Coming back after almost 4 years

For a whole multitude of reasons I hadn’t used my aneros toys for almost 4 years. However, a little while ago I finally delved in to the depths of my wardrobe and freed them from their boxes. I prepped myself, had a shower and turned up the heating so I was nice and cosy. In front of me were my helix, eupho and progasm. I opted for the helix since it’s been a while, and got myself nice and relaxed before inserting. And after an hour… nothing. The feeling of having it inserted was nice, but there were no pleasurable feelings anywhere else, no buzz, no excitement.

I tried it again the next day. More of the same (nothing!) I remembered having trouble with it before, so did a bit of research and wondered if it was too small for me, or if it didn’t quite ‘fit’ right. The best feelings used to come from my progasm but it was looking a little intimidating after such a long time away. So I hopped online and bought a Progasm Jr. Best. Decision. Ever.

As soon as I got it I was incredibly excited. I’d already prepped myself and my room before it arrived in the post, I tore open the package, gave it a good clean and jumped in to bed. This toy is beautiful, black, shiny and elegant, in my opinion it’s much more attractive than any other Aneros toys I’ve had. Any of the prostate toys in fact.

I don’t know where to turn, can someone please tell me what is going on with me?

I have never used the aneros, in fact, I only found out about this community while searching the web for explanations of what I’m dealing with.

I think I am dealing with what you call the butt buzz, and possibly awakened or rewired prostate. I did not seek this feeling out and I want it to go away.

This began after I was diagnosed with chronic prostatitis/CPPS. I had a cystoscopy done, which is where a camera scope is inserted into the urethra and bladder in order to look for structural abnormalities. This was the first and only time anything has been in my dick.

A week later I masturbated. I came extremely quickly, and the orgasm was actually too intense. There was no refractory period, I could keep doing it over and over. I was left with a buzzing sensation in and around my genitals, almost like I was gonna cum, the feeling radiated up and down my legs. I thought it was PGAD or RLS, and I was freaked out. I took gabapentin 2 days later and it went away.

The feeling re emerged months later when i went on an ssri. Had to discontinue it after 3 days because of it, and it subsided.

Looked into prostate massage, became curious about the prostate orgasm. Last week masturbated with my finger in my ass and had an explosive orgasm, which felt like the ones I had after my cystoscopy. It was too intense and i dont like it.

My experience so far…

So, I jumped on the prostate bandwagon a few months ago and started with the Helix Syn. Had a few good sessions with it but wasn’t getting anywhere close to what I was reading about. Turns out…I was too impatient.

I ordered the Helix Trident Syn last week and I have had a few sessions with it. I like it SO much better than the Syn. That extra strength in the P-tab really helps.

The other night I was having a session and I had my first hands-free ejaculation. Not a Super-O or even a dry orgasm, but hands-free nonetheless. That was a pretty big step. I had the Trident in and I had used extra lube. I was lying on my back with my knees bent and my feet flat on the bed. I had my dick tucked between my legs and my legs were squeezed closed. This goes against the “relax and it will come to you” but it felt so good.

I also had quite a few large muscle shakes. The feelings grew and grew and then I came. It was pretty intense but not my ultimate goal. Still, I had managed to do something I’d never done before so that was a good session.

Today, I put on my chastity cage and sat around doing some work. I started feeling horny and just paid attention to my prostate. I have found that I can get some great feelings without the Aneros if I concentrate enough so I tried doing that.

Question about technique

I have been seeing progress and frankly I enjoy the sensations and experience a lot, but I have a question to ask. After insertion, my aneros seats itself as deeply as the massager allows and stays there until I remove it. Are others able to relax enough to allow it to slide partway out and then reinsert itself by clenching or is it designed to stay fully seated?

Whoa.

So I have been messing around with anal play for a little while. My ex got me into it and my current SO is luke warm to the idea so a lot of times I play with myself. I heard a lot about Aneros, especially the success stories so I invested a few dollars and said what the hell.

My first few experiences were okay, I had a plug that I played with while jerking off that felt great so initially I thought the Helix Syn was a dud. More recently I’ve been getting into hypnosis through Shibbysays and I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.

I was following through her 14 night regiment and jumped a level and went to “Intensity 5.” I put my Aneros in and 24 minutes later I was have a full body, mind clearing almost 45-60 second HFO. I did some light touching over my shorts but I fucking arched my back and could not contain myself. Today I have been experiencing the most amazing feeling of perpetual horniness.

If you’ve been struggling to get to the next level I would recommend it. There is a lot of femdom stuff which is what I’m in to but there is some other straight forward stuff.

Wow though.

