Journal post-ride – I am a body of water

Hey all – been lurking for a while for tips but haven’t had a session in a while that warranted any hullabaloo. Had some thoughts and unique feelings during and after this most recent session that I wanted to share. No super-o or breakthroughs, but just some deep feelings I experienced. A little background on my journey thus far:

First off, I got absolutely ruined the first time I *really* used Aneros. I had a helix for a minute and my first time using it resulted in a whole lot of nothing. Just laid there and pfft, nothing. What a trick I had been put under. I had some experience with other anal toys like dildos and plugs, but that was my first massager experience. Not going to act like some expert, but anal play had started to become something I dabbled in.

Cut to a year later in lockdown, I decided to give it another try, which I consider my first REAL ride. Used coconut oil, slid it in and laid with my legs down in kind of a parenthesis shape ( ), just trying to relax. I remember it hitting me almost instantly. My dick got rock hard quickly and it felt like I was cumming, but nothing was coming out. This happened about three times and the next day my anus was tingling well into the early afternoon. I could barely work that day. I think that because I truly had no expectations, my experience was quick and fruitful. On the same hand, after that point my bar was permanently set too high, and I haven’t been able to reach that pinnacle again. Every time I hear Steely Dan’s “Time Out of Mind” and specifically the lyric “tonight when I chase the dragon” (in reference to chasing the first heroin high), I think of trying to replicate that Aneros session. Ugh.

FUCK

Just got home from visiting family for the holidays. I decided to bring my Helix Syn V to continue my “practice” with it before bed. Now that I am back home, I realized I left it in my room… on the ground next to my bed…

I was using it last night and was half awake and took it out and put it to the side to wake up and clean/pack it in the morning. Now I guess I have a dirty aneros in my room, not hidden at all, and I wont be back to retrieve it for at least a year. If my parents look in my room at all they will definitely find it.

This is pretty embarassing. RIP me.

I guess my pgasm journey will be put on hold 🙁

P-waves and sensations when not using aneros?

Hi guys,

Little background – I’ve been dabbling in prostate specific play the last 12 months or so. I’m gay, so anal play wasn’t something I was unfamiliar with, but rewiring and focus on the prostate was. Last January I ordered the njoy wand and really enjoyed it, reaching pgasm manually without much trouble.

Probably 2 months ago got my first aneros (heilix-syn). I always smoke a little before my sessions. At first I was sort of let down by the aneros… or at least thought I was… until I involved nipple play (I now have suckers and clamps) and it pushed me right over the edge. The sensations I got were unlike anything I’ve ever felt, and even if im playing with my nips sans aneros I still feel p-waves.

Now I’m home for the holidays and didn’t bring any of my toys. But I’ve been noticing that I get some surprisingly strong p waves just brushing my nipples or doing kegels. I laid in bed last night and felt myself spasm and shake just from these two simple actions (I also haven’t cum since the 24th).

Is this a common experience and does anyone have some suggestions on where to read up on this phenomenon? I feel like it isn’t a placebo effect, but could it be? Regardless, I’m certainly enjoying the ride, but would love to have a better understanding of my rewiring. Personal experiences and resources appreciated!

Should I get another one?

New owner here. Bought the Progasm Ice because I wanted a full feeling. I have no issues with the size, but I feel like my prostate is way lower than where the Progasm “points” at. I’ve used it now for like 3-5 times and I only feel like I’m hitting my prostate when I don’t insert the toy fully in and then push it towards my stomach. I did this today and a bit of fluid came out of my penis. Should I buy another aneros or still give the Progasm a chance. Maybe I’m using it wrong?

Lube choice

There are durex lubes around my area, which are the aloe vera and ky. Would any of these be suitable for aneros?

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How do you know you’ve triggered involuntaries?

Hello,

I’ve been struggling for a while to produce involuntaries, but I think I’ve managed to do it. The key for me was instead of holding the pelvic floor “in” I did a light push “out” and held it, which produces what feels like a gentle pounding inside. The frequency is around around 2 per second or so and it doesn’t really feel like I’ve lost control of my muscles… in fact I sometimes try to relax through it (release my light push out) and the effect continues despite everything being relaxed. Also it doesn’t necessarily lead to more pleasure right way or the “build up” feeling which is sometimes unrelated to the “pounding”. However it seems like I haven’t found the correct position for my aneros yet so that may be an issue.

So my question is:

1. How do involuntaries feel to you?
2. How do you trigger them (what muscles do you use if any?)
3. Am I on the right track?

Core exercises enhanced my pleasure or was anterior pelvic tilt blocking progress?

I was doing some exercises to fix my anterior pelvic tilt (glute bridges, posterior tilting, lunges, etc.). It’s only been a few days so I’m not sure exactly what happened, but I started having intense tremors in my pelvis. I think these are involuntary contractions. It’s so easy to relax and build pleasure from them. It was actually kind of hard to make go to sleep cuz they were so distracting. I’ve been playing around with Aneros for 4 months and progress was stagnating. I mostly worked on building control and awareness of all the separate muscles, but it was really hard to get involuntaries, or build up any intense pleasure. Aneros strengthens the pelvic floor, but I guess it’s also important to pay attention to the glutes and abdominals since they are close by they might play a part in prostate orgasms. Or maybe this is more specific to my experience since my APT was making it impossible to relax some of my muscles.

Does hight matter when choosing an aneros massager?

I know that people have varying success with different kinds of models because of their prostate being located a bit higher or lower then usual.
So I was thinking since I am only 5’4 feet tall that my prostate may be located a bit lower the average.
I am a broke college student and can’t really afford to try different models.
Should I get the Aneros Jr. Since its a bit shorter than the other models?
Or am I overthinking?

The delights of nipple diddling Xmas night in bed!

Hi guys,

After a full day of activities on Christmas Day, I retired early Christmas night for some hours of much needed slumber. However last night, I awoke up with my body hungering for nipple diddling activities!

In many of previous blog posts, the delights of nipple diddling happened soon after my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016. A month before in mid August 2016, I devised a regimen of Kegel Exercises which actually made the Kegels a very pleasurable activity. Right now I post this regimen for your perusal:

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I had being doing the Kegels since September 2011 when I first heard about the Aneros, Super-O’s, and MMO’s from a guy elsewhere in sex chat. The Kegels are good for strengthen the pelvic floor in both women and men. They are recommended when you work with the Aneros.

My Kegel regimen which I devised in August 2016 not only made this sort of exercise feel real good, but it launched me to the achievement of my Super-O and MMO’s breakthroughs a month later.