A Breakthrough

Laying on a bed doing kegels never did anything for me. But I had a major breakthrough over the weekend and it was incredible. Here's what I did differently:

Don't lube up the aneros. Inject a LOT of lube into your butt, maybe 2-3x as much as you think would be a reasonable amount. Then make sure the outside of your butt / anus is dry. Next, slowly work the aneros in dry. With the extra lube inside it will move very freely, and you'll be able to have much more control over it's movement because it's not slippery when you do kegels.

Next, I just forgot about it, went about my business. After about 30-45 minutes of doing chores around the house I almost couldn't feel it. About 30 minutes after that something different started happening. I started getting an intense tickling feeling from my p-spot, very different than the feeling of just pressing on or rubbing my prostate.

That's when the magic started to happen, this tickling would get stronger and stronger until it was unbearable and dry orgasm after orgasm would happen. Anytime I sucked in my stomach, tightened my abs and worked my PC muscles I would have an intense orgasm. I found that sometimes standing with one foot on top of another cause orgasms almost immediately once I reached this point.

It's been two days since then and everything is more sensitive, even having regular PIV sex without the aneros is WAY better than before.

MGX works only while standing / walking

I'm a newbie and bought my first aneros (MGX) recently, but it seems like it only hits the right spot if I'm standing or walking. It feels every good when walking, but when I try laying down (even changing my leg positions), I don't feel very much if anything. Does anyone have any advice? Maybe I need a different model?

Touched for the very first time

I decided to start a blog here so i could someday look back on my experience and also to share with the aneros community how it goes for me. I'm Brazilian so my english won't always be what it might need to be, so i ask for your patience on it.
I'm a 31 years old, straight, married guy.
I bought recently my first Aneros which was a Helyx Syn, and had my first session with it last tuesday.
The forum is very helpful and i understood i shouldn't have expectation as result might take time.
The Helyx Syn is very smooth. i was surprised how bendy the P-tab is. I heard the P-tab could be painful, and i doubt that it is the case with the Helix Syn. Also thought it was smaller than the pictures.
I don't like the whole idea of an enema, and i didn't do one. I won't Wax, won't enema….
I was somewhat aroused by the new experience that i was about to undergo but not highly aroused.
I used water based lube and the aplicator, and lubed the helyx too
I was impressed on how easy insertion was. It wasnt disconforting even though i don't have experience in the anal departament. About half way through insertion it was sucked in by my ass unintentionally. It was like it said "Give me that!!" and i was like "what the fuck?!?"
It wasn´t disconforting with it in me
I tried to breath throught my belly and relax as much as i could but sometimes when i thought my esfincter was relaxed it was really not, it kept coming back to a somewhat tense mode.
The aneros kept poking me inside, sort of like ringing a bell constantly, especially when i relaxed more the esfincter. That didn´t feel neither good nor bad. The orgasm did not feel like answering the door. But i was impressed it did that inside me, as i thoght nothing would happen, i thought it would just sit inside me, i thought to myself "That shit is alive for sure"
Tried some positions and it seemed to move more when i'm on my stomach
I was hard about two times which was dificult lying on my stomach, made a disconfort pressure. It moved faster inside me when i was hard.
There was a moment i thought i was gonna shit myself. Thank god it was not the case.
I tried some light contractions, that did nothing for me that time.
At some point, my ass started to throb a little, quick ones. It was a nice small feeling. Like i get when i stop myself so i won't cum when i'm just on the edge to, or the one when i´m having a dry speel and in need for sex )i don't know if that is common or not(
I thought i did not have any pre-cum, but found evidence otherwise. But it was not much at all.
It was an overwall surprising experience, but i would't call it good. I was happy with it. I wanted to stay with it more time but it was past 1 hour of session and i was a good student. The Wiki said don't overdo it, 1 hour in the begging tops, and i did not want to have bad consequences as i was just starting with that, so i called it quit. Afterwards I did not feel like finishing it off the usual way.
As i did not do an enema it came out dirty, and no matter how much i cleaned it, it stayed with a bad smell. I won't do enemas anyway.
The next day i got a feeling. You know when you are on the see for a while and you come out and you still feel the waves are moving even though you are not in the see anymore? I got kind of a feeling the aneros was moving there. My ass was hangover, it was neither good or bad. I wasn't hurt there either.I did want to have a session that day but thought it would be wise to take it easy, especially with whatever the hell was happening there.
That night i woke up to a feeling of pleasure going from my ass to my balls going through my perinium, when i contracted,)it scared me( it went away. That happened sooo fast that i am not even sure that it happened. did it happened, was it a dream… i'll never know.

I was skeptical, but wow

Last summer I was buying a few toys on amazon and needed an extra toy to get free shipping. I heard about aneros and came to this subreddit, when I saw the reviews of it I was so excited to give it a try! It came in the mail with a few other toys, and I got more into those than the aneros, it didn't seem to hit my prostate very well, it was a bit bi to just slip in without some preparation, and I couldn't focus or get into the mindset very well. However, tonight I had been watching porn for an hour and hadn't touched my dick at all yet, so I figured now was the best opportunity to give the aneros another try. I'm so glad I did! The other times I had tried it I had to finger myself a bit to get it to fit, and then when it did go in well it didn't give me much sensation even after an hour of trying. Tonight though, it slipped right in (I've taken some bigger toys by now) and immediately was pressing right against my g-spot, it felt incredible, and within 10 minutes I was on my bed bucking and clenching my ass right around the aneros, leaking precum and having an incredibly hard anal orgasm. I went on that way for about 20 minutes, tried to get up and couldn't feel my legs. I feel so satisfied now, and I can't decide if I should go to bed or keep on with it to see how much longer I can keep the orgasms going 🙂 Anyways, thanks aneros! I'm sorry I ever doubted you! This just goes to show some skeptical people who have bought theirs that if you go into it in the right mindset without grand expectations, it may help you stimulate yourself way more

