My experience

One thing I’ve noticed with newer guys is they’re always asking “what am I doing wrong”, a better question is “what are you doing right?” It felt good right? That’s a success! You’ll get there, have faith.

The guides are helpful in telling you the basics. But my hunch is I think some guys may be struggling with trying to do things by the books. One day it’ll just click, when it’s not fun anymore put it up for a few days and come back.

Everyone’s body is different, everyone’s progasm sessions should be too. Ride the orgasms in your own way. Whatever gives you pleasure keep doing it, I sometimes just rock my ass back and forth on the bed moving my aneros by the tail, something that just happened in the heat of the moment.

I’ve had hundreds of prostate orgasms over the year and it’s not by following the books. That’s your orgasms – have them, I’ll have my own, and I’m NOT sharing.

I jerk off every time. I also jerk off regularly (multiple times a day). Sometimes I smoke pot. Sometimes I drink Sometimes I watch porn. Sometimes I listen to music. All things people tell you not to do and I still have orgasms all night.

Sometimes my leg shakes, other times it doesn’t. Sometimes I precum, other times I don’t. Sometimes I’m hard, other times I’m not. None of that matters except the prostate orgasms, I wouldn’t get there if I was so focused on these things. Every new day is a new vibe (figuratively and literally – the vice is in)

Finally making some progress

I have been thinking of posting here for a while. This is going to be a rambling post so TL;DR

I bought a Helix Syn in September of 2019 after seeing Aneros orgasm videos on the web for years. Decided to finally try it for myself. Used the Syn about twice a week for around one month and got bored with it and stopped. I found that it felt okay but after squeezing my PC muscles for about 10 or 15 minutes I would either doze off or decide to watch gay porn. The Syn did seem to enhance my penile orgasms but not so much that I felt like putting it in just for the enhanced penile orgasms. BTW I have a major, major addiction to gay porn. Or had. I’ll get to that later. Anyway, I would only pop the syn in every now and again 3 or 4 months at a stretch. That changed in January and it was the strangest thing. I got up to go pee one night around 3:30 AM. When I got back in bed I was just laying on my side and was just sort of sleepily squeezing my PC muscles (which I don’t usually do) and I began to think what if the pleasant sensation of peeing occurred further back in my prostate. Then I started to imagine what that would feel like while still squeezing my PC muscles. And that is when it hit. My muscles just started spasming on their own and I had this curious, very pleasurable tingling sensation from around my prostate. It only lasted maybe 5 to 10 seconds but I guess I got hooked. Mind you my Syn was in my dresser drawer, not even in my butt. Decided to start using the Syn again the next night. I’ve been trying to figure it out like a puzzle how to get those same sensations again and I am making real progress. Last night I went for about an hour and ½ and had the involuntary contractions + feelings of impending orgasm and that happened four or five times. With practicing deep breathing and kegels I feel that a progasm is within my grasp. Weirdly (again) about two weeks ago I suddenly lost interest in porn. Not altogether but it is much easier to just shrug it off and not watch any. Something does sort of concern me though. Around the time my interest in porn fell off, it seemed like maybe my libido fell off too. When I try to have penile orgasms now, they aren’t very satisfying almost like I’m not even climaxing. Also, it feels like there is a sort of congested feeling in my prostate.

Involuntaries – medical explanation?

Hi, everyone!

I sent a similar DM to u/butt_munky who gave me some great pointers, but also suggested that I make a general post.

I have been really struggling to figure out what the involuntaries are, as they seem to be crucial to making progress to good feelings with the Aneros. I have some medical training, so have been trying to figure out exactly what these are, to know if I have been getting them or if I need to redirect my training.

If, as some have suggested, I try to hold PC contractions at various levels of intensity, the muscle will eventually fatigue. This is just like trying to hold an arm curl with a dumbbell for a long period of time. The muscle will start to shake because it has run “out of gas,” going into something called “tetany.” It can be pretty exhausting (as with the dumbbell) to hold this level of contraction, and the muscle trembling is not particularly pleasurable. If I really concentrate, I can sometimes force my mind to think that this is pleasurable, maybe with an occasional very brief “zing” of what I assume might be the start of a P-wave. Most writers don’t seem to indicate that their sessions are exhausting.

Aneros Progasm awakened my prostate

23 y/o here. Bisexual so no stranger to receptive anal stuff. Prior to buying an aneros I had been messing around with a vibrating kegel ball, and although it felt great I wasn’t getting prostate orgasms from it. Regardless, I am still aware of the muscles down there and how to get pleasure from playing with my ass.

