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I'm having a difficult time getting turned on during an aneros section.
Normally, porn or imagining something hot instantly gets me hard. However, I find it difficult to get sexually excited during aneros sessions. Porn doesn't excite me, and it's hard to focus on something sexy when I'm trying to focus on my breathing and contracting.
I'm just wondering how horny you guys are when starting a session, or if it just involuntarily happens as a result of the aneros being inside you.
I don't know how it came up, but one day for some reason I decided that I wanted to buy a prostate massager. I had never had any experience with anal play at all, not even fingering myself during masturbation because I was always afraid of it. Never ever having ever heard any thing about prostate massagers I started to research them and quickly realized that aneros is one of the best ones to buy. One thing led to another and I kept researching and reading, researching and reading and a week later I took a leap of faith and ordered an Aneros Helix Syn.
For someone who had never experienced any anal play before I was very eager to try it out. First impressions out of the box, it did not appear as intimidating as I had thought it would be. It was much smaller than I was expecting it to be, which was good because I was afraid it would be too big and scare me off and that would be it.
From what I found from all the research I did before I had these few things in mind: 1. I wasn't expecting anything to happen during the first session, I was just expecting at most to get used to it and maybe have a nice masturbation experience 2. I needed to make sure that I had set adequate time aside to relax before and for the session as well
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It is 20 years ago that I began this journey of sexual discovery; after all this time I now realize that my purpose has been to pursue the Tao of Eros; but it didn’t start out that way. When I began walking in this path of sexual discovery, my simplistic goal was to seek higher levels of arousal. Along the way I came to the realization that I also wanted to better understand female sexual response so I could be a better lover.
I discovered the opportunity of the Tao of Eros when I discovered Tantric Sex Practice in the first year or so. With my new knowledge I sought out eastern thought and philosophy as the first steps along the path. I read books and I did retreats in Tantra, Zen and Taoism; I studied some of the theory behind Kundalini Yoga. I read books on Extended Male Orgasm and Male Multiple Orgasm.
Those early intellectual efforts years ago opened my mind to so much more than kinky means to seek arousal. As I looked to increase my libido I gained sexual proficiency, instead of pushing horniness to new heights, instead I discovered new pathways to orgasm. Finally I discovered the power of eroticism and subsequently became a sensual man who followed the Tao of Eros.
08/28/2015 8:44 AM
WOW, had amazing session of Dry–Os las night with my Helix.
I'd been staying away from the helix because I could just never get anywhere with it. Hard to feel it against the prostate, and even harder to find a Dry–O with it, and if I did it would be after a LOT of work.
So I focused on A–Less dry–Os and learned ways to arouse my prostate mostly from aneros forum posters. So yesterday, I said in a chat message that I really preferred A–Less orgasms over Helix ones… What an idiot!!!!!
So, last night after getting off chat, I figured I'd spend some time orgasming before bed, and I'd been winding up my prostate thru the evening and it was still a bit aroused from the other night. So I figured I'd get to it's hard–on state and then put the Helix in to see how it reacted…
WOAH…I feel like I've never had so much pleasure in bed. I get slightly aroused just thinking about it. I can feel my prostate from last night.. Was bouncing in bed for like an hour, and my groin muscles are sore… The p–waves felt so strong, and just didn't stop coming. Wish I could have been alone in the house as I would have been bouncing and vocal. My groin feels like it had tough work–out and needs a rest!
Had another intense session today with the Helix. Did the same as last session – warmed up the prostate without the helix till I could feel it itching occasionally, then when the prostate was more aroused to the point of feeling it swelled occasionally, I inserted the Helix.
It worked great again. I just use petrolium jelly and have a limited time between re-lubing. As it is, I had to re-lube once after that.
Wow, I had a few small dry-O's, but had to continue PCs and nipple stim for maybe 30 minutes. Eventually, the prostate was so aroused that I could feel the Pwaves )tingling( with every movement. Then I started to find reliable Dry-O's.
I kept that up for 30 min, and eventually, the prostate got even MORE aroused, so I could also feel it swollen inside all the time.
Then the fun really started!!!
I noticed that my scrotum sack was becoming really sensitive, when I was rubbing my knees together during some of the Dry-O's. So figured I'd just try kneeding my ballsack. Man, that was wonderful. Worked at that for 30 minutes. Got to where I could just run my hand across my balls and get excellent pleasurable feelings. I was kneeding it like Pizza dough.
