Tag: Aneros

Manual contractions to the rescue

In a surprising U-turn from my previous post. I've started to experiment more with manual contractions.

I still think it's important to learn the skill of being able to let go and experience the involuntaries when the time is right. But after a disappointing dry spell, trying to chase the "do nothing" magic of before, I remembered another post I'd found on the forum that described a contraction technique that sounded to me like the "quick and dirty path", but explained in another way.

The thread is here:
https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/comment/2315

This changed the way I do contractions. Focusing more on feeling the aneros move in to a deeper position, and then letting it move back to where it was. The difference is listening to the right feedback. When the aneros has reached its target destination, then I know when to release and when to contract. I let the position of the aneros dictate my timing and build my rhythm around it, rather than trying to build a rhythm out of thin air. It seems so obvious now, but I think what I was doing before was listening to what my muscles were ready to do, or what sensation I wanted to produce in the moment, rather than what the aneros was actually doing.

I had experimented with this rhythm before but only with anal contractions. I've found the "penis muscle contraction" is an important one too. It seems to pull the aneros forward. Combining this contraction with how ever much "anal pull-in" it takes to hit the spot. Read more »

OMG! Never Felt Anything Like This!

OMG is all I can say!

After much debate with myself over which model to buy, I purchased my 2nd Aneros. I originally planned to buy the Progasm Jr. as my 2nd, but wound up getting the Progasm Ice last Thursday. I was going over the dimensions of the P-Jr vs. my helix syn last week and thought that even though the shape is totally different, the size wasn't much different. I then read multiple posts in the Forum about the Progasm Ice, and how great the experience was. I looked at the dimensions on the site, and thought "Eh, not that big a difference". I found a retailer in the area that had the P-Ice in-stock and set out to make my purchase.

The store had the P-Ice, P-Jr, and my helix syn, out on display. When you hold all three next to each other in your hands for comparison, the P-Ice is HUGE! A little background: until I started playing with my Syn last November, I really didn't have much anal experience, at least not experience that I thought was pleasurable. The idea of anal was always better than the act. Aneros has opened a whole new world to me and awoken my prostate to pleasure! The P-Ice scared me to be truthful, and I wasn't sure if I'd be able to get it in me, but I figured that I if I was going to buy a 2nd, I should get something drastically different. And from other users descriptions in the Forum, I knew the P-Ice was the right choice. Read more »

The Mystery Man Strikes Again

So I have no idea how long this is going to last but mystery man has delivered once again. All I can say is I'll ride for as long as he does…)same guy from previous post called engergy transfer…(apparently he likes being star of the show.

At first I started not to tell him about my previous post…thinking hey if he finds it he finds it. If not secret is safe with me )he knew I was riding during our chat but had no idea the effect he was having on me(. Being the glutten for punishment that I am I mentioned it to him casually. He read it…told me he really liked it.

Later on I guess the stars must have aligned because he stumbled into chat. I didnt reallly notice at first…ok who am I kidding I noticed. However I really didnt plan on riding that day…so I just continued business as usual. Then I hear the sound of a whistle…Private Chat Request appears at the bottom of the screen…oh my I feel a change of mind coming.

We exchange pleasantries…and talk about a few other things. I happened to know at the moment where he was…not exactly where he was like GPS coordinates, but I knew enough to be able to picture him in his setting. Thats important for me, my mind's eye is the clearest of all. Read more »

Homoerotica from my Memoir / Novel

This is an excerpt from my novel. It is partial truth and partial fantasy. I put it here in response to several guys asking me about the novel. This excerpt is homoerotic the novel is mixed m-m, m-f-m, and m-f. Enjoy and tell me what you think.

Ling

So the day finally arrived. It is a significant drive to Virginia for me. During the entire trip my cock was erect and drooling as I though that he would be there when I arrived.

I got there first, which was odd because he was a lot closer. I wondered if maybe I was more aroused and motivated by the prospect of being with him for the next two nights. I took the suite in the hotel under my name. Part of the reason I had arranged to get a suite was so that we would have kitchen facilities and avoid going out and be seen together as little as possible. We planned on spending the weekend in the room having sex that was it. Read more »

Intro…a little about me and my blog…

Well, I've been contemplating over a while now on whether I should create and maintain a blog on this site. Well, I finally decided to take the plunge and did it! I'm actually excited about it, and the adventure that I'm taking on. I already write for another site that I dont own but the owner is so generous and welcomed me so lovingly )shameless plug www.cumeatinghusband.com devajones on there as well( where the topic matter )although aneros is mentioned on there in a post( will be different from this blog. The topic matter may overlap some but I'll try to keep this one more fitting to Aneros related things. I guess this blog will be a catch all for various things from documenting my sessions, things I've learned about myself though my journey with Aneros, or just what ever becomes my muse to write. I just go with how I feel at the moment so just stay tuned as you never know what you might see on here. I welcome any and all constructive comments )no assholes please!!!(.

