Tag: Dry Orgasm

The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 2

The Inflation Cycles

Over time, Mrs. a and I found that we really enjoy taking the M/F Energies Balancing experience further and in a counter-intuitive direction. As we began to experience the energies exchanges more clearly and quickly, we also felt my flaccid penis taking that stimulus back to an ejaculatory circuit, or more frequently, a mixed circuits response and starting to erect, at least to semi-soft or slightly firmer state, what I have earlier here described as the "leatherman".

As this happens we do some "old fashioned" higher speed humping, until we have teased up anticipatory pleasures and more aroused excitement. This too does not take as long as it used to. Sounds a bit like premature ejac about to go off, yet Mrs. a is also getting this more rapid buildup. There is even a hint of edging to it sometimes. Very delightful for both!!

Right about then my body says: "Hold it!" (in every sense)! And wanting a great chain of Super-Os before anything ending in ejac, and wanting the mounting and distracting pains from earlier injuries to ease off, and having the ED timer run out of buzz; my penis deflates and we both are thrilled! Read more »

My First Two Super Sessions

Here are two entries from the first sessions that took me to Super O Land. Both are from August 2009, only three months after receiving my Helix and only a few sessions. These were from my first Aneros screen name. I no longer use that account. Rather lengthy, but descriptive.
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Three and a Half Hours –

I had today off. My wife and kids went to school and work. I was given a whole day alone. Perfect time to take a LONG stride on my journey.

I'm in my early fifties, married to a wonderful woman who is so supportive of my explorations with my Helix. Usually I put the Aneros in when I go to bed, it does its magic, then my wife does her magic and I have multiple, dry orgasms. We pleasure each other and I have a huge, tremendous traditional orgasm. We continue to cuddle and she knows what to do to make my mini-orgasms continue. Her touch is amazing. Well, you'd think that was amazing enough. Oh, no…

Back to today.

I took my son to school and returned home about 7:30 AM. My wife was just about to leave for work and my daughter was spending a few days with a friend. I had the house to myself. Carpe diem. Read more »

Morning Super-O

Howdy. Been away from here for a while. I noticed the last time I wrote here was last May. In the months since then, I've had a few good sessions, and a long dry spell in which I was ill and had absolutely no libidinal desires whatsoever. That has changed in the last few weeks, culminating in a session this week that was bar none the hottest one yet.

This was a morning session, and the first time I've ever had a super-o in the daytime. My prostate had been going crazy in the days leading up to it. It was in the kind of heightened state where you could summon up wild p-waves at will. Really bizarre, and exciting. Still, I wasn't expecting a lot when I decided to sit down with the MGX inserted that morning. Within minutes, I was getting p-waves. It surprised me, getting such strong feelings so soon. A few minutes later, the sensations escalated into mini-os. I was alternating between rubbing the "sweet spot" near the base of my penis and the penis itself, coaxing out stronger and stronger feelings. As the mini-os escalated into a more consistent dry-o sensation, I vaguely thought "hmm, interesting" as I let myself go and surrendered to the feelings, wherever they led. Pretty soon I was moaning and squirming around. And then the super-o came. Wow. Best one ever. I was able to ride it along for who knows how long. The sensations were so incredible that, when it came to finishing off with a traditional orgasm, it literally was an anticlimax. Read more »

no-Aneros double show!

So as of yesterday I seem to finally be back in peak arousal. It's probably been somewhere around one week since I last ejaculated. And it doesn't take much to get me aroused and for the pleasure sensations in my perineum, anus, and prostate to occur. 😀

So yesterday my anus was a little sore from what I think was just too much Aneros action that I was doing daily. So I consciously made a decision to give myself a day off from it. But in the mean time that day, I once again had two amazing no-Aneros sessions in the morning and evening! These are by far, once again, my best sessions yet! Really pleasurable! And I remember at one point in the first session where I felt a sense of sexual satisfaction. That was a first for not ejaculating! I don't really understand why the sitting position with no-Aneros gives me better results than an Aneros session. But I guess I'm not really complaining at this point. Just curious. So I'm starting to wonder if I am perhaps experiencing some sort of mini or dry orgasm already without really knowing it. I feel like there is certainly further to go with this. But perhaps I am closer, or already there.

Buster clued me into this idea during last weekends chat session. His thoughts were that the circling the drain feeling is where you need to be. That is the super-O feelings, or what becomes them as you become more conscious and observant of the sensations. Any thoughts?

Unreal, with no insertion whatsoever…

Okay, so last night, I had another of my six hour sessions (I rarely spend less than that, but not every day anymore), and finally achieved my third super-massive orgasm (after eight or ten days of trying since my first two). I'll write more about those later – think I got a really useful insight to share for those having trouble, but I want to test it again this evening.

But for the moment, the news is my first dry orgasm(s) with absolutely no insertion whatsoever!

Sat down to evaluate a solo masturbation vid that I hadn't gotten to last night. Was just going to check out its quality for possible use tonight. Need to go out and do some things, so despite feeling some craving for the MGX (after spending most my time with the Eupho), just wanted to review the movie quickly and be done for the moment.

Instead, I found my pelvis immediately awakened by the content (Yalta from YoungPorn.net), and quickly found myself wondering, "How far can this go?" It was a 12 minute vid playing at half-speed, so I thought I'd ride it out and see what happened.

Notably, I'm wearing boxer briefs at the moment. I DO think these get in the way. But not too badly, evidently! Read more »

Multiples and Marathons

I share these observations in case someone else might learn something new or useful from them. Am only a beginner, but think I've got a pretty advanced read on what's going on "down there" (and in our heads too) during these amazing experiences.

So, my previous entry mentioned finally learning how to (basically but undeniably) come on Saturday afternoon/day six. Saturday night (i.e., after many hours of intervening sleep), I learned how to "work it."

