Tag: HFWO

Three Days, Three Sessions

Originally posted on the Forum:

This week I had three sessions spread over three days.

Session one and two were with the HST, the first session wasn’t much to write home about, nothing of any note took place, I must admit I felt a bit deflated, my sessions have been really awesome of late, this happens though, not all sessions can be mind-blowing.

Rather than the ‘do-nothing’ technique on the second session I experimented with contractions, with some rather pleasing results, and a fabulous Super-O to finish. I should say at this stage that I didn’t ejaculate at the end of either of these sessions, I’m convinced that made a difference on the third ride.

I had limited time for this the third session in three days. I’ve discovered it’s not ideal to rush a session, to be thinking of the time, anyways thought I’d give its a go, after all I was feeling horny.

Tried a few different things on this session. No shower or douche, just lube and inserted the EST (my current fav.) lay back and relaxed, breathing exercises and as per previous ride, contractions. Twenty minutes into the session and P-waves galore, followed by a Super-O closely followed by another, by now I was super-horny and ended the session with a HFWO. The total length of this session just over an hour, one of the shortest sessions for months, but it shows how building up to it over a few days and not ejaculating has its rewards. Read more »

Progress with my helix syn. Two HFWO

I have had a helix syn for a couple of months now. I’m new to aneros but not new to prostrate play.

The last two nights I’ve had a lot more time than normal to play with my aneros. I was excited all day to do it, so my adrenaline was definitely going. These were some of my best sessions ever.
I was tracing the good feeling and just going with them, and both times I ended up finishing with very strong HFWOs. It’s never happened before, it was amazing. But I also want to know what I should do to avoid that and continue with dry orgasms.

Also, if I feel good feelings with soft contractions, should I go with that instead of the “do nothing”? I’m wondering if I should just embrace what feels good. And I can’t even tell if my “involuntary” contractions are truly involuntary, or if I’m contributing to it. I’m so in the moment it’s hard to tell.

Need help reaching HFWO

I’ve had a recent success reaching my first HFDO with my firtst Aneros toy, the new Progasm. I think that my HFDO success was obtained because I just stayed as calm as I could and concentrated hard on not clenching my pc muscles as is customary just before reaching PONR in penile orgasm.

Looking forward, I would like to reach a HFWO but I’m not shure how to proceed. I’m afraid if I clench my pc muscles in hope of reaching HFWO instead of HFDO I’ll just ruin everything. Also, can you reach a HFWO while being flaccid? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Side lying for first time – not too shabby

Tried the helix syn trident on my side today vs laying on back with feet on ground. Definitely a different series of sensations and although it ended in a HFWO again as in the past, I felt like the waves leading up to it rolled a little more easily. Nipple play was huge for getting things to really connect as well. And after a 10 day hiatus, there was a giant pool of cum after those warm tingly sensations took me over the edge.

Something happened….

Since I’ve got so much out of everyone else’s progress reports, it only seems fair to post my own, since I actuall had some…

So last night was different, currently I’m not sure what I did to make it different.

For some background, I’ve been using Aneros toys for a few years now, I love the idea of multiple dry Os, and the Super O just sounds amazing, but I’ve not been successful in any of those. I have managed HFWOs, but calling them Hands Free seems a bit much TBH given the amount of vigarous perinium massage that’s required…

So my plan was to get an early night with the MGX in an see what happens, with a goal to feel something new, but not planning to push for the big O. No expectations, and a specific plan that I wasn’t going have a normal orgasm afterwards.

I had some nice sensations, tried a few different positions, I didn’t manage to get any involuntaries going. After about an hour and a half I switched to the progasm to see if that would change anything.

Then I had the same again. Nice sensations, nothing new or extraordinary. I started trying to push out an HFWO for a bit, but then decided to stop as it’s not really what my goal was here. Read more »

Thinking of Going Mostly Aless

Thinking of giving up the toy use and sticking to mostly Aless (no toy) sessions.

Fairly new user, of just a few months. Was super dedicated when I first got my syn model. Same as most here while learning, some decent vibes, some dud sessions, nothing mind blowing. I DID however begin to become more aware of my prostate and the feelings from down there other than the normal dick sensations.

I developed the ability to have multiple prostate o’s by focusing, breathing, flexing…all completely Aless at first.

One night, I had a breakthrough with the toy. The involuntaries/muscle tug-of-war started and gave me my first super-o. I’ve had some of the auto pumping sensations from the toy as well.

Since then, my Aless sessions have been off the charts…multiple o’s, some nights multiple super-o’s, at times almost begging for my body to stop so I can catch my breath only to roll into the next insane peak.

Each time I use the toy, there’s alot of anticipation, planning, buildup. My living situation requires a certain level of descretness, so using the toy takes planning. I feel like by the time I lay everything out and get setup, my brain is just all over the place and I cant fully relax with the toy in.

The toy also feels alot more mechanical where my Aless sessions seem alot more mental/spiritual w/e…that may be a reflection of my mindset when using the toy. Read more »

Another day, another HFWO

So today took two sessions (helix syn trident) to finally make any sort of progress. The second time, I did some light nipple play, which immediately cause a warm tingly sensation down in my pelvis. Despite trying to control the excitement with my breathing, I ended up getting hard and having a HFWO (which felt pretty spectacular, I must say).

The question, though, for me remains… I have no idea how/when/if it will cross over from those sensations leading to a HFWO to those that lead to something dry and more intense…

Today’s ride…

Definitely got some fun sensations today. It’s been about 5 days since my last session so I was definitely jonesing for a good one.

This time I laid flat on my back with my legs out flat as well (vs bent) and didn’t really try contracting anything too hard at all.

Got a few fun tingles but then the head of my cock got tingly, I got hard and ended up with a HFWO. Felt pretty good but still longing for the dry waves of pleasure so many of you all experience.

I do wonder what mentally or physically I need to be doing for that reflex of cumming to basically turn off so I can just continue to feel the pleasure.

Major progress!

I’ve been playing with the Aneros for about a year, reading in and learning a lot from these forums, but have never contributed. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post, but after yesterday’s amazing session, I just have to share a few useful things I learned. 

First, some background. Before yesterday, I’d had a lot of great sensations, some involuntaries, but no dry or prostate orgasms. Most sessions ended with a sort of supercharged penile orgasm, sometimes HFWO (always a thrill.) Yesterday was my first truly mindblowing, holy shit experience. Here are few reasons I think it was successful. 

The house was empty. Especially during the pandemic, I almost never have time totally to myself. Yesterday, my wife was out of town, and kids were busy all afternoon. I had the house to myself and could really relax and let go, with no time pressure at all. 

Smoked weed. I took three or four deep hits off the vape. It helped a lot, in terms of relaxing and really feeling my body. 

Edged. In the days before the session, I’d watched a good amount of porn, so I was already super turned on and ready to go. 

Exercised. Before starting, I did several sets of pushups, and some long, deliberate yoga poses, with deep stretches and very slow, very deep breathing. It made my body feel alive and really got the blood flowing. Then I got in bed, on my back with knees up, and inserted the Helix. Almost immediately, I started feeling a tickling and a warmth spreading through my pelvis. Within minutes, the first in a seemingly endless series of mini-Os, which had me moaning, stomach clenching, thrashing.  Read more »

What device should I try next?

I started with the progasm ice and have had fun with that absolutely love it. Tons of hfwo but no super O. Orgasm feels better than a regular orgasm but I don’t quite think I’ve had a super O.

Looking on suggestions on what to try next.