“Chastity, Celibacy and Aneros”

Introduction
I was browsing online this morning for ideas and definitions of chastity and celibacy (and abstinence too). And one of the take-aways was that it was important to practice regular prostate massage when undertaking these activities, particularly when combined with semen retention and resultant fewer ejaculations. It is important to prevent prostate issues such as cancer. A prostate massage (initially a few times a week then perhaps twice a month minimum) was recommended. That seemed to resound in my head, and the next thing I knew, I was headed up to my bedroom to perform a quick “therapeutic” prostate-massage session. I haven’t had one in a while.

Session
I selected rather quickly my Helix-Trident, lubed it up and began the session. And just as quickly, I fell-into a ‘matter-of-fact’ medical fantasy: I am preparing for a checkup in my urologist’s office and he wants all his patients now to ‘prep’ with a prostate massage. So I obliged.

The Helix went-in very easily and before I knew it, I had started the session. It wasn’t too long before I began to experience an ‘auto-f**k’ feeling within; very slight PC contractions which felt amazingly good. Every now and then, there was a more (involuntary) anal contraction. The doctor told me that this ‘prep’ was to be 15 to 20 minutes minimum; I stopped after 20 minutes. This was probably one of the best sessions I have had with the H-T in a while. And I am only in Day 2 of SR! I was wearing my XO ProCup during this session and several times during this ‘therapy’ I felt a ‘pump or two’ of something (turned out to be precum). An amazing feeling and an ever better prostate ‘prep’!

Full speed ahead

Since I have written a long blog post and got logged out before it could be posted (my fault), I’ll keep this post brief.

Currently my sessions involve erotic audio (I find that soft sensual moans helps me to relax and drift into the right space), circling around but not directly on the nipples and lying on the back with knees pointing up position. It’s been working well and my past 10 sessions or so have gotten increasingly and distinctly better each and everytime (hope I dont jinx this with the too much expectations haha).

The pelvic muscles have gotten stronger, the prostate orgasms last much longer. I find that I can get into that orgasmic state much quicker too. At this point I can safely say the prostate orgasms are just as intense as regular TOs without the penis stimulation and ejaculation.

With some mild clenching and letting the audio moans kick arousal into the prostate, I feel the unmistakable orgasm coming on and it does. At some points the orgasm gets so intense and the Aneros strokes the prostate so intensely I think it could hurt me but it never did! Sometimes there are large strokes and sometimes really small spasms when things get intense. The orgasms come in different lengths and intensities. There was once I came off an orgasm and I felt the Aneros stroke me, it felt exceptional and I started cumming again within 5 secs.

“The Bigger Picture”

{Note: Adult sexual content expressed in this blog. Readers be advised.}

Background
Lying in bed early this morning. I had slept part of the night in my Mueller cup; it was sooooo relaxing I hardly felt that I had it on! At one point, I decided to take it off and just sleep in my PJs. I had some vivid (non-sexual) dreams which I remember. During the night, I began to dwell on this concept and will relate it as I remember. (PS I am currently in Day 7 of SR; I have not had an Aneros session in a few days).

Meditation
I began to think not about the obvious differences between us males and females, but rather our respective sexual functions . And the distinction was rather clear in my mind. We males are the “actors” (the aggressors, the dominant ones) in sex. It is up to us to deposit our sperm into the female. The females do not have this function, other than to regulate their “fertile” days if they want to conceive. It is entirely up to us to accomplish our “mission”.

Then, as I dwelt on this some more, it became clear that us males need to “ensure” that we are “ready and able” to deposit our semen (that is, to ejaculate) at any time. Further, it became clear that anything we can do to “stimulate” our functioning sexual apparatus is beneficial. That would include massaging our prostates (through Aneros), edging, and even masturbation. Watching porn would certainly not be out of the question. This is especially true for guys that don’t have sex or have it very infrequently (such as myself).

Unable to get Involuntary contractions with toy?

I got my Aneros Classic back in August, and have tried the Peridise as well as Trident Maximus since then, and with any of the three toys, I have tried Relaxing and doing nothing, Light constant contractions, medium constant contractions, and heavy constant contractions, as well as contracting for a few minutes then relaxing, but using any of these, I get no involuntary contractions.

Recently I have been getting something that I think might be similar to them however, but they never occur when a toy is in, they occur when I am trying to go to sleep, and are like a twitching/vibrating of the anus.

Is there anything I can try to get these contractions to happen with a toy?

Not long enough or what? (semi gross warning)

I had a two hour session that really didn’t lead to much other than a weird contraction spasm thing that happens when i clench my pc muscles. But afterwards I had to take a dump and when I did, it seemed to stimulate my prostate a lot and I got what seems some people refer to the butterfly’s in the stomach or tingling but it was relatively intense. It was a really good feeling that I would like to replicate with an aneros but ive not had too much luck.

So was that proper stimulation because the shit reaches deeper/wider or am i over thinking it.