Recently I have been having for me good sessions with both of my models. waves of pleasure with what i am now guessing where mini o’s if i had to label. The problem was when things really felt good i would let go and have a hfwo. after a couple sessions like this I was able to control the ejaculation but had to stop and re start. was still able to get back the mini o’s but was definitly still approaching ejaculation orgasm so i would control them. I felt I was making some progress because the sessions and mini o’s felt good and I was able to hold back on ejaculation but was a little dissapointed that the ejaculation response was still running the show. i decided to try some quick a-less sessions recently due to lack of time for prep clean up and privacy issues. Surprisingly they where great, was able to achieve the same results as with the Aneros. Decided to let go on the first time because it was feeling so good and once again hfwo. tried a few more times and was able to have nice short sessions and control the ejaculation but never really let go. Then today happened, Decided to sneak in a a-less session my arousal was high and wanted to give it a go. Things felt different this time I was building to what before was what I am calling a mini o but it went to the next level with no urge to ejaculate. The feelings in my penis where incredible and it was as plump and hard as it could be I would look down and could not believe what was happening. I had no focus on my penis it was just feeling amazing and was as hard as a rock, with every little contraction I thought the head was going to pop off and no urge to ejaculate. at the same time I had a tremendous warm feeling in my whole groin, and pelvic area. I was having orgasmic contractions but not ejaculatory contractions. i was soaking it in and waiting for it to end in a ejaculation, but it just kept going on penis bulging testicles tingling and hanging loose, legs trembling a little now and then, an occasional spastic jerk from the lower abdomen area. I would snap out of it and look around to see what was going on and want more so I just relaxed and it started over again and again. It never really stopped but i could make it more intense by just riding with it. Never even had the urge to ejaculate but i thought for sure I was going to. It finally subsided I think because my body needed a break and I just layed there thinking wow what just happened. Definitly a place I have never been before and look forward to getting back to again soon.
Its hard to stop thinking about it I feel a whole new sensual energy coursing through my body and if I just think about it can almost bring it back. Wow another chapter but a really good one.
Tag: Aneros
Abstinence did play a role in my prostate play quality
I used to brush off that abstinence does not affect the quality/pleasure of my prostate play at all. My mood was the main factor. But recently i discovered that I was wrong. If I tried to have an aneros session or any prostate massage session with my wife on the day that I had a normal orgasm, the quality of the session will go down the drain. It feels empty and i could not have any super-O, or even had a problem achieving mini-O. The only pleasure that I get is the initial high that the aneros slides in and touch my prostate. That feeling diminished fast. So fast that I am bored after 2-3min into the session.
Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV
To Whom It May Interest,
Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.
From Aneros and an ‘Optimal’ mind state?
Hi guys,
I was recently asked by a member [quote]…about how to get into the right state of mind to encourage a prostate orgasm to happen…[/quote]That’s a good question which deserves some thoughtful responses from our members. First off, let’s dispense with the word “right” and it’s implied antonym “wrong”, the semantics of which imply too much moral judgment attached to their use. I prefer to use the term “optimal” in lieu of “right”. Second, we need to identify what constitutes this “optimal” state of mind. I think I have a pretty good idea about this but it is just my opinion. Third, we need to identify those practices which will help us get into that “optimal” state of mind. Some of this was alluded to in the thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/7967-identifying-facilitators-to-progress”]Identifying Facilitators to Progress[/URL][/U] so this post could be considered an addendum to that thread. This also ties into [USER=”7188″]rook[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/5228-whole-body-whole-mind-the-mental-side”]Whole Body/Whole Mind – the mental side[/URL][/U] & [USER=”7244″]SteelColdiron[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/6775-aneros-the-essential-mind-state”]Aneros: The Essential Mind State[/URL][/U]
Which Trident to get?
I’m not new to butt play but have never used Aneros before. Would love to know your thoughts on the first one to get? Have heard great things about the Trident series, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. I tend too like a bit more heft and weight but not overly huge. I currently use the nJoy, but it’s just not long enough. I like to feel full. Thanks!
Tantric music recommendations
Does anyone have any good recommendations for music to listen to while using their aneros? I’ve tried binaural beats and like the idea of giving myself a rhythm to get into but to be honest most binaural beats just sort of give me a headache. I’ve also tried recordings of people masturbating/having orgasms but they can be a little too distracting and usually don’t last longer than a few minutes. Can anyone recommend any longer audio files (1 hour+) that has a binaural type of best but sounds a bit more like music than just noise? I found one audio file on SoundCloud called “binaural beats: tantric sex and intense orgasm” that I find really hot but I’ve listened to it so many times and it’s only 30 minutes long. Something similar to this would be amazing.