Last Monday the progasm finally came in the mail. I was so excited because I had been reading up on these forums and the aneros website prior, so I had an idea of what I was doing. Also they say that progasm isn’t best for beginners…I beg to differ!

So Monday night I finally got around to using the aneros. After popping it in it feels extremely pleasurable and filling. I was using it on and off for a couple hours, but then when I finally went to bed the real fun started. I was in bed with the progasm in, and smoked some weed prior. This seemed to be the key. After doing the light contractions and feeling p waves, things began to escalate. My body was shaking and the toy was moving by itself. Then before I knew it, my PC muscles are stuck in the “tug of war”. My whole body was shaking and the pleasure was coming in strong waves. My PC muscles were quivering uncontrollably and the P tab of the toy felt so good pressing into me. This basically continued til I got tired. I was satisfied in achieving a prostate orgasm even if not a super o.

Long term users, how do you balance your aneros use?

I feel like I’m approaching a breakthrough with my prostate/aneros but I’m a little concerned about what that might mean. I want to have a healthy balance. How often do you use your aneros? Does “rewiring” your prostate make you overly sexual in unwanted situations? Does it make you disinterested in penile orgasms or sex with a partner?

Frustrated

I feel like I’ve got pretty close to having orgasms (maybe I’ve done it already?), but I’m just not sure I’ve gone as far as I can. I’ve got to the point before where my body is shaking and there’s hot waves/blurry vision/insanely horny/tingling in my arms and legs etc. But I feel like I get in my own way overthinking about what I should be doing at each stage. If I’m progressing through a session and I start to feel like I’m getting there I immediately am conscious of e.g. how often I should contract now, what to do with my hands now, whether my body is relaxed enough and if not where I should focus on relaxing. So much so that it kind of snaps be back out of the rhythm. Too much pressure on reaching the goal? I dunno what to do about it.
I’m getting kind of impatient too, I only play once a week but recently found that after so long I end up kind of thrusting, the slight movement this makes to the aneros on my prostate feels nice but ultimately I end up trying to will the orgasm to happen and end up thrusting my cock into my duvet until I squirt. It’s annoying because I know I’m drifting off the right path but I’m frustrated at not knowing how to get to multiple prostate cumming. Any advice? Does thrusting help or hinder?

Been playing for about 5 months now.

My first P-waves!

So for context: I’ve lurked a while but decided to make my first post after my first major breakthrough. I owned the helix trident until I lost it on a trip recently like a fool. I never had a great experience with it. Minor sensations, comfort, but nothing crazy. This is entirely due to user error and a poor fit regarding what I need.

Which brings us to Monday. I ordered a progasm and peridise to replace my lost model and was excited to try them out. I warmed up with the peridise by using it manually (just rubbing it on the prostate, not the right way to use it but sue me). This was the first thing that really helped me level up, I wanted a better warm up and I got one. It was easy and felt great.

Then came the progasm. I opted for a YouTube link that hotel guy used for binaural beats, slipped it in, and tried to clear my mind. My plan is usually to do nothing for a while, then start manually operating it with my pc muscles if I feel like it. The do nothing portion was not like my helix sessions at all! Usually, my butt clenches involuntarily and randomly at the beginning of the session. The progasm was so snug that I had more control over what happened, thus no involuntary squeezes. I also felt less sensation at the beginning, which was weird. I felt it helpful to have this new found control because I could also squeeze with more intention.

Having trouble not cumming from aneros

I’ve been making great progress over the past few months. First it started with mildly pleasant sensations, then aneros-enhanced penile orgasms, and finally I felt like I had a breakthrough last week. I was literally screaming at the top of my lungs, orgasming for about 30 seconds straight while I thrusted uncontrollably as my eupho fucked me. But it seemed like I got there pretty quick and I came (an unusually large amount of cum fwiw), so I couldn’t really get back there again like everyone else describes their hours long sessions. Any tips to experience the orgasm but not cum?

What next after Progasm?

I have had a Progasm for about 10 months. It was my first and only Aneros. Previously I had a cheap toy. I got really good initial results with the Progasm pretty quickly. I experienced p-gasms but never the big o.

Recently, however, the Progasm really hasn’t been doing anything. 🙁

Any suggestions for a different model?

Eupho auto feature

Still is my favourite aneros model. When it starts to pound away like it’s got a mind of it’s own , it takes you to different places.
Relax, let the tap tap tap get stronger until you can’t feel your muscles but only waves of pleasure taking you over , as your relaxing the tapping starts again taking you even higher. It may be small but it hits the right spots.