Had seven orgasms, five of which kept topping the previous as the most outstanding of my life. Fascinating to have read "each orgasm will have a different character" in the documentation, but then to really experience it for oneself. Frankly, orgasm has not been so interesting to me for a very long time – the last couple of years (with my FleshLight) have been preoccupied with brinkmanship and plateaus. But the lessons and muscle memory of that previous study is paying off now in a couple of significant ways.

First, a "love of brinksmanship" delivers radical new rewards in this hands-off context. With "hands-on brinking," there's always the constant struggle not to tip over the line, but with the Aneros(es), it's really easy not to release. Thus, my earlier orgasms of Sat night were "as soon as possible," but eventually learned that there's no rush. Or rather, a tremendously longer rush! One of them surprised me by feeling like minutes of coming, until finally a slight dip in sensation, and then the enormous release. Read more »

Confessions

So much for abstinence.

On Wednesday evening I had another go, I simply had to. I guess I had a good session but I felt unsatisfied. A couple of dry-o's.

I must wait for my body to get ready, not insisting on getting the key to the big vibrating universe..

Well, Thursday morning i woke up early, and how do you spend an hour before you should get up? That’s right. Lube up and go. Again I was too ambitious and fell short. After 40 minutes I went to take a shower. And dancing to ‘Wake up and make love to me’ (Ian Drury) I came in a wonderful way. The shower beams touching my skin. I switched the shower to massage and let the powerful beam massage my lumber region i.e. lower back. That turned out to be the right thing to do, good things happened…

Friday my wife came home from the trip, and I was really trying to find a right time to tell her about Aneros. But I didn’t find the right time to do it. So we went to bed and slept as babies. In the morning I woke up early, and was lying thinking of what to say. And when K woke up, I started to tell that I too had been on a voyage. And then I told her about my adventures with Aneros. I was very anxious to hear her response, and it was positive, she congratulated me and was very happy for me. She wants to share the experience with me, but we have to wait until the mother in law has left. This will be on Monday. Read more »

Muscle Memory and Fantasy/Imagery as Orgasmic Triggers

These are excepts from a current thread in which Pan and I discuss these alternate methods based on his first post in Sky_Walker's thread The Five Minutes leading up to a Super-O at http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4096&start=15.

>>>artform wrote: I have found both the Fantasy method and what I have called the Muscle Memory method to be very useful additional arrows in the quiver. But Muscle Memory may be limited to those experienced with yoga or at least successful inner body visualization: being able to mentally connect with a specific body element, isolate and activate it in an unusual way. For example focusing on a wound, visible or internal and actually being able to accelerate its healing.

I used my MGX, when I had temporarily reached a plateau before any Aneros-induced Super-O, and practised having my prostate and its rectal muscle wall cover reach out to contact the tip of the MGX and have them caress it. I called it "polishing the knob". Mine does this hungrily for mrs. a's finger anytime!

Perhaps that was the key, butt it worked with the Aneros and I could then replicate that sensation anytime at will without the Aneros and launch the energies, the Butt Buzz and P-waves, mini-Os and dry-Os and beyond… anytime. The muscles there actually flex gently when I "recall" that memory and the physical stimulus prostate fuse is ignited that easily. Perhaps it's just the trick of an adept with an unusual background. Or, this might be useful for others needing to "do something", just as the Fantasy Method has wide appeal and application.<<< Read more »

Great Maintenance Orgasms

I have always also used my Aneros models for prostate massage specific treatment for my chronic Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) and prevention of the previous occasional bouts of more or less serious Prostatitis. One episode of prostatitis a few years ago took 3 months of antibiotic lashings to cure.

Although I can also use Aneros as a an erection encourager at times for my medication induced Erectile Dysfunction (ED), that is a different circuit, rewired and expressed consciously as a different intention. Such are the needs of Aneros multitasking! 🙂

So a normal BPH treatment session has the objective of a good vigourous hands-free prostate massage to break up those micro-crystals and other debris molecules so they can be flushed out with the next ejaculation, thereby "clearing the pipes". This restores a full and easy flow of urine where it can have gotten congested, narrowed significantly, and uncomfortable from time to time. Thank you Aneros and HIH!

These sessions usually start off in bed with relaxation, insertion, more relaxation and some voluntary/involuntaries opening movements. Once the energetic magic is working, relatively soon, my prostate is seeking something more vigourous and I get up for a walk about the house, particularly up and down stairs! Boy, can that Eupho move and MASSAGE!!!

Up and down, in and out (at first), side to side, round and round as we go (dance!) up and down the stairs!. At the exercise area, some toe-touching is fantastic! Deep Strokes! Recently I added a good ten minute speed walk on the treadmill. Nothing like it! Read more »

BIG breakthrough

More aneros practice.

These days have been an awakening for me. I can feel energy tingling through my body and have afterglow effects if Ive had a good session of aneros.

Im getting sore at this point and Im going to give myself a bit of a break. I have lube problems too. Im ordering some new varieties ASAP so I can go back to my training. Its hard not to continue on practicing, everyday I go at it I reach something new. Now its not only about pleasure, its about training. In some sessions Im not even worried about what I achieve in that session but rather I playing with the orgasm and seeing its qualities rather than trying to make it explode. Im not dying for the orgsm to happen, I build it up and even tease my body to see how that alters the feeling. I make some squeezes voluntarily and let the pleasure accumulate, I practice with light contraction, when I feel Im almost there, I relax and chillout for a bit and then go back to it…

This was not obvious for me at the begining but there are a lot of muscles down there that we can call upon not just pc and sphicter muscles. I thought there was only two movements, and even these two seem to be a combination of other ones. Im specially referring to the muscle in the rectum; pulling in, rocking, squeezing… Read more »