Thanks!
Taking off
Phew, theres so much that has happened but I’ll try to summarise the points. So recently my sessions have been exceptional, easily hitting 10 orgasms in each session. One thing I notice is that prostate orgasms can vary alot from mild pulses to really strong distinct PC contractions. Also, the amount of conscious contraction may hinder the orgasm.
There was this point I had a prostate O fr 20 secs and it kept going. The pelvic floor started to really warm up. The arousal kept feeding itself with the Aneros stroking the prostate each time. It was automatic. I relaxed and let it take over. About 40 seconds in cumming non-stop, a huge wave of pleasure lit up my entite body like a full body orgasm, could be some kind of chemical release. The whole thing laster about a minute.
I also tried a session on a really tired night and I was already half asleep. While my brain wasn’t focusing much since I was super tired, the orgasms seemed to have kicked in easier. The orgasms kept coming one after another.
I tried a short session with Aless and did some PC contractions, there were moments it felt exactly like a traditional O, with each pulse the flaccid penis got more and more erect. But when the penis got fully erect, the orgasm stopped. Maybe too much manual contraction.
“Prostate Awareness”
Up around 4 AM; woke-up with a very arousing erection. Decided to put-on my Mueller cup for relief and control. I went to relax down on my sofa, but what to listen to? I selected “Prostate Gland Healing, Binaural Beats Healing Music” which was about an hour long. I queued it-up and started listening. Wow! This track was exactly what I wanted! Quite soothing and the embedded ‘tones’ seemed to resonate deep down in my prostate. Nice, gentle ocean wave sounds as well. Toward the end, it felt like my prostate was gently “asking” me for more stimulation. But before too long, this track ended and it was time to get up for the day. No session for me this morning.
Afterthought: It seems that I am more “aware” of my prostate within my body these days, with or without Aneros. Since the prostate is intimately involved with ejaculations, I should be aware of its role, especially with arousal and the resulting erection. I think that it is important for us males to be attentive to our prostate’s health and to “manage” our ejaculations accordingly. Anytime we are going to or are contemplating having an ejaculation, our prostates must spring-into action. As an exocrine gland*, the prostate’s function is to secrete prostate fluid as a component of semen. The prostate contains smooth muscles that help expel the fluid during ejaculation. This all happens automatically, without our direct control. The ejaculation is like on ‘auto-pilot’ once we males reach the ‘point of no return’.
New to Aneros, not sure what type of orgasm
I am new to Aneros, but as a gay (mostly) bottom (also into spanking), I’ve been fucked hundreds and hundreds of times so the progasm is nothing to put in/take out. But wow, it’s definitely the best prostate stimulator toy I’ve ever encountered. I’m not too sure of the “Aneros Cult” terminology you see on here, but what I’ve already experienced is like this. If I just put it in and do nothing, nothing happens; even a little nudging the contractions doesn’t do much. But external movement of the aneros back and forth eventually produces a strong response, with “wavelike” qualities I see people talking about. Although my dick doesn’t get that hard, the orgasm is penile; there is come, although not that much. Not sure what type of prostate-orgasm to call that.
I’m not sure if I’ve been close to an orgasm…
It’s been around 6 months that I’ve been using my Aneros Progasm (recently I got the Helix Trident too) and sometimes I have felt like when you’re close to ejaculation (but not at the point when you’re gonna ejaculate), but that’s it. It’s like I can’t go beyond that point. Is this how it feels when you’re close to an orgasm? Am I doing the contractions wrong? Thanks in advance.
“An Interesting Morning!”
Got up very early, about 1 AM and wanting to put myself in chastity. I selected my XO ProCup supporter and it felt so good to put it on. Not soon after, I got the urge for a quick Aneros session. I got the sense that it was time to take SGX for a ride. I lubed it up with SSG and started out. Now this session was not a blockbuster but I felt some rather gentle “nudges” on my prostate. I was quite surprised that this session lasted almost 30 minutes. Not much precum but I felt a “pump” or two.
Retired to my sofa and began to listen to some very soothing “deep forest” tracks which felt so nice. I am always surprised by the pseudo-refractory period I experience following a session and this was no exception. My flaccid cock remained in that state for at least an hour-and-a-half. Eventually, it waked-up and I could feel it beginning to grow beneath the cup.
Toward the end, I began to dwell on the design of the cup and how it protects not only my balls and my cock, but also wraps under my perineum and actually protects my prostate as well. I accidentally dropped a remote control on my unprotected balls last night and was surprised at the level of (brief) pain that yielded. Ouch! Fortunately, it lasted only but a minute then subsided.