Previously I'd had T-O's from massaging my ball sack, bu this time, my testicals weren't turtling up, and I wasn't feeling the semen build up. I think that the prostate was SO sensitive, that I wasn't haveing any problem focusing on the prostate no matter what else I was rubbing.
I was able to swim, lube up and give it a session. At Midnight I decided to give it a midnight swim and off to bed. I awoke twice with dry wet dreams. My G spot was throbbing with strong erection. I am riding P waves all day today. I am ready to ride again but don't know if I will have the chance. I think a rest is in order as well even though I feel like a nympho. The MUZE came today and I most likely will put it in the wife's Christmas stocking… I ordered Aneros MGX classic just because. Sofunloving
I've been messing around with an NJoy Pure Wand and Aneros Helix Syn for a few months now. Sometimes I can get a good feeling, but I haven't exactly had a fantastic time.
Part of that is because how much trouble it is to clean up afterwards.
I take a dump at least an hour before doing anything anal. I wash my asshole really well before putting anything in it. I have not used an enema, although I'm not sure that will change all that much.
When I finally pull either toy out, there are brown stains and maybe even a bit of shit on the toy. The smell is terrible. There's usually brown/watery stains on the towel when I'm finished, a mix of shit and lube. After thoroughly cleaning the Helix Syn with soap and water, it still has a pretty gross smell to it.
Last week, I used the Pure Wand and somehow triggered my system to shit everywhere. I ended up wiping my ass forever. I barely even had it inside me.
It's really hard to get horny and do anal play when I know how aggravating the cleanup is going to be. As you can tell, I'm frustrated, and I almost want to just stick with jerking off to avoid cleanup.
So I've tried about once a week or once every other week for months now, and still have yet to have any success. The best I've done was using the aneros hypnosis file – I think having something give me instructions helps. However, I'll keep contracting and pushing and won't have anything like an orgasm. Sometimes it makes my bladder feel full, I will go and empty it and will have lost any desire at that point. More often than that, I will get the worst case of blue balls ever. Even a traditional o won't cure it. I never get erect, have precum or any type of orgasmic sensation, and really eventually just loose my desire. I'm open to any suggestions – unfortunately marijuana is not an option (I've heard it helps).
Recent A–Less sessions with Dry–Os.
So far it looks like the best way for me to warm up and get my prostate hard for lots of Dry–O’s is to lay on my left side and do a bunch of PC contractions and lower ab pushes before I even start stimulating my nipples. I do this until my prostate starts to feel electric shocks like a chiropractors muscle machine. This can take 1 to 20 minutes depending on my body and mental state I guess… Then I can seek to find a PC/Ab muscle state with nipple stimulation that keeps the buzzing on constantly, then work with slow movement contractions to discover good orgasm positions.
I’ve also been able to go into orgasm mode without a constant prostate buzzing, but it takes a lot more work…
Sometimes, it really magnifies the contractions to take my hand and pull on my top butt–cheek to spread the cheeks apart. Don't know why this works, but it makes it really easy to feel every muscle movement inside my groin. Maybe it's just a mental thing or maybe it tightens up the muscles around the prostate….??
Had the most intense dry–O's so far last night.
Had tried yesterday morning to get my prostate to the electric buzz, but no matter what I did, it just wouldn't go there. It was definitely being aroused, but something was blocking it.
Ok, so this seems to be my biggest issue or blocker. I am comfortable with it but any erection soon goes away. There's a short period of time when Aneros itself can get me hard and going but then it stops working.
I had some successes but they are quite elusive even when I do the same things. I had a pretty good series of P-waves (early in the session), this was what I was going after when I discovered it with another toy. Most notably I had woken up to a REM sleep boner and pretty serious involuntary contractions but it didn't lead nowhere. That was also my only success by lying on the bed.
Looking at porn doesn't seem to work but I had biggest success and hints of success while watching it. I could easily jerk off to it but it'll be 7 days since my last real orgasm. I don't get aroused easily throughout the day either which I would expect (maybe it's because of release by massaging?).
Any thoughts? I've been doing "do nothing" but sometimes I feel that I should pull my sphincter muscles together and hold to increase the intensity. On the other hand I worry that it actually might be too aggressive for me since I got it going at night with nothing inside and that's what prevents/stops my boner.