Should I totally abstain from ejaculating?

Some background: I just got my first Aneros toy over the weekend (Aneros Helix Trident) and used it twice with minimal results, though my lower body began to shake uncontrollably the first time, so I’m taking that as a good start.

I already have some prior experience with prostate stimulation. I’ve had some really intense pleasure waves just from fingering myself. They were way more intense than regular orgasms, and longer lasting. However my fingering sessions are very hit or miss. Around 70% to 80% of the time nothing happens and I give up after 30-ish minutes. Hence why I decided to get an Aneros.

So as I begin my Aneros journey, my theory is that if I lay off from touching my dick for the foreseeable future and only receive stimulation exclusively from my prostate, it’ll do a better job at “rewiring” me so that my odds go up from my current hit-or-miss situation. That means not jacking off during, after, or even in between sessions on off days– at least for a week or two.

Am I overthinking this? Should I masturbate like usual in between Aneros sessions? I’m currently planning on doing 2-3 times a week as suggested. Thanks for the feedback.

Porn to wake up the prostate?? šŸ¤”

I was hanging out in the Aneros official chat and getting some tips from people, and one guy suggested that the reason I can’t get my prostate to wake up is because I’m using it a setting so far removed from where the vast majority of my sexual activity has been in the past, which is, y’know, in front of a computer screen, sitting in a computer chair. šŸ˜“ Nearly all my aneros sessions have been lying down, eyes closed.

I guess the idea is to use your old sexual habits to build a “bridge” of sorts and arouse the prostate. Once the prostate starts finally making some noise, you burn the bridge and do the kinds of sessions you originally wanted to.

I’m trying to quit porn but I relapsed to give this a go. I’d really like my aneros to do fucking *anything* lol. šŸ˜… But yeah it didn’t work for me on my first go, which isn’t saying much, since nothing does. Might work for you!

I’ll probably give it one more shot then it’s back to the drawing board again.

That’s it. Just thought I’d post this here incase anyone else is struggling and wants to try a different approach.

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Im having trouble because current aneros im using is too long for me
Is there any aneros that has insert length of about 6-7cm?

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I just inserted an Aneros at work

I’m wearing my wife’s lingerie under my suit and am super horny. I snuck into the bathroom and just inserted it.

I’m back at my desk now, curious to see how long I’ll be able to keep it in…

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I rather suck at this.

After that one warmish maybe-P-wave incident, nothing much has happened since then. That was about 7 sessions ago give-or-take.

I just lie there, relaxed, breathing diaphragmatically, trying to keep my mind clear, and listening for any sensation down there. Nada. Not a peep of involuntary movement. By the time my 60 minute timer is up I’m usually starting to doze off. šŸ˜‘

I tried to do as described in [this thread](https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/9641-the-truth-behind-how-to-rewire) from the Aneros forums, but the only part of my body that responds is my balls now, so that’s no use.

I gotta change something up. I’ve gone over the Wiki a fair bit but I find it’s a bit scant on what you should do at what level, and I’m clearly still a newbie.

Can anyone recommend some changes I can implement that might make things move along a bit more, or at least make them more interesting? So little is happening I can’t shake the feeling that there’s something very wrong with how I’m approaching using my Aneros.

I know you’re not supposed to expect anything, but let’s be real, before you start you should at least make sure the way you intend to practice is conducive to something *possibly* happening.

thank

[PS: My sole Aneros is a Helix Syn Trident]

Anyone have an mgx trident? Feel like I’m so close to a super O but have yet to succeed

Aneros is having a great Black Friday sale on select models but I already own the helix syn trident, the progasm, the Maximus and the eupho that are listed. The mgx trident did however spark my interest and I want to know what some people think about it, and if they’ve had super O’s from using this model. I’ve been an aneros user for almost a year already and I’ve been making steady progress, I still have yet to experience my first super O unfortunately but I think I’m on the right track. I seem to have the most luck with smaller models like the helix and the eupho, but I just can’t seem ā€œcross the finish lineā€ per se, and so I’m hoping a new model might provide me with a super O but wanna make sure it’s worth the purchase

Shipping Options?

Is it possible to ship to something like a UPS store without having them leave a notice it’s ready to pick up? My last search on Amazon for Aneros came up empty, but before that, all Aneros items I found were ineligible for shipment to an Amazon locker. I haven’t found any Aneros items locally, either, so this seems to be my only option.

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Aneros in while getting a [table] massage?

Been thinking about using the Aneros while I go in for a massage. Anyone ever try it? I haven’t specifically asked but my guy gives a “release” at the end so I’m pretty sure he’d be OK with me wearing it..

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Are you supposed to bend the P-Tab to accommodate your body?

I dunno whether I have more skin than usual on my perineum or something, but the P-Tab, as it came, is simply cushioned by my perineum and doesn’t do anything in terms of sensation.

I can’t imagine everyone has the same amount of skin down there, so are you supposed to bend the P-Tab so it properly puts pressure on your perineum? I don’t wanna mess up my Aneros. :c

My story so far. Haven’t achieved HFO or P-gasm yet. Any advice is welcomed

So this is my story. I will sum It up because it is the first time I post on this subreddit.

I bought an Aneros Helix Trident to start practicing. Some people has, since then, told me to buy toys that cost hundreds, and I won’t spend that much money. But I purchased my Aneros Helix Trident for 35 bucks and I’m willing to buy a new one, either the Progasm Jr., or the Eupho Trident. Please, all the nJoy Wand crew, don’t try it, I wont spend that amount of money. Also I want my hands free, as for me is not confortable to manipulate the toy while trying to enjoy.

That being said, this has been my experience so far with the Helix Trident. I’ve been practicing since April-may, and I have had pleasurable sessions… that always leave me sore. They usually last 1 to 1,5h, and I try to not be harsh with my kegerator movements… But it doesn’t get me to the great sensations, and I can’t empty my prostate properly, so I end up pretty uncomfortable unless I masturbate afterwards. But even then, the soreness is there for some days…

Aside from the inside soreness, there’s this pressure of the p-tab that, after long sessions, ends up hurting me on my perineum. I’m not sure if I should, with heat, try to move this p-tab to not press so heavily on my perineum. Also I’m afraid that pressure will damage my nerves and take away sensitivity of my penis. I’ve already experienced a bit of sensitivity loss in my penis, so… Should I modify the p-tab?