I posted this in /r/pegging and someone suggested that I would have better luck here.
I just bought a helix syn and I've had 3 sessions so far. I've read up on the wiki and done a bit of research but I'm still unclear on a few things.
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What exactly should I be thinking about during my sessions? Should I work on having a clear mind and just relaxing or should I be fantasizing and thinking naughty thoughts? If I'm suppose to be keeping a clear mind and just relaxing then what's the point of being aroused prior to the session? Doesn't the prostate only swell when while you're being stimulated mentally/physically?
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Should I be flexing my pelvic floor muscles as I breath or just breath and relax? If I should just be relaxing, then when should I start flexing my pelvic floor muscles?
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I don't feel the peeing or tingling sensation most people describe. I know people have said it takes a while to "re wire", but at what point should I try a new toy? I should also note that I don't feel it when fingering my prostate either.
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The location of my prostate. I stuck my finger in and I think I found it about an inch and half in, however, when I compare this location to the helix syn it doesn't seem to match up. Should I be stopping at the first neck? So far I've been pushing it all the way in to the final neck.