About me: I am first off one of the VERY few women on this site )if there are any ladies reading this join us there are some exceptional guys on here, as well as grade A information and various points of view to draw from(. If you are a guy that has a wife or girlfriend that is hesitant, doesnt understand, or is grossed out by it dont be afraid to contact me )send a message or leave a comment(, I'd love to help women understand that there is nothing strange about this. I think I'll make a blog post about that…haha sometimes I inspire myself! Read more »

Happy Anniversary

First I would like to thank all my brothers who wished me a happy anniversary. I felt all the love and waves that were sent my way. When I tell you that the last three days were the most beautiful orgasmic days of my life. I'm still buzzing from all the anal play that went on.

It all started on Friday evening after my parents went on a mini vacation to visit family. As i saw them pull out of the drive way I began to prep for my own weekend utopia trip that was going to be taken in my mind from all the orgasmic pleasure that was going to be going on. I lit scented candles, I shaved my whoe body clean, and i showered and hot my ass ready for the time of its life. I entered my room with slow jazz music playing setting the tone and mood. I didn't want to to cum yet since the real big day was on saturday so I thought a nice long edging session would be just good enough to give me that plasure but nover board to the point of explosion. Mind you its been 5 days since i had a wet orgasm. Read more »

50th Anniversary of Gay/Bi Youth: memories celebration sessions

I first thought about this in the context of things at www.dick.net and posted this first quote over there:

"50th Anniversary and more

So grateful for now entering 8th year of glorious ecstatic orgasmic energies mutual prostates/Gspots loving adventures practice with my wife, the crown of our erotic life together,

and later this year celebrating our 45 years of happy hetero-marriage, and over 30 years parenting two wonderful accomplished sons,

and 50th Anniversary of my Youthful Gay Exploratory and all I learned and enjoyed and shared, while searching myself deeply and finding my erotic and sexual truths, and even as we stopped having sex 3+ years into our adventures, we have remained great platonic friends, with a grateful deep fraternal love.

I am so grateful for all these people and lifetime conversations, and the great knowing and fulfilment: floating bliss, profound peace and ecstatic spiritual energies enlightenments.

I believe all males need to experiment, explore, and with deep connection and mutual respect, search the self and the other with another male early in our sexual maturation stages to really know and feel and be able to share our whole male love with our partners at all appropriate levels mmmmmmmm

Happy Anniversaries All!!!"

New tool, new sessions mmm

I happened to be in Montreal for a conference and my birthday day was the second day of the event. Read more »

So Fulfilled

Hey guys I know it's been a while since I have wrote a blog but with work and riding my time is really consumed. But I'm back. Here to tell my new knowedge of what I have learned and the new things I do in my sessions to get me t the high peak of orgasm.

Firstly I now only ride on the weekends. That came about because I am always taking long persion breaks fro riding or cumming or doing anything sexual because of my work obligations. Yes I'm just a daycare teacher but I feel like my job consist of scopping the minds of our new children little minds that ae here with us and I try to make that exciting for them. So after work I like to relax and be so tired that I dont have the energy for nothing but a shower and a gass of wine and a deep sleep. I also found out that when I stretch out my sessions when I eventually ride there that more intense. So my negative became a plus. Read more »

My Experience of a Super O

Three nights ago I sustained one of the most intense tempo sessions I have ever done. It started at 3 am from having gone to sleep with my tempo inserted. The tempo session was two and a half hours of hard relentless anal spasms and deep prostate orgasms and cock lurching pleasure. When I pulled the tempo from my anus it made a wet sucking pop; my desperate orifice did not want to release it. Yet even though the invasive stimulation that tickled and teased my prostate into shuddering – convulsive exquisite pleasure was removed, the sensually pleasurable waves of orgasmic bliss continued to subtly resonate deep in my anal tract.

So with the tempo in my hand, still warm and slimy from its penetration of my orgasmic hole, my anus and anal tract begged for more. I am weak when it comes to MMO. I have never been able to say no. So I relinquished any hope of getting any sleep and jumped back in to ride the waves of orgasms to the shore. When it was finally over the sun was up and it was 6:30 AM. I went on with my day tired but aroused. Read more »

A chat with the guys/ sexual fantasies

So i recently got off of a chat with several guys in it and I really enjoyed talking to them. Granted I ended up talking more explicitly about the things i think about when i get myself aroused and such, but overall i was happy to know that i wasn't feeling any judgement. I told them how i fantasized about guys and girls and they were cool with it. That then led to a story i shared with them but you guys wouldn't want to hear that would you?

So looking back at it, how great are our imaginations and fantasies when it comes to masturbation and feeling aroused? I've been told that I have a vivid imagination. I forget who said it in the chat room but if you remember who you are, kudos to you. I would say that my imagination comes from frustration, exploration, and obviously lust. The things i can think about are almost limitless, but i'm pretty sure there are many guys out there who can do the same. I shared to the guys that my frequent encounters with porn were not as satisfying as they used to be, only a few months ago may I add. Visual stimulation was great and all but to imagine that feeling and sensation using your mind is so much better. I feel much more emotionally, physically, mentally, and sexually satisfied than if i wanked to a video of some stranger(s) banging another stranger(s). Read more »