So many models? Which to choose?

Hello all new to this sub! Have recently bought a massager off amazon and while it did feel amazing I don’t think it quite hit the spot. I began looking further into proper toys and aneros popped up.

I can’t even list all the models I have tried to compare. I believe I would prefer silicone. With the ability to use with my partner and not feel poked by stiff abs plastic?

Trident ? MGX syn trident? Helix syn trident ? Which is great for beginner – intermediate. Something that can be easily approached for a beginner and used for intermediate level after?

So overwhelmed. Help? Where is best to order from as well?

Not getting results, please read, need some help

Pretty much every post here is positive, or is just series of instructions that wont work for everyone. All the “craziest orgasm of my life” posts seem to have some element of luck, and more often have had some form of anal play. These people usually achieve the super o in a very short period of time and they really dont say anything specific that has helped me. I have read countless articles here and on the forum and it seems like there is no silver bullet. I get strong involuntaries that can feel nice but its rare to feel any sort of pleasure for more then a second.

All this talk about letting go of expectations was helpful and I have made headway, but after a certain point you gotta ask yourself, is this actually getting better or are am I just telling myself it is? There is definitely some kind rewiring definitely going on, and I see some kind of potential, but standard penile pleasure is still better by far.

I have tried abstaining from the aneros which has helped before, but I just had almost a week off and had a dull session. I have tried not masturbating for extended periods and honestly it doesnt help, I think I get closer when I have been mastubating more often to be honest because of a higher baseline libido. When I go without ejaculatory orgasms my libido drops noticeably.

Helix Syn not long enough?

So tonight I gave a go at my helix syn with little to no success. trying for at least 30 minutes with slightly different variations of breathing, positions and muscle movement. My girlfriend gave me her womanizer duo to try instead. I managed to hit the spot perfectly with it and had an orgasm. I clamped the length of the dildo portion and compared it to the aneros. I found that the aneros is about half an inch short of hitting the spot. Is my prostate just deeper in or is the movement just too delicate and requires more hardwiring?

Is the Eupho an upgrade from the Helix?

Based on what I have read, the helix is usually the most recommended for beginners to learn. I have had mine for 2 months and have used it maybe 20 times. The first week I got it I used it every day, but didnt get anything out of it, but after that I was able to get random short lived involuntaries on occasion, and now I have strong long lasting involuntaries that feel *nice* but are not orgasms. I tend to feel my best sensations when the device is moving. The doesnt hurt when its in, but putting it in and taking it out doesnt feel great.

Im thinking the eupho will glide better because its thinner. I hear many people say the Eupho gives the best orgasms.

I also tend to know whether a session will be a dud or not within a few minutes. My best session was after a week of no aneros. Seems for me that its not as intense with daily use.

2nd Helix Trident Session – close!

So I had my second session earlier and it lasted about 3 hours…

Pretty sure I’ve got the involuntaries nailed (ie – I can reliably get them started), but I just need to try and relax into them more as I know I get excited when I feel them start.

However, I did get close to SOMETHING happening…I started stroking my nipples and when I got more aroused I could keep the involuntaries going…I then started to feel a build up to what felt like it would be an orgasm but, again, I think I got too excited by it and lost it before it tipped me over…my legs then started shaking and I couldn’t really get the level of focus back. What was this likely to have been? For about 30 mins of the session it really felt like something was happening, but outside of that, the involuntaries weren’t really leading to anything really pleasurable. Is this normal?

Any tips on how I can get myself to tip over into whatever was about to happen?!

Aneros Progress Notes/Tips

My first post was about how I was a lucky son of a bitch who had success with the Aneros Helix Trident on my second try and was basically on my back for like 5 hours over the course of a day.  I thought I’d give some updates on what has worked and what my process has turned into.

I could do an entire different post on my experience yesterday (another marathon of a day with sex in the middle). Woof.

Anyway, things i’ve realized that help: 

1) Give yourself enough TIME. Men (or maybe just me) are so used to “sex” and orgasms coming and going quickly, that I kept thinking I could squeeze in some Aneros sessions here and there. These have been largely dud-sessions because I’m trying for something to happen and only have an hour or so and I’m preoccupied with checking the clock that nothing happens.

I think the best is giving myself at least 2 hours when I know I can just check out and do my thing with no interuptions. Sounds like a lot, but once the session gets going, time flies. That way I’ve got enough time to prep, get comfortable, get the involuntaries going, and hang on tight for a good time, and eventually wrap it up.

2) Pre-play (foreplay with yourself?) is a must. I knew for my first time that there was a difference between sticking the Aneros in and waiting to get turned on vs. masturbating and getting hard and close to cumming and THEN putting the Aneros in. Like worlds different. Like, make or break the session different. 

Nothing without nipple stimulation

Heey, so I started my journey almost a year ago with a Helix trident & I feel like I’ve been making progress. There have been times where I feel like I was close to something big. However, I recently noticed that if I don’t stimulate my nipples, I don’t feel anything down there. I’ve tried contracting & releasing muscles, but I don’t feel anything. As soon as I start playing with my nipples it feels good down there. While it feels good, it feels like most of the stimulation comes from playing with my nipples & not contractions. Also, it feels like the Aneros is just short of hitting the right spot, like it’s just below where it should be.

I’ve never been able to locate my prostate with a finger & I’m not sure if I ever hit it with the Aneros.

Not sure what to do. I’ve been thinking about getting a different model. Any advice is appreciated!

Used my Helix Syn Trident for the first time tonight…

After giving myself some time to get used to the feel, I tried some anal contractions and it wasn’t long before I started getting some involuntary contractions. I found it quite hard to really focus on them though and let them build before losing them…does this come with practice?

Also, on 2 occasions when involuntaries started, I managed to keep them going for a bit and my dick got hard and I could feel what I can only describe as a warm build up…before I then over-thought it and lost it! What was this and will that get better and eventually take me somewhere?

After about 2 hours, I found it hard to get involuntaries going again so I ended the session.

How did I do for a first time? I’d love some tips/pointers if anyone has any. For reference, the 2 “hard on” feelings I got were when lying on my back…is this the best position?

Have MGX and Progasm, get Helix?

MGX was my first Aneros, but I felt it wasn’t hitting the spot. I went back to the store and they recommended the Progasm instead, based on my body shape (tall) and description of what I’m after and what MGX is missing.

Progasm is *better* but obviously harder to use due to it’s girth, and I feel like it still doesn’t hit the spot. I feel I need something more curved so when I do the contractions it’ll hit the p-spot.

Should I give Helix or Helix Syn a try? Should I look elsewhere, for something with a more dramatic curve?

Thanks

Just ordered my first Aneros…

After extensive reading, I went for the Helix Syn Trident. I have a little experience with a vibrating plug but it hasn’t really done much for me. Should I expect more from this?

I suffer with chronic prostatitis so, whilst I have bought this as I really would love to explore what the is toy can do, I’m hoping it can bring some relief to me to.

Any first time use tips?