Questions after first prostate orgasm

Throwaway for privacy reasons. So all in all, it felt amazing but I'm freaked out because of 3 things: 1) my prostate or something became monstrously, scarily huge and diamond-hard 2) I'm very confused because I ejaculated but I never touched my penis 3) I only used my fingers cuz I'm penniless until payday at the end of the month. So, basically, WHAT THE HELL does YOUR body do when you prostate orgasm? My body really confused and shocked me. Does your prostate or front wall get gigantic and hard? And was it really just my prostate getting that big? Or was it more than that? And do all your muscles down there contract super hard?? I'm still in disbelief that my body could do all those things. And I'm confused because I ejaculated. I read you're not supposed to ejaculate. I didn't stimulate my penis at all. I did my perineum, but I wasn't pulling the penis skin. I was just going for more prostate stimulation. If you have questions on what I did, you can read the story below. Sorry it's so long and… scientifically explicit.

Starting 2 weeks ago, I started seriously trying for prostate orgasm using all the suggestions on the aneros wiki and on these reddits (basically, be very gentle, still, no very vigorous movements, controlled and focused breathing, etc.). My biggest and only variation is I have no tools. Just fingers. At the end of the month on payday, I'm going to buy aneros and nexus revo. But as of now I'm just using my fingers.

Downlow

I'm starting to believe that I can't make this Aneros experience work unless I keep it secret from my partner. That is… it's use. I'm not gonna super-o in front of him. I look like a seizure case. Plus, I want him to try it out, use it right, but he gives up so fast. First it was about piquing his interest, but he doesn't know what to expect. Now it's about my own journey with the device. What disturbs me is that I may be starting to prefer working with Aneros than sex with him.

Could anyone take a couple of measures from an Aneros Helix for me?

I know it's kind of a weird thing to ask, but let's just say I have less privacy than I'd like most of the time, which means that if I get one of these I'd do well in hiding it properly.

To that end I've decided I'm going to carve a book, nobody uses dictionaries anymore anyway, internet is easier.

The problem is that from here: http://www.aneros.com/product/helix-classic/

I only get these 4 measures

Tip Width: 1 1/16 inches

Mid-Ridge Width: 15/16 inches

Stem to Perineum Distance: 1 3/4 inches

Insertable Length: 4 inches

So if anyone took a moment to measure the distances in green and orange from this image: http://i.imgur.com/f5ZNqV5.png

That would be of great help.

urologist's visit

My old urologist moved away from the little city to the big city. New urologist is a she. She has an idea on how to treat my impotence. The idea involves three things – encouraging blood flow – with a small daily dose of Cialis, increasing pressure / desire by refraining from ejaculation and using a new drug that shows promise in terms of nerve ending re-growth. I am warned it will be slow. A good sign would be semi-erect and increased flaccid size.

I asked about aneros and she said nothing wrong so long as its not pushed – e.g. take a break at any sign of discomfort. Specific to my situation, no ejaculations. Wet dreams are ok since I have no control.

I told her about my recent almost wet dream and being semi-erect and she said that is a very good sign.

Introduction

I am a 51 year old married man who is impotent [erectile dysfunction]. Erections began to fail about ten years ago but intercourse with my wife was possible. Mornings helped, as did strong coffee and the right kind of stimulation. But at the same time her libido plummeted so there was little motivation to work to get erect. In the words of my urologist, when erectile function starts to flounder, working it helps to keep it from getting too much worse.

About three years ago my wife's libido came back gangbusters. By then my erectile function was pretty much toast. I tried Viagra, Cialis. They worked, well sort of. These gave me partial erections and headaches. The problem with the partial erections is that it was not enough for penetration.

Sometimes acceptance is a good thing. I have come to accept that I am impotent and there are other ways to pleasure and be pleasured.

When my impotence was first noticeable I saw my family doctor who referred me to a urologist. The urologist performed prostate massage, or that is what he called it when I asked, what are you doing to me! I then googled the subject, found out about the Aneros, and ordered an early model. I think it was actually through High Island Health.

My Second Encounter

Last night in a chat with Brine he asked me to do an entry describing my second liaison with a guy. Brine and a few others have asked about my twice venture into male – male sexual intimacy in the last two years. It is difficult to describe the experience without putting it into context. In a recent chat Brine and few of us were explaining MMO / Super O to a newbie. Brine commented that it was an integrated physical – mental – spiritual thing. He is absolutely right.

For the last 20 years I have been engaged in a discovery process to understand my sexuality. I dipped my toes into Tantra, Zen, Kundalini, edging, anal penetration and erotic massage to name a few. There were also workshops, strip clubs, gay bars, books, pod casts and myriad toys and porn. The frustration of all of them was that they all seemed to fall short or they required a life change to really engage. I was not ready to become a monk or a sex worker LOL.

Then 8 years ago quite by chance I was surfing the net looking for porn when I wound up on the Aneros site. I ordered my first toy exactly 8 years ago this month. That following year was dedicated to learning to use it. When I had ben successful for 8 months or so the rewiring process started. I am guessing that by the end of that year I was rewired. My sexual response, spirituality, physical – sexual capability, and mental state were all synched and in a sense I was sexually reborn.