [picture](https://imgur.com/4T2lpbI). Both green and purple refer to possible pc muscle movement. To me the contractions feel like you are trying to push your perineum out of myself vs pulling it closer to the center of my body. Which way are you supposed to do it? Are you pushing your body towards the aneros or pushing the aneros towards you? I would just test it, but 1. Both movements have helped brought at least minute pleasure and 2.) Over the last couple months, I have regressed on my ability to reach pleasure.

One issue I have with pc muscles is I am not 100% sure what that means. I can look up the pubococcygeus muscle. I know it helps stop urine flow, but for me at least, I am having trouble identifying it anyway. When I put my finger on my perineum, I can feel muscles move when I try to contract it. How close to your penis and balls can you feel your perineum move?

Also, I have had more success with the rolling contraction technique (anal to pc) than where you hold the two together and release abruptly. How does the second technique work? Read more »

4th session – small progress but not there yet

Last night I decided to go for my 4th session and listen to Mindgasm tutorial as many of you guys suggested.
– I smoke some weed
– Took a nice shower to clean up and relax
– went to bed
– put on my headset and relaxed while putting Aneros in. This time it felt so good that I thought I would finally have THAT session everybody is looking forward to.
– Session lasted approx 2 hours – 2 hours of multiple failed attempts. Ended up touching my penis and cuming with a regular penile orgasm
– On a positive note, I got a better understanding of the 2 muscles and the type of contractions that can help reach our goal

1) Mindgasm tutorial is really helpful and made realized that I was doing it all wrong. I got to learn about the lower an middle muscles

*** I dont know what is 75% of contraction – even my 100% is not clear. Should 100% be really strong to the point it hurt ? How do I measure 25%, 50%, 75% ?
*** it was really hard for me to keep my PC muscle contracted for 30 sec. I felt like at some point it was just my sphincter which was contracted and had to put more strenght to contract PC muscle. Am I doing it wrong ? At every “big squeeze+hold”, my PC muscle would shake while I’m holding it. Read more »

Prostate porn videos make it look easy..

My head is a mess with all of this.

I’m told I need to relax and do nothing…which can result in amazing feelings but no orgasm, it feels amazing.

I’m told I need to clench down via my kegels and anal contractions… Which feels amazing but no orgasm.

I see videos of guys fucking themselves and they cum in minutes, sometimes seconds!

The guys that are fucking hard is that a simple prostate orgasm?

Is the Aneros designed for a super O?

Asking for a friend……

Still feeling effects after session

Hi, so I’ve had an aneros for about a year now, been playing with it on and off but never really properly read into how to get the most out of it or anything. Basically I use it sometimes because stroking my dick with it in feels amazing.

Tonight I decided to have a long session and I didn’t orgasm but it was great, the amount of pressure I could feel building was much heavier than normal. I got tired and ended the session a few hours ago, had a break then break then decided to edge for a bit, but my prostate is still throbbing like it was when the toy was in and I’ve still got that pressure feeling as if I really need to pee.

So my question is basically should I be worried? Or is this part of the process of getting to this ‘super-o’ I’ve heard so much about, and I just stopped before I got there?

NJOY Pure wand, A tale from the land of O.

Apologies for posting a non Aneros subject in advance – Mod’s remove if it’s misplaced as no offense is intended.

Introduction
The pure wand is big solid heavy and beautiful to look at and touch with it’s highly polished medical grade steel reflecting back the first time users (me in this case) slightly apprehensive face.

Comparison to Progasm Ice
Totally different size wise. Until recently I found the progasm too big for me, but of late have come to love the full feeling it gives and the orgasms that come with it. Looking at both I note that other than the rounded tips of the NJOY the overall girth of the NJOY is smaller than the Progasm, so other than initial insertion and removal the NJOYS Size shouldn’t give anyone used to Progasm sized toys any great difficulty.
Being surgical steel it actually uses less lube than the progasm in my so far limited experience anyway. Read more »

first poppers session and I got questions

Cheers,

after some time I tried now a different approach on using Aneros toys and used a VR-scene and tried poppers. The one thing I noticed, after sniffing from a ziplockback I got lightheaded after a few seconds, well and I was horny. Got a fuzzy feeling but it didn’t got me farther to anything prostate-orgasm related. After about an hour without many involuntary contractions or anything happening I just grabbed my cock, jerked off, took a sniff and came in the mid of the high. But I can’t say the orgasm was stronger or lasted longer.

So, just for generic orgasm-enhancement: when do you sniff the stuff? Once? Just before the PONR? While cumming?

And for gaining prostate pleasure? When do you use it there? Before you insert the Aneros? After it but before you have any involuntaries/waves? Or after?

First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world

Hi there,

Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.

Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.

First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